844 thoughts on “Free Readings”

  1. Val

    Val March 16 and Richard February 6.
    Richard and I have been in an off and on relationship for 11 years. We’ve had a lot of ups and downs. We have come to a point where Richard says he is tired of the off and on and wants to get married and move in together. I have a gut feeling that not only Richard but also his family is hiding something from me. I don’t mean something like another women or anything like that, I mean hiding something big. Is there anything to my suspicions or is this just all in my head? And, Is marriage the right thing for us as a couple? i know the love is there but love is not enough.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Val,

      I doubt I can get all the answers you need from a quick one-card reading but I will draw a card and see what I can do. Please remember that you mustn’t make big life-changing decisions based on the turn of a card.

      Using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Nine of Pentacles. A smiling woman in a modern white dress stands under bunches of drying herbs and hanging disks that represent the pentacles. A small white barn owl perches on the disk she’s reaching for.

      My first impression of this card is that you are happy in your current state of independence. It doesn’t mean there is something going on with your partner’s family but you are more comfortable being one step removed and keeping your options open. You can do what you want without having to take others into account. There is a sense that you feel you would be giving up part of yourself if you made a permanent commitment. And while you are in doubt, you should not agree to anything… you will end up regretting it.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the King of Wands. This is a man who has high expectations. He’s a natural leader with a bit of a quick temper. This is probably not Richard, but could represent his family. They are used to getting their own way maybe? He’s not a secretive character, just strong-willed.

      I think the very fact that you are asking these questions means that your doubts are manifesting as discomfort. Therefore, you must, must follow your inner guidance. If you go against it, the discomfort will increase. Richard either has to accept your decision or move on. If he loves you, he will make it work as it is right now. Should he issue an ultimatum, then perhaps he is not the one for you.

      Hope that helps. Good luck.

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  2. L

    Hi Troi

    I have a friend born October 24 and I am March 1. We know each other through some endurance events that we do and mutual friends from the events. We’ve been begun talking consistently since the last endurance event in October 2023 and share a few phone calls here and there. We both live in different states and are currently trying to plan a trip to see each other soon. I want to know if this relationship is something I should be open to or not. The potential for this to go annywhere annd where his intentions are ..I keep wondering how well this could work out living in different states.

    Thank you so much.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello L. Nice to hear from you again.

      Before I draw a card, I would say, being open to a ‘proper’ relationship is always a good thing if you are already friends.

      Checking your birthdays, this combination can work really well due to mutual appreciation. There is potential for it to grow into a strong, long-lasting relationship. However, you have to know that you might have a tendency to be over-sensitive to the down-to-earthiness of Libra-Scorpio. They often believe they have all the information necessary to make a fast decision, whereas you prefer to take your time and be sure.

      I’m using The Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is The Lovers. How cool is that? A man and woman are in an embrace, looking intently into each other’s eyes.

      Okay, so apart from the obvious, this card indicates that one or both of you will have to make a life-changing decision should you wish to go forward with this. I would guess that this decision is connected to the long-distance aspect. But before you get ahead of yourself, you must spend some more time in-person with this guy. I know you have a child (children) so you have a lot to take into account before you make your choices.

      There’s not much more to say really. Get your trip planned and then see where it goes from there.

      Good luck, hope it goes well.

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    2. L

      Thank you for this reading. Unfortunately I had a period where I was really stressed and took my emotions out on him. How I acted made him pull away and he told me it was best we didn’t make the plans to see each other and that we both have a lot going on. I reached out recently and told him I missed talking to him and apologized for how I allowed the stresses in my life to our effect us (our friendship/getting to know each other phase). He didn’t answer and I’m giving him space. No ones perfect and I can’t be held to such a standard, empathy and compassion are important. He isn’t wrong though, we do have lots of things going on in our lives currently.

      Has our opportunity closed? I’m not sure if that’s too much for one card/base card. Blah 🙁

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      1. Troi Post author

        Hi L,

        I’m sorry it hasn’t worked out for you this time. If you’d had the opportunity to spend time together, it might have been different. I’ll draw a card to see if it’s worth pursuing or letting go.

        I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Ten of Swords. A man lays face down on a beach. Ten swords have been thrust into his back. The sky is dark but the horizon is lit up up with golden light.

        The tarot has responded unequivocally. I would say this opportunity is closed. Yet, and yet… this is a ten card, which does indeed point to an ending, but at the same time it points to a new beginning. There is hope, maybe not for this guy, but perhaps another love opportunity lies ahead.

        My advice to you is to learn from this and not ‘take your emotions out’ on someone else. No one deserves that. Instead try to explain how you feel and why.

        The card at the bottom of the deck is the Magician, which shows you that you have all the necessary strength of will and determination to change your circumstances to mirror your visions. Don’t be afraid to daydream a little; create your ideal future in your mind and flow your energy right into it. That’s what the Magician does.

        Good luck.

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  3. Stacy

    Hi there.

    I wanted to follow back up on a romantic partner of mine (we were friends first: he’s a family friend) his birthday js December 1 and mine is March 1. In November last year we finally opened the door to exploring our romantic feelings for each other and it’s been so wonderful. Recently things have changed and he’s been crying telling me he can’t give me what I deserve right now because of the things going on with his kids and other family matters… we continued to see each other and love ..he took me on a trip for my birthday.

    Then now suddenly I haven’t seen his kids in a month (he has 50% custody so I used to see them every few weeks) and we see each other less /talk less all while I feel him hurting and longing for me and vice versa. I’m trying to communicate with him when I feel him pulling me that he has to be the one to reach out and give effort.

    I’m here asking if he will do this and where our relationship will go/is going/ will be in the future and moving forward. When I first met him I told my sister I was going to marry this guy. He’s truly special to me and I’m hurting.

    The last contact we had was via text message. I was trying to make plans to see him at the time before he went on a trip with his kids and he was frustrated that I wanted to squeeze in a second before he left .. March 22 I told him he was hurting my feelings and he said “Im not trying to hurt your feelings, but I had a very busy and tiring day yesterday and I couldnt keep going back and forth about seeing eachother.” —I never responded to him and we haven’t talked since. The last time I saw him was on March 17. We’re also supposed to take a trip to Virginia with his family and our friends in April. I’m reluctant to go now. I don’t know what to do. My son who is 2 years old keeps asking for his kids because he misses them. This is truly really hard for me. I miss him and them all. Is this something patient related? In time we will be together ?

    I’m so sorry for all these details. I’m hurting. I feel like one of his kids or maybe his mom is holding him back from us. I don’t know what to do but I’m distraught 😩

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stacy, I’m sorry you are feeling such pain. It’s always puzzling when someone appears to be withdrawing, especially when it was going well.

      A one-card tarot reading isn’t going to give you all the answers you need, I’m afraid. However, I’ll draw a card and see what comes up.

      Firstly, on consulting my compatibility tables (don’t forget, I am no astrologer), your birthdays are ‘squared’ to one another. Therefore, you are probably completely different personalities with different priorities. It would never be an ‘easy’ relationship. You can do some more research into this yourself if this seems important.

      I’m using The Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Ten of Wands. A young woman walks alongside a heavily-laden ox. She carries a suitcase and a wand in her right hand. She struggles to prevent her dress from blowing up in the wind. The girl and the ox are obviously fighting the elements and their burdens.

      This card seems to reflect precisely how you are feeling right now. As a parent of a young child, you have a lot of responsibilities and perhaps you are working as well. I expect, as well as forming a long-lasting relationship, you were looking forward to sharing all the trials and tribulations of life with a caring partner. And now, like the wind, you feel it all slipping past you. It’s tough and I feel for you.

      As this is a ten card, it is very possible that it is coming to an end. Someone who loved you deeply would not let you remain in doubt and limbo. You have already told him how you are feeling but it elicited a detached response with no follow-up reassurance. It’s as if he hasn’t got the ability to put himself in your position. At the very least, he should take your child’s feelings into consideration – it’s not like he wouldn’t know how much your son likes his children.

      I don’t know whether you should go on the upcoming trip or not. It depends if you have support from your friends. Perhaps you should take the ox by the horns and ask him if he wants you to go or not?

      My thoughts are that he’s treating you in an extremely off-hand manner with no proper explanation of what’s going on his his life that prevents him giving you the time you deserve.

      So, it’s time for clarification (before the trip). You need to know where you stand – for your sake and your child’s. Insist on answers and if he refuses to open up, then that’s your answer. And, as much as you love him, he may not be the right one for you. One day, you may look back and know you had a lucky escape.

      Wishing you all the best, Stacy.

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      1. Stacy

        Hi Troi. Wow. Thank you. What a reading. My feelings on this are to let things be. I didn’t reply and we haven’t spoken. I agree, his response was very dry. My thoughts are to not go on the trip and not say a word…I noticed that wasn’t an option you presented.. .

        Do you highly recommend trying to communicate again? Previously when I’ve tried asking what was going on he would cry and tell me “I know that I will only hurt you, because that’s all I do, is hurt those closest to me” etc etc. It was a long message he sent me back in the end of February.

        When I asked if he’s been seeing other people he told me he’s only been with me romantically. I do believe that’s true — (right(?))
        I just can’t understand what more could be said/expected. I’m so sad. Even if by chance he did open up, would it really change anything? Are you suggesting I ask just for closure?

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Stacy,

          You can let things be if you feel that’s best. Time passing will provide the answer you require. However, meantime you will be left dangling. You could ask him to clarify how he feels and how he wants to proceed. In other words, take the power away from him and compel him to explain what is going on. If he is unable to do you the courtesy of being honest and upfront, then, frankly, it’s not a relationship worth having.

          His answer to your question about other people was not straightforward, was it? The correct response is ‘No, of course not’.

          So yes, ask for an honest answer… and if that’s closure, then you will have to accept it.

          All the best.

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  4. Fleur

    Hello Troi! ❤
    How are you? It’s been a while! Things are positive socially now these past 3 weeks since I moved to this place on 31st dec. I made new friends and reconnected with old ones as well, I was living like a hermit until 3 weeks ago. Things are not working out financially. Major setbacks work wise with something or the other happenìng to bring obstacles and delays. I met guys who seem to like me a lot and they treat me with respect but their lifestyle is not aligned with what I want so i have strictly kept them as friends. I rarely drink alcohol anymore even when I go out with friends because I don’t feel the need to anymore. I feel like the universe is testing me to see if i will fall back to my old patterns. I need some guidance. I have been seeing 111 and 1111 since the last few weeks on my clock. What does the universe and angels want me to know?
    Love and blessings ❤️
    Fleur

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur,

      Interesting question.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Five of Wands. Five athletic-looking young man stand around in a circle, each holding a sprouting staff. There is tension apparent in their body language.

      The Five of Wands tells you that you may be going through a period of niggling annoyances, caused by situations and other people. It’s tempting to push back but probably unwise. Fives are always challenges, and the Five of Wands represent a challenge of the spirit. Your job is rise above it all until this disruptive time passes all by itself. So, perhaps you are right about feeling tested.

      Also ‘obstacles and delays’ are practically built-in to this card. You just have to go with it. Acceptance and dealing with each problem as it arises without letting it bother you unduly is the best strategy. The fives are always temporary and you can look forward to calmer times ahead.

      As regards finances, keep saying to yourself, ‘everything will work out and money can come from anywhere.’ The experiences with men are helping you to refine what it is you want in a relationship. You could try listing out all their best characteristics to clarify what you’d like in your perfect man 😀

      All is well. xx

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      1. Fleur

        Thanks so much for this guidance.. I’m going with the flow now knowing that this is a temporary period. As always. You have helped me to feel grounded.
        Love and blessings ❤️

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  5. Az

    Hi Troi,

    I hope you’re well. I’m in a situation where I’m unhappy at work but I’m really unsure how to move forward. I’ve been putting myself out there for other roles but have not been successful yet. I’m contemplating on changing my career completely but not sure if this is a good idea.

    Any guidance would be appreciated

    26/08

    Az

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Az, all good here, thank you for asking.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Two of Swords. A woman sits in an egg-like structure, her back to a lake and distant mountains. Her arms are crossed in the strangest way I’ve ever seen and in each hand is a sword. She is blindfolded and wears a voluminous blue dress.

      This card suggests that you might not be seeing the obvious solution. My thought is that it is to stay where you are and focus on changing the situation.

      One way that I’ve found quite effective is to change it in small increments. There are a couple methods to do this. The easiest to explain is to list out, let’s say 10 tiny steps from where things are, to where they would be satisfactory in your current position. So, for example:

      1. Describe what you don’t like about your work situation.
      2. What tiny thing could change for the better in the next few days?
      3. What would you change in the next two weeks?
      4. Who could leave to make things better?

      And so on until you reach happiness in your work. Every few days, write the list again, adjusting as you go. If you can write it in the present tense, even better. So… “I love how my boss is helping me right now”. Even if it hasn’t materialised yet.

      I’ve been really successful with this. The first time was to improve my daughter’s unruly behaviour – it worked brilliantly. Then, later, I used it to get her into college.

      However, if you are determined to move jobs or change career, you can use the same method to take you to where you want to be.

      The other method I have used is a ‘focus wheel’. Essentially it’s the same as the list but you draw a circle, divide it into slices, start at 1 o’clock with where you are, finish at 12:00 with where you want to be. The idea is that the effort you put into creating the wheel helps you to focus on the next step, and the next step, etc.

      Here’s a better description, although he starts at 12:00 https://millennial-grind.com/how-to-use-the-focus-wheel-by-abraham-hicks/

      I hope that helps.

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      1. Anonymous

        Thank you Troi, this is helpful. I’ll try the focus wheel and see how I get on. I don’t want to make any rash decisions, so taking some time to really think things through would be a wise step.

        Thank you again.

        Az

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  6. W

    Hi Troi,

    I recently discovered something that my boyfriend is trying to hide. I am not sure if that means an end to the relationship or a gateway to more honesty in the future. Is the relationship still worth it? His actions are not consistent as well. A lot of empty promises and uncontactable moments. I am not sure if this is all due to his claim that he is not where he wants to be in life…

    Mine 10 June
    His 7 July

    Thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi W.

      Thanks for your question. I’m using the Vice-Versa Tarot, which has images on both sides. It’s one of the only decks with which I use reversals.

      Your card is the Knight of Pentacles, ‘right way’ up. The knight sits on his horse, looking directly at the viewer. He is wearing a horned helmet and a large gold shield (pentacle) is slung behind the saddle. The landscape is barren and the sky is yellow.

      The Knight of Pentacles is one of my favourite personalities in the tarot. He is steadfast, loyal, quiet, and some say boring. Yet he has hidden depths. He’s not great at sharing his feelings but that doesn’t mean he’s not experiencing deep emotion. He’s generally honest but if he doesn’t want to reveal something then he will simply remain quiet about it.

      Here’s an article I wrote about this card: https://exemplore.com/fortune-divination/Tarot-Court-Cards-Knight-of-Pentacles Sorry about the advertisements plastered all over it. Beyond my control.

      So you won’t be surprised if I say, wait and see. Give him the benefit of the doubt, at least for a little while.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Page of Pentacles, reversed. A young man looks across a mountainous landscape. We’re viewing him from behind. A gold pentacle floats in front of him. He wears a dark pink cloak with a large appliqued rose on the back.

      This character is set on seeking his fortune – or life path, if you prefer. He’s not content to wait until things happen. He wants to explore avenues and opportunities as they present themselves. It fits in perfectly with the last sentence in your message.

      The base card often reveals the reason for the question, which you articulated so well. You already know the answer, so you have to decide what actions to take. As I said, maybe give it some time before making a final decision.

      Good luck.

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  7. Angel

    Angel
    DOB: 5th August

    I am unsure about my relationship, can you see an improvement in my love life this year

    Thank you Troi

    Bless you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Angel, I’m not sure if this is the relationship you asked about previously, which seemed to be coming to an end. If it is, then you’ve managed to keep it going despite the challenges.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is Temperance. A young man sits cross-legged. He wears a scruffy singlet, jeans and boots. He looks like any other youth but behind him, the viewer can just about see the lacy expanse of a pair of wings. He balances a replica of the moon on the back of his right hand, and has his left on a glowing sun, cleverly keeping them balanced.

      Temperance tells you to think about the balance and chemistry in your relationship. Are you overly focused on one aspect while overlooking others? Should you make subtle changes to how you interact with your partner? It’s surprising how the smallest of adjustments can make your partner happier and more appreciative. And even if you think he should make changes to accommodate you, sometimes if you take the lead, they will follow along. That line from Hamilton, “Smile more; speak less”, sometimes works. Give out happy vibes and your partner will either up his vibes, or he will fade out of your life.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Cups, which either means the relationship will improve beyond your expectations or there is a new love headed your way this year. As this card often represents the reason for asking the question, it’s possible you feel it too. Let’s see what happens. Meanwhile, be happy within yourself. Look for the good stuff in life.

      Good luck, Angel.

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  8. Maria

    Dear Troi,
    I hope you are fine.
    I am at a stage in my life where I am questioning important things. I am currently living with my ex due to minding a child together and at the same time not feeling fulfilled at work. Shall I move and/or change jobs?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maria, sorry for the delay. I’ve had a yucky head cold.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Three of Pentacles. The card shows what could be a family; man, woman, and child, working on a tapestry. The viewer can only see the man’s face as the woman and child have their backs to us. He’s smiling so it seems they are enjoying their work.

      This card is often connected to the practical aspects of relationships, whether that be personal or work colleagues. It suggests that you examine these relationships to see if you can improve them — they are the basis of fulfilment. If you decide that they aren’t worth working on… and your gut feeling will guide you… then you will know it’s time to move on.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Five of Swords. The base card often reveals why the question arises and in this case it shows you might have experienced a sense of betrayal or of being undermined. The urge to walk away from a situation is strong. Again, you have to determine whether it can be salvaged and improved or to cut ties and change your circumstances.

      My advice is to give it a lot of thought and give yourself a deadline in the new year to make your decision. There’s no need to rush into anything.

      Good luck, Maria, and happy holidays.

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      1. Maria

        Dear Troi,
        Happy New Year!
        Thank you so much for the reading. It’s very helpful guidance. The cards are spot on.
        I will consider this and listen to my gut.
        Again, thank you!
        All the best,
        Maria

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  9. Stacy

    Hi Troi,

    I hope you are well. I’m speaking with someone currently and I really enjoy getting to know him better. His kids get along with my son very well and we also have mutual friends. We’ve started to see each other romantically outside of our friend group and I’m starting to develop feelings for him. I would love and appreciate guidance on us please,.

    Do we have a future together?

    Him: 12/01
    Me: 03/01

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stacy,

      There’s nothing like the beginning stages of a romance. So much to discover, lots of fun.

      I’ll draw a card to see what the vibes are around the relationship as it is now. As for the future, that is mostly in your hands and best advice is to take it day by day, month by month.

      I can’t tell what your birthdays are… in the UK they would be 12th and 3rd of Jan. That’s why I ask people to state the day and month to make it clear for me and prevent me from making the wrong assumption. So for the reading, I’m going to ignore them.

      The deck is Tarot of Mystical Moments by Catrin Welz-Stein. Your card is the Six of Wands. A tiny woman sits on the back of a hummingbird (of course, it could be a giant hummingbird and a normal sized woman). She holds a flower which is bent over the hummingbird’s head and from which he sips. It’s a pretty image but very different from the traditional victory parade.

      This card indicates accomplishment and the attainment of skills. This can be applied to a relationship in that there is sense of triumph (maybe that’s the wrong word) when you find you click with someone. There’s also a feeling of pride when other people see you are a couple. The thing about sixes is that they are temporary. That doesn’t mean the relationship is temporary, merely that this stage is fleeting and you move on to the next, which generally a comfortable acceptance and adapting to a routine.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Cups. The base card often reveals the reason or basis for the question. It’s the Eight of Cups which suggests that you have been walking your own emotional path for a while. It shows a bit of reluctance but also that you knew you had to traverse a bit of a rocky road. The card shows a pair of swans, a pair of dragonflies, a pair of butterflies and a pair of birds all gathered around a stream. A single female figure, dressed as a ladybug walks along a stepping stone path between them. It suggests that you had to navigate your way alongside your family and friends who mostly seem to be in stable relationships. So that would explain the feelings reflected in the Six of Wands, as if at last you have attained coupledom, an important aspect of life.

      I wish I could assure you about the future, but I can’t. However, it’s looking good right now. Enjoy it.

      Good luck, Stacy.

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      1. Stacy

        Hello, thank you so much.

        His birthday is December 01 and I’m March 01. Does that make a difference in the reading? You’ve helped me in the past and I am enjoying this time now with him. I have a son as I mentioned before and just want to have proper guidance with this moving forward as far as his intentions and possibilities.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Stacy,

          The reading stands as it is. The birthdays are useful for looking at general compatibility (I’m not an astrologer, so just look them up in a table). Your combination suggests the relationship will go through many changes, with some stress and friction. However, there is a strength within it that enables you both to deal with the challenges as they arise. Lots of give and take and a willingness to compromise on both sides will help.

          I am unable to read his intentions as that is called a ‘third party reading’. I can only read for you… the Six of Wands is positive so go with that 🙂 As far as guidance is concerned, it is within you. You don’t need a tarot card reading to know whether things are good or a bit shaky. Trust your gut – it is always right – every time.

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  10. Anni

    Dear Troi,

    Like others I wish to extend my thanks for what you do here.
    Im writing having been single for last five years. I recently met a man and really liked him. He initially gave the impression that he also really liked me. We were in contact every day. He then withdrew and after me asking said he didn’t want to get involved with anyone. I got the impression he had been hurt by previous relationships. Im asking for a reading because for a moment I thought I fell in love with him, ( which logically I found surprised me). I wouldn’t want to force my feelings on anyone, so Im not sure what to do? If you can give any advice or insight , would be much appreciated . My heart felt like this was someone who I could share a future with.
    Many thanks and blessings
    Anni

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anni, you are very welcome. I always wanted the site to be a free resource for all. And thank you for sending your birth date.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Knight of Pentacles. A young man walks in front of his horse. He wears a shield on his back which is decorated with a pentacle. Ten similar artefacts are scattered around the grass.

      The Knight of Pentacles is usually a personality card that represents someone important to you. I don’t know if it is connected to your love interest, but I have to assume it is. The knight is someone loyal and steadfast, but he is also the sort of person who knows his own mind. He is quite stubborn in his outlook. Therefore, if this card does represent this man, then you aren’t going to change his mind back. He’s made a decision and he will stick to it. You have to accept it was never meant to be.

      The base card is the Devil, which suggests you may be giving too much thought and emotion to this issue. I know that it is difficult when someone acts enthusiastically and then makes an about turn. I also think the card may be saying you may have had a lucky escape… because if he can abruptly quit on you while in ‘attraction mode’ and without any explanation, then he could do it any time.

      So I don’t think there’s anything you can do here. Let him go and put it down to experience.

      All the best.

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      1. Anonymous

        Thakyou Troi, I appreciate your input. I think I was hoping he would change his mind. I will do as you suggest and let it go. Thankyou .

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Anni,

          He may very well change his mind of his own accord–there’s no hint to yay or nay in the cards–however, he has already hurt you once with a less-than adequate explanation. I would definitely be on my guard in case it happened again. Yet, I have to say, the Knight of Pentacles is someone who once he commits stays committed. It’s the Devil card that throws a spanner in the works for me. So, no don’t try to change his mind but if he re-approaches you, then you will have to decide whether to take it forward. Meanwhile, go have fun.

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  11. Florence

    Greetings Troi.
    How have you been? 10th October was my birthday so close to the Solar eclipse. Somehow I feel this year is going to be a very important year for me in many ways. 😊
    I have been talking to someone lately who I’ve known for many years socially. I was surprised when he reached out to me because we’ve never really stayed in touch. I’ve always found him really attractive but I have never wanted to be with someone from the entertainment industry, especially an actor so I pushed him out of mind until we’ve started having these really long intimate conversations over the phone and I’ve come to really like him. He’s invited me to visit him. I would really appreciate if I could get guidance on if this is worth pursuing and has the potential of a healty commited, long-term relationship.
    My DOB 10TH October
    His DOB 29th October
    Thank you 🙏
    Love and blessings ❤❤
    Fleur

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Fleur,

      Happy belated birthday… and the same to your love interest too.

      I’m using the Vice Versa Tarot, which is my favourite at the moment. Your card is the Eight of Wands.

      Eight sprouting wands are either headed for the sky, or falling from it. It’s always hard to tell. This card is about events moving quickly, almost too quickly. It also has the label ‘the arrows of love’. I can’t tell you whether the relationship will be long-lasting or not, but the cards have sort of given you encouragement to move forward with the liaison. But I can’t stress enough that you should take reasonable precautions for your safety and well-being.

      The reverse side of the card show the same wands facing the opposite direction with a background of a stormy sky laced with lightning. A winged horse also flies through the night. This indicates that this will be how you feel – as if struck by lightning. And a quick glance at the bottom card shows it is the reversed Fool, which tells you to take the step toward the unknown, but be wary of giving your heart away too soon. Be cautious and don’t invest too much in it for now. Enjoy the moment but don’t expect a lifelong commitment. It may happen or it may not. Okay?

      Take care.

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      1. Fleur

        Hello Troi.. thanks so much for this reading. I’m so sorry for my late reply. I was busy with my move to another state for a new start, struggling with health issues but now that I’m settled in and finally feeling better i thought I’d give an update 😊 what you stated in your earlier reading is so correct. There are opportunities for romance but I’m not taking the plunge just yet. I’m being very picky and careful about who I let into my life now. Lessons well learned. I somehow felt this guy i asked about had somewhat of the same intense and pushy energy as my ex that could turn toxic so I decided that he’s not for me. Especially since I learnt about his drug feuled lifestyle. So thanks for your guidance once again.
        Love and blessings ❤️

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  12. Mairin

    Greetings Troi!

    I hope life is treating you kindly.

    Going through a grand and good spiritual growth spurt and wondering if the man at work might be more than a coworker sometime in my near future.

    My DOB 12 October.

    Grateful for all you graciously give here. ♥️

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Mairin,

      All good here, thank you 🙂

      I’m using the very clever Vice Versa Tarot, which has images on both sides – positive and negative, but not necessarily good/bad. Your card is the back view of the Emperor. We see the rear of his carved stone throne. In the foreground is a cube of rock and a burning torch. Carved into the throne, we see two images of the moon, the waxing quarter and the waning quarter. Between them is a depiction of the alchemical symbol of sulphur. Above these carvings is one of the sun. We can see the sceptre floating above his right hand and the ankh held in his left. All we can see of the Emperor himself is the neck of his red robe, his dark hair, and his silver (or platinum) crown. He appears to be sitting at the entrance to a cave and a cliff face rises before him.

      I cannot tell from this card if the man at work will become a romantic interest. However, it could well mean that he has some personality quirks which might emerge in that he has some beliefs or behaviours that are ‘cast in stone’. These may be traits you’d want to avoid. Even if this had shown up front-facing, it indicates that order and routine are important to him. In a relationship, he would prefer to assume a strong, dominant role. Of course some people like that, whereas others don’t. He certainly would lay down the parameters of that relationship.

      The card at the bottom of the deck, which often gives further insight and possibly the reason for the question is the Knight of Pentacles. Now, I like this personality very much. He is quiet, disciplined, hard working, and loyal. He keeps his feelings hidden but once he makes a commitment, he’s in for the long haul. He can also be surprisingly romantic. If he falls in love, he makes the object of his affection be his top priority.

      So I think that this is how you’d like this co-worker to be. Or this is how you see him now. But beware, this is your perception of him and it may not be correct, given the appearance of Mr Strictly above. The Knight of Pentacles would accommodate your every desire because he’d put you first. The Emperor would be the opposite ‘for your own good’.

      Now, you have to remember that I might be completely wrong here but I can only pass on what the cards are telling me. My advice would be to take it in small steps and observe him very carefully before making up your mind to soften your approach to him and letting him know you are interested.

      Good luck, do let me know how it goes.

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      1. Anonymous

        Thank you very much, Troi.

        This Vice Versa deck sounds awesome! I suppose the “back” of the card is what is normally referred to as “reversed” – ?

        You are perceptive in that he is orderly, likes things a certain way, etc. He has not asked me out, and I don’t know if he will, but I keep my feet on the ground and my wits about me.

        Thank you again for your generosity with my reading.
        Kind regards 🙂

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      2. diane

        Hi Troi!
        I really appreciate all the information you provide on this site. and Thank you in advance for the reading.
        I have taken time away from a very challenging workplace, I am wondering if things will improve on my return,, ? My birthday is june 20th

        Thank you,
        Aurelia

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Aurelia,

          I’m using the Vice Versa Tarot which has images on both sides of the cards.

          Your card is the Sun (right-side facing). A child pets a grey pony in a field of sunflowers. A stylised sun gazes down.

          The Sun is a welcome card in any reading. It is the most positive card in the deck. It tells you that improvements will occur in all areas of your life, including work. So I guess that answers your question.

          However, I use the reverse of the card to replace the base card reading (the card at the bottom of the deck) and it shows that the child and pony are contained and imprisoned by a large wall. Armed guards stand on the wall. This indicates your job may feel somewhat restrictive and perhaps you aren’t really looking forward to returning. Therefore, the suggestion from this card is for you to keep your options open and don’t put up with those restrictions if they don’t align with your idea of what a pleasant workplace should be.

          Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stephanie, you haven’t given me a lot to go on so I will just draw a card and see what it says.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Four of Pentacles.

      A woman sits with her back to the village that can be seen over her left shoulder. Her eyes are closed and she clutches tightly onto her purse. She is beautifully dressed in a yellow headscarf, a burnt orange shift dress and wears a lot of jewelry.

      This card suggests that one of you is unwilling to open up and share with the other. It may relate to physical resources like money but could also be connected to time, attention, and even feelings. There is an atmosphere of separation and unwillingness to be part of a couple. Almost begrudging, if you know what I mean?

      The card at the base of the deck, which often gives insight into the reason for the question, is the Queen of Swords. The Queen of Swords is a perceptive character. She is able to cut through the crap and see a situation for what it is. She does not allow herself to be clouded by emotion and makes her decisions based on the facts. It suggests that you already know exactly what you are going to do.

      It will all work out for the best. Good luck.

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  14. L

    Hello Troi, your very accurate reading here of one card for me 4 years ago got me to come back. Thank you for the work you do on this site for so many people! My question is about work. I got a new job just a few weeks ago and my previous employer is looking into any conflict of interests since the new employer is a vendor for my past company. I left just a month ago in great terms, so I’m hoping it will be a simple exemption in next week’s meeting. It is in both employers’ interests to not have to re-draw contracts. Would you be able to advise me on the outcome and if there is anything I should do to help with a positive resolution? Thank you! DOB: Nov 5

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    1. Troi Post author

      L, So sorry I didn’t get to your reading sooner. It completely went out of my mind.

      I expect the meeting is done and dusted by now and you have your answer… time has a way of doing that. Therefore, I’ll draw a card to see how the new job will progress and benefit you.

      I’m using the fascinating double-sided Vice-Versa Tarot, which shows a depiction of the reversed meaning on the ‘back’. Your card is the Nine of Wands, facing upward. An armoured man with a wounded head stands holding a heavy staff which is decorated by a metal um… thing at each end. Eight undecorated staves are stuck in the ground nearby. He’s looking downward as if defeated, yet he wears a red tunic beneath the armour which represents courage and passion.

      Initially the card indicates that your job will prove to be a bit of a challenge, it may seem at times that you’re banging your head against a brick wall, and maybe feeling unappreciated. However, when I turn the card over, it shows the man is standing in front of a cave entrance. A woman walks towards him indicating that he achieved his mission. He defeated the dragon or whatever he had to do to effect the rescue.

      This tells me that it isn’t going to be an easy job, but you will step up and make a big impression, if only to yourself (the most important person to impress). It could mean overcoming a series of smaller challenges but you will do it. What you may discover is that you feel as though your energy is decreasing with each one.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is Death. So either you will move on sooner than expected or, in order to succeed at it, you have to let something else go. This isn’t a choice but will be an inevitable progression. Don’t be downhearted, just go with it and you’ll eventually realise it had to happen this way.

      Meanwhile, keep facing those challenges with a positive outlook; they will help you in the long run.

      Having said all that, I’m wondering if the appearance of these cards means that the conflict of interest scenario has come to pass and your position is already untenable? Your new employer will have had to move you ‘sideways’ so that you are not in conflict anymore. But, of course, that isn’t what you wanted. I’d be interested to hear what happened.

      Once again, please accept my apology for getting to this so late.

      All the best.

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      1. L

        Hi Troi, once more your reading was perfect. The Nine of Wands representing achievement through hard work and the Death card representing the end of a cycle or a transformation in the relationship make a lot of sense. I appreciate you taking time to do a reading. In the end, my job stayed but in a different format as the exemption was not granted. My current boss is a male, the person he was talking to is a female, so that might be what the cards showed. It’s the end of one cycle and the beginning of another but in a positive way as I am getting bigger/better projects out of this decision (more work, but also more positive outcomes). I am always amazed at how precise the cards can be, even if the reading is done remotely. Thank you!

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  15. Reva

    Hi Troi,

    Thanks for doing this for people! I’m inquiring about someone i’ve been seeing for a month or so at this point. We side stepped one another a bit on the exclusivity talk. He asked me to be exclusive on my birthday and I had been drinking and said I’d be away for a while so maybe not a great idea. Then I thought about it, and told him that is actually what I want, two days later. He then sidestepped me with the “I would like to keep getting to know you and you’ll be away for a while. I’m not actively trying to meet other people or anything but let’s have this conversation when you’re back.” Well I don’t know if we’ll ever date exclusively, or move forward into a commitment so i’d like to ask for your help on gaining insight into this person’s intentions. My birthday is 28/7. I’m a Leo and he is a Capricorn.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Reva,

      I can’t give you the information you are asking for because I can’t look into his head, and neither would it be ethical to do so. I can look at it in more general terms, such as ‘Could this relationship develop into something deeper?’ Hope that is satisfactory.

      One thing I’ll say before drawing your card, is that, given that he’s a Capricorn, don’t expect his level of romantic passion to come anywhere near yours. He’s logical and practical and will view any relationship through those lenses. It’s not that Cappies are incapable of romance, it’s just that we think it’s the sprinkles on the ice-cream, iykwim?

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Eight of Pentacles. A young woman sits with her back to the viewer, holding a lit candle in her left hand. Before her is an array of objects: bowls of seeds, a potted plant peering out of a paper bag, another candle (unlit) and a pile of books. Above the scene float eight mandala-like spheres.

      This card suggests that there is a practical aspect to the relationship, which would fit in with that Capricorn outlook. The young woman seems to be contemplating creating a garden from scratch and has assembled all the materials she needs to learn more about it. In the same way, you need to do the same with this possible future. Without being cold and detached, gather all the information about your Capricorn that you can. I don’t mean in a stalky, intrusive way, but just as you interact with him. Note his reactions, attitudes, and views in order to see if they align with your own values. The Eight of Pentacles tells you to treat it as a personal project. In other words, you do what he’s doing.

      The base card is the Nine of Cups, which indicates emotional fulfilment. As this card is generally an insight into the reason for the question, it seems that this is top of the list for you in any relationship. And there’s no reason why that won’t happen. However, the previous card says to take a cool, practical view for the time being.

      Hope it works out for you, Reva.

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  16. Fleur

    Greetings Troi,
    I hope you’re well. I can’t find my previous reading but i remember it. It had the hang man at the bottom deck. I asked about someone who proposed but nothing really came out of it. I feel that I’m running out of time to have a family of my own because I’m going to turn 45 soon. My question is- when will i meet my forever one? I’d like to know if I’m meant to love this life alone.
    DOB 10th October
    Regards
    Fleur

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur,

      Here is the link to your previous reading: https://tarot-study.info/readings/comment-page-7/#comment-18467

      It’s a dilemma for sure. What you really must know is that it is far better to perhaps approach things in a different way than to commit to a person who is not right for you. That’s a future you will definitely regret. The Hanged Man from your previous reading says it all… ‘alternative perspective’, ‘take your time’, ‘when in doubt, do nothing’, and, most importantly, ‘acceptance’.

      Let’s see what the cards say. I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Page of Pentacles. A girl in a white flower dress stands sideways onto the the viewer She’s standing on a leaf with her right hand resting on a pink flower. There’s a dragonfly sitting on the flower looking at her. Over her shoulder hangs a white watering can.

      The Page of Pentacles is full of curiosity about the future, but she is also very pragmatic. She keeps an open heart yet she won’t allow herself to be distracted by unworkable situations. In other words, she has a wise head on her shoulders. She is ready to nurture any likely romance with a practical tenderness but she is also very discerning about who she pledges her heart to.

      The Page of Pentacles is also on the lookout for other alternatives and allows her natural curiosity to fuel her imagination. For example in your situation, she wouldn’t let the lack of a partner affect her ultimate goal. Sometimes things don’t arrive in the traditional order.

      This is a lovely card to appear, especially after what I wrote earlier about the Hanged Man.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Five of Swords. A woman in a red dress is holding a white rose. In the background stands a shadowy male figure with cracks all over his body. Interestingly, there is a black hole where is heart should be.

      This bottom card often represents the reason for the question, so I guess the image says it all. Fives are always challenges, and Swords usually mean communication or thought processes. Generally, the Five of Swords can mean disappointment (in others), unfulfilled expectations, and sometimes duplicity.

      So think about what the Page of Pentacles has to say. And remember that she is resourceful, creative, and self-reliant. If you have any questions, ask me.

      Troixx

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      1. Fleur

        Thank you so much Troi.. as always you have hit nail on the head again with the male shadowy figure with cracks all over his body and a black hole where the heart should be. It sent shivers down my spine when I read that. I suffered greatly at the hands of my ex who was a diagnosed Narcissist and Borderline personality disorder. He was extremely abusive, obsessive, controlling and manipulative. He would self harm and threatened to end himself twhenever I tried to stand up for myself and put boundaries. He was always lurking around in the background trying to force his way back in, to the point that I was going to go to the cops. Finally it looks like he’s gone for good now. I’m sorry for replying so late but I was dealing with this. It feels so good to be Finally free of his dark energy. Does the bottom card meant the challenges I had to face to get rid of him? Thank you so much for this reading. It resonates with me.
        Love and blessings
        Fleur
        ❤❤

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        1. Troi Post author

          Yes, the base card often shows underlying reasons/energy/circumstances. Sometimes hidden things, so yes, it can certainly point to challenges that you’d rather not let into the light.

          Glad it’s all over now, Fleur.

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  17. Keleen

    I really love the way you present information. Your “voice” really resonates with me for some reason. I really appreciate your service and your hard work! Thank you so so much for all that you do!!!
    K

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  18. Jeanette Jones

    Dear Troi

    Thanks so much for the work that you do. I am on a career path which I chose for the financial security and respectability that I felt it offered. However it doesn’t really bring me much joy and I’m just gritting my teeth and surviving. I can’t see a future in it where I would be fulfilled and truly living from within.
    I have changed jobs a few times within my current field in the last few years and I am terrified of making another change which could be the wrong choice or lead to financial issues as I have some responsibilities to family and to my own financial future. I am also scared that I will never find the right career path.
    Should I stop looking around for the right career and just hunker down for a while in my current job and hope that it improves? Am I being a quitter or am I ignoring my intuition?

    Thanks so much

    Jeanette
    Date of birth 31st March 1989

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jeanette,

      I think your situation is one that many of us have found ourselves in. Some keep going while others make radical change. Let’s see what the cards offer.

      I’m using the Pagan Otherworlds tarot, which is actually fairly traditional, and your card is the Five of Wands. Five sapling branches are propped up against each other forming a rough structure. In the back ground are two dark orange tents and three green ones. The landscape looks like a Mongolian plain, with a mountain range in the distance.

      Fives always represent challenges. The situation feels unbalanced, often unfair and stressful. The Five of Wands is a challenge in the arena of ‘taking action’. However, these situations can also be extremely life-educational in the long term. Especially when you put it in the processional context of the tarot numbers. Fives lead to six, which always means the seeker reaches a better place. I’ll come back to this in a moment.

      The card at the base of the deck is also a five, the Five of Swords. This one is a challenge in the aspect of your thinking, so it seems that you are in a desperate quandary about what to do (wands) and think (swords) about your situation. So I am reading these two as a pair.

      Your immediate instinct may be to get out, find your ‘calling’ and risk your financial security. And no one would blame you because you are so unhappy.

      However, there’s a third option between staying as you are and leaving. It’s to take these challenges and face them down. Right where you are. It means making small changes to the job that you are doing that will eventually turn it into one that you enjoy. I can’t tell you what to do in detail because I’m not you, but think about these:

      Making tweaks that don’t noticeably impact your results (in other words, that others don’t see).
      Asking if your bosses are open to suggestions.
      Thinking about what would make your current work more enjoyable. Are there other positions within the company that you would prefer?
      What are the parts of your job that you do like? How can you expand them?

      So it’s not about ‘hoping it improves’ because that is taking a passive, defeatist approach, it’s about being proactive in improving the current situation. It’s very possible that you could take this uninspiring job and making it be the best job for you right now. You get to shape it. In return, your employers get someone who is engaged, invested, enthusiastic, and worth rewarding.

      These steps, inspired by the challenges, will help you get to that better place. And, who knows, you may accidentally stumble across the Thing You Really Want to Do.

      Hope that helps, Jeanette. Good luck.

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  19. Maria

    Dear Troi,
    I have been feeling frustrated for some time in my current job. I feel very grateful for having this job and it has been a blessing and still is. However, I keep questioning if I should go my own way on or stay. So my question is regarding if it is in my best interest to stay or leave?
    My date of birth is 5th of January
    Kindest,
    Maria

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maria,

      I’m using the beautiful Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Knight of Pentacles. A young man walks across a field trailing ten colourful discs in his wake. He carries one like a backpack. His black horse follows, a step or two behind. They are both looking to their right at something the viewer cannot see.

      The Knight of Pentacles tells you to take one step at a time. You don’t have to make a decision right now, but you can begin to take action towards striking out on your own. You can carry on at your job while you begin to get things in place ready for your escape. The Knight of Pentacles is a hard-working, cautious type so take your cue from him; gather up as many resources as you can from this current job–knowledge, skills, whatever, so you can easily move to the next stage in your career.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Knight of Wands. A laughing young woman kneels on the ground and plays a fiery drum. In the background her horse looks like it is dancing. This Knight is opposite to the Knight of Pentacles in energy; it’s impulsive and adventurous. However, its an energy that burns out fast. It changes its mind. It moves on to the next Big Thing. I always see it as a bit of a warning. In other words, again take your time over this and don’t be impulsive. Wait until you are certain you can maintain the level of commitment you will need.

      In a nutshell, stay for now, with the aim of leaving when everything is in place.

      Good luck with this, I’m sure it’ll work out for you.

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      1. Maria

        Dear Troi,
        Thank you so much for your reading! It really resonates with me and I feel so grateful for your work.
        Best wishes,
        Maria

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  20. Anonymous

    Hi Troi,

    Hope you are well!
    I just wanted to know if my partner and I are heading to the right direction in our relationship. Last year was a rough patch in our relationship with infidelity on his behalf.

    Her: 25 august
    His: 22 October
    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anonymous,

      It’s difficult for a relationship to recover when it has sustained a blow like that. There are so many levels of doubt and complexity of feelings.

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Six of Pentacles. A man is handing out coins to two people less fortunate than himself. He holds a scale in his left hand to make sure he is giving equally. In a different deck to this one, the scene is shown from the back and it’s interesting to see that the man giving charity is wearing a torn, old robe.

      So Pentacles can represent the practical aspects of relationships and the obvious interpretation here is ‘give and take’, which is somewhat trite seeing as you are probably the one doing all the ‘giving’. Happily, sixes always represent getting to a better, more stable place after dealing with challenges, so I feel as if you are doing pretty well.

      However, this card might mean that one of you is feeling like they are getting the scraps or having to wait for attention. Give it some thought.

      The key to being sure you are going in the right direction is how well you are doing regarding trust. If your trust in your partner is increasing, then know all is progressing positively.

      The card at the base of the deck is the World, which is a good sign, whichever way things go for you. It tells you that you are in exactly the right place at this moment. You have probably learned a lot about yourself over the past months, never a bad thing. The World also shows that the next stage in your life is imminent and you will know exactly when to take action.

      Good luck, hope it turns out in the best way for you.

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  21. Leah

    Hey, thanks so much for taking the time to do some readings for people! Another question about love lol, us women, we can’t stop can we?

    I find myself in a situation where I really don’t know what to do with a man. My cards are telling me to listen to my intuition, and not my logic, but I’m not sure about my intuition right now. Also, I’m very new to tarot, so full of doubts about what I am seeing because ignoring my logic seems foolish.

    I won’t bore you with the full story, but this mans personality felt so right to me. For the first time ever, all green flags. His serious 15 year relationship had just broken down and they were in the process of selling house and splitting etc. After a few encounters with me, his ex asked him for another try, and he agreed. I supported this decision as I believe it was the right move for him. However, this attraction and pull between us is so strong.

    We are NOT having an affair, but we do have a secret friendship. I believe that him and his partner are getting on well but it’s early days and he doesn’t know if it will work yet. I’m so torn on whether I should carry on being friends with him (even though our feelings go beyond friends) or walk away.

    My logic tells me to walk away, my intuition tells me that this man is someone who is, or was, important in my life. However, did he just pop into my life to give me a shake (he woke me up to a few things)? Or do we have more to go in the future? Our meeting was so bizarre and all the synchronicities etc surrounding him, I have a strong sense of fate here. Neither of us want to stop being friends, but I fully understand that there is the potential for complications and mess.

    Every time I do a spread about our future there are nothing but happy cards for us. I have no idea if this is romantic or not, it’s not that important. What’s important is that despite the fact we aren’t having an affair, we are keeping secrets, which is dishonest. I don’t want to be that person, but I cannot shake the feeling that this man is meant to be in my life for some reason.

    Any insights which aren’t through my own bias gratefully received, thanks so much!

    Edit: My birthday – 19th Feb, His – 15th June.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Leah,

      On reading your message, my first thought was that what you think as logic is actually strong advice from your intuition. Remember it may not be an either/or situation… both thoughts and feelings may be right. In any case, your birthday combination suggests that any ongoing relationship between you cannot be hurried or forced. Things will unfold in their own time.

      Let’s see what your cards say. I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your first card is not such a happy one – the Nine of Swords. A young woman in a red dress kneels under a darkening sky with her hands covering herface while eight black crows and one white bird circle above. A cushion lies next to her, signifying that some degree of comfort is available to her.

      All is not lost with this card. It shows that you are putting yourself under a great deal of strain trying to think this through. You feel as though your thoughts are in conflict with your gut feeling, rendering you incapable of making a decision.

      My own feeling is that the nine shows that a significant part of your life may be changing and that what you need to do is step back and wait for events to unfold. In other words, the factors that drove your friend and his partner apart are still present. How could they not be? I agree that encouraging him to go back to her was the right (the only) thing to do, otherwise he’d be always wondering. However, giving it another try and it turning out to be the same as before is a more likely outcome.

      The reason why I believe, given patience, there could be a positive outcome is the card at the bottom of the deck. The Nine of Cups. So another nine, suggesting the end of a life stage or cycle, but this one shows fulfilment and happiness.

      So, give yourself a break. Also give him some space so that he experiences a sense of loss. Then wait. What will be will be and all that.

      Good luck, hope it all works out.

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  22. Ck

    Hello Troi.. how are you? I have a suitor since last year. He says he loves me and wants to marry me. I would like to know if there’s any guidance from the universe. Thank you in advance.
    His DOB 10TH OCT
    My DOB 10TH OCT
    Love and light
    Fleur ❤🙏

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur,

      Same birthdays. Interesting. I haven’t got access to my compatibility table thingy right now so can’t look it up. Sorry.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Six of Wands. A woman (a very tiny one) sits on a hummingbird. She’s holding the stem of a flower which the hummingbird is sipping from. A bit like someone holding a carrot on a stick for a donkey.

      This card suggests a kind of victory or triumph. It’s generally very positive. However, I don’t feel it connects to love as such. It’s more to do with the accomplishment of the proposal. The first thing that stood out from your message is, “He says he loves me and wants to marry me.” You didn’t say that you love him and want to marry him. And that’s why I suggest that you examine your feelings around him. The Six of Wands is celebratory and a happy card, but unless you love him with every fiber of your being, then it’s not fair on either of you.

      My thoughts are confirmed by the base card which is the Hanged Man – a woman hanging upside down in a hedgerow. Her foot is caught in a slightly opened zipper, which reveals a blue sky beyond. This card suggests that you wait for a while and see how things go. No action is better than the wrong action. Don’t make any commitment yet as it is difficult to get out later. You will know in due course what you really want.

      Let me know how it goes. xx

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      1. Fleur

        Thank you so much, dear Tori! I do like him. It’s a very interesting connection. We both live in different continents and we met through a mutual friend at dinner last year. It was just one evening but we’ve stayed in touch. Given everything I’ve been through in this last 3 years, i am afraid to give myself to the wrong person again.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Fleur,

          I would be wary of anyone who declared undying love on that basis. He may well be lovely, but a marriage proposal after one meeting should be treated with caution, so you are right to be hesitant.

          I went on one date with a guy years ago. By the end of the evening he was suggesting that I meet his kid, go for weekends away, and that he was ready to make a big commitment. Needless to say, I did not see him again.

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  23. Stacy

    Love reading.

    My name is Stacy, birthday March 1 and Jason birthday April 29 has been my friend for over 2 years and last year over the summer (2022) we crossed over to a romantic relationship. We got into a big fight in October 2022 and haven’t seen each other in person since February this year, we shared a kiss. It was so nice.

    Sometime inbetween that we saw each other again and told each other we loved each other. ..then still talking here and there ….not much ..then I couldn’t hold back anymore and on April 11 I made the move and we saw each other again and we had sexual contact..it was very passionate and filled with so much love..it brought back so many emotions,

    Our communication hasn’t changed, not talking more and not talking less. ..Just here and barley there. .sometimes he answered me other times he didn’t … We both have a lot going on in our lives but my heart just aches. I know he’s always around ex wife because they share 3 kids together. I don’t know if he’s still in love with her or with her romantically now, I would like to know ..I just really don’t understand what happened that he’s gotten so distant.

    Our last contact was May 2nd over the phone where I told him how I felt about him and how I saw a future with him and that I was willing to do the work to have that with him because I know the happiness that we’re capable of and have had is worth it—then I asked him where he was /how he felt and assured him that if he doesn’t feel the same that it’s okay but that I needed to know because if he doesn’t see that future with me then I need to move on.

    He told me he loved me then he got defensive and shut down…very quite for a long time. His voice cracked when he spoke. Then he started to be insensitive then apologized for being rude and he was just all over the place. It ended with him telling me he had to think about it then he hung up on me.

    **I’m here left in the dark yet again** or maybe I just don’t want to open my eyes.

    Is the chapter of Jason I officially over or will we be together romantically in a long term committed relationship? Is he sleeping with/romantically involved with someone else ?

    Thank you so much.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stacy,

      I can tell without even drawing a card that Jason is never going to commit to a full-time relationship with you. Sorry to be blunt, but after all these years, I am 99% certain that’s the way of it. If it was going to happen, it would have already happened. If it was meant to be, nothing would stop him from being with you. If he really loved you, he would not treat you in such an off-handed manner and so disrespectfully. So why are you hanging on in order to gather up the crumbs? Why are you doing this to yourself?

      And, of course, he is sleeping with someone else.

      Re-read your email and pretend it was sent to you from a friend. What advice would you give her? You’d tell her to consign him to the bin and to move on. As any good friend would. You’ll explain to her that some people are unable to be honest and straightforward. You’d tell her she deserves better.

      So I’ll draw you a card to see how life will be when you realise that you don’t need this depressing and going-nowhere situation hanging over you.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Five of Pentacles. A woman is standing, looking down towards her left. Her hair is made of sweeping branches. Her body and dress is a cage, a beautiful flower is trapped within. It is snowing and in the background some windows are shining brightly.

      All fives in tarot represent challenges and obstacles, so I expect that this is how you’ll feel once you have cast yourself adrift from Jason’s influence. However, you need to know that there are people who can offer support; you just have to seek it out. Your heart may feel empty but it isn’t. You have lots of love inside you and one day, you’ll meet someone who will take care of it. Understand that you are not adrift at all, you can get past this. In the overall scheme of things (and when you look back) you’ll see that he was never that important.

      I say all that because the card at the base of the deck is the World. This card tells you that pretty soon you’ll find yourself in the right place at exactly the right time. You are in an evolutionary phase, coming to the end of one life cycle and about to enter another. Use your current experience as a lesson in how to love yourself and put Stacy first. Your love is precious and not to be wasted on someone who doesn’t appreciate it.

      Good luck. x

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  24. Lebrin

    Hey there. I hope you are well.

    I’ve been feeling so sad lately. I have a great job, a loving sister and mother ..my beautiful baby boy..but I feel unfulfilled. I have a hot and cold strong connection annd love towards someone. My job is great but I feel like it’s losing its purpose. I don’t feel useful even though I am a manager. I feel like my staff questions my capability. .but I’m struggle so badly with money. My sons dad and his wife are constantly disrespecting me.

    My question is if I will ever be with the man I love in a flourishing healthy relationship?
    Is my current job the only way I can be financially stable?
    Will my sons dad and his wife ever treat me nicely?

    I feel like my whole life has been filled with pain and I just want to know if I’ll ever be free. Or if someone placed some sort of power on me that never lets me experience happiness. Romantically/financially/mentally/physically/emotionally.

    With these 3 things I listed above—I just feel like I’m being bullied all the time or maybe that I can never have anything go well for me. I’m willing to let go of the man I love if it’ll only cause me headache. I’m willing to let go of the job I have if I can provide for my son another way. My sons dad is almost the catalyst to all my defeated feelings towards myself and my life. My son is the best thing that’s ever happened to me.

    3/1 me.
    4/29 man I love
    5/5 sons dad

    I know I said a lot …I’m sorry. If you are able to ..please rephrase this to a question that’ll serve these things. I can fully grasp one thing in particular that I’m asking but I’m hoping maybe you can.

    Thank you so much.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Lebrin, sounds like you need a big hug.

      You’ve asked a lot from one card, but I’ll just draw one and see if it has a useful message for you.

      I’m using The Good Tarot by Colette Baron-Reid and your card is Fortune’s Wheel. The card is illustrated by a complex image of the Wheel of Fortune looking like a medieval painting, all greens and gold.

      This card suggests you are currently allowing yourself to be pushed around by outside factors. You are reacting rather than directing. I think the heart of your problems is that you are in a sink hole of depression and can’t see a way out. All the other issues come from that and your inability to take control of the wheel of your life.

      I like to think of it like this: you have somehow moved to the perimeter of the Wheel of Fortune, where you have no power. You are literally swept along at the whims, actions, and words of other people. The key to regaining your personal power is to mentally move to the center of the wheel, where there is less instability and more control.

      Checking the base card–it’s the Nine of Air (Swords). This is exactly where you are: worried, anxious, feeling like a victim of all these other people. This card holds the hidden message that the things that oppose and hamper you are also part of the solution. In other words, your thoughts are holding you prisoner, but it is by changing your thoughts that will set you free.

      At the moment, the way you feel and approach life is dictated by your ex, your love interest, your job, and even your child. You have to make a choice now. Are you going to let this continue? Or are you going to begin to make radical changes?

      The first thing to do is to pay attention to your language (and thoughts). Re-read your request above and see how your own words have the power to drag you down. Everything is a struggle. So start right there. Reframe your thoughts to show where things are going right. And there will be plenty of positives to look for. Do it every single day. The Wheel tells you that you can control how you feel, rather than trying to control circumstances and other people. As you move your emotions and thoughts from that whirling outer wheel towards the stable center, you will find your life will improve accordingly.

      I’ve done a quick search and this might help you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TG67AzQLEYM

      Feel better soon, Lebrin.

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  25. Anni

    Dear Troi,

    I would like some advice please. I had an eviction notice some months ago. I am really stumped trying to find a new home. I seem to be stuck and feel Ive exhausted every possible avenue/ option to move forward. Yet nothing is or has changed. Im trying to stay positive but finding tough. Any advice is greatly appreciated,
    Blessings

    Anni
    Taurus : 27/4

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anni, you have my sympathies; this must be extremely uncomfortable for you.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Six of Cups. It’s cleverly illustrated by a man sitting on a hill with his arm over his elderly Golden Retriever. There is a bowl next to them, and behind, six more bowls receding into the distance where a little boy (the man as a child) is petting his new puppy.

      This card suggests that the solution to finding a home lies in the past. Perhaps you could sit down, go through all your contacts and make a list of people you used to know. Perhaps something will click and you will be inspired to reach out to someone who knows someone who might be able to help. Sixes in tarot are always connected with finding yourself in a better position than you were before so the card bodes well for you.

      I don’t know where you are, so unsure of how it works there, but here in the UK, people advertise for house-shares or rooms to rent all the time. There must be some kindly person willing to rent a room(s) to you somewhere. There’s no point being too picky right now, so spread your net a little wider.

      And something else occurred to me. Sometimes in the UK, jobs come up with accommodation included. Don’t know your career position, but perhaps a change of job and location would work?

      When you take a break from looking, try scripting. Write down a few paragraphs about your new place as if you already have it. Keep it in the present tense and express appreciation for your perfect new nest. Do that as often as you can. And you could also daydream and visualize it. Keeping the Six of Cups in mind, mentally check out all the places you have lived before, was there a home you particularly loved? Have you checked out that area?

      Hope it works out for you pretty soon.

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      1. Anni

        Thanks Troi, much appreciated. I am in UK and have tried house share route. Ive been refused because I have an under 18. I can definitely try contacts again . I will certainly try the expressive writing . Thank you and if you do hear of anything?!! Log burner and garden in wales please ! Ive gained hope and positive action from this reading. Thanks I will keep you updated!

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Anni, I did wonder if you had a child… because of the Six of Cups’ connection to children. Actually, at first I wondered if you had a dog. In Wales, the cheapest rentals are in the valleys. I suppose you check Rightmove, etc.?

          Another thing that occurred to me for the short term might be house/dog-sitting. No security, of course, but in essence, it’s free.

          There are places to rent in our village, but they tend to be expensive because it’s not far from Cardiff.

          Wishing you all the luck!

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  26. John

    Troi,
    I fell out with a coworker who practices hoodoo. It’s been going on strong ever since, every day between 5 to 7 times a day. I’ve tried to combat it but he is consistently attacking me and nothing i’ve done has made a difference. So do the cards say it will get better?

    Birthday: March 5

    Edited.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello John,

      I’ve edited your question to remove some details. I will say that I never claimed to have been psychically attacked. You may be mixing up the fact that I was stalked by an actual person for years. I’m sorry to hear you are going through this disturbing time.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Magician. A strange figure (they are all strange in this deck) with four arms stands before a box. The box is red and decorated with gold stars and moons. On it stands a gold chalice full of a red liquid. The Magician is dipping one finger into the liquid. In his other hands he holds a sword, a wand, and a coin. In the background are shadows of people.

      This is a powerful card which tells you that you hold the power to take control of the situation. The Magician represents mental clarity and the wherewithal to deal with anything that requires attention. You have all the resources you need to overcome this attack.

      The base card is the Nine of Pentacles which is generally a positive card, but in this deck is shown as a chained figure. Checking the deck creator’s description, it says that the chain holds ‘her’ pet. The pet is a small metal skull with wings. The Nine of Pentacles represents independence and freedom, which is a positive message.

      Interestingly, after I received the notification of your request, I watched a YT video that seemed to offer ways to raise yourself above all this. It may be helpful: https://youtu.be/eY02A_3Uluc

      Good luck, I hope the situation resolves itself.

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  27. Queen of Cups

    Hello,
    My question is simple, almost six months post break up and feeling optimistic and open to new opportunities. What guidance can I receive in order to attract a partner who is looking for the same long term goals as I am romantically?

    Birthday is 13 July, making me a cancer.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi QoC,

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Queen of Pentacles. This Queen sits comfortably in repose with her eyes closed. Her chair is placed under a tree. Her arms are crossed at the wrist and she holds a gold pentacle that looks a bit like a slice of orange.

      The Queen of Pentacles suggests you take a pragmatic approach to your quest to attract a new partner. List out those qualities you’d like to see in a potential partner and then live those attributes yourself. At the same time, be relaxed about it all. The process itself is the goal. Once you feel you ARE those qualities the more likely you are to attract someone with them. Get to the point where you are so content with your life that it really doesn’t matter if someone turns up or not. Then they will. Try to find an image of the card and you will see what I mean.

      The card at the base of the deck is the lovely Six of Cups which hints that you’d like someone who retains all the joy of childhood and loves the simple pleasures. Again, be that and the vibrations you emit will bring more of it.

      Good luck.

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  28. Kaci

    Hi Troi,

    I’m here because my sons father has been giving me so emotional pain trying to assertively charge into my babys life and change everything about his upbringing after meeting him for the first time on 12/28/22. My baby is currently 17 months old to put it into perspective. After he abandoned me while I was pregnant now he is trying to come in and take the one thing I love most away from me and dismisses everything I try to show him or tell him about how I’ve been raising my son (Montessori method and he currently attends a Montessori school).

    This sudden bulldoze into my life and my sons life has caused so much heart ache and instability for my son and I. I’m here to ask if he will ever stop and leave us alone? Hopefully sooner than later?? Like asap? How much more pain will my son and I endure? I am on the fence to do an investigation on him but then that means I would have to have one done on me too. It’s so expensive but I feel like my hands are tied behind my back and I’m watching everything burn.

    My heart can’t handle this pain anymore. It’s my worst nightmare unfolding before my eyes.

    Thank you for all you do.

    His birthday is May 5
    Mine is March 1
    My son is October 10

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    1. Troi Post author

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      Hi Kaci,

      My first thought is that you need to get legal advice regarding your situation. Also, perhaps your ex needs to know that if he is to gain regular access, he is liable for child support backdated to your child’s birth?

      An answer to your question isn’t going to be terribly helpful to you because ‘ever’ could be a long time away and you need help right now. I’m trying to think how a reading could be useful and what question to focus on.

      How about, ‘What approach should I use dealing with my ex in this situation?’ I’ll go with that, if that’s ok.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your cards (I’ve drawn two) are the Moon and the World.

      The Moon indicates that you are overwhelmed right now. You can’t see a path forward because you are drowning in emotion, anxiety, and a lack of clarity. The Moon says that things look so different in the reflected light and shadows and you are second guessing yourself all the time. It feels like a big mess. This is supported by the base card which is the Ten of Wands–shows you are trying to carry too many burdens and obligations.

      The second card is the World, which is far better. It indicates you can get on top of this. You will find yourself in a place where you have control of your own life. You need a concrete plan to get there. I don’t know where you are, but you must get some advice. There may be organisations available to you where you can speak to someone who can help. Start right there Reach out and find out what your options are. You need practical help, yes? So get it.

      I’m sure this will work out for you and your baby, Kaci. Have faith in your own capability to get things sorted.

      Good luck x

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  29. Persephone

    Hello Troi,
    Thank you for taking the time to read my question!
    My question is this – I was told that channeling- becoming someone who channels if thats the right terminology- might be a path I should look into. I don’t know much about it – seems a little scary to me but I guess I am wondering if this is a legitimate suggestion for me?
    – Persephone

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Persephone, so sorry, I just found your comment in the spam folder which is why I had no notification. I don’t think you need a reading for your question, to be honest. You should simply try it. Here’s a suggestion: When you are alone and quiet, and preferably a little tired, grab a pen and paper. Breathe deeply a few times and start to write. Doesn’t matter what. Be open to anything that comes. I’ve done this a few times and had some fantastic results. It feels as though ‘something’ is communicating through you. I found putting on headphones and having binaural music fairly loud helped a lot.

      Here’s a link to my experience: https://medium.com/ill-meet-you-at-the-crossroads/automatic-or-free-writing-9a3b7d128411

      And you don’t need a course or anything like that. Give it a go.

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  30. Azzie

    Hi Troi,

    I hope you’re doing well. I have a bit of a dilemma, a good one I should add, but one that I would love to get a reading for. I have been put in a fortunate position where I have been given a promotion at work which has significantly increased my pay too. I have also been offered a job with another company that doesn’t pay as well but has some good benefits. As a courtesy, I gave my current employer the heads up on my job offer and they are now willing to bend over backwards to ensure I stay, as well as give me more money. At this point I’m really conflicted and do not want to make the wrong choice.
    I would appreciate it if you could give me some guidance around this

    Aug 26

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Azzie, congratulations! I bet many people would love to be in that situation.

      I’m hesitant to give you a reading on this because I don’t believe anyone should make such a decision on the turn of a card. So I’ll draw one for you, give you the standard interpretation and you can use it, or not. Also, you can trust your gut implicitly to help you decide.

      I’m using The Muse Tarot and your card is the Six of Inspiration (Wands). The keywords given in the book for this card are: victory and recognition, a homecoming, being seen, recognition for a job well done, being thanked, healing your fear of success.

      In general terms, the Six of Wands is a card of achievement and revelling in the moment. Sixes are always connected to reaching a good place after challenging times. In this case, the card appears to signify exam success, an impressive interview, a victory after a test or battle.

      I realise that doesn’t help you decide at all, but I’m going to tell you my immediate reaction… your current employers sound amazing, and really keen to keep you 🙂

      Good luck, Azzie. Let me know which you choose.

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  31. Lee Oliver

    Hi Troi,

    How are you?

    Just wanted to ask for a reading. I’ve been talking to this guy for almost 4 months and we have not met yet. I am curious if this person is the one.

    My bithday May 7
    His birthday March 12

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lee, it’s been a while. Hope you are doing well.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Five of Cups. A weird human-like creature sits on a wall with his fingers in his ears while his large and formidable wife points and yells at him. Two gold cups stand on the wall next to him and three spilled cups lie on the ground along with a single rose.

      My feeling is that this card is not connected with the situation you asked about. The Five of Cups represents a very intense emotional challenge which seems too much for what you describe. I think this is connected to something else, possibly family-linked, which you will have to deal with. The one piece of advice I can give you is that there is a positive within what seems to be a negative. The Five of Cups tells you that, despite the loss of the three cups, there are still two left to sustain you (emotionally). So when whatever it is happens, be calm and turn to the people who can support you.

      The base card is the Seven of Wands which indicates you need to take a stance on what you believe in or what you know to be right. You might find the opinions and actions of others crowding you out or trying to shout you down. You have to stand your ground and keep moving forward.

      Sorry I couldn’t answer the question you asked… that will make itself clear with the passing of time.

      Good luck.

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  32. Katherine

    I’m confused. I recently left a very abusive relationship, which was difficult t o leave bc I love him and have codependency issues. Then I started hanging out with a friend, who I knew had been interested for some time and then poof he stopped pursuing all of the relationship aspects except friendship and physical. I don’t get it. Our charts are great, there is major chemistry, we get sling, and then wall up.
    Why did this happen and how does he really feel about me and our relationship?
    Thank you,
    K
    July 18

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Katherine,

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is Temperance. A young, casually-dressed, man sporting almost transparent angel wings sits cross-legged. He’s lightly juggling a miniature earth and sun.

      Temperance indicates that there is chemistry and balance in the relationship but you have to understand that the balance is never static, never fixed. It shifts and adjusts constantly as with everything from the cells of your body to the construct of the universe. Therefore, my advice would be to give it a little time so you can determine if you wish to keep going with it or revert to friendship. I can’t tell you what he thinks of you because I’m not a psychic reader.

      The card at the base of the deck is Strength, which encourages you to keep moving forward with this relationship but not in a forceful way. Be patient and allow it to unfold easily and gently. Remember that if there’s friendship then that makes a great foundation for any romance. There are plenty of people who are romantically connected who don’t have a solid friendship as a basis for their relationship.

      You also need to keep in mind that you have come out of a damaging relationship yourself so are perhaps placing more reliance on your current one than you should. Your partner might be feeling overwhelmed and has withdrawn slightly. I’m saying this, not from the cards, but from experience. So like I said, be patient, both with yourself and your partner. A long-lasting relationship is built steadily and gently.

      Good luck, Katherine, I hope it all works out well for you. You have made a huge change in your life by getting away from the abuse, you deserve some real love now.

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  33. Blueyebri

    Hello, my question is related to moving forward, I’m at a intersection, which direction? Why must I be alone?

    August 29, why am I feeling so lost, and lonely? What direction need I go,

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there Blueyebri, sorry to hear you are feeling like this.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Six of Pentacles. It is paired with the base card which is the Knight of Swords. Both of these cards suggest a similar thing. You have to get out of your head and focus your attention outwards. If you do this, the direction will make itself clear.

      The Six of Pentacles, illustrated here by two women chatting over a cup of tea, is often shown by someone helping other people. They may not be in the best position to do so, but they do what they can. Even if it simply offering yourself as someone who will listen attentively.

      The Knight of Swords backs this up because it means taking up some kind of mission or cause. Maybe an injustice you might feel passionate about. It doesn’t have to be anything huge or time-consuming.

      Focusing on your own situation over-much simply perpetuates it. Focusing on how to help someone else’s situation takes you right away from your own. And thereby, you help yourself at the same time.

      I can’t tell you specifically what you should do, but if you are open to ideas, the idea will come. My own experience included setting up a recycling group when I felt guilty about throwing out perfectly useable furniture. I ran it for 12 years. I also write articles about things that might help others. And of course, this free reading service. There are millions of ways you could use your energy and relieve your loneliness.

      Good luck.

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  34. purpose

    hi I just started a new job. It is a manager position and I am not sure how it will be since this is my first time being a manager. I manage a large facility. please advise. thanks
    birth month and day. April 30th

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Purpose,

      I’m not quite certain what you want to know as you haven’t asked a specific question. So I’ll just draw a card for the energy that surrounds you and your job and see what shows up.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the King of Pentacles. There are two Kings for each suit in this deck, one male; one female. The male one has shown up for you. A Victorian gentleman (he’s small) is balanced on the antlers of a stag. Within the antlers hang three gold coins.

      As it relates to your situation, I would suggest that there is someone in your organisation who has a lot of experience in doing your particular job. Seek them out and ask for advice. Show you are willing to learn and they will be gracious in sharing their experience. Take the advice given and put it into action while at the same time, adding your own take on it. View your role as contributing to and moving the company towards increased productivity, but make sure you discharge your responsibilities to the people you manage.

      The card at the bottom of the deck often gives an insight into why the question was asked. It is the Ten of Wands. It shows a woman planting a fully blooming tulip. She carries a huge burden of other flowers on her back. If she’s going to plant them all, she has a huge task ahead of her.

      This card shows that you may already be struggling with everything that requires your attention. Remember you cannot do every little task. Your managerial skills include asking other people to take on those tasks. Even those that you deem to be your job. You can get someone to do the basic task and you can refine it later if necessary. Can I suggest that you spend a little time making sure your time is as organised as it can be. That you have your day fully structured, but be flexible enough to deviate when required.

      Good luck in your career. You will be an excellent manager. A proper King of Pentacles.

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  35. Youvone

    Hi there …

    I’m glad I found your page. I was reading some of the posts and the reading with the base cards included is very interesting..I decided to try this to maybe help ease my mind..

    I’m wondering if this person will get married to another woman this year or not (2022). ..

    And if that question isn’t appropriate..then I guess a question I have is, are him and I officially over? (Mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually) Or will there be reconciliation between us ..

    Thanks ..

    My birthday 3-1
    His birthday 5-5

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Youvone, sorry to be so long getting to your reading.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the King of Cups. Kings are shown as women in this deck so there’s a woman standing in a ocean (in fact there are two Kings for each suit: males and female) Her dress forms a huge rock with a passageway hewn through it. A ship passes underneath. Her hair looks like octopus tentacles and she holds a small model ship balanced on her left forearm. The woman is wholly concentrating on that small sailing ship. It sounds weird but it is a brilliant and powerful image.

      This card indicates that the relationship is not over… from your point of view. You are heavily invested in keeping it alive mentally and emotionally, at least. The small ship holds your focus, while the real relation-ship is sailing through and past.

      That probably tells you all you need to know. You will be better, mentally and emotionally, if you let it go. Your ex is moving on and you need to do the same.

      You expressed interest in the base card but I’m not sure if it has any relevance here. It is the Emperor, which represents structure and societal laws. It can also represent a strict parent, usually a male, who insists on people conducting themselves according to rules and traditions.

      Neither of these cards indicate a reconciliation but who knows what will happen in the future. Meanwhile, though, your heart and mind need to be free of the leftover heavy energy of this relationship. Do your best to shake it off.

      Good luck.

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  36. Sharasa

    Hi Troi,

    I’m really struggling. I have been pushing this person away —then coming back ..going back and forth constantly. I really care for him but he’s not able to give me what I want and I know that. I recently pushed him back again and I just want to know .. is it officially over? Or will this continue to go round and round 🙁

    My birthday March 1
    His birthday April 29

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Sharasa,

      Sounds like a cycle similar to one I was caught up in many moons ago. It’s almost an addiction and you, like me, can probably track each subtle stage, from getting back together to ending it.

      I’m using The Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Nine of Swords. A young woman in a red dress kneels on the ground, next to a grey pillow. She holds her face in her hands in despair. It’s almost nightfall. Eight black crows and one white, almost transparent bird tussle in the air above the woman.

      Nines in tarot generally herald the end of a major life stage. The Nine of Swords indicates it can feel ominous, scary, and like facing the unknown. When you are right in the middle of it, it feels as if there’s no ending. That you are doomed to repeat the same cycles. The problem is, is that each time it happens, it feels more hollow. You get back together and at first it’s good, but it’s not ‘safe’. You already know what will eventually happen.

      This card suggests that you *can* break the repetition. You have to decide which state you want more: to be within the relationship or out and away from it. Think about how you feel when you split up. Is it relief or unhappiness? If relief, then you’ll be better outside. If you miss him and your time with him, then you have to find a way to make it work. To disrupt the emotional waves.

      I can’t tell you which path to take. The card hints at an ending, but that’s not definite because it’s always your joint decision. Should you want to stay with him, you need to decide on a strategy. It might be a pact between you to change the basis of the relationship. It might be couples counselling. The good thing is that, right now, you have some space. There’s no big rush…the Nine of Swords is a thinking card, so go deep and give thought to what you really want.

      Good luck and I hope it works out in the best way for you.

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      1. Sharasa

        Thank you so much Troi…I am able to be strong when I end it and push him back … but it’s like ..whenever he shows up or something I suddenly fall weak in my knees and I know in my heart he won’t be able to truly make me happy but you’re exactly right …It’s like an addiction. I know it’s guna hurt but I go back if he tries to reconcile in any way .. I’m happy that the number 9 usually represents an ending. I guess I was just wondering if he’s going to come back or not. I just want him to stop and go away 🙁 !! If he keeps coming back it’s like I have to start all over again and get over him. It’s such a painful process but you’re right .. it becomes hollow. Where the first time I ended it, it hurt so bad and now everytime I leave him again it hurts less …but it still hurts.. like right now my heart hurts .. I just need him to go away and leave me alone. I just wanted to know if he will finally 🙁

        Your reading was so spot on to how I’m feeling. I really resonate with the image you described …

        By the way…I wanted to say, Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us..I was reading through the comments and you’ve helped so many people. Xo

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        1. Troi Post author

          Oh Sharasa, you know that if you want it to stop then you must be the one to stop it. You can’t leave it up to him. Somehow you need to gather the strength to resist his persuasive charm. It took me ten years to get to the point where I called a halt. But when I did, I felt amazing. And I knew there was no going back. He even tried contacting me much later after I was with my current partner and had two kids. He thought all he had to do was turn on the old charm and I’d be right there. Nah. Told him exactly where he could go and how to get there 😀

          Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate them xx

          Edited to say: I went through an awful lot of Nine of Swords moments too. Utter despair sometimes.

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          1. Sharasa

            Thank you Troi you are so right. I really needed this response to be as direct as possible and that’s what I got. I really appreciate it so much. Also, I can’t believe your experience with him trying again meanwhile you’re happily with your children and partner. Lol. I guess nothing should surprise me anymore !! I know what I have to do xo

    2. Sharasa

      Hey Troi,

      I have a follow up question please..so him and I have slowly entered into a relationship again but it feels different this time —in a good way. We both know each other better (romantically: we started off and friends so we both didn’t know that side of each other when it came to a romantic relationship) and our expectations are clear. I just want to know what comes up in regards to him and I now that we’ve entered this new chapter together. Will the outcome of us together be positive? He does have an ex wife that is very toxic and I worry about that .. thank you xx

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      1. Troi Post author

        Hi Sharasa,

        I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Six of Swords.

        The card shows a woman, her face turned away floating on a dark indigo cloud above a dark sea and a small island. She holds out her hand, touching a cord that hangs down from a star above. At the end of the cord an anchor hangs halfway to the island below. It’s as if she is looking for somewhere to halt her journey.

        This is a card of recovery. It means a slow journey from a difficult situation towards a better one. In matters of love it symbolises acceptance and understanding. This may well mirror your current involvement. Thoughts and emotions have alighted on a place of peace.

        However, you must also know that you have re-entered the cycle you seemed previously desperate to get out of. And while it appears to be calm now, it’s possible the same ebb and flow of feelings will occur again. Something to be aware of.

        The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Pentacles. Two women are holding china cups. Above them a floating teapot tips water into one of the cups. The women look like twins or close sisters. On the teapot is depicted a set of scales.

        The Six of Pentacles means give and take. Of balance and synergy. Whoever has more, gives to the one who has less. It’s not about charity and generosity though but the natural concept of even-ness. Like water finding its level. In the context of a relationship, it’s to do with each person contributing equally, yet being happy about making an extra effort when required.

        So, I’d say that you have to give it time and see how it works out for you. There’s nothing here about an ex, so I wouldn’t worry about her at all. She will only impinge on your relationship if you let her. The Six of Swords may represent your partner also making the necessary ‘journey of recovery’.

        Good luck.

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  37. Azzie

    Dear Troi,

    I hope you’re well. I wanted to find out if I have anyone new coming into my life in reference to finding love? I hoping to be in a loving relationship that will be my life partner. I can’t tell you how sick and tired I am of kissing all these frogs!

    26 Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Azzie, all good here, thank you for asking.

      Oh, those frogs!

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is Temperance. I really do encourage you to look for an image online…hold on: https://lightseerstarot.com/light-seers-tarot-meanings-temperance/

      A young man with ghostly wings sits cross-legged. He seems to be manipulating a sun and moon; weaving them around with his hands.

      Temperance suggests that perhaps you are giving too much weight to the importance of a love-partner. You need to get into a relaxed state about all this. Sort of “It’ll be great if they show up but life can still be brilliant without them.” Make the partner unnecessary to your wellbeing and you’ll find that they appear from nowhere when you are least expecting. It’s a lovely card with a beautiful energy about it, and that’s what you want your life to be. To get so contented, yet adventurous, that romantic love, when it comes, is the cherry on your delicious cake.

      The base card is the Six of Cups, which relates very much to Temperance. They have the same vibe. It shows a man sitting with his old yellow Labrador, thinking about when they were both young pups. While he is a little wistful that doggo’s best days are behind him, he is bathed in sweet memories.

      The Six of Cups tells you to be love. To understand your essence is pure love. And when you really, really know this, you can’t help but attract more love.

      I get the feeling if you take this advice onboard, love will turn up sooner rather than later.

      Good luck, Azzie x

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      1. Azzie

        Thank you so much! 😃 this put a smile on my face when I read it cause I know this is spot on and even though it doesn’t say I’ll meet my Prince Charming tomorrow, it’s what I needed to hear and it so positive. This message has made me fill lighter somehow. Thank you again, I’m grateful for the time you give to do this. I really appreciate it. Xx

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        1. Troi Post author

          I’m glad, Azzie. It’s always good to tend to our own vibration (mood, behaviour, feelings, etc.) first. By doing that, good things will come.

          And I appreciate you for asking. x

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  38. Anonymous

    Hello,

    I want to know if the person I was dating and I are
    Going to get back together? And if so is it the right choice?

    My birthday March 1
    His birthday April 29

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Anonymous,

      I’m using The Muse Tarot by Chris-Anne and your card is the Seven of Emotions (Cups). A woman is pictured staring pensively at a tank of seven goldfish.

      This card indicates that the opportunity to reconcile may be presented to you. However, you have reservations and will be undecided. While you cannot make up your mind, you should not do anything. It’s very likely the passing of a little time will enable you to see more clearly what you want and what you don’t want. There may even be someone else in the picture who you are interested in. I can’t tell you whether you will make the right choice or not. Only you will know that.

      Good luck.

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  39. Ceci

    Hello Troi,

    I am reaching back to you to ask about my relationship. It has been a long time but the feelings remain.

    His DOB November 25
    My DOB October 24

    Thank you again!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Ceci,

      It has been a while 🙂

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is 20 Judgement. A woman stands, eyes closed, arms held out and up. From her body rises a spiritual version of her inner self. It’s a beautiful image.

      As soon as I saw it, it made me think that you are hampered by your thoughts about your ex. Your inner self craves freedom and release. It’s time to let those thoughts go and accept that it is over. Just imagine how much time and energy you have devoted to this non-relationship over the past couple of years. That’s energy that could be chanelled into other, more rewarding adventures.

      Judgement is a calling. A message from your deeper consciousness to awaken and see the situation from a clearer standpoint.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is Strength. Another Major Arcana card that speaks from your inner being. Take this strength and move forward from this deadweight of emotion which is holding you hostage. It will take courage and conviction, but you can do it.

      All the best, hope it improves for you. xx

      Edit: a couple of hours after doing this reading, Ceci, I happened upon this quote, “Life takes away what you don’t need”. Just thought I’d share.

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      1. Ceci

        Thank you Troi! Your reading is really accurate, it is very hard to let go. I really appreciate the quote you added. It maybe time to let it go. Thank you!

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  40. Anonymous

    Hi Troi,

    My question is did my partner cheat on me?
    He has said nothing has happened between himself and his colleague after a night out alone for drinks but I can’t shake the feeling he isn’t being completely honest. I guess I just want to know if it is right for me to try and move on or to try and salvage our relationship.

    DOB: 25th August.
    His DOB: 22nd October (edited)

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Anonymous,

      I’m not going to tell you if your partner cheated or not because to make a life-changing decision on the turn of a tarot card would be… well, not a good idea.

      The underlying problem you have is a lack of trust, which is understandable, given the circumstances. So I am going to address your last sentence in a general way. Whether you stay with him or not must be your decision.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Nine of Swords. A woman in a red dress is kneeling on grass. A pillow by her side. It’s night and the stars are out. Above her eight black crows and one ghostly white one are pecking each other. She’s not going to get any rest with all the disturbance above.

      The crows represent her thoughts. She just can’t stop thinking about her problems or her situation. I expect that’s exactly what you are going through right now. It might seem impossible but if you can just take a step back, put a little distance between yourself and your relationship for a couple of days, you may be able to see a way forward.

      The Nine of Swords shows that you can’t think for overthinking. There’s confusion heaped on confusion. Yet, there is a way through, if you can settle your mind and allow clarity in.

      You need to know that nines in tarot mean a life phase is coming to a close.

      And if you read those words and felt relief, you know which way to go.

      If you felt overwhelming grief, then perhaps look for a different solution. It would mean putting the relationship on a new footing. An agreement to be made. A commitment from both parties. You’d need to work on rebuilding the trust between you.

      The answer to your dilemma is always within. You can pose questions and make your decisions based on your reactions. Does the idea of ending it represent misery or freedom? Whichever is closest to your emotional reaction is the answer.

      Good luck.

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      1. Anonymous

        Thank you for that Troi, I truly appreciate it. What you described is completely right I do feel that way. Unfortunately I’m not feeling anything right now towards my relationship as I am going through a somewhat of a numb phase. I believe what broke our trust the most is him trying to hide this from me and their text messages and then denying it even when there was proof. So that’s probably why I can’t shake the feeling that I haven’t been told the whole story and that more occurred or would’ve occurred if I didn’t find out. Once again I thank you for taking time out for this tarot reading.

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  41. Pinkness

    Hi Troi, I absolutely love your work.
    My birthday is January 1, and my question is simple: Does he still love me?

    I will check back for your answer. Thank you so much.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Pinkness, thank you for your kind words.

      As to your question, well I can’t answer it directly because it would a ‘third party reading’. In other words you are asking me to attempt to delve into another person’s feelings. And I have no connection with him.

      So we need to find some other way of getting the answer. It has to be about you, not your partner. I suggest I put the focus back on you by asking, “Am I loved?” Or “What love energy surrounds me right now?” I’ll draw a card with both those in mind. You will then have to connect the answer to your romantic situation.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the King of Pentacles. The king sits casually in a warm red room that looks like a library. He’s smiling as he contemplates the golden pentacle he’s balancing on his knee. A beautiful wolf-like dog sits one the floor beside him. The king has long grey hair and a beard, to remind us that the earth cards are connected to winter. His clothes are comfortable green sweater and jeans.

      The first thing I thought of when I saw this card is that your relationship has morphed into a long-term, habitual one. As most relationships do over time. It’s like putting on comfortable clothes. There’s no longer a need to impress. The same goes for feelings and expressions of love. There’s an element of taking it for granted, but I think that’s perfectly normal. The love and devotion is shown by the loyal dog at the king’s side. That dog isn’t going anywhere. Not out of choice, anyway.

      However, the card at the base of the deck shows an underlying issue. This base card often shows some hidden motivation or reason for the question.

      It’s the Seven of Swords. It’s illustrated by a figure scurrying over a snow-covered rise with a dagger in his/her hand. Three crows have been disturbed and look as if they are squawking an alarm. It seems there may be some unbalance or suspicion in the relationship. Or that one of you has a secret or activity hidden from the other. They could be restricted to thoughts because swords represent the intellect. You will know whether this observation is valid or not. If you are the one with the suspicion, then you need to bring it into the open and deal with it. Otherwise it will erode your trust in your partner. If it is he with the problem, again, talk to each other and bring it into the light.

      These two cards tell you that while all appears well on the surface, you need to be open with each other and address any problems that you are both avoiding. I hope that helps.

      Good luck.

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  42. Anonymous

    Greetings Troi,
    I hope you’re well. I did something stupid and the man I’m dating has taken a step back for now. We are still in contact. It’s hard because I clearly messed this up when everything was going so great. I have apologized but he’s not ready to work on this for now. I would like to know if there’s a possibility of a reconciliation for a romantic relationship?
    His DOB 26th April
    My DOB 10th October
    Thank you
    Fleur ❤️

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur, sorry to hear there’s a rift between you.

      I’m using the Good Tarot and your card is Five of Earth (Pentacles). It’s quite difficult to make out the image in this card. There’s the figure of a young person meshed with some creature or other, possibly a horse. They are mostly hidden by a green-gold mist.

      The Five of Earth generally means that you feel pushed out into the cold. Or put to one side. It always represents a challenge, usually connected to your environment. However, it’s often forgotten that the Earth/Pentacle cards are connected to the practical aspects of relationships. The best solution in this case is to simply wait. Usually some form of help or rescue will come forth. It will help if you don’t over-focus on the situation but hold onto the idea that all will be well.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Fire (Wands). I get the feeling that there is/was another person involved. It’s good that you are still in contact with each other because often that is all it needs to gradually re-establish normal service. You may find the situation changes quickly and your relationship is rekindled. Just have patience for now.

      Good luck.

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      1. Fleur

        When I read the first part of “a young girl”, it struck me that the girl he’s involved with is 24 and he’s just turned 50 in April and the green mist reminds me of something as well. She has a certain addiction to cocaine by her own words the night I met her a month ago. 😳

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  43. Gatherer

    Hi,

    There is a girl I had been talking with for two months. I’m supposed to visit her later this year. This might sound stupid, and I might look like really gullible but:

    My bday is on August 26th, December 22th hers. She says that a suitor she has, visited on Night May 21th. A friend and potential date. (I don’t have really a compromise with her yet) she says that it was very late and he could not return home and so slept in her same bed, but they did not have sex.

    I want to ask: Is this story true at all? if so, did tjey have sex?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Gatherer,

      I cannot answer your question. It would be a ‘third party reading’. In other words it is about two people that I do not have a connection with. As well as being somewhat unethical, it would probably be inaccurate.

      You have to make a decision whether or not to take the acquaintance further towards a relationship. She didn’t have to tell you that she even met with this other person, let alone disclose their sleeping arrangements. She could have not mentioned it at all and you wouldn’t have known anything about it, so give her some credit for being open with you.

      Take a step back and review the current status of your friendship: You’ve only been chatting for two months. You’ve never met in person. You aren’t committed to each other. Then, in the light of these facts, decide if you still want to see her or not.

      Good luck.

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      1. Gatherer

        Thank you, if I say that there was something to an extent but that I had finished it before, like online intimacy. Do you think I sitll give her benefit of doubt?

        May I ask you another question then?

        My birthday is on August 26th.

        Is it a good idea to travel in August/September to Munich and meet her?

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hello Gatherer,

          I’ll draw a card to see what the potential energy and atmosphere is around your meeting. I’m using the Good Tarot and your card is the Two of Pentacles (Two of Earth in this deck).

          A woman is holding a gold disc in each hand. Her left is held higher than the right. The image is dominated by a gold mist, which almost obscures the woman.

          This is a card of balance. It’s usually reflects a positive influence. However, it also means choices and the likelihood that you will be offered two paths. I would assume that they are either go or not go to meet her. I can see you are confused over this but it has to be your decision. This meeting or non-meeting could change your life, so think carefully. If you go, it may be the best thing ever. If you go and it doesn’t work out, then all you have lost is some time. If you don’t go, you will never know what might have been.

          The card at the bottom of the deck is the Ten of Wands. This may indicate that the connection burns itself out before you even have to make that decision.

          My advice: wait and see what happens over the next couple of months.

          Good luck.

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      2. Fleur

        Thank you so much for your valuable guidance. I did indeed find out he’s dating someone right now. I’m just glad I found out early on that he’s fickle. I feel so protected by the universe.
        Love and blessings to you and yours
        ❤❤

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        1. Troi Post author

          Ah, so that’s how the Eight of Wands relates? ‘The arrows of love’, and things happening fast. He didn’t waste any time then. Better off without someone like that, Fleur. Take care xx

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  44. Liz

    Hi Troi. My birthday is April 30th. I am very interested in a guy. I texted him to ask him to hang out but he never replied. Will I get a response? Thanks

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Liz, I would suggest that this is a question that will be answered by the passing of time. Having a yes or a no isn’t going to help you much. Instead, I will draw a card to see what romantic/love energy is around you right now.

      I’m using the Crow Tarot and your card is the Nine of Swords. The image shows a crow waking from a series of nightmares. This card indicates that your priorities are not with romance but with other issues that are causing worry, fear, and anxiety. You may feel that your well-being is under the control of others. You need to know that this is not the case. You have the power to move yourself forward. You need no one else to make you feel better.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Sun. This base card often gives a little more insight into the situation. The Sun indicates that life will improve dramatically for you over the coming months. Take advantage and build on your achievements, however small they appear. All aspects of your life, including relationships, will be better than they are now.

      Good luck.

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      1. Liz

        Thanks so much! Indeed there is something else going on in my life that demands more attention. Thanks again!

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  45. Vassia

    Dear Troi, what an amazing site you have….
    I need your guidance. My boyfriend (Gemini) is in close contact with his ex (Virgo). He sais they are just friends, that she is a person he really loves and appreciates and does not want to lose contact. We have had many fights about her, my intuition tells me something is wrong. Due to fighting he never calls her when I am present, he always hides his communication with her, but I always find out…. I really want to believe him however, I feel something is wrong. She is a married woman now but I guess she enjoys her ex calling her 5 times a week to catch up… Is he lying to me about her being friends?

    We have just broke up due to a fight for this situation… I need to know if my intuition is right, and move on with my life. Excuse my English, as I am contacting you from Europe. Thank you for your time.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Vassia,

      A complicated situation indeed.

      I’m using the Crow Tarot and your card is the King of Cups. The king (a crow) perches on his throne in front of a body of water. He seems distracted as his gaze is fixated on something to his left.

      The King of Cups is usually emotionally mature and confident in his ability to weather emotional turmoil. Sometimes, though, he tries to please all sides in a situation and ends up pleasing none.

      My feeling is that it really matters not whether there is something between your boyfriend and his ex. The problem is that there is no trust between you and that can’t be fixed by a reassurance that their communication is innocent. The fact that he has to hide the occasions when he contacts her and the fact that you are determined to track down when it happens tells me that any love present is stretched thin by suspicion.

      Like the crow in the image, your boyfriend is distracted by his ex. Ask yourself who he would run to first in a crisis. Her or you?

      I really don’t think there’s any point in issuing an ultimatum. That would just make her appear even more attractive to him.

      I would, personally, explain calmly that you are unable to maintain a three-way relationship. That it’s not what you expected, and you don’t intend to put up with it any longer. Wish him all the best and walk away.

      The Star at the base of the deck indicates that you will experience a surge of confidence, a wave of love, and the knowing that you are destined for better things.

      Good luck.

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      1. Barbara

        My birthday September 19th
        My question
        I want to know what I am and how am I supposed to activate what I’m supposed to do

        I hope that the questions okay I don’t know how much detail you wanted in the question and honestly I’m not exactly sure how to answer or ask the question thank you very much and I really hope you have an answer for me because I’ve been looking for a while now and God only sends me places that he needs me to go to to find answers and this was pure accident on finding you on this site have a great day

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hello Barbara,

          I’m going to start by explaining that your question is a very big and complicated one for a single card to answer. It really isn’t possible to delve in that deeply so please forgive me. However, I do know the answer without even drawing a card.

          What you are and what we all are is love. Pure love energy. We are all part of source or God or whatever you want to call it. And you don’t have to activate anything; you only need to know it. I recommend reading ‘A Course in Miracles Made Easy’ by Alan Cohen. Another is ‘A Course of Love’ by Mari Perron.

          Back to the cards. I’m just going to draw one to see what it says for you. I’m using the Crow Tarot because it’s the only deck I have to hand at the moment.

          Your card is the Star. A crow stands on the edge of a pool. A large star hovers above and seven more stars surround it. There is another small bird on a branch, looking like it is singing its heart out.

          The Star is the perfect card to show up here. I couldn’t have asked for a better one. It is the embodiment of love, not the messy romantic kind, but the pure heart-filling kind. It’s that feeling when you know that you don’t have to be or do anything in order to fulfil your purpose.

          The card at the base of the deck is the Devil. A bit of a contrast. It indicates that you may have some strong attachment to something that is not good for you. Could be anything: a relationship, an addiction, an obsession. You know if it applies or not. It is an anchor holding you down and preventing you from living the magical life you should be living. You may need to make a choice or to ask for help.

          Hope this has helped in some way, Barbara. Best wishes.

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  46. Azzie

    Dear Troi,
    I’ve had some major changes in my life within the last 12 months, mostly positive luckily. I now think I’m going to be going through some tough financial struggles for the next few years. What can I do to help all the things in my life balance out.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Azzie, I think a lot of people are facing financial difficulties the way things are going. You have my sympathies.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Page of Wands. A young woman wearing a red cape and holding a huge magnifying glass (representing the wand) to her face, stands in a jungle setting. A toucan gazes at her. The girl looks like a Victorian explorer.

      This is a great card and tells you not to hunker down in order to save money, but to keep your options open at all times. Look for creative ways to make money. Look for alternative income streams. There are always more opportunities available to you than first appears. At the same time (picturing in my head the equivalent Robin Wood card), don’t leap in, take care, do your due diligence and don’t be taken in by scammers. Use that magnifying glass to examine anything that seems too good to be true.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Wands, another positive card, which tells you to use your past positive experiences and successes in the best way you can.

      So, look to bring money in, rather than prevent it flowing out. Make it your goal to bring in every day more than you spend. My personal tip: consider writing sites such as Medium. I’m sure you have knowledge and life experience you can share.

      Good luck and good fortune.

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      1. Anonymous

        Thank you so much Troi, I’ve just realised that I didn’t leave my DOB but fortunately, you were able to do the reading without it. I’ve been thinking a lot about alternative ways of making money and like you said I know there will be a lot of people going through the same struggles. Finding a better paying job is something that will be on top of the agenda but like you said, finding additional sources is a great option. I’ve never even considered writing sites so thank you for that idea. I will look into it and let you know how it goes.

        Thanks again

        Azzie xx

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  47. Fleur

    Greetings Troii,
    I hope you are well.. Things have changed greatly since I last wrote in terms of career and personal for the better. I met someone recently who said he wants a relationship. We get on really well. I would like to know if there’s a potential for a happy, committed relationship.
    His DOB: 26th April
    My DOB: 10th October
    Love and blessings 💖
    Fleur

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur,

      Glad to hear you have met someone. I haven’t got access to my compatibility charts right now, so we’ll have to make do with a card only.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Seven of Wands. A man, holding a decorated staff, stands with his back to an open door while six unseen adversaries point their own staves at him.

      I think the plain-to-see message from this card is that you need to make sure you leave a door open ‘just in case.’ You may discover that there are irreconcilable differences of opinion.

      However, the card at the base of the deck is the Three of Pentacles, which shows a man working in his forge. This card tells you that you could both craft a rewarding relationship by putting in the necessary work. Being a Pentacle card, this refers to work in a practical, not necessarily in a romantic sense.

      And, of course, there is always the potential of it being a happy committed relationship–as long as you don’t look to him to compensate for things you perceive to be missing in yourself (and vice-versa). If you know that you don’t *need* someone, that you are whole and complete by yourself, then the chances of mutual love are so much higher.

      Hope it works out for you xx

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      1. Fleur

        Thank you so much Troi.. this reading makes a lot of sense. I’ve told him that I want us to be friends first and see how things are. I’ve been working on healing past traumas and somehow suddenly I’m meeting so many people who are also on the same path. In fact tomorrow I’m meeting him for some chakra healing meditation. Your reading is on point as usual. I do like him but I’m not even sure if it’s as a friend or potential partner.
        Love and blessings
        Fleur
        💖💖💗

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Ashley, I’m not going to address the first part of your question because the potential for me to damage your relationship, and thus your life, is too high. You must not ever make a decision on the basis of some stranger drawing a tarot card. This is something you need to talk about with your partner.

      However, I will instead, draw a card to see what influences are surrounding you and whether there is something you can use to move forward–whatever happens.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments and your card is the Ten of Pentacles. An elderly gentleman, dressed in Victorian clothing, sits upon a large tree trunk. He stares into the distance as though lost in memory. The tree has been cut right through to expose its rings. Etched into the cut side is a shadowy image of a large house with some male and female figures silhouetted in front of it. There’s also a small dog. The man and the tree are surrounded by large exotic flowers.

      The Ten of Pentacles advises you to lean upon the resources offered by family and friends. Tens generally mean that something has reached a conclusion or culmination. At this time you will do well to draw on all the practical support that is available to you.

      This is certainly not a negative card and it’s not connected to any kind of cheating (just to reassure you). Yet if you suspect your partner is unfaithful, then it seems as though you are already on rocky ground, so perhaps it’s time to reassess where you are right now? Turn to your family and support network.

      The base card, which I often look at for further insight is Judgment. Judgment is a Major Arcana card and tells you that you will know what to do when the time is right. You will gain a knowing, or a feeling that you must trust to guide you forward.

      Good luck.

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  49. Fleur

    Dear Troi,
    How are you? I hope you and yours are doing great and safe. I’ve been struggling with my meditations since the last 1 month because of some heavy life changing transits astrologically becauseI can’t focus like how I used to. I am filled with anxiety and fear and my mind is so busy with old traumas resurfacing. I’m working towards letting go and healing but everything seems so overwhelming with the pain of last year’s heartbreak mix with old wounds and financia/workl instability. I wonder if I’m on the right path. I would really appreciate some guidance from the universe.
    My DOB 10th October
    Love and blessings 💖🙏🙏
    Fleur

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur,

      I’m sorry to hear you are struggling. Right now it seems to me that drawing tarot cards may not be a great idea. I think you need to get some professional counseling to help you deal with the fear and anxiety. Tarot can be helpful in providing guidance but if I suggest you base your actions on the turn of a card, I would be acting unprofessionally. Please talk to someone who can help you deal with these challenges.

      All the best, Troi xxx

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  50. Mishavonna

    Hi there Troi!
    My name is Mishavonna and I have a question about my ex. We officially broke up in June of last year, but we continued to see each other and were still… well… intimate… if you know what I mean lol. Recently it’s been eating me up, because I know he’s talking to at least one other woman, an ex of his, and I had to put my foot down and tell him either he commits to me or I’m out. Well he told me he was “romantically dead” so I think that says it all. I still love him SO much and for some reason I just can’t seem to let him go.
    So my question is, is there a chance we’ll get back together? 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Mishavonna,

      I’ve edited your message for brevity, but I have the additional info at hand, so don’t worry that I’m not taking it into consideration. Please understand that a short reading such as this is unable to address the question in very much depth.

      I’m using the Tarot of Mystical Moments by Catrin Welz-Stein, and your card is the Seven of Pentacles. A woman sits in a tree holding a cut apple, displaying seven seeds. On the tree are other, as yet, unharvested apples.

      The Seven of Pentacles is the ‘grass is greener on the other side of the fence’ card. Meaning that your ex is more desirable now he is not with you. This is really common and easily mistaken for love.

      I cannot say whether you will get back together but my advice is to remind you that all those problems you told me about, will still be there even if you did reconcile. In particular, the fact that your love is not mutual–his only motivation appears to be sex.

      Pentacles are the pragmatic and practical suit. This card urges you to view the situation dispassionately. Think about what you would say to a friend in this situation. There’s no doubt you would see her ex-lover for what he is, that is someone who is able to treat her quite badly whilst indulging his desires with other women.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Wands, which indicates there may well be a new passion coming into your life this year. So, hold fast, look forward, not back, and have a brilliant 2022. xx

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  51. Stefanie

    Hello Dear Troi,

    I’m happy to tell you I’ve met someone and we’ve been seeing each other for the past few weeks. We’re taking it slow but it is going very well. I am curious about our long-term compatibility and any insight your cards provide would be most appreciated.
    Him: February 12
    Me: May 6
    I hope you are feeling well and the new year brings you many blessings. Much love.

    Stefanie

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stefanie 🙂

      This looks like a potentially successful combination. You can create a deep bond as time passes. There are some niggles to look out for and they are usually connected with minor conflicts. You need to do your best to be patient. Aries must have change and variety in life; they are not content with routine, so adaptation to his unpredictability is necessary. The good news is that if you can both see small disagreements as learning opportunities, overlook imperfections, and not take things personally, you should do fine. It’ll be fun.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Five of Swords. A young man stands with his head dipped. A crow perches on his right shoulder and four more are in the air beyond. In the distance another figure stands, hands raised in victory.

      I think this card is nothing to do with your new relationship and is connected to another area of life. The Five of Swords indicates a challenge or a set of circumstances you need to walk away from. Whatever it is, you are unlikely to win–not at this time. You must accept defeat, and regroup your resources before facing the issue at a later date when you will succeed. The issue could be connected to work or a family situation. Hold your head up and bide your time.

      The base card is the Page of Pentacles. This card tells you that you are in a learning phase in several life aspects–could be the new relationship, could be linked to the situation described above. It’s a positive card that shows you are on the right path.

      Happy New Year!

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      1. Stefanie

        Thank you so much for the reading! Sadly, it was quite accurate and was in regards to the relationship. He told me he “can’t commit” and isn’t sure he’s “capable of falling in love”. I briefly agreed to compromise what I want and need but realized I was repeating an old habit/pattern of accepting crumbs. I’m not willing to do that anymore so I ended it yesterday. I would rather be alone than accept less than what I deserve. I’m sad but feel good about how I’m treating myself this time. Thank you for all of the wisdom, kindness, and support you have given me over the years.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Oh, Stefanie, I’m sorry. So that card was accurate then. But the good thing is that you saw it clearly before slipping into the old pattern. So you have every reason to be proud of yourself.

          There seems to be an epidemic of ‘standing-off’ lately. People are terrified of being part of a loving relationship.

          Stay strong. xxx

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  52. Arty

    Hello, thank you very much for your posts and explanations. I am trying to learn tarot myself. Could you please tell me what you see about my love life and when you see me having a loving romantic relationship? Thank you so much
    Arty
    Dob 11 August 1972

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Arty, good to know you are immersing yourself in tarot–it can be addictive mind, especially if you get into the deck collecting habit!

      I will draw a card to see what energy relating to love and romance is around you. I’m afraid I can’t do timings, I’m useless at it. Sometimes I go with suits = seasons, which would be Pentacles – winter, Swords – spring, Wands – summer, and Cups – fall/autumn. So let’s see what shows up.

      I’m using the Vice Versa Tarot which has images on both sides of the cards.

      Your card is the Eight of Pentacles (right way round). It’s very similar to the Rider-Waite version with a youngish man hard at work, crafting his golden pentacles. The completed ones are held in the trunk of a tree, which seems to be part of the building.

      I love this card, it’s the artisan card. And, although it shows someone working alone, I also think it can show collaboration.

      Pentacles are not generally thought to have much to do with love and relationships, but I disagree. I think they clearly represent the practical aspect of relationships. The everyday situations and issues. The Eight indicates you have a pragmatic outlook, and understand that by crafting your own attitude, you will attract the love that fits with your circumstances. In other words, you know that preparation is half the battle.

      For example, if you want love, you have to make space in your life for it. If you are wrapped up in work or other projects, it’s difficult to notice the signs that love is right there standing in front of you.

      Additionally, this card shows that, once you do meet a like-minded, loving person, you will be happy to gently craft the relationship to the benefit of both partners.

      The back of the card shows the same man, working at his task, but there is a young boy standing watching him intently. Learning by looking. Possibly making suggestions or content to stand in silence. We can see the landscape through the open door and it is a beautiful sunny day.

      One thing that occurs to me is that either friendship or love will be linked to a working environment. And Pentacles, so it could be soon 🙂

      Good luck.

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  53. Cyndy

    Hello Troi,
    How are you? I hope you and yours are well and thriving. I would really appreciate some guidance. I’m so confused right now. I don’t know if it’s the Mercury retrograde energy and i don’t want to get my hopes up but my ex has been acting conflicted with everything that went down between us. He apologised and kept saying he was a fool for hurting me. Is there reconciliation in the horizon for us?
    His DOB 29th August
    My DOB 10th October
    Thank you in advance
    Flori ❤

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flori,

      All good here, thank you for asking.

      I’m using the Good Tarot by Colette Baron-Reid and your card is the Four of Fire (Wands). It shows an angel playing a flute while sitting on a rock. Four lit lanterns are suspended above. The whole card has a golden glow.

      I believe this card has turned up for you previously. It indicates a period of friendship and harmony ahead, so may indicate a reconnection between you and your ex. It might not be a full-on reconciliation because I don’t want to get your hopes up either. It’s a very positive card though.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Chariot, which tells you that you can drive this forward if you want to. When the opportunity arises, just straight out ask him if he’d like to go out for a drink/coffee/whatever. You don’t have to act like it’s a full-on getting-back-together, but merely that you are offering the hand of friendship.

      I wish you luck, Flori and hope he appreciates you. xx

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      1. Florida

        Thank you so much for the reading Troi. I really appreciate it. I will leave the reconciliation up to the universe for now. It’s my birthday today so I have been doing a lot of introspection these last few days and I had an epiphany. I have decided to continue working on myself instead. Love shouldn’t be this hard or cause so much pain. I absolutely agree with the reading. I’m letting go and i choose friendship instead of a love relationship. After a month of moping around with depression i started my spiritual journey 2 months ago because of the pain I was going through. He and I are both on very different vibration and I have come to reaise that I don’t need him or anyone to complete me. I am enough. May the Divine bless you and protect you and yours.
        Love always ❤
        Flori

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        1. Troi Post author

          Happy birthday, Flori! It’s absolutely true, you are enough… and when you live this truth, you are invincible 😀

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  54. Carla

    Greetings my friend:)

    I need insight/clarity on the outcome of a romantic relationship. Thank you in advance
    Troi 🙌

    My birthday March 14
    His is June 27

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Carla,

      Good to hear from you 🙂

      Your birthday combination suggests that a relationship as a learning experience is important to both of you. It’s like an arena for experimentation; there would be challenges to negotiate, emotions to explore, and many discussions to be had. As long as you could keep that edge, it could last. It needs to be absorbing and interesting or one or both of you will get bored.

      I’m using an old but loved deck, Songs For the Journey Home. It’s round and comes from New Zealand. The original images were created with coloured pencils and are really pretty.

      Your card is the Tower. A huge sea monster is wrapped around a lighthouse, from which tumbles a human figure. The person is momentarily caught in the beam of bright light shining from the top of the tower. A storm rages all around.

      I’m not sure if this is related to your question or not. It suggests an upcoming event that will create massive change. You get to decide whether to use it as a springboard of opportunity or let it overwhelm you like a sea monster. However it works out, you will have greater clarity about what you want once it has passed.

      If it is connected to your romance, then it certainly doesn’t mean the end, but could indicate a radical shift in how it proceeds. For example, it might be a disagreement, a temporary split, a shocking revelation, or some other thing that means you have to negotiate around or through. Afterwards, you will need to agree on the new basis of the relationship.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ninth Flame Song (Nine of Wands), which means you may need to take some time to gather your thoughts and emotions before moving forward.

      Hope it all works out well, Carla. Good luck x

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  55. Angel

    Good afternoon Troi

    Hope all is well

    Just wanted to know if things will improve in my relationship..

    My DOB: 5th August
    His DOB: 15th May

    Thank you

    Angel

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Angel,

      I am happy you are in a relationship. I did a reading for you a long time ago – so that Ace of Cups did mean that romance was on its way!

      It sounds now as if it’s not going as well as you’d like. I’m going to use the Good Tarot by Colette Baron-Reid and your card is 13 Transformation, which is the equivalent of Death in other decks.

      So it appears that your relationship may be reaching a natural end pretty soon. The fact that this card came up for you indicates there is nothing you can do; it has simply run its course. Don’t resist it.

      It’s really important that you understand it didn’t fail, YOU didn’t fail, it’s just the way it is. Also, when something ends, it opens the door for new energy to come rolling in.

      The card at the base of the deck is the gorgeous Page of Fire (Wands). The Page tells you that new explorations and adventures lie ahead. There are opportunities that couldn’t happen if you stayed as you are now. So instead of hanging on to a relationship that is not working, embrace the future because there is better to come.

      I’m sure it will all work out in the best way possible.

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  56. Fleur

    Hello Troii,
    I hope you’re doing well and thriving . Certain things happened in my relationship yesterday I’m devastated. My question is Will we work it out and get back together stronger than before?
    His DOB 29th August
    My DOB 10th October
    Blessings and love
    Fleur

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Fleur,

      Sorry to hear you are hurting. I noticed in your last reading that the Death card indicated there was a possible ending/new beginning. I’ll draw a card for you, but you need to understand that future choices are in your and your partner’s control. And I can’t tell you for sure what is in his future because my connection is with you, not him.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot again. I just love this deck. Your card is the Queen of Wands. It shows a woman, laughing with joy as she catches a ray of golden light in her right hand. In her left she holds carved wand or staff above her head. In front of her crossed legs is a cat who gazes directly at the viewer. They are surrounded by an array of candles.

      This is a happy and positive card, although it is a personality card, rather than an event card. The energy is good and you can take the message that you should have the confidence to ask for what you want; to clearly state what would work for you. Perhaps there are compromises to be made, or a new basis for the relationship to be negotiated?

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Sun. Another really positive card which tells you that all aspects of your life are improving. However this works out it is for your good. Keep telling yourself that… the direction you are moving in is the perfect one for you at this point.

      Give it a few days to see whether your situation improves with regard to your relationship. However, if it doesn’t, you must move on and embrace the future because it is going to be better than you ever expected.

      Hugs xx

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      1. Anonymous

        Dear Troi, i can’t thank you enough for this positive reading. There were some things that was hidden that came to light. I’m truly looking forward to brighter and happier days.
        Blessings to you and your loved ones
        💖💖

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  57. Anonymous

    Hello my dear Troi,

    I think of you often and send you and your family warm thoughts and good wishes.

    I’ve met someone and am curious as to our compatibility. His DOB is September 25th, mine is May 6th.

    Thank you dearly for your time and care.

    Stefanie

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Stefanie!

      Thank you for your kind words. I hope all is well with you.

      This is quite an interesting combination. Could be a lot of fun: plenty of interaction. Exciting, intense, and passionate. However, not particularly long-lasting as dissatisfactions come to the surface. Let’s see what the cards say.

      I’m using the Lightseer’s Tarot and your card is The Lovers. Aw. It shows two people, smooching. It indicates that there’s definitely a connection between you and you should let go and trust your inner guidance to know what’s best. At some point, you will probably reach a point where you have to decide whether to take it forward or not. The Lovers may mean that there will be a divergence, but don’t let that put you off. Wring as much goodness and fun out of this as you can.

      The Ace of Pentacles at the base of the deck indicates some kind of gift, change in your working life, or the down-to-earth nature of this new friendship. There’s nothing wrong with a bit of earthy passion 😀 This ace also represents new and firm foundations, so you never know.

      I realise this is a little contradictory, but just be in the moment and see what happens.

      Bxxxx

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  58. Es

    Hi Troi,

    I found your website through my friend Lucie’s advice and here’s my question (I really hope you can help me deal with this situation):
    I’ve been dating a very nice guy these past 6 months (we were not officially in a relationship since I was trying to heal from the previous break-up with my ex). We had a big fight a week ago and I would like to know if there is any future with him and me and if there’s going to be a reconciliation anytime soon.

    My dob is 26th February
    His dob 4th January

    Thanks a lot in advance
    Es

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Es, I’m happy to meet a friend of Lucie 🙂 But I’m sorry to hear of your break up (even if it was unofficial).

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Ten of Swords. A figure lies face-down in a meadow. Ten swords hang above him. In the background a deer watches him, as if concerned.

      Okay, Es, right now the tarot indicates no reconciliation. The Ten of Swords unequivocally says it’s over. However, that means it is over **in its present form** There’s no going back to how it used to be.

      All tens in tarot point to a new beginning, which means the possibility of a fresh start on different terms could well be on the horizon.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Three of Cups, which means celebration, sharing, friendship, etc. This is such a positive card, I am sure it means either you get back together and it’ll be better than before, or a new love is ready to enter your life.

      My advice is to put the ‘healing from a previous break-up’ behind you. It’s done. If you want to renew your relationship with this guy, you need to be prepared to commit to it. And by ‘commit’ I don’t mean you have to pledge yourself forever, but you have to make it clear that the healing has happened and your ex is well in the past.

      Good luck!

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  59. Nicky

    Hi there
    I would really appreciate your insight please
    My dob is 24-august and my partner is
    23- February
    We’ve been together a long time I’d like to know does he actually have genuine feelings for me ? does he love me or is he staying out of duty ?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Nicky,

      Your birth weeks suggest that this is a good combination and usually works better as a loving partnership than in marriage. You are both strongly independent but loyal and committed at the same time.

      I have to temper your question slightly because you are asking me to delve into his feelings and emotions, which I cannot do. However, I will draw a card to see what is around you as a couple right now.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Page of Cups. So even though I said I wouldn’t read his feelings, this card negates that… I would take a guess that this card represents your Pisces and his enthusiasm for life and his youthful point of view. There is nothing in this card which shrieks ‘duty’. The complete opposite, in fact. This card shows someone who has a unique perspective on life; he would not stick around out of duty. The advice given by this card is to rediscover some of those things which drew you together in the first place, to revel in playfulness and silly fun stuff. Put your doubts aside and just have a good time with each other. If you can, go to the beach, or somewhere else where there is water.

      All is well.

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  60. ian

    Hello Troi i hope you are keeping well in the interesting times we find ourselves in..
    Have i lived passed the time i lived in my previous lives. Im 51 and very often feel that it seems strange to have lived so long. I have been a warrior in most of my previous lives and died in battle my own divination tells me.
    Is the draw to cross the viel past live energy related?
    Many Thanks in advance.
    Ian

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Ian, sorry to take so long to get to you.

      I’m not really familiar with past life readings, mainly because I don’t feel comfortable about stating such things as fact. I tend to look at situations in the here and now. After all, that’s the only thing that matters – this present moment. So as I’m not really sure what you are asking I am simply going to draw a card to reflect the influences around you.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the World. A young woman stands within a circle of light. Her expression is one of joy, bliss and happiness.

      The appearance of this card tells you that you are exactly where you need to be in this moment, Ian. There’s no need to be concerned about other lives; they are not important to you in this life. You may feel as though you are in transit between two life cycles, or even caught between two existences, but all you need to do is relax and allow the energy to evolve into the next level.

      Interestingly, the card at the base of the deck is the Wheel, which also shows there are major changes on the horizon. You can choose to be flung where fate throws you (which can be exhilarating), or you can metaphorically move to the centre of the wheel where you can be more of an observer and have the time to make your decisions without pressure.

      Hope it all goes well for you.

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  61. Flori

    Hello Troi.
    I hope you and your loved ones are safe and well. I’m dating this guy for 8 months now and i would like to know if he’s the one and this relationship will go the distance.
    His DOB 29th August
    My DOB 10th October
    Love and light
    Flori

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flori,

      All well here; I hope it’s the same with you.

      Taking a look at your birthday combination and it looks pretty good. It says that you often find each other at exactly the right time. Each enables the other by helping them progress in life generally. It’s as if you are able to be a second layer of perspective for the other. A second pair of eyes, if you like. Libra lls are light-hearted and fun-loving and help lift Virgo l. Virgo ls, on the other hand, are more organised and able to get Libra ll to focus and make better decisions.

      Using the Light Seer’s Tarot, which has become a semi-permanent resident on my coffee table, your card is the Four of Wands. Two women celebrate with abandon in the foreground. In the background stands a large tent with four burning staves at each corner and a garland of colourful bunting.

      The Four of Wands indicates a period of contentment and stability. You have put excellent relationship foundations in place and now you can relax a little. Sometimes this card can signify a wedding or some other more formal commitment, such as setting up home together. This period in your life is a good one and you should revel in it. Wring as much joy and goodness from it as you can.

      However, I need to point out the card at the base of the deck which is Death/Transformation. This card might not be pointing at the future but it may well mean that there will come a time when you decide to move on. You should not worry about it now because, as I say, it might be referring to the past or to another issue you’ve had to deal with. The Death card is also connected to new beginnings; green shoots and all that.

      Good luck, Flori, hope it works out exactly as you wish.

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      1. Flori

        Thank you so much for the reading Troi. You’re a blessing to us all. May the Divine shower you with blessings in every aspect of your life.
        Blessed be.
        Flori

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  62. lily

    hi, Troi. Thanks a lot for doing this one card reading! I recent met a guy whose name is Bryan. I really really like him but not sure if any long-term potential. thanks a lot!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lily, no problem 🙂

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Star. A young woman is kneeling on the ground. She looks upward to a swirling, starry sky. She holds a shimmering cord which appears to float up to a bright star in the heavens.

      The Star means your future is looking good. It suggests you become aware of signs and coincidences which will let you know if Bryan is potential long-term relationship material. I can’t say for sure that he is, but the power to discover if it’s true in within you. This is emphasised by the card at the base of the deck – the Magician. The two cards in conjunction are very powerful and shows that you are able to tap into the energy field of manifestation. In other words, if you want it to be so, it will be.

      They confirm you are on the right path, in the right place for you to expand your life in whichever direction you want – not just in relationships, but in almost any direction. At the same time, you can now throw off any negative energy and walk away from any overly negative people who are holding you back. If you can’t walk away from them, you are able to deal with them by allowing their negativity to bounce right off you.

      All is well.

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  63. Roxana

    Hello Troi i hope you and your beautiful family is doing well

    First of all thank you for your work. I really enjoy your blog and i learned lots of interesting things . I was wondering if you can help me with some clarification … i am trying very hard to get a promotion and i discussed this with my boss . i have big promises for May … Should i trust him that will happen or this is just a false promise as he doesn’t want to loose me ..i am a very good employee 😉 ..
    i am not sure also why i was never promoted in any workplace if i wanted a higher position i moved in another place and always i am in the same situation …
    Thank you so much Troi

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Roxana,

      Thank you for your kind words. Much appreciated.

      I’m using the Light Seer’s Tarot as I am thoroughly addicted to it lately. Your card is the Page of Pentacles. A young woman stands on one leg in a small circle. Her pose is a little like the figure in the Two of Pentacles and also the Hanged Man, only right way up. This makes me think that the outcome will be positive and in your favour, yet there could be some delay. You say May, so I expect that is about right. I would say that the Page of Pentacles is a ‘sincere’ card, so I doubt if your boss is making false promises.

      Meantime, like the Page, demonstrate your interest and curiosity, but don’t over-do it. Learn as much as you can.

      I can’t tell from this card why you had to move jobs to obtain a higher position, however, I would think that you made the right choices at the time.

      Interestingly, the card at the base of the deck is no help at all, but the Knight of Cups does show you might be getting a bouquet of flowers or some other token of love very soon 🙂

      Good luck. Hope it works out exactly as you envision.

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  64. Tina

    Hi Troi
    Hope you are well
    I have a situation a legal one at that. We are seeking compensation from our landlord. We are in commercial retail . Do you feel we will be successful at obtaining this? We also want to get out of the contract because of their wrongdoing

    Thank you
    Tina

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Tina,

      I’m using the LightSeer’s tarot and your card is the Nine of Swords. It shows a woman dressed in red, kneeling with her hands covering her face. Above her a bunch of crows form an ominous cloud. At the edge of the flock there’s another bird, a white/silver one – can’t tell what it is.

      This card indicates that you are extremely worried and doubtful about the situation, which is understandable, of course. However, there is a solution. But you won’t find it until you take your focus off the problem and instead open yourselves to possibilities. The nine shows that an ending is on the way; you have to make sure that it is the ending you want and not one that is foisted upon you.

      Start thinking creatively. Brainstorm all the weird ideas you can come up with. And also, as Swords are the suit of truth and justice, not to mention communication, make sure you get the legal advice you need.

      The card does not reflect the outcome, merely the current process, so have faith that it will fall in your favour.

      Good luck.

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  65. Maureen

    Hello Troi,
    I hope this new year is treating you and your family well.
    There’s some turbulence at my new job. I am in training, it’s difficult, and has brought up a lot of insecurities in myself. I like the job, despite this, but the insecurities coming up I feel are so deep. I want to succeed at my job but when I am at work I feel like I’m 12. I can’t believe I’m feeling this way. Ugh.

    How do I change this energy?

    Thank you, Troi.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Maureen,

      Good to hear from you. I sort of know what you mean, I always felt like a kid at work – in my case I think it’s because I’m short!

      I’m using the The Good Tarot by Collette Baron-Reid. It’s a very positive and encouraging deck. Your card is the Queen of Water (Cups). It’s a beautiful card depicting the Queen in profile with her eyes closed. She seems to be at rest under water. So your word ‘turbulence’ is apt.

      The keywords/phrases given are: compassion, emotional security, generosity, self-love, self-care, and healing.

      I think you may be too hard on yourself. Perhaps expecting too much? As if you thought you would make and immediate impact, but you feel you haven’t, so are piling on the self-blame. This card indicates that you have to make your best effort, but let everything else wash over you. You will be able to increase your authority over time. You need some soothing mantras, such as, ‘Everything is easy for me’, and ‘all in good time’. That doesn’t mean you can let anyone push you around, mind.

      The base card is the Moon. Another watery card and one that is connected to cycles. Again, it tells you that your time will come. Have patience and live by your gut feeling and intuition.

      It’s all going to be fine.

      Bxxx

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  66. Tina

    Hi Troi, I came here to learn more about tarot and I’m really enjoying your site.

    Please could I have a reading?

    Currently separated with my husband due to mental health issues.
    Does the future fit us look positive?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Tina, sorry for the delay.

      I’m using the gorgeous Light Seer’s Tarot and your card is the Seven of Pentacles. We see a young man tending a plant. There are rays of light coming from his hand to the plant. We can see the root system and seven brightly coloured mandala-like circles within the roots.

      When the Seven of Pentacles shows up in a relationship reading, it generally means that one of the partners is experiencing a low-level dissatisfaction. Not necessarily with the other partner, but with life in general. They feel as though time is passing and they are not fulfilling their potential. There’s a sort of restlessness going on.

      It points at an approaching crossroads. The choice is to keep going, nurture and improve what you have, or bail out and move on. I can’t tell you which way you or he will decide to go. That’s a personal decision and the way to work it out is through a lot of honest communication. I will tell you that this card indicates that you have a relationship which is well worth tending and growing.

      The card at the base of the deck is Strength. A woman with a half female, half lioness face holds a lamb. The card shows that you need to draw on the quiet core strength within. Whichever partner needs the support of the other, should be able to get it. There should be compassion, patience, serenity and just enough passion to reignite feelings between you.

      I hope it all goes well and you get things back on track.

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  67. Pen

    Hello Troi,
    My birthday is October 18. Will I have my own home again soon? A family member (July 25) and I are planning to live together, but money is a concern. Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Pen,

      I am using the Good Tarot by Collette Baron-Reid and your card is the Queen of Water (Cups). It doesn’t answer your question at all. The Queen of Cups is a personality card and represents emotional connections, empathy and intuition. As a person she is kind, open-hearted and quietly passionate. I can’t connect her to a house move or money at all. She has a positive outlook and may have appeared to tell you to be like her: hold the idea of positive energy within and pretty soon your outer circumstances will change to reflect your inner state.

      The card at the base of the deck is Patience (Temperance). This card is more helpful and indicates that what you want is highly likely but you have to have patience. It will happen, but circumstances, people, and energy have to move into place. As Temperance, it confirms that there is a good and positive energy around you and your desires.

      Hope it works out for you, Pen. Good luck.

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  68. Flo

    Merry Christmas Troi, i hope you and your loved ones are well and safe. Will there be a reconciliation soon?
    My DOB- 10th Oct 1978
    His DOB – 13th July 1974

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Flo, all well here, thank you for asking.

      I’m using a new deck called ‘The Good Tarot’. It’s really pretty. Your card is the Fool. A young girl stands in an ethereal landscape with the sun behind her. There are fireflies and/or faerie all around her. She’s blowing on a French horn.

      The Fool is the traveler of the tarot and shows that you are at the beginning of a spiritual journey. She doesn’t indicate a reunion at this time because this next stage of your life must be experienced alone. Be guided by the signs and your own intuition. Don’t look too far ahead – there is much to learn and experience in the current moment. You have to ‘let it be’. Be prepared to change direction, to answer the call. Keep your heart and your options open. There’s no point in shutting down your horizons to focus on one person who is not available.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Seven of Water (Cups). A woman sits in the center of some exotic ocean plant beneath the waves. Around her float various sea creatures and she is clearly meant to choose, but she cannot. She has many opportunities but is unable to decide what would make her happy and fulfilled, so she ends up doing nothing. In answer to your question, I’d say, be careful of letting those opportunities slip past you; one of them could lead to happiness and a long term relationship.

      Hope that helps, Flo.

      Happy New year.

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  69. Jemma

    Hello! My birthday is 17 of February. I want to know if the person I am intrested in and I will have a second chance to be together/in relationship. Thank you!!!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Jemma,

      I’ve decided to use the Lenormand today as they are considered more concise when used for predictions than tarot. The deck I’m using is the Mystical Lenormand.

      Your cards are the Coffin and the Child

      The Coffin is shown as an Egyptian sarcophagus, beautifully carved and decorated. This card suggests that something will (or should) come to an end. I would guess that the card’s message to you is to tell you to move on. Set the idea of a reconciliation aside; it is consuming your thoughts and energy.

      The card next to it is the Child. A young girl is swinging in a beautiful garden. There is a small white dog joining in the fun. There are also two pixies watching. The Child represents new beginnings as well as children generally. It means that once you have overcome the idea of getting back together with your ex, you will be able to embrace life with joy and good things will come your way.

      Good luck.

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      1. Jemma

        Thank you a lot for your time and prediction 😢 maybe this is the way it should be. I will have to let go and it it’s meant to be it will be I guess. Thank you again 🤍

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  70. Lori

    Hello Troi. Hoping you can give reading for my question. My birthday is June 10. My question is “will my husband cheat on me?” He has cheated in the past though now we trying to work it out but I’m not interested in doing so if he intends to continue cheating. Thank you so very much for your time and generosity of helping people like me. Sincerely, Lori

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lori,

      I’ve used three cards from the Mystical Lenormand to try and answer your question.

      1. Park
      2. Scythe
      3. House

      The park is a communal space which suggests there are more people involved in the situation you are asking about. It can also mean ‘playing the field’, meeting someone new at an event or gathering, or making a new connection.

      The scythe means that your situation will be resolved quickly. It denotes a swift, unexpected decision or rupture. When read with the previous card, it shows that it could be a public, rather than a private resolution.

      The house suggests that you will move forward in a secure manner. It means security and stability. So it is highly possible that you will feel more secure once you have worked this out, whether it is with him, or without him.

      You have to make your own mind up Lori, but, please… never make a decision on the turn of a few cards.

      Good luck. Hope you get it sorted.

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  71. Amanda

    Hi there! During this awful time for all of us, I’m sure we’ve all had some time to do some thinking. As a Wiccan for the last 10ish years, I have always wanted to learn Tarot. I struggle with millions of things but never really have been able to learn. Can you read my cards yourself and tell me if I am on the right path in life? I am having such a hard time, being a SAHM and teaching my kiddos online because I’m scared to send them to school, which in turn has decreased my ability to do things on my own time. Thanks a million!!

    Amanda
    DOB: February 22

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Amanda,

      As someone who voluntarily took our kid out of school when he was six, and never sent the youngest to school at all, I am a huge proponent of home education. Best thing ever for us. We did it for 10 years until the eldest went to college (he’s now a lecturer himself). The youngest followed him and is in the middle of a music production degree. I never taught them anything much but both were accepted at college at 15 and both skipped years. Our daughter enrolled at Level one (for those with no previous school qualifications) and within two weeks she was moved up to Level 3 with 18/19/20 year olds. She’s 19 now and on the second year of her degree.

      So have confidence and also have the confidence to let them direct their own education. I promise you, they can’t NOT learn. Every day is a new learning opportunity. Let them get on with it while you do your thing.

      The best way, I found, to learn tarot was to do proper readings. I volunteered with the American Tarot Association (even though I am in the UK) and did endless one and three card readings after my son went to bed. I had my book in front of me and described every card in detail (that teaches you so much). Pretty soon I didn’t need the book and I went on to set up the first version of this site.

      I’m using my new deck, the Vice-versa Tarot and your card is the Queen of Swords. The Queen sits on her chunky stone throne. She wears silvery-grey armour and a flowing light blue cloak. Her hair is white and long, although she looks young. She holds her sword upright in her right hand, while the left rests easily on the arm of the throne. There is mist all around. The card has appeared the ‘right’ way round.

      The Queen of Swords is usually a real person who is influential in your life. She is highly intelligent, honest, loyal, and courageous. While she doesn’t answer your question directly, she tells you to be honest about your decisions. She also advises you to be true to yourself – you can’t always live for other people. As a role model, she is very direct, assertive, and doesn’t suffer fools gladly. Her life is sculpted to find the right balance between her various obligations.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Two of Wands. A man stands on castle ramparts looking out. He is dressed very well in red and gold. A gold sphere floats above his right hand. This card has appeared in its reverse view, i.e. we’re looking directly at the man, not from behind him.

      Usually this card means having grand plans in place but not being ready to execute them. However, when it appears this way round, it suggests that you look beyond those plans to a higher, more spiritual outcome. It kind of means that you should move forward with your plans, but only if you really believe in them. In other words act from a position of love, not from a ‘I need (or should) to do this’ perspective. Does that make sense? Can you put these two together and make them meaningful to you? So it’s up to you to make your current path be the right one for you.

      Best of luck, Amanda, both with the home schooling and your tarot reading.

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  72. Maureen

    I smiled from ear to ear when you described the Clover card … and when I found a picture of it, how sweet and fitting! Thank you for your interpretation!

    Your opinion, if you don’t mind – what do you think of taking a job offer during a Mercury retrograde?!

    Thank you kindly, Troi!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maureen,

      Yes, Clover is sweet and so apt. I’ve heard people say that Lenormand is very literal and accurate. I still have to learn how to ‘unlink’ my tarot viewpoint.

      I’m no astrologist, so I can’t help you with your question. I certainly wouldn’t forgo accepting the job offer because of the retrograde. I would consider that it is working in my favour.

      Hope it all works our beautifully.

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  73. Maureen

    Hello Troi!
    I hope the world is treating you and your family kindly!
    I may have a new job opportunity in my field of plant design. The new opportunity pays 10 thousand plus more, and will further my skills. Ive only been w my current employer for 10 months. The last few years have been erratic as far as stability and work goes, so I am hesitant to jump ship again.

    What do I need to know about this opportunity? And if you don’t mind would you please use the Lenirnand cards? I absolutely love them!!

    Thank you, Troi!
    Maureen
    DOB 12 October ‘64

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hey Maureen, glad to know that you are doing well.

      I will use the Lenormand – mine is the Mystical Lenormand. And… I haven’t absorbed this system yet, so I’ll be referring to my book.

      Your two cards are Clover (2) and the Lady (29)

      The Clover card in this deck is depicted as three clover flowers with faces and pink petal hair. At their ‘feet’ are two ladybirds (I know Americans call them ladybugs). It’s a pretty card.

      Clover symbolizes luck and good fortune. It often heralds a positive change in circumstances.

      The second card, the Lady, shows a beautiful, dark-skinned woman in a yellow floral dress, petting a piglet.

      The Lady represents the seeker of the answer, i.e. you.

      The two cards read as a combination: a fortunate woman who has her financial feet on the ground. She is aware that money is good for her because of the practical benefits of living comfortably. She has an eye for a bargain or a good deal. She’s generally kind and good spirited and willing to take a risk.

      When read in the context of work, it means a promotion or new opportunity headed your way.

      My take: Well the opportunity is already in your near future and these two cards tell you to take it. Weigh up all sides though (I’m a cautious Capricorn), don’t make your decision based on the turn of a card or two. Maybe use the reading as confirmation of your instincts?

      Good luck, Maureen. Let me know how it goes.

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  74. Flo

    Greetings Troii,
    How are you? The last reading you did for me came true and i met someone really wonderful in many ways but unfortunately we have fundamental issues. He’s a very religious man and i on my part cannot change my beliefs and be forbidden to eat certain meat and dress a certain way because of someone else’s belief so i made a decision that this is not for me. Somehow my heart is somehow still stuck on my ex and i would really appreciate a reading if there’s a change in the energy and we can get back together.
    His DOB is 13th july
    My DOB is 10th Oct
    Love and blessings
    Flo

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flo,

      Ah… well no good can ever come from a relationship that makes such demands on you.

      I’m going to try something different and draw a pair of Lenormand cards for you. It’s a different system to tarot. The deck is the Mystical Lenormand.

      Your cards are The Cross and The Tree.

      The Cross reflects a heavy energy, often connected to dogmatic religion. That’s quite interesting given what you said about your recent break-up in your message. This energy is practically immovable so applying it to your ex, it doesn’t indicate a reconciliation any time soon. The advice from this card is to not raise your expectations at this present time. Let it go.

      The Tree is a much more positive card, usually connected to spirituality. It also suggests that you are firmly rooted, that your common sense usually prevails. When applied to your question, it says that you may well have a soul connection with your ex. However, the foregoing Cross, weighs heavily and will dominate.

      Combining the two cards gives the message of slight health problem or a crisis of faith. Not much use in relation to the question.

      I think that it’s not a good idea, Flo, to keep hanging onto the hope that you will get back together. Ask yourself if he’s thinking about you as much as you think of him. He’s moved on and you must too.

      Good luck.

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      1. Flo

        Thanks for the reading Troii!! I’ve tried to forget but my emotions runs too deep. We have too many saturn aspects to our inner and outer planets double whammy and i guess that’s why i can’t seem to give it up.
        Love and light
        💖 💕 💖

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Yvonne,

      Before I draw your card, I need to tell you that you were born in the ‘Week of Determination’, therefore you have the drive and ambition to start/rebuild anything you put your mind to. Good to know 🙂

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is The Star. A naked woman kneels at the edge of a stream. She pours water from two glass bowls, one onto the land, the other into the water. Snow-clad mountains rise in the distance, and one large star is surrounded by seven others in the sky.

      This card is a symbol of love and hope. In the context of your question, it means that anything is possible with enough of both. Added to your strong birth sign, Capricorn ll, you have all the inner resources you need. As to pointing at the actual future, this card is always very positive, so in a yes/no question such as yours, the answer is yes. However, of course, you have to take the necessary steps to make it happen.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Moon, which casts a slightly different light (excuse the pun), The base card often offers a little information as to why the question was asked. The Moon indicates doubt and confusion. It advises you to untangle the perceived obstacles and get on with doing what you want to do.

      The fact that both cards are Major Arcana shows that the energy around you is very strong and there are some changes that you won’t be able to control. Try to follow your intuition, but be practical in the process.

      Good luck.

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  76. Jazz

    Hi there,

    I would like to know the likelihood of my ex and I reconciling.

    We had a lovely relationship. There were ups and downs but for the most part we had a deep connection and were always on the same page. There was intense passion and our future plans were identical. We were alike in so many ways except when it came to confrontation. We’d often argue over trivial things and had a very different way of dealing with confrontation which stemmed from neither of us really opening up to the other about what was really bothering us.

    Lockdown hit us hard we went from being in a phase of complete adoration and love for each other to the worst fights we’ve ever had resulting in him ending things after 3 weeks of living together.

    It’s been over a month now and I have learned so much from the experience. It seems as if our relationship has been a chance for us to learn and overcome the same issues (something we’d previously spoken about and had agreed on).

    I can now really see our relationship for what it was and really analyse the good and the bad. I personally still see a way for us to bounce back and be happy and my gut tells me he feels the same but is denying himself that.

    I feel I’m in a good place in the sense of being ok either way but there is still an overwhelming sense that we’re meant to be.

    Any help would be much appreciated.

    My DOB is 14th September his is 12th March.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jazz,

      I took a quick look at your birthday combination. You are direct opposites on the zodiac and it is this polarity which provides the spark for both the passion and the pain. While in it, each is likely to think that the relationship is the absolute best thing in the world, more romantic, more passionate than any other relationship has ever been… until it isn’t. In confrontation, each person is likely to push the boundaries just because they can. Unfortunately, as you’ve both discovered, those boundaries are breakable.

      I’m using The Mystical Tarot and you card is the Three of Cups. Three maidens celebrate their good fortune and abundance while dancing in a circle, each holding up a golden chalice.

      This is a card of celebration, of joy and relaxation. The girls’ night out card. It doesn’t necessarily foretell reconciliation, but it is a very positive card. Threes often indicate the transition of a minor life cycle, a slight veering off the path, a change in circumstances. Normally when this card appears, it means an invitation could be headed your way.

      The card at the base of the deck generally indicates where the seeker is coming from when asking the question. It’s the Star. Definitely a lot of hope, a willingness to do whatever it takes to get things back on track, and a whole lot of love. I wish it had turned up first. Yet, these are two very positive cards.

      I think the best thing for the next few days is to be at ease. Hold the intention that you will reconcile. Try to ‘know it with certainty’. Don’t let doubt creep in. Keep hold of the ‘knowing’. See what happens. Then if there’s been no contact, reach out and suggest a friendly meeting, for coffee (if possible) or something. Keep it light. Don’t bring emotions into it. Take it steady and very, very slowly.

      Good luck, Jazz.

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      1. Jazz

        I have only just read your answer and it has confirmed my feelings these last few weeks. I have very much been hoping and knowing that we will reconcile and have had a huge feeling that he will contact me. I decided at the start of this week that if I did not have that contact by Thursday I would contact him to meet for drinks.

        This has confirms exactly what I was feeling. Thank you so much I feel so positive and this has added to that.

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  77. Stefanie

    Hello dearest Troi!

    Wondering if you might please draw a card for me regarding romantic relationships. Though not my sole focus, I’ve attempted dating multiple times the past 18 months with no success. I am okay being on my own but do at times long for that connection with another. What do your cards say? DOB May 6.

    Thank you kindly.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Stefanie, good to hear from you 🙂

      I’m going to deviate from my normal tarot and am going to try an oracle deck instead. I hope you don’t mind. It’s the Moonology Oracle Cards by Yasmin Bolan and Nyx Rowan.

      Your card is ‘Gibbous Moon’. The tagline on the card is, “You’re very close to achieving your goal”. Sounds promising. Checking the book…

      In essence, it says that you are on the right track, but that small adjustments might need to happen. So that might mean to push your boundaries a little – attend events (if there are any) you might not usually attend. Be bold and adventurous without taking risks. Don’t rule out a friendship, which may provide more of what you need than a romantic encounter. The big problem, of course, is that it is hard to meet people in real life right now. If you are able to go to coffee shops, exhibitions, etc., then do what you can. You might find that ‘eyes meet across the room’ and all that.

      More information seems to connect the Gibbous Moon with the tarot card, the Empress. Growth, increase and, of course, passion.

      I’m going to draw a tarot card anyway. Grabbing the nearest deck, the Universal Waite. Your card is the Eight of Cups. A lone figure walks away from his golden cups (security). You will need to strike out along an unfamiliar path in order to reach your goal. So this one tells you that you will have to step outside of your comfort zone, so kind of supports the message already given. You might need to assert your will in the face of objection from others. In other words, don’t let anyone else dissuade you. They will have to deal with it.

      I don’t know if this helps at all, but have fun with it. You might need to do a bit a creative thinking in the current situation 🙂

      Love T xxxxx

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      1. Stefanie

        Troi,

        Thank you as always for sharing your talents. I’m rather content with my own company most of the time though I’m not opposed to developing a new relationship. I’m not sure exactly what to think of this reading but will keep an open (and creative) mind. It will probably make more sense to me a few weeks or months down the road. I’ve always viewed the 8 of cups as a rather melancholy card so it’s good to hear a different persepective. The Empress sounds good. I’m always open to pleasure in life.

        Much love to you and yours.

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  78. Tavray

    Hi I have a feeling about my wife but I’m not sure and I would love some insight from a professional. Thank you
    Tavray March 10th

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Tavray,

      You need to formulate a question. There will only be one card, perhaps two, in your reading so I need something a little more specific. Have a look through the other questions here to get an idea.

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  79. Kassie

    Hello.
    My lease is up for renewal and I’m in two minds whether to renew longer term or negotiate for a shorter arrangement (which would probably be higher rent)? Ideally I would like to move cities but my work is here for the moment. I am looking for another job but it’s an unhappy world at the moment and it could be tomorrow or a couple of years from now. I just don’t want to be stuck in an expensive lease and have to pay penalties to break it.

    My birthday is 24th October

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Kassie,

      I don’t want to do a reading that tells you which way to go here. It has to be your choice and not one based on the turn of a card. However, I’ll draw a card to see what energies surround the situation, it might help to clarify your thinking on this. Or it might not 😀

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Two of Cups. Not quite what I was expecting. Two witches sit at a table on a beach. In the background the sky is turning pink. They are clinking glasses of wine. Their cats sit on the sand next to them and the black cat offers a fish to the calico. It’s a pretty scene.

      Twos often indicate that there is a choice to be made. In this case it is an emotional one. So while your question is based on logic and a concrete decision to be made, I wonder if there are other factors at work?

      I’m skipping ahead to the base card, which seems more relevant to the situation. It’s the Seven of Pentacles. A witch is checking the grapes in her vineyard. A glass of white wine and a book on a table in front of her. In the background her cat is delicately pawing a golden pentacle hanging from a branch. Six more hang among the vines. The witch is trying to decide whether to harvest the grapes or wait. There is risk in either decision.

      The Seven of Pentacles shows your current dissatisfaction. It’s not anything more than a niggling feeling that you should be moving on with your life. The problem with the lease is the fulcrum upon which your current inability to move forward hangs. It doesn’t matter whether you choose short-term or long-term, the niggling feeling will remain.

      I can’t really give you any advice about this. You could simply decide not to renew the lease at all and look for somewhere else, ultra short-term. You could throw caution to the winds and move to the city of your dreams. You could decide to stay put and make the best of where you are, moving forward in life despite the constraints of a long-term lease and your current job. The Two of Cups tells you to put logic to one side and try to assess how you feel about your options. Which one fires your passion? Go with your gut.

      Hope you manage to resolve your quandary, Kassie.

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  80. Cyndy

    Greeting Troi! I hope you are well and safe in this world crisis. I would really appreciate for guidance. I have tried to move on but some i haven’t really been able to even though I tried my best. I see him vividly in my dreams a lot. Will there be reconciliation soon?
    His DOB 13th july
    My DOB 10th oct
    Hugs Flo

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flo, sorry to be so long getting to your reading. My mother had a fall last week and broke her heel.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Lovers. A (very) naked couple stand with the World Tree behind them. The moon on the woman’s side and the sun on the man’s.

      Now don’t go getting your hopes up about your ex. I think this is more likely to be connected to a new love or perhaps the opportunity to meet ‘someone with potential’. As always with the Lovers card, it can also indicate you making a choice that could impact your life. A sort of fork in the road. There is no right or wrong decision here. Of course, it’s possible (although I’m not feeling it) that your ex might come back on the scene and you will have to make that choice if and when that happens.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Wands, which indicates circumstances changing and events coming together very quickly. You might get the feeling that it is ‘meant to be’. AE Waite referred to this card as the ‘arrows of love’.

      One other thing… this combination can indicate an unplanned pregnancy, so be careful 🙂

      Take care and good luck with everything. Let me know what happens. x

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      1. Anonymous

        Hello Troii, I’m so sorry to hear about your mother and i hope she’s ok. Thanks for the reading. And i do hope that your reading comes true soon. It’s a lonely world with lockdown still in place in my country. And thank the heavens that I’m not sexually active so no chance of getting pregnant 😁 There’s so many possibilities in this reading that I’m not giving up hope that he will come back but the ball is in his court. I’m not taking any action but leaving it to the universe.
        Love
        Flo 💖💖

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  81. Lia

    Hi
    My birthday is october 8
    How do I heal from this infidelity, we have been together for 7 years.
    It feels as though I have stockholm syndrome. I have been mistreated and cannot seem to leave….why?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lia,

      I am sorry you are suffering in this way. I completely understand – been there myself. Let’s see if the cards have any kind of suggestion for you.

      I’m using the Universal Tarot and your card is the Five of Wands. A group of youths are play-fighting with long, heavy staves of wood. It’s competitive and it’s possible that play could get out of hand.

      My feeling is that it’s not only fidelity that is undermining your self-esteem right now. You are worried that your relationship is going in the wrong direction. Fives in tarot always represent a challenge, and the Five of Wands often refers to a physical one. Or perhaps there could be some verbal bullying going on.

      The card at the base of the deck is Justice and represents your need for a re-balance. Your emotional energies are out of whack, and as you say, you have not been treated fairly.

      It took me many attempts to leave my bullying ex. Eventually I managed it but I was with him nine years. I can’t tell you how to leave; it depends on your circumstances, but you are never going to be happy where you are. You have to gather your courage, make your arrangements and just go.

      You take care…

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  82. Katya

    Hi Troi,

    My birthday is September 29. What does my career path have in store for me?

    Thank you so much!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Katya, that’s a big question for one card to answer. Your career will span several decades so I will simply address your very next step.

      I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot and your card is the Eight of Pentacles. A young man is focused on the task before him. He looks relaxed, engaged and wholly absorbed in the process. This is a great card to get in response to any question about jobs and careers.

      It means that all you need to do is focus on the detail of what you are working on right now. Put all thoughts of the future aside while you concentrate on doing the best job you can do. So whether it is research, writing or producing something, just pay attention to it. Be in the now moment and the future will unfold in a delightful way.

      The card at the base of the deck may indicate why you have asked the question. It’s the Four of Swords. This card can appear when the seeker is suffering anxiety and stress. The solution is simple. Follow the advice given above. You can only do one thing at a time. You can only focus on one assignment. Do what you can do today and let tomorrow take care of itself. Get plenty of rest.

      Good luck.

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  83. Malo

    I would appreciate a card that would give me some encouragement and my next step. I have been blocked for a long time, refusing to do things that need to be done and other things that would make my life better.

    Edit: My birthday is March 26th.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Malo,

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Two of Swords. A woman dressed in flowing blue robes sits in a strange oval chair. She holds two swords crossed over her body and she has the weirdest, longest, bendy-ist arms I’ve ever seen.

      The Two of Swords indicates that you are shutting yourself off from your environment, which includes those things you mention above. It’s almost as if you are refusing to even think about them because… what’s the point? You are either over-thinking some things or not thinking enough.

      My feeling is that you are suffering from a low-level depression and I recommend you get yourself a good all-round vitamin supplement. Remove the blindfold and make a list of your tasks. Prioritise them into urgent, less urgent, not urgent. Do one from each category every day. If they can be broken down into 15 minute sections, all the better. You can do anything for 15 minutes. You might find that you have the energy to do more, but always pick from the urgent list before the others.

      Good luck.

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      1. Malo

        Thanks Troi, good advice. Yes a low-level depression. Making a list and breaking work down into small time periods makes a lot of sense.

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  84. Sofia

    Hi Troi,

    I don’t know if ignoring him or choosing another man is the best option. I guess I’m already attached to him that is why I’m afraid I might get hurt if things get deeper. Or is it best to stay? Mine’s DOB is July 31st and his is Mar 22nd.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Sofia,

      This is a strange way to ask a question about a relationship. Shall you ignore him? Choose someone else? Or stay as you are? I wonder why ignoring him is even an option? It doesn’t sound as though you actually have a relationship yet, and ignoring someone is what you do when their actions or attitude are upsetting or uncomfortable.

      I’ll draw a card and see what comes up. I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Tower. Two people are falling from a burning tower. It’s unclear whether they will land safely or not.

      I would guess that you won’t have any choice in what happens. The Tower indicates that there will be a massive disruption in your life which may or may not have anything to do with the relationship. While things can seem tough, it is simply old, stale energy being cleared out. Afterwards you will have a better idea which direction you are headed. You will gain clarity.

      For the moment, you have to decide whether this is worth pursuing. Follow your instincts.

      Good luck.

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  85. Diane

    Hi Troi,

    Hope you and your family are ok. I just discovered your website as I am learning to read tarot with the Gilded Tarot, love it! Hopefully I can read for others one day too 🙂

    But for now my question is related to my career. I was supposed to prepare and take an exam in November which involves traveling for me. Due to the pandemic I have been unable to study properly as I am working full time and have a toddler at home. I am now aiming at taking this exam in May 2021 because it is more realistic (study time + travel restrictions/lockdown issues hopefully solved).
    Given that there might be a second wave of coronavirus and travel restrictions/quarantines etc. Am I doing the right by postponing my exam, I.e. will I be successful? (Obviously I would need to study but I am worried about éléments outside of my control such as quarantines and lockdowns). Thanks a lot , My birthday is July 10. Miss the UK ! Take care !

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Diane,

      I would probably say that if you learn everything you need to by May 2021, you will be successful. If I draw a card and it confirms that you will pass, would you continue to work hard? If the card says you won’t be successful, what will you do then?

      A second wave of CV-19 is not going to prevent you studying. It’s a question of prioritising. You have to work in the day and take care of your child, but you could study in the very early morning for an hour or two, and maybe another hour in the evening. I home schooled both my children, worked part-time and studied for exams. It’s possible if you break your time into useful sections.

      This not the ideal kind of question for tarot to answer because it can affect your own actions in a negative way. Instead think about asking questions that will be of use. Like what areas of your life do you need to focus on or adjust? As a new reader, learning to ask the right question in order to get a useful answer is key.

      Good luck with your study and your exam 🙂

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      1. Diane

        Hi Troi,

        Thank you so much for taking the time to respond. You are absolutely right, i should prioritize. I just needed to be reassured. And get to work! Good idea re-schedule, the early morning when everyone is asleep is probably better. 🙂

        Then I would like to know how I can achieve a better balance right now, when I do readings for myself Temperance always shows up and I am definitely overwhelmed with everything but I cannot understand the cards I receive on how to achieve this balance I am lacking now ( shows up with ten of wands and hermit a lot as well..like i know i feel burdened and i need to be alone but i cannot! 🙁 ). I guess I just feel exhausted and busy but i cannot find how to find Temperance. Would that be a good question to ask? Thanks a lot!

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Diane,

          Thank you for accepting my previous response with such grace. And I’m glad you understand what I was getting at.

          I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot, the one recolored by Mary Hanson-Roberts. Your card is the Ten of Swords. A man lies prone with ten swords in his back. The sky above is dark, but towards the horizon it is golden, as if the sun is rising.

          Always a bit disconcerting when this one turns up but don’t worry. Firstly, Swords, as you know, are always connected to thought and communication. Tens mean the end of a cycle. When this card shows up like this, it usually means that you have to let go of something In fact, you don’t have any choice. If you don’t make some space in your life for you, then the space will be made for you. If you are as stressed as you describe, you know you cannot go on because your health will suffer.

          The schools are beginning to be reopened and it won’t be long before childminders will be back to work. If you still have to work from home, consider giving yourself a couple of hours a few times a week by sending toddler to a safe place.

          Also, think about what the worst would happen if you postponed your study for another year. Careers will wait, babies don’t. Just imagine the relief you would feel if you could make that decision. You would give yourself the breathing space you obviously need and crave.

          The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Cups, which is a lovely card to appear for you. Know that you have a lot of positive, loving energy around you and that, while the hours and days feel endless, they will soon pass. So don’t forget to grab some lovely memories of this time. Toddler years go by in a flash.

          Take care and good luck.

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          1. Diane

            Thank you so much Troi! This is honestly the first time I see the ten of swords in this light (just shows how much I have to learn on Tarot). This is truly a great insight. I am definitely going to postpone studying and we are interviewing Nannys now.

            In fact we decided to go for one that seemed sweet and energetic even if she is only available for one moth, rather than wait for the perfect one that could stay longer. Interesting how your reading perfectly coincides with that choice. Thanks again for providing free guidance, I discovered your site recently and enjoy it a lot even if I dont have too much time now to dig deeper into tarot.

            You are right toddlers do grow up fast and this time is precious! Take care too!

  86. Carl

    Hello Troi, I utilized your free reading about 7 months ago back in December. To get to the point, my S/O made some bad decisions exactly a year ago and cheated on me with a few people one night. She ended up becoming honest with me and decided not to go into active duty for the military. I feel like there is more that she has been afraid to tell me for fear of me leaving her. Though I have no doubt in her honesty in the past seven months, I wonder if it is possible to know if there was any other instance of brief infidelity that occurred last year that she has been afraid to tell. Being the anniversary of a trauma that happened, I felt it a good time to try to shine a light on these things in the past so we can remove more of these splinters from our subconscious. I am going to talk to her more about it soon, although it is painful for the both of us, I would like to have an idea as to how to guide my questions if there are certain instances that she hasnt spoken to me of. Thank you for your time.

    Edit: Hello Troi, forgive me for I forgot to put my birthdate and s/o birthdate in. September 24th and December 23rd. I am aware that our compatibility will be tested as that we both may have strong wills. My main focus was still just to learn if there was another instance of infidelity that she was afraid to tell me. Thank you for your time.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Carl,

      So you already had the summary of the relationships analysis, describing that is always going to be a difficult match. I’ll copy it in here:

      Your birthdays indicate that this combination is subject to ‘dark forces’ and difficult undercurrents. You are both born on two of the four power points in the year; your SO at the Winter Solstice and you on the fall equinox. There is a very strong attraction because you are equals… but you are also like two rocks coming together. Neither will give way. And, although you mention insecurities, the feelings are much more powerful than mere ‘insecurity’. You know this, don’t you? Emotions are unleashed that neither party can handle easily. Secrecy is part of it – and it will always be present. You may never get to the truth because privacy is very important to her. If you proceed with this relationship, know that it will never run easily, yet you could be together for a long time through the sheer addictive nature of your combined personalities.

      I’m using the Universal Waite, and your card is the Tower. Two people fall headlong from a burning tower. There are murderous rocks below, and the sky is full of small burning flames that represent ‘yods’ Yod is the 10th letter of the Hebrew alphabet.

      I think that if you start picking this scab again, Carl, you are going to put the relationship in jeopardy. The Tower appears when old, stale, purposeless energy needs clearing out. And when it gets cleared out, there’s no going back. I also think the main issue of trust or non-trust is within yourself. Your partner gave you her answer, now it’s up to you whether to accept or allow it to fester. The splinters are in your consciousness and not necessarily in hers.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is Justice, which almost tells you the same thing. Justice encourages you to accept that your partner has made her confession; you decided to stay with her, so now you have to let this old hurt go and move on.

      I cannot guide your questions except to say, don’t ask them in the first place. If you have already done so, then I expect you are feeling the consequences.

      Hope you manage to work this out between you.

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      1. Carl

        Thank you for your time. It was the anniversary of when the painful event started a year ago, and thoughts I put to rest came up again as well as her guilt resurfacing. I ended up talking to her a few days ago about it and it was a difficult conversation, but she ended up opening up about a few more things around that same time that she kept lying about each time I asked her. Though it never felt like she told me everything in the past, I think I feel that she has told me everything now but there is that sliver of doubt that she hasn’t since she has repetitively denied anything else for the past year. She doesnt seem to feel intense guilt and weep anymore when we talked about it, which I think has to do with her finally opening up about the things she still kept hidden.

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        1. Troi Post author

          But Carl, it’s never going to stop, is it? Your doubt and distrust, and her guilt. You have to work on dismissing those things and start over. Otherwise they will haunt you forever.

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          1. Carl

            True, it is hard to trust completely given the circumstances and fear of our relationship regressing to something similar. Trying to work through the trust issues that we have had with each other. Unfortunately, due to covid-19, many esoteric healing centers in the area are closed, and I’m not sure how things would go if we went to a couples counselor. Thank you again for your time, I appreciate it.

  87. Martin

    Hello Troi,

    I hope you are well and safe and happy during this surreal and frightening time we find ourselves in. I have faith that all will be well, but I wish that resolution would come sooner than later.

    My question is about romantic love. What do I need to do to manifest it in my life?

    My birthday is August 14th.

    Thank you so very much for sharing your gifts with us all. I am learning so much from you and I am very grateful to you for that. Your knowledge and ability to articulate the meanings of these cards is taking my own understanding to another level and renewing my passion for Tarot.

    Martin

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Martin,

      Thank you for your kind words. They are much appreciated.

      I’m using the Witches Tarot by Ellen Cannon Reed and Martin Duggan. Your card is the King of Wands. The king stands in a snowy landscape wearing gold robes. He stares directly at the viewer. This card suggest you take on some of the qualities of this king, i.e. self confidence, an outgoing manner and, above all, self-appreciation. Self-appreciation or love of self is one of the most overlooked things when trying to attract romance. It’s not about putting yourself above everything else, but instead having a deep connection to yourself. Loving yourself, faults and all.

      The King of Wands has never needed this explained to him; it’s simply one of his innate qualities. By loving yourself first, you attract the love of others.

      The base card is the Eight of Wands. A bearded man sits reading a book. Four wands are laid out neatly behind him on a table. Four more are lined up on the wall. This card is often shown as eight wands shooting through the sky… and is often called ‘the arrows of love’. Which is encouraging. It also means organisation. So get yourself a plan of action. Practice self-appreciation, stop thinking too much about manifesting love, and eventually it will show up.

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  88. Maureen

    Hello Troi,

    I hope you are well, as we navigate our way to a new normal in the world; also, that your Daughter is healing.

    I have had a housemate for the past year and a half. I was in a pinch with finances at the time, and rented out a room in my home. She is an older woman, quiet, clean, keeps to herself. To see her, she looks like a sweet, conservative church-goer. However, when we do talk, her energy is disturbing – she is a deep believer in conspiracy theories, and is racist. Since the advent of the corona virus, her rants of conspiracy theories are on the up tick, and turned into an obsession. She may look like a sweetheart, but her energy is so disturbing. This is very palpable to my Son, as well.

    Needless, to say, I’d like her to leave. I am hoping she will leave, and soon, on her own accord. I am not sure how to approach asking her to leave.

    Whats the best way to encourage her to leave?!

    Thank you,
    Maureen

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maureen,

      Sorry to be so long getting back to you. Yes, we just heard today that my daughter’s thyroid lump was just a lump and nothing else. Talk about relieved!

      I’m not going to get the cards out because I have an effective method of making stuff happen (as I put into practice with the above situation). It’s simple thing called ‘scripting’.

      All you do is a regular (daily, if possible) writing practice. Just a paragraph or two. There are two things to address: firstly you focus on your housemate’s positive attributes and then you let her go. I’m going to call her Barbara.

      You write out something like this:

      Barbara is a lovely housemate. She is so clean and tidy. I love how she keeps herself to herself. I love that she never foists her opinions on to me. I love that I hardly ever see her. She has a pleasant energy and we all get on so well.

      Barbara has decided to move on. She’s already found another place to live and is making plans to leave. I wish her all the best.

      That’s just a quick example. The more you can embellish it the better. Make it up if you have to. Always write in the present tense, as if what you desire has already happened. You may find that if you ONLY focus on her good points that she becomes the housemate you require. If you really want her to go, then also work on the second paragraph. Keep it light, positive and in the present. When you see her, maintain that vibe. I’m pretty sure she will either change her ways or she will leave in a happy way. Try it and let me know how it goes.

      Here’s a link that explains it in more detail: https://www.applythelawofattraction.com/scripting-law-attraction/

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      1. Maureen

        Hi Troi,

        I am glad to hear there is nothing more than a lump! Yes, big relief as I can image, as a Mother! All the best to your Daughter, and your family, as Daughter moves forward in good health!

        Well, I love this scripting that you have suggested, as I enjoy working with energy! I’m going to give it a go, and with other areas in my life, as well.
        Feels good … thank you for your help with my dilemma!

        Kind regards,
        Maureen

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  89. Jennefir

    Hello. How are you with all this coronavirus quarantine going in? I have one question. I recently had gotten involved in a relationship I really wasn’t ready for but went ahead anyway with it and being my last relationship was horrifying being tortured daily I finally made my escape after six long years left me traumatized. My new partner born November 27th has all the qualities u could ever want in a man except for some little irritating things overall he’s wonderful .. I was born October 20th. Do I have anything to worry about with this partner as far as cheating or becoming too board in this relationship?
    Thank you for taking your time in reading my message….

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jennefir,

      I’m just checking my compatibility tables and I have to warn you that this relationship could hold more tension than you might wish at this stage in your life. It’s passionate for sure. But it can also be fiery and confrontational. The combination is actually headed up, “Fits of Temper”. Not sure if this kind of instability is what you need right now? One thing is for sure, boredom won’t be an issue.

      Incidentally, you were born on what this book calls, “The Cusp of Drama and Criticism”, so you need to be aware of these tendencies that are built into people born in this week. Those irritations you mention, well they are just going to grow.

      Anyway, moving on with the reading. I’m using Songs for the Journey Home, a lovely artisan deck, created by two women in New Zealand. Your card is Wave Creating, The Queen of Cups. A woman stands under waterfall, through which shines a rainbow. This card indicates that a time of introspection and peace may be what you need right now. It doesn’t say an awful lot about the relationship, other than your emotions are bubbling along just under the surface. They are mixed up too, relief, love, passion and anxiety. So a time-out may be required. I get the feeling that you may feel your emotions in your stomach or solar plexus and they can be physically painful at times. Literally clenching… and given what you’ve been through (and I know what it’s like), you have to give yourself a little time. Can you slow things down a bit?

      The card at the base of the deck is disconcerting – it’s the Emperor, which often represents a ‘man in control’. This card may refer to your ex, but the influence of control is still hanging over you. You have to embrace quiet, calm and self-determination. Be resolute, don’t get sucked down the next rabbit hole too fast. Okay?

      You take care.

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  90. Sarah

    Hey Tori, I was wondering if you could draw a card for me. I’ve gotten so many mixed messages in my personal readings (likely because my emotions have been so all over the place) I’m wondering if cutting off contact completely with my current/ex is the right thing to do? Or if I should continue to talk to them while keeping some distance right now (or I suppose possibly seeing them again) Thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Sarah,

      Sorry for the delay, my teenage daughter had to have surgery last week, so I haven’t felt in the mood for tarot readings. She’s fine.

      When it starts becoming mixed and muddled, that’s the time to stop doing readings on the same topic. Give yourself a break and perhaps do something different with the cards, such as celebrity readings or spending time researching and learning one card in as much detail as you can. For that kind of in-depth study, I heartily recommend this site: https://teachmetarot.com/

      Anyway… I’m using Songs for the Journey Home, a round deck. I love it very much bit haven’t used it in a while, so it needs an outing. The suits are renamed but I’ll use the conventional names. Your card is Renewal which is the same as Temperance. It shows a happy gathering of people (remember those?) around a bonfire. There are people playing music and dancers in the background.

      This card is all about taking some time out from the situation to find your balance. To fill up your personal emotional well. So I would say that the best thing you can do is just to let things drift for a while. You don’t have to cut off all contact, just tell them you need time to think and relax. Then do those things. Make an effort to immerse yourself into the activities you love to do.

      You might find that with a little distance, your priorities will change and the process of letting this person go gently from your life is just what you need. You will begin to understand the value, lessons, experience, and love were just what was required at the time. Be easy about it.

      Good luck.

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  91. Paul K.

    Hi Troi

    Today is my birthday, and I’m going to start a business this month. Could you please draw a card for me?

    Thank you
    Paul

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hey Paul, happy birthday!

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision, which is based on the Rider Waite but looks at the familiar images from unusual angles. Your card is the King of Wands. We see the King as though we are standing behind him, to the right. He sits on a stone, carved throne and holds a staff in his right hand. From this angle we can’t see his left hand. The carvings on the back of the throne show the King in an embrace with his wife, and under that carving is one of a lion.

      The King of Wands is just about the leader of all the court cards in the tarot. He has reached a certain level of power and maturity where his decisions and choices are well-balanced between logic, practicalities and feelings. He is wise enough not to dismiss either. He is passionate about what he does and he is able to inspire others to share his vision.

      This is a good card to appear for you Paul. I suggest, if you have a few minutes, that you research a bit more about the card and endeavor to absorb some of the King of Wands positive qualities. When you need to, ask yourself, what would the King of Wands do in this situation?

      The card at the base of the deck is the Three of Wands, which is also a good card for an entrepreneur. It shows that you are putting your plans into action. That all is in place (if not, it should be soon). Things are coming together.

      So very good luck in your new enterprise.

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  92. Jo

    Hi Troi,
    I have had an affair a while ago with someone I have great difficulty getting over. While I don’t feel an absolute need to be with him my feelings for him remain and I keep having dreams and notions of him being the father of my future children. He doesn’t seem open for anything and while I am sure of having some effect on him he very much has his guards up around me. So I would like to just let it go and I guess my question would be what is the reason of my feelings lingering, is there something ahead worthy sticking around or is there something I need to understand to get out of this?
    Thanks,
    Jo

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jo,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Two of Wands. A young man stands looking out over a parapet at the ocean. He holds a crystal-topped staff in his left hand and a globe in his right. His other staff is bolted to the wall.

      When this card appears it often means that expectations are high, but that they are being held back. That this is simply not the right time for the desired event to happen. The best course of action is to always look in another direction. To find something that will absorb you and take all your attention. Meanwhile, the energy that you directed at this situation with your ex is still out there doing its thing. As soon as you refocus, you might find his interest is reignited. But I don’t advise that you hold out for that because I am probably wrong, and in any case, I have found that very often, when they come back into your life, your eyes are opened to their faults and flaws and it’s just not the same.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the King of Cups. This is a personality card and describes a gentle, caring, emotional man. Someone who might be your rock. So I think the changing the direction of your attention might be worthwhile. There could be someone else who is far more suited to you.

      Hope you managed to make sense of that 😀

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  93. Sandra

    Hi Troi.
    How are you during this overwhelming and surreal time we live in? I hope you are keeping well. I am really worried about my husband constantly coughing and being sick. He has only just given up smoking again. My question surrounds his health and is it serious his long cough. He went to see a gp a couple of weeks ago and asked to get tested for the covid19 virus but the gp just said he wasn’t ill and if he was i would be and everyone else he came into contact with. I fear it’s something severe. Please advise.
    Thank you so much.
    Mine 9 August
    His 28 October

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Sandra,

      I’m afraid I cannot give health readings. I am not a medical expert and am very wary of giving any information that might influence your actions.

      I would be happy to answer another question.

      Best wishes to you and your husband.

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  94. Anon

    Hi Troi,

    Thanks for offering these readings.

    I wanted to ask about a romantic interest I met a few months back where conversation has gone quiet recently. I was wondering if there is any potential here?

    My DOB: 22nd March

    Thanks again for your generosity 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anon.

      I am using the Trionfi Della Luna deck by Patrick Valenza and your card is the King of Wands. The well-dressed King strolls confidently along a path in front of his castle gate. To his right, there is a strange statue of a male head and torso. The King himself appears to be some kind of humanoid crab. It’s a weird deck 🙂

      The King of Wands is a charming and energetic man. He is magnetic to both men and women. However, he has a lot going on and is perhaps unable to give you the attention that you deserve. If communication has faded off, I would advise just to let it go. It was a nice interaction while it lasted.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Six of Swords, which indicates that you are ready to move forward into a new minor phase pf your life. It’s the ‘go with it’ card. Other horizons will soon reveal themselves to you.

      Good luck.

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  95. Flori

    Greetings Troi,
    How are you? I hope you and your loved ones are safe from this Corona virus.. I need your guidance on my current situation. The guy i started seeing recently was a friend i deeply care about and on our 2nd and last holiday, i was upset about something and we had a fight and he got really upset and said i was disrespectful the way i spoke to him and ñow he has gone totally silent on me. It’s been a month and half now and I’ve tried to reach out to him 4 times to apologise but no answer. Everything was going so well between us, he was planning more trips in the coming months with me overseas. Is it really over or will he come around? I don’t understand how someone can be so tender and effectionate and then become so stubborn that he won’t even give me the chance to talk it out.
    His DOB 13th July 1975
    Mine 10th Oct 1978

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flori,

      All well here. Sorry to hear things have been difficult for you. It’s very strange that he won’t even speak to you after it seemed to be going so well.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon and your card is the Six of Swords. A weird looking male figure is flying above the earth in a hot air balloon. The artist has made it look as though the person is part of the balloon. He seems to be crossing a body of water and escaping a fire. He’s going towards a safer place.

      My feeling, looking at this card, is that you have had a lucky escape. The key for me was him saying that you were ‘disrespectful’ of him. I’m sure you weren’t. However, some people will use this phrase when they are trying to control you.

      Think about this: he’s essentially dropped you, refused to speak to you, and is acting like an idiot. Do you really want to be with someone who is capable of treating you this way? Imagine if you were living together or married. It would not be a good thing – he could find ‘disrespect’ in anything you do or say.

      The Six of Swords tells you that you are in a period of recovery; moving from a bad place to a better one. Just let it go.

      The base card is the Page of Wands. This page hints that you are on the verge of a whole new adventure. So embrace any new opportunities that come your way and leave the past in the past.

      Good luck, Flori.

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  96. Az

    Hi Troi,

    I hope you are well. I wanted to ask you about my relationship again. I’ve been with my partner on and off for 3 years. I think for the last year my feelings have changed towards him. I still love him but it’s not the same as it was and I think it’s the opposite for him, I believe his feelings have grown even more for me. We are not really on talking terms at the moment due to an argument we had a couple of weeks ago. So my question is what do I need to know about this relationship? Is it just a bad phase we’re/I’m going through and is it worth sticking through?

    My birthday 26th Aug
    His 17th Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Az,

      This one’s been going a while, hasn’t it? You seem to be caught up in some kind of cycle that you can’t break out of.

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Queen of Wands. The Queen sits upon a golden throne, decorated with lions and sunflowers. In her left hand she holds a sunflower, in her right, a staff (wand). Her robes are yellow with a pale blue cloak. While the Queen looks to her left, the black cat at her feet gazes directly towards the viewer.

      This is a personality card, so quite difficult to interpret in light of the question. However, I think you could take the personality of this queen and apply it directly to the relationship. There is passion, enthusiasm, and endless fascination, but there is also disquiet and the odd outbreak of irritation, stubbornness, or even temper.

      I think that you have stuck it thus far. You are obviously in love… and you only ever ask for a reading when things go wrong. Take a step back and review your relationship with an objective eye and you will see that you operate on a pattern. It’s as if, one or both, get a little bored when its going smoothly and you throw the whole shebang up into the air to see how the pieces land. It’s almost as if you are testing each other.

      You know, in your heart, whether you love him or not. So perhaps you need to have a good talk – perhaps you need some kind of strategy to break the tension or to interrupt the pattern when things get a little stale?

      The base card is the Emperor, which indicates that there is a strong foundation and base structure here. You simply need to sort yourselves out.

      Good luck, Az. xx

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  97. Maureen

    Thank you for your generous reply, Troi!

    And thank you for the “apartment” analogy – that makes sense to me, in many ways! My job is as landscape designer, and I love that the element of creativity has come up in your reading. If I am not mistaken, creativity is second chakra?, which is what I am hoping to open up a bit more, after being closed for quite some time. (And if that Knight of Cups is tall brunette, I’ll take that, too! 😉 )

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    1. Troi Post author

      Oh, I think I remember you, Maureen, from a while ago. I’m not an expert in chakras, but you should go create your heart out. It’s the key to well-being. Good luck with the Knight of Cups! xxx

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  98. Maureen

    Hi Troi,

    I recently took a what I thought to be my “dream job”, but am now feeling confused as to if I made the right choice. While this is still new and I enjoy the position itself, I begrudgingly took a small pay cut and am driving a bit farther than I like. Things about the position that were not told to me during the interview have come up, and are minor disappointments.

    While I understand not every job is perfect, there is something nagging me about where I am at. Did I make a hasty choice in taking the job, is there something more to come that I am to learn and to stay, or should I stay for now, and continue looking? Money does play a part of course … I committed myself to being debt free within three years, and I don’t know if it will happen with this position.

    Thank you for your insights!
    Maureen

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maureen,

      I think that this is a very common thing. Employers seem to think it’s okay to withhold information that might be detrimental to interviewees’ perceptions. It’s happened to me before, and more recently to my partner.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Queen of Swords. The queen sits upon a crystal throne. She holds a sword in her right hand and a quill pen in her left. There are several scrolls piled up to her right and a white cat sits at her feet.

      I think that the Queen of Swords is simply reflecting where you are right now. That the truth has been revealed and possibly you are facing a decision about your future here. The pertinent fact about this card is that the Queen of Swords knows exactly what she wants and what she will do. And given a little more time, you will too.

      The base card is the Knight of Cups, which is a very romantic card to show up – particularly today being the 14th February. He comes bearing gifts and declarations of love. I have no idea how he fits in with your job 🙂 However, these Cups card can indicate creativity as well as love, so what I would suggest is that you create your perfect job right where you are. Let me try to give you an example.

      Imagine someone, a woman, who moves into a very small apartment. She is disappointed because it’s all she can afford right now. It’s a limited space, with little potential. In her mind she has always held a vision of her dream home and this definitely isn’t it. Meanwhile she decides that she has to do her best within the parameters imposed upon her. So she sets to work and over a period of time, she makes her small apartment a warm and cosy environment. One evening she is sitting in her home and she looks around and realises she is where she should be; that she has created her dream home right there. In fact the restrictions helped her become more creative, to find solutions, and to be more innovative. So do you see what I mean? Often limitation is what enables creativity.

      See how it goes for a little while and try to make the job your dream job by making small creative changes. After a couple of months you will know for sure whether you should stay or go.

      Good luck, Maureen.

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  99. Mudra

    Hello Troi,

    I hope you are doing well.

    So there is this guy, I want to know whether he is in a relationship or not with someone and what are my chances in terms of relationship and marriage with him?

    My birthdate: 8th October, 1996
    His birthdate: 18th September, 1994

    Thank you and Have a nice day.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Mudra,

      I am a little bemused by the fact that you are asking about marriage with someone you hardly know. It’s not for me to tell you if he is already in a relationship because that would be a ‘third party reading’, i.e. delving into his life without permission. If you are in conversation with this person to the point that you know his birth date, then surely it is a simple thing to find out if he is ‘taken’? Just ask. I’ll draw a card to see if there is a way forward with him.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Moon. A black cat peers into a pond. His reflection is shown as a large black panther. A witch flies across the full moon and a path, leading from the pond, disappears into some trees.

      The appearance of the Moon tells you that all is not quite as it appears. It indicates some confusion and indecision. In the moonlight things look different; reality shifts and perception is distorted. This card tells you that you need to go carefully and listen to your intuition. The information you are receiving might not be true… or you are reading something into this situation which is not real.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Five of Wands, which shows five witches arguing. This card often means that there is competition. In other words, you may not be the only woman this guy is talking to.

      My advice: do some fact checking.

      Good luck.

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  100. Cynthia

    Hello! Thank you for this free reading. I am wondering if I can go forward with a love interest. I don’t have anyone now and not for a very long time. I feel I might be opening up but wonder if there is anyone out there that would be a good match for me.
    Thank you for your time, I do appreciate it!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Cynthia,

      I’m not quite sure if I have read your question correctly. You said you are wondering if you can go forward with a love interest, which suggests you have someone specific in mind, but then you ask if there’s anyone out there that would be a good match. So I’m going to simply draw a card for you and go with it.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Emperor. It is night time and the Emperor sits on a plain wood throne, with a map of the constellations on the ground at his feet. He wears a red, ermine-trimmed cloak, a blue tunic and a crown fashioned out of antlers. He holds a sceptre in his left hand; his right rests on the back of a black cat. To the side of his throne is a sleeping German Shepherd dog.

      The appearance of the Emperor suggests that a strong, possibly older, man is going to play an important part in your life. He can be rather patriarchal and domineering, which can either be a good thing or not, depending on his personality and how you interact. He is not necessarily a romantic interest, yet could be. If you have someone like this, then take a second look at him, he may warrant you spending a bit more time getting to know him better. If he is an animal lover, then he might just be the one. However, if he begins to become possessive or dictatorial, then make a run for it.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Five of Swords which warns you of some kind of argument or someone taking sides. Often there are several people involved – one who is in charge, one who takes a victim’s role and possibly one or more who walk away from the situation. I don’t know how this might be linked to the above, but it might make sense to you.

      Sorry I can’t be more clear cut, but good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Khalid,

      That’s a big question for one single card. It helps to be more specific. All I can do is pick a card and go with what it says. It may, or may not, be useful to you.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is Temperance. It shows a beautiful woman floating in a translucent orange gown. In her left hand, she holds a golden goblet from which flames are appearing. In her right she holds another and water flows from it to the flaming cup. Behind her, in the night sky, we can see a planet, possibly Mars.

      Temperance indicates that you need to find your balance, to aim to become settled in yourself. You may be feeling agitated and jittery, as you say, and therefore you must adopt some techniques and strategies to maintain your equilibrium. Meditation is top of the list.

      As far as some future event or becoming, this card might indicate a new personal relationship or new job/study situation. Again the key to this is balance and maintaining the right chemistry. It’s not easy, but it can be done.

      Good luck.

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  102. HP

    Hello, I’m really glad that I came across your site, I’ve learned a lot here! Thank you for the chance at a free reading, I’ve only ever read my own tarot so this is exciting. 🙂
    The last two years have been full of so many changes, tragedies, also blessings, but truly a lot of hardships. I have felt as if the energy is shifting, though, and like life is finally going to start working out for my family and I. I have a wonderful husband who has been through all of these obstacles with me, and he too has seen and felt that life may be finally coming together for us. Partners DOB is Oct. 4th and mine is Aug 1st -if that is helpful.
    My question is, what is there, in our control, that would help things continue to improve the most?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hey HP, sorry to be so long getting to your reading.

      Before I get to your reading, I just want to say that, as partners, you chose well. Leo l and Libra ll share a deep emotional bond. Libra helps Leo to calm down and be a little more introspective, while Leo is able to share their energy and will power with Libra. Your super-loving chemistry has created a special place that only the two of you can share. You may have been hesitant when considering to get married but once the decision had been made, it was total immersion. This is what will see you through and make life so rewarding. It really doesn’t matter what’s going on around you as long as you have each other.

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Page of Wands. A young androgynous person stands in the desert, holding a long staff. S/he wears a salamander-embroidered tunic, and a red and gold cloak. Their hat is blue with a jaunty red feather trim.

      The Page of Wands isn’t really about what actions you might take, more it is to do with your attitude to life. The Page of Wands views everything as potential for an adventure. Nothing is good or bad; it just is. S/he is positive in that there is always something to learn from these experiences – even tragedy can act as a catalyst for forward progression and new ideas. Pages indicate that something new is about to happen, a new life stage, perhaps. They can also act as messengers, meaning that you might be taken by surprise any day soon and that you should grab any new opportunity that comes your way.

      The card at the bottom of the deck often adds a bit more insight. The Three of Wands shows a man standing on a cliff, watching three ships out to sea. We don’t know if the ships are leaving or returning – maybe a mix of both. This card indicates that you have, and are doing enough to reap a good harvest. Also know that, between you, you have already created and received many blessings. In other words, you are doing fine.

      Good luck, HP, I’m sure things will improve enormously for you. Watch out for those golden opportunities.

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  103. Charlotte

    Hello Troi,
    Thank you very much for offering these free readings. I have a love interest and I am wondering if you would pull a card to give insight into the level or type of potential I have with this person. Blessings on you! My birthday is the 21st of May; his is 1st November.

    Charlotte

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Charlotte,

      Your birthdays show that this could be a difficult combination. Scorpio l is very intense, always convinced they are right and, to put it mildly, they are control freaks. Taurus-Gemini cusps are pretty easy going and gentle folk. So there could well be conflict if this relationship progressed. Having said that, often Taurus-Gemini is happy to let Scorpio l take control, especially if they’ve had difficult previous relationships.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Nine of Cups. A heavily-built man with a jovial expression sits in front of his collection of nine golden chalices. So this card almost cancels out the birthday assessment 🙂

      The Nine of Cups indicates that, at least at first, you will find a lot of emotional fulfilment should you get together with this person. If the romance doesn’t take off, you are going to experience this happy state anyway. Nines in tarot show a goal reached and Cups are connected to romance, love, emotions and anything else to do with relationships. So it’s looking good for you, Charlotte.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Three of Cups. Another happy and celebratory card. I often think of it as the ‘girls’ night out’ card. It’s carefree and fun. So if you have some sort of gathering coming up, then know you will have a good time and that it might be significant in some way.

      Good luck and have fun!

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  104. Marcela Aguilar

    Hello Troi, I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and some months now – things with him started off great at first, but for a couple months now things have been up and down. I would like to know what I can expect out of this relationship in the foreseeable future. If things will remain rocky against us or not, and if wether or not he’s been possibly seeing anyone or emotionally involved with anyone else. Or if there’s anything he’s keeping from me.

    My birthday is July 19
    And his is June 11

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Marcela,

      Looking at your birthdays, there is no doubt that this relationship is putting stress on one partner – you. There is great determination here but the pressure is quite something. This pairing always starts off really well; the chemistry is good and it feels ‘equal’. However, as time goes on Cancer-Leo (you) becomes insecure and doubtful as Gemini lll is off on his next challenge/adventure/project. The thing is, he’s not going to change, yet he has to understand that he needs to be flexible in order to make a go of this.

      I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot and your card is the Eight of Swords. A young woman is standing on a beach, blindfolded and bound. She is hemmed in by eight swords stuck into the sand. However, her bindings are loose and there is a wide space that she could simply walk right through and away, if only she had the confidence. She could even use one of those swords to cut her bindings if she was very careful.

      The Eight of Swords advises you that the problems in your situation are mostly in your head. It feels to me like you have invested too much into a relationship which will never be what you want it to be. It’s as if now you are in it, you are determined to stay in it whatever happens. Yet the Eight of Swords tells you to walk away because, whether or not you can trust your boyfriend, your own inner pressure is causing you anguish. I can’t tell you what he’s up to – that’s called ‘third party reading’ and is a bit unethical. But, you are the one who needs to make a decision here. If it’s rocky, then walk. If he loves you, he’ll do what he needs to in order to keep you. Your happiness should not be determined by him.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Page of Cups. This shows that you have tons of love to give, that you are fun-loving and romantic. So go be that person you are meant to be, because right now, you are not that person. Are you?

      Good luck.

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  105. Luji

    Hello Troi,

    I’ve been dealing with my person for a while now (long distance) and I am not sure where it is heading. I am doing my best to keep it light-hearted and playful, but is this the best way? Will our connection go beyond friends with benefits? I would love us to be in a committed relationship. Or at least try it.

    My DOB 01/01, his DOB 14/2

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Luji,

      This birthday combination can be difficult in the beginning, so the fact that it is long-distance is probably a good thing. Once the initial tendency to be competitive has passed, the partners can incorporate their viewpoints (Capricorn 1’s love of work and Aquarius ll’s love of relaxation) into a relationship that alternates between seriousness and fun as long as the extremes of either state are avoided. Each can learn from the other.

      I’m using the Trionfi Della Luna deck and your card is the Four of Coins. Four coins (Pentacles) are ranged around a winged emblem decorated with two opposite facing crescent moons (waxing and waning). There is some sort of thistle-like plant twining around.

      This not a card usually connected to relationships and romance. The Four of Coins generally means the tarot is advising you to hold back, hang onto your resources, and ‘stand square’. It’s also a very down-to-earth, no-nonsense card which hints that you could well be laying down firm foundations for the future. So I suggest that you stay as you are with the relationship, don’t allow it to progress too far too soon, but at the same time look at building something special. It could well go long-term.

      However… and there’s always a ‘however’… The card at the base of the deck is the Three of Swords. This card starkly warns that your biggest obstacle or problem is the possibility of tangled communication. So knowing this, be prepared to back down from any confrontation if you want the relationship to continue. Blame miscommunication, which can happen in long-distant romances.

      Good luck!

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      1. luji

        Hello there!

        Thank you for your reading. I learnt over my adult years that I am not a typical Capricorn… More like a Capricorn on a fire (lots of fire in my chart) :D. Anyway, I totally agree with what u said in the 1st part of the reading. :). Let’s see.

        In the 2nd part there is a tiny bit I don’t understand (due to language)
        The I am not sure what you mean by ,,hang onto your resources,, 🙈. Can u please help me out here?

        The 3rd part of the reading confirmed what I already know and bear on my mind. We had something like a fall out in the past, it was due to poor communication and me being too emotional and pushing and not willing to accept his energy. There is more to it, but the msg would be way too long 😀

        Long story short.. I thought it was over.. But then things changed and he is back.. The whole situation feels much more relaxed.
        I still don’t get it. If someone was acting towards me the way I did towards him in the past, I would ghost that person, it would be a total turn off forever. But he didn’t… He could have anyone, much closer than me.

        This reading helped me a lot. Thanks a million.

        P.S. I’m still on a mission in my career 😉

        Luji x

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hey Luji,

          The bit about hanging onto your resources means to hold back a little. Don’t give your whole self away too soon. Hard to explain, but I’m trying to say, take it step-by-tiny-step. I’m sure that it won’t have to be like that forever. You’ll know when it’s time to unleash the Luji super-love-energy 😀 xxx

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  106. Angel

    Good afternoon Troi,

    I have not been in a proper relationship for years now..

    Will I ever find love again??

    My birthday is 5th August

    Thank you

    Angel

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Angel,

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the King of Pentacles. This king sits upon a horned throne, clad in kingly ermine and red robes. He is not looking directly at the viewer but is glancing slightly down, as if in deep contemplation.

      the King of Pentacles is usually mature, well-established, perhaps a business owner, boss or older relative.

      It’s possible that the appearance of this male court card is telling you that there is someone like this coming into your life, but I would not be so rash as to predict it. He could be someone you already know who could help you in your quest to find love. Cast your mind around and strike up a conversation. Keep it light-hearted but make sure he knows that you are looking to him for a helping hand.

      I’m more interested in the card at the base of the deck, which is the Ace of Cups. While it would be too easy to tell you that love is around the corner, I feel very strongly that the love you are looking for FIRST is love for yourself. Your self esteem may have taken a bit of a knock over the years and you think that your happiness lies in the hands of another person. The opposite is true, you need to get hold of that happiness, fall in love with you and then love will flow to you easily, just as it is indicated in this card.

      I encourage you to watch some YouTube videos by Esther Hicks. There is a lot of wisdom in her channelled Abraham teachings. Try this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61Dhu51R6Bw

      Good luck, Angel.

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  107. ocean

    Hi, Troi!
    I have been going through a very tough time in terms of relations that has reduced my confidence and focus on career and work.
    Do you see me getting a stable relationship and getting my confidence back in 2020?
    29 January

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Ocean,

      I’m using the Trionfi Della Luna deck and your card is Strength. And I absolutely love the image on this card. Possibly the best illustration of Strength that I have ever seen. A female figure dress in an odd costume – sort of charcoal grey with horns and small wings is prising open the mouth of a lion. The lion has his paw resting on her arm as though in reassurance. Within the jaws of the lion, a face is looking directly out at her… and it is her own. This perfectly sums up the message to you. Look inside yourself to find your confidence. Do not rely on a relationship to give it to you.

      It’s confidence first, then a mutually satisfying relationship later. And it will be all the better in that order.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Swords which signifies a breakthrough in thinking. Hopefully that’s connected to what I just said. Relationships with others are always secondary to the most important relationship; and that is you with you. Love yourself first and then love will easily come to you.

      Good luck and Happy New Year.

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  108. Stefanie

    Happy New Year, dearest Troi!

    My query is, what does this coming year look like for me?

    Thanks as always for your generosity and insight.

    Much love.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Stefanie, lovely to hear from you, as always.

      I’m using my brand new Christmas tarot deck, the Trionfi Della Luna, and your card is the King of Coins. A well-dressed merchant in a fur-trimmed, purple cloak strides in front of his huge mansion holding aloft a gold coin. In his other hand he holds a small doll, or mini-person – hard to tell.

      The appearance of this card is usually positive. It indicates that you may make a connection with someone who is, themselves, well-connected. They are usually willing to help someone who demonstrates potential and a willingness to work hard. Like all the Coins/Pentacle family, they are most impressed with those who are determined to help themselves. So keep your eye open for someone, probably in your working life, who can give you a helping hand.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ten of Wands, which tells you that you still have some hard work and obstacles to get past this year. However, although it is a card of struggle, it is also a card of completion, so don’t let anything derail you. Don’t be disheartened, just keep going and look out for those golden moments which will become more frequent.

      All the best to you, sweetie, and Happy New Year to you too.

      Txxxxxx

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      1. Stefanie

        Thank you so much, dear Troi. I’ll keep an eye (and my mind) open to opportunities at work. And I’ll keep doing my best to take care of myself so I can manage the rough stuff as well as I can. Hope the new year brings you many blessings and wonderful memories.

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  109. Flo

    Dearest Troii, it’s been awhile. I hope you are well. It’s been 2 very difficult years. Was taking care of my mother who was fighting cancer and she passed last month. I’ve had no personal life and it’s been a painful and lonely road. I have a friend who’s had fiancée left and i feel there’s a connection between us that goes both ways but i can’t say for sure. Can you please tell me more about our current situation and if there’s indeed a future together? My DOB 10 Oct. His DOB 13 July
    Love
    Flori

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flori, good to hear from you. So sorry to hear about your mother.

      According to my compatibility book, this is an interesting combination. Very often the bonding begins in circumstances just as you have described – in the face of adversity. Each is able to support the other and thus lift themselves out of despondency. There is a sense of peace, recognition and loyalty. And these qualities pervade and glue the relationship together. However, in the long term, it might be difficult to sustain with Libra ll feeling a little restricted by Cancer lll. Overall, though it stands a good chance of lasting if both are committed.

      I’m using the Trionfi Della Luna and your card is the Ten of Cups. There are no images on the pip cards, it just shows nine gold chalices being filled by the tenth. This is a lovely card to get in answer to any question, but especially in matters of the heart. I would say that it shows that there is great potential here for something more permanent. All you have to do is allow it to progress gently and steadily.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Empress which indicates growth, expansion and passion. I need say no more.

      Good luck and Happy New Year. x

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      1. Anonymous

        Thanks so so much for the reading Troi. Happy new and blessed year. Things are progressing. He asked me to go on a vacation in a couple of weeks. Let’s see what transpires. I’m leaving it up to destiny to point me in the right direction. I’ve lost too much in these couple of years, i am too scared to want and hope for something now but your words gave me some. Love 💖

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  110. Ashley

    Hi Troi,

    I have pulled a 3 cards reading. However, I was struggling to interpret the reading. My question is, “Will our relationship progress romantically?”. The cards that I have pulled were Six of Swords, Seven of Cups & Hierophant.

    My birthday is January 10th, his is October 21st

    Would really need your help.

    Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Ashley,

      I can’t interpret your cards for you, sorry. If you’d like a one-card reading, feel free to submit a question.

      All the best.

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      1. Ashley

        Hi Troi,

        Thanks for replying me. Yes, I would like a one-card reading. My question is, “Will our relationship progress romantically?”.

        Edit: My birthday is January 10th, his is October 21st

        Thanks.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Ashley, sorry I couldn’t interpret the cards you drew. It’s not possible for various reasons.

          Your birthday combination indicates that this is a difficult pairing. There will be problems with communication and being open with each other. If you did get together you may well regret it. There would be issues around Libra-Scorpio’s wit and sarcasm, and Capricorn lll’s need for control. Neither would appreciate these traits in the other. However, there could be valuable life lessons for you both, even if the relationship doesn’t last long. All reflected in those three cards you drew, by the way.

          I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Nine of Cups. A jolly-faced man dressed in rich red and purple robes sits in front of nine golden chalices.

          Nines in tarot tend to indicate the end of a life phase or interest. Cups always represent emotions and feelings. I think the appearance of this card means that as soon as you accept the relationship isn’t going to happen, that you will experience a time of fulfilment and satisfaction. Almost as though you got a lucky escape and can now appreciate everything else in your life. It’s a good card and it makes me feel that you are going to have a lovely holiday period. Of course that might mean that your romance DOES progress as you hope, but bear in mind the information I gave you earlier; it will be short lived.

          The card at the base of the deck is the King of Wands… possibly a new love interest on the horizon.

          Good luck.

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  111. Helen

    Hello,

    DOB: 20 October

    Wanted to ask about my career. Don’t know what to do, or where to go. Feeling kind of stuck…

    Thanks in advance

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Helen,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Two of Pentacles. A young woman is walking a tightrope carefully balancing two golden pentacles that are tethered together by the infinity symbol.

      I would surmise that this card is very apt for your current situation. It’s as if you are struggling to maintain your balance. I get the feeling that you feel you have done everything right; followed the path but somehow it’s all gone flat. The promise of a good future appears to have evaporated.

      Twos in tarot can show that you may have to deal with a little waiting time. Therefore, do what you need to do on a daily basis, but have patience to wait – something is going to happen for you in due course. The other aspect of two is that you may have to make a decision about what direction to take. I can’t tell you which to choose, but if you accept that the way will be made clear, then it soon will become obvious. Meanwhile, if in doubt, do nothing.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Star. This is a lovely card and encourages you to embrace what comes. To say yes to opportunities and to look for signs of progress.

      All is well.

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  112. Kamila

    Hi again Tori,

    I feel recently like I am stuck in life. Don’t know where I am going. I think I have lost the purpose in everything. Me 19 December and my partner 11 July, we are together for 5 years. I would love to ask if we are going to have any future together? Any babies? We already have a son but I would love him to have brother or sister.

    Thank you,
    Blessings

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Kamila,

      You had quite a positive reading last time. It seems like you have lost your momentum.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the King of Pentacles. A strange steam-punk attired figure holds a silver pentacle. In the sky, hangs a crescent moon and in the background is a factory, indicating that this is a well-to-do business owner.

      The message from this card is that you have to find your focus. You have a desire to have another child, but that might not be good right now. You need a purpose, something that will engross you, fire you up, and give you a reason to move forward. The King of Pentacles shows that some kind of work or a business may be just what you need to ignite your passion. The appearance of this card might also suggest that you know someone who can help you.

      I really don’t think there’s much wrong with your marriage but, having said that, if you are worried about whether you have a future together, then you shouldn’t be thinking about another child. Children are not glue and, generally a shaky marriage will be under more strain if there is a baby in the picture.

      The base card is the Four of Swords, which shows a young woman sleeping peacefully. She’s taking time out from her worries and anxieties… and you should do the same. Put your worries to one side and look for something practical that will give you new focus.

      Good luck.

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      1. Kamila

        Thank you Tori,

        You’re right I have lost all my focus, that’s why I’m feeling so lost and don’t know what to do.
        Will do my best to find my focus again.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Kamila, you need to find some techniques that could help you. They might include talking to someone who is not close to you, someone who can simply let you talk. Another thing, if that’s not possible is to begin journaling. There are some good books available that will explain how to use a journal as therapy. Your peace of mind won’t come from anything outside of you, not even a baby (I know that sounds silly, but you know what I mean). Your inner balance is within and you simply have to tap into it.

          Other things might be simply taking time out, walking, sitting peacefully. Just do whatever you can to reach a quiet state of relaxation.

          Take care and stay in touch.

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  113. Kanitha

    Hi,

    DoB: 19 November

    Last month I met someone I thought I would have a romantic future with but for some reason we’ve barely spoken in the past few weeks despite a lot of effort put in on my end. I want to know whether there is any future here because we both felt something or is it all in my head?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Kanitha,

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Ten of Wands. A strange male figure carries a huge bundle of poles (wands). The full moon hangs in the sky behind him. His mouth is open with the effort of carrying his burden.

      As a ten card, this shows that this association was over before it began. Tens are connected to endings and completion. As you said, you were the one doing the heavy lifting here. The other person is clearly not interested at this time, so your best course of action is to let it go. You never know, sometimes when you do this they suddenly get interested again, but I don’t think that will happen.

      The base card is the Moon, which indicates that you have been confused and bewildered over this issue. The moon often shows that what you feel is real, in actuality, isn’t.

      Move on.

      Good luck.

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  114. Anonymous

    Hello Troi,
    My birthday is September 24th and my significant other is December 23rd. Our relationship had a very rocky start, and after almost three months my S/O made a poor decision of infidelity (an intoxicated party) which she told me about a couple of weeks after it happened. She promised to never make that mistake again. We have worked through a lot of our insecurities but still have much to work through. Recently I had the fear of infidelity occurring again, to which my interactions with the tarot remained ambiguous. My anxiety seemed to compound and subsequent readings did not seem so positive, though I think my anxious energy may have influenced my repetitive readings. I talked to her about it and her response seemed sincere and honest and said that she has remained monogamous aside from that party. But it was again revealed that we both still had/have trust issues and anxieties. My S/O has had some prior trauma of some kind in life and a few mental illnesses which can affect her sense of judgement. Sometimes, I still feel that something may be hidden, but that may be subconscious fear and doesnt occur that often. My question for the Tarot is, is there something hidden still in our relationship that she fears speaking of or are we truly recovering from past hurt. Thank you for your time.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anonymous,

      Your birthdays indicate that this combination is subject to ‘dark forces’ and difficult undercurrents. You are both born on two of the four power points in the year; your SO at the Winter Solstice and you on the fall equinox. There is a very strong attraction because you are equals… but you are also like two rocks coming together. Neither will give way. And, although you mention insecurities, the feelings are much more powerful than mere ‘insecurity’. You know this, don’t you? Emotions are unleashed that neither party can handle easily. Secrecy is part of it – and it will always be present. You may never get to the truth because privacy is very important to her. If you proceed with this relationship, know that it will never run easily, yet you could be together for a long time through the sheer addictive nature of your combined personalities.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Devil. A red demonic figure dances in glee on a volcano.

      This card absolutely confirms everything I just wrote. It is the card of addiction, when it’s impossible to live together and almost as impossible to be apart. It also shows that this is not good for you, that immersing yourself in her life is going to suck the soul out of you. Yet, you can’t let go. Somehow, you have to make a decision whether to keep it going or to get out now before you get really hurt.

      I’d also advise you not to keep doing repetitive readings on the same questions, it doesn’t help in any way, and will only cause you confusion. Make your decisions based on real life, not on tarot cards.

      Good luck and best wishes.

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  115. KARLA

    Hello:) my ex of 3 years recently broke up with me out of nowhere and said he just needs to work on himself and the whole “its not you its me” thing. he also said maybe one day in he future when we’re both “where we need to be” something could happen between us again. I saw someone else put both birthdays, idk if that’s helpful but my birthday is May 6th, his Aug 24th. I believe in my heart, and my intuition tells me he will come back to me. I don’t think right away but I feel like he will. I guess I’m curious to know if he broke up with me to be with other girls. i asked him if that’s why and he got defensive. My question is; will he be sexually or physically intimate with another woman other than me? I think that would be my only deal breaker. Thank you:)

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Karla,

      Yes having both birthdays is helpful so I can check my compatibility charts.

      So your birthday combination indicates that **if** you were to get back together, this could be a strong and lasting relationship… but only if you overcome the underlying currents of distrust. Should you make a commitment to each other in the future, you can set aside any worries about betrayal. Be open with each other.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is Temperance. A strange-looking blue female angel is pouring a liquid from a cup into a leaf-shaped bowl. She stands at the edge of a lake with her toes just touching the water.

      This card doesn’t answer your question directly but it does give you advice. Temperance may mean that, until your break-up, you may have been somewhat out of balance. Perhaps you were making more effort than your ex? And then when you split up, you were left hanging feeling as though half of your life had just got up and walked away. The appearance of this card suggests that you have to find your own inner balance. In other words, what he does now is less important than what you do for yourself.

      From personal experience, I would say that when someone says, “It’s not you, it’s me,” they are committing relationship assassination, but doing their best not to be brutal. It’s utterly transparent, of course.

      Temperance tells you that if you are in contact with him, make sure you keep your language moderated – don’t be needy or accusatory; be the reasonable one. Don’t push him or insist on knowing what he is doing. Don’t forget, he hasn’t, as far as you know, cheated on you, he’s ended the relationship before being with another person. So what he does is his own business. I can’t tell you if he’s interested in anyone else, but you need to take your attention off him and focus on rebuilding your life as a whole and balanced person. Then true love will find you again, whether it’s your ex or someone new. Also, make sure you are seen to be enjoying your life. There’s nothing that makes an ex more interesting than seeing them having a good time.

      Good luck.

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      1. Karla

        Thank you, Troi 🙂
        I have not been in contact w him since our breakup a bit over a month ago. Right after we Did message a few times but it was pointless and then i just ended all contact. And you hit the target, i did feel like i always put more effort than him although he’d deny. I guess deep down I’ve known I need to let him go and focus on me. Just sometimes when you’re in a very vulnerable place, like I am, you need reassurance from someone else in another level. Wether it’s spiritual or through energies. Thank you again:) I will try to just focus on me and become the best version of myself I possibly can 💜

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  116. Maureen

    Hello Troi,

    I am at a stage in life where it’s about “change” – I am 55, creeping into menopause, and all that this stage entails. Physically and emotionally, I feel great, and see this as my second Spring in life! I would like to eventually move, and find a partner to share my life with … and I am happily scared of these things!

    What is the best energy for me to use/embody as I move through this time of my life, to create what it is I ultimately desire?

    In gratitude

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Maureen,

      It’s a fabulous time of life and I’m glad you have this uplifting perspective on what we call ‘cronehood’ 😀 You have so much more to look forward to.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot, which is full of humour and sly wisdom. Your card is the Seven of Wands. A child fights her way through a thicket (wands) to make her way home.

      The Seven of Wands shows that courage has brought you to this point and courage will carry you forward. There will be times when the thicket closes in and you wonder if you are doing the right thing, but this card indicates that you need to continue to stick your life principles, your values and your point of view. The big lesson is that even though you want a new person and a new place, you shouldn’t compromise or shelve those principles that you hold dear.

      Sevens in tarot are connected with a person’s spiritual life; it indicates that you are still seeking, still on your journey, and still open to new ideas and beliefs. You will need someone who can share those things with you.

      Good luck and happy journeying.

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  117. TnT

    I can’t seem to pull away from a person that comes in and out of my life. I feel tied to them. Are we connected some how, can we continue this way?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi TnT,

      It would have been helpful to have had both your day/month of birth, but never mind.

      I’m using the weird and wonderful Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Five of Swords. A traitorous general is walking away from his King’s palace, where the white flag of surrender is flying. He carries two swords, two more lie at his feet, another protrudes from a rock, defying the general’s attempts to take it.

      This card indicates that this connection is an intellectual rather than an emotional issue. You probably do a lot of thinking around this person. In fact they take up far more real estate in your head than you do in theirs. You are connected because you want to be connected. And you feel tied to them because you have decided that’s the way it is.

      This card also shows that you may be being used in quite a cold-hearted manner. You may fly the white flag every time this person shows up, but the power to break free is in your own hands.

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Natalie,

      I can do you a general reading, but you need to know that one-card readings are not great for that. They tend to work better for specific questions. Nevertheless, we can give it a go.

      I’m using the Universal Waite, recolored by Mary Hanson-Roberts. Your card is the Eight of Cups. A lone figure is walking away from a collection of eight gold chalices. The figure’s stance indicates resignation, but also determination. The sky is darkened as a solar eclipse is about to happen.

      This card indicates that you could be suffering from some form of depression or recent loss. There may have been a break-up or a parting of the ways. Perhaps you have made a sacrifice in order to please another. Or have come to a realisation that you had to move on before things got worse. However, this path is not unknown to you. You have walked alone before and you can do it again. One thing you may tend to overlook is that you don’t always acknowledge what you want out of life. You aren’t good at listening to the inner voice that is trying to make things easier for you. It’s a strange thing, but a period of introversion can be helpful in this regard. Try to determine what new path your intuition is guiding you towards.

      The base card is the Nine of Pentacles. A woman stands alone in a garden. She holds a hooded kestrel on her left hand. This card indicates that being solitary is a good thing at this point in time. You are self-sufficient and self-contained. Once this present stage of your life has progressed and passed, then you can reach out and (re)gather a small circle of friends around you.

      I hope that made sense, Natalie. Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Donna,

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Emperor. The Emperor sits on a solid, concrete-like throne. His eyes are looking to his right. In his right hand he holds an ankh, a symbol of life, and his his left, an orb which represents the world.

      If Cyril is somewhat of an authoritarian figure, then the card indicates a ‘yes’. However, if he isn’t, then that means that some other person is going to be important in your situation. If you are looking for someone who can add some structure to your life, then this card is the perfect indication that it will happen.

      The base card is the Wheel of Fortune, which tells you many changes are headed your way, and it will be to your advantage if you can remain cool, calm and in control while it all gets a little bit crazy.

      I can’t really say more than that as there is little to go on in your question.

      Good luck. I hope you get the outcome that you desire.

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  120. Moe

    Hi Troi! I love the everyday witch tarot! I use that one myself! I am just learning, but lately my husband and I have been having issues. We both have talked to other people in the past while we were together, so I asked if he was in an emotional relationship with someone else. I can’t tell if it’s past or present.

    Thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Moe, you didn’t say what card/s showed up. However, I have to warn you that you should not base your actions on a turn of a card. It’s vitally important that you share your concerns with your husband.

      So I’ll draw a card and ask what you need to know. I’ll use the Everyday Witch as you feel an affinity with it 🙂

      Your card is the Seven of Swords. A young witch is carrying five swords and looking at two more that are displayed on a wall. She seems to be in some sort of castle or baronial hall – the wind is blowing through an open window in the background. Her cat follows warily behind.

      I often think that the Seven of Swords is about reclamation. Usually of something that is intangible yet very important. Swords are always connected to thoughts and communication and Sevens in tarot are to do with depth of perception. It shows we can be either overly immersed in mystery or conversely in superficiality. That brings me right back to what I said earlier about talking to your husband. If this hasn’t been happening, then this is what you need to reclaim. Reopen the line of easy communication between you.

      So, don’t look for deep problems where none may exist and also do not give greater weight to trivialities. You have to communicate.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Queen of Swords. Take your cue from her and demand (in a nice and gentle manner, of course) to know the truth. You have to know from him if you have anything to be worried about. This is your marriage, the most important thing in your life so truth and honesty within it are of paramount importance.

      Good luck. Hope you get it resolved.

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  121. Nicole

    Hi,

    So I’m just learning tarot and I’m confused at some of the cards I’ve pulled. The ones I’ve pulled signal cheating in all caps (2 of swords for him – 5 of wands for me – 3 of cups reversed for us – and Justice reversed + death + king of pentacles), but I’ve seriously investigated out of my own anxiety and unless my husband is really really good at hiding it, he’s not cheating. Wondering if you could provide some more info? We’re newly married, happy, and comfortable.

    My birthday is October 17 – His is April 24.

    Thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Nicole,

      I have to admit to being puzzled why you would do a reading to see if your husband is cheating if you are happy. So, if your question was nothing to do with cheating, then perhaps your cards are referring to some other situation in your life? And, by the way, none of those cards indicate unfaithfulness. What they do show is distrust and competition… and the fact that the relationship could already be on the way to an end unless you change direction now.

      Your birthdays indicate that the most important thing you have to do as a couple is to become each other’s best friend. And friendship may be where this combination was more comfortable, rather than proceeding to the more pressurised arena of marriage. This is not one of those immensely passionate relationships, but, you can develop a loving and supportive environment for you both. The key to this is to give each other space and endeavour to compromise any time you disagree. It’s going to take a lot of work.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Hierophant. Two people sit before a yoga teacher. All three are in lotus pose as she leads them in a guided meditation.

      This card suggests that you need some guidance and the chance to someone calm who knows what you are going through. I would advise you to get some counselling before any more time passes. The Hierophant is a Five card, which indicates challenges ahead, but they are challenges you can navigate if you get the appropriate help.

      The base card is the Four of Swords. A woman lies with her eyes closed, either sleeping or in deep contemplation. Her cat is snuggled up next to her. Four swords are standing in some kind of holder on the windowsill. It is night, and the sky is full of stars and the crescent moon dominates.

      This card often gives an insight as to why the question was asked, and I’m wondering if there is an invisible barrier between you and your husband. You feel alone and unable to communicate and the only relief you get is when you retreat into your own thoughts and in sleep. Please reach out and ask for help because you aren’t going to be able to work all this out by yourself. Do it soon.

      Best of luck.

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  123. Carol

    Hi Troi

    My relationship of 4 years has recently ended. We were soulmates and although we both knew it would end one day, we always said we’d keep in touch with one another. At first we did but now he only ever responds to my text messages briefly and never to my emails, we used to constantly email one another. He has given up the job he had and is doing other things and that might just be keeping him busy but I don’t know.

    My question is, is he ghosting me because he is busy or is it because he just wants to forget about us. I really miss him and working too many hours just so that I don’t sit thinking about him. I am regretting our split, I wonder if he is too, I wonder if we will reconnect and be together. Is this on the cards?

    My birthday is April 20th and his is January 16th.

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Carol,

      This birthday combination shows that there is unlikely to be a stable relationship between these two. There are deep insecurities and a mix of jealousy and admiration which makes it almost impossible to maintain the give and take required. There would also be power struggles as each tries to gain dominance over the same issues instead of dividing up responsibilities and areas of power.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Eight of Pentacles. A witch is busy mixing her potions and concentrating hard on the task in hand. A black cat watches over the proceedings carefully.

      The straight answer to your question is, yes, he is focused on his new projects and may be training for a new job or business. This is a practical card that suggests that you might also do the same. You mentioned working long hours to try and forget him, but why not look for new opportunities now that you have the chance?

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Pentacles. It shows a rich witch handing out gifts and money to an old woman and to a young lad. This card means two things: either you can reach out and ask for help, or there is someone close to you who needs your help. Changing your own focus will change how you see the world.

      It’s time to let your ex go and move on, Carol.

      Good luck.

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      1. Rrj

        Hi Troi:)
        Lovely blog:)
        Your hubpages and other resources are really wonderful! Great! Thanks so much for this page of free reading.
        My problem is financial. Situation is bad , my financial status is very weak and the survival as of now is by withdrawing old deposits. I have a property, a beautiful plot, for sale. It is at a faraway place so it was put for sale since I can’t go there frequently and maintain the property. Selling it will improve my financial status. Lot of people are in touch with me but the deal is not getting finalised. I would like to sell it to somebody good and straightforward in dealings at a good price. Chanting switch words is bringing prospective buyers and I am continuing with it.
        Please have a look at the cards. Let the divine intervene!
        Thanks so much.
        Bless you.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Rrj,

          You haven’t asked a specific question so I will draw a card to reflect the energy around the sale of the property.

          I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Queen of Swords. The queen sits on her carved throne, sideways on to the viewer, facing the left. She holds her sword upright in her right hand. She looks if she is encouraging someone to stand with her left hand.

          The Queen of Swords encourages honesty and clarity. I would suggest that the appearance of this card means you should find out why people aren’t progressing with the sale of your plot. Are you overstating its attributes? Are your prospective buyers disappointed when they actually see it? Is it overpriced? If there’s a house included, is it well-presented? If it’s a plot of land, then make sure the boundaries are cut back, and all rubbish is cleared. The Queen of Swords is a woman who insists on order and tidiness.

          I like to take a quick look at the card at the bottom of the deck and it’s the Queen of Wands. Two queens in the same reading may suggest that either a woman’s influence is affecting the issue OR that you need a woman’s influence to encourage the sale. The Queen of Wands is active and inspiring – she encourages action. So, if you are able to, you should get to the property and make sure it is the best it can be.

          Good luck, hope you get your sale soon.

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          1. Rrj

            Hi Troi:)
            Thanks so much.
            I would say you are correct! Accurate, indeed!
            I will definitely try to rectify all the issues asap.
            Best wishes.

  124. Nicole1825

    Hi Tori,

    I have been seeing someone and I’m wondering where we are going and how he feels towards me. Is this potentially a long term relationship for us?

    My birthday is July 18.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Nicole, It’s a shame you didn’t include his birth day and month, but not to worry.

      I’m using the Universal Waite, recoloured by Mary Hanson-Roberts, and your card is the Chariot. A young man stands in a heavy-looking chariot. In front are two sphinx-like creatures. They don’t appear to be harnessed up and are both lying down, so, for now, this chariot isn’t going anywhere.

      This card shows there are more important things going on in your life right now and you should be attending to them. You new love interest will either fit into your plans, or he won’t. It will soon become clear whether you are headed forward together or not. For example, if you find that you are compromising over issues which are important to you, then that should be a warning sign. At the same time, nothing is simple and a willingness to negotiate is always useful. However, be mindful of your goals outside of the relationship.

      The card at the base of the deck often gives a clue as to why the question is being asked. It’s the Seven of Swords. This indicates you may have been betrayed in a previous relationship, or had something taken from you – usually in the abstract, so self-confidence, trust, that kind of thing.

      My advice would be to take it steady and not to expect too much. I can’t tell you how he feels towards you – you might think about asking him 🙂

      Best of luck.

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  125. cindy

    Hi Troi,

    So I’m currently back in school after realizing the current field I’m in is not for me. I just want to know if I’m on the right track. I ask this because I can be super controlling of everything in my life and I feel this is ruining lots of incoming opportunities for me.

    My birth date is August 23

    Thank you! 🖤

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Cindy,

      I’m using the Deviant Moon (borderless edition) and your card is the Three of Swords. A three-legged female figure stands in tears as three swords penetrate her torso right through a red heart on her dress.

      Many tarot readers interpret this as a broken heart, but I tend not to. As it’s a Swords card it is always connected to issues around communication, clarity of vision and the intellect. To me, the appearance of this card in connection with your question shows that you are really mixed up about your choices. That your vision is not as clear as it was previously. Perhaps some of your classes haven’t been what you thought they would be? Or you’ve had opportunities that have distracted you and cause you to second-guess your decision.

      What you have to do is to make your choice and make that be the right one. In most decisions in life, there is no ‘right way’ or ‘wrong way’, only the way that you choose. So make up your mind, then focus with all your heart and soul on that one path.

      As an aside, the card at the base of the deck, which I was going to ignore, is the Knight of Cups. I am wondering if any of those opportunities you mentioned are linked to a love interest?

      Good luck.

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  126. Rose

    Hi troi

    My question is if my husband has cheated on me. We have been going through a very difficult time ever since we were married and a bit before that (married for 7 and together for 14 years) I wanted to know despite all are other stressed in life. I wanted to know if he has or is cheating on me that has caused the disconnect.

    My birthday is May 4
    His birthday November 16

    Thank you so much, your guidance is greatly appreciated

    Rose

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rosie,

      I’m going to say right up front that I’m not going to answer your question directly. This is something you are going to have to work out for yourself with your husband. I am always concerned that people might make a decision based on a tarot reading which could change their lives… and that is never a good idea. Also, you are asking me to do a third-party reading, i.e. report on his actions without his permission. That goes against my code of ethics.

      So what I will do is take a look at your birthday compatibility and then draw a card to see what the energy is around you as a couple.

      A relationship between Taurus ll and Scorpio lll can be complex, passionate, and fraught with power struggles. There is likely to be jealousy and suspicion between the two as each has a strong personal magnetism. Scorpio may hold back some emotional honesty because they are wary of Taurus’s response. Sometimes each expects too much from the other. When the power balance is equal-ish, and give-and-take prevails, marriages can be strong and lasting, particularly because each finds the other sexually attractive.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Deck and your card is the World. An androgynous figure is leaping through an oval wreath of flowers. Behind them is the night sky and in each of the four corners of the card are representations of the four elements, earth, air, water, and fire.

      The World is a lovely card and generally means that the seeker reaches a new level of understanding. There is a deep acceptance that earthly concerns are but blips on the overall spiritual journey of life. That those things that worry you most aren’t really important at all. That there is far more good to embrace than bad.

      It can also hint at a staging post between one life cycle and the next. It often appears, for example, when someone has left their employment and is waiting for the next opportunity to come along. It can be frustrating to be in this holding pattern, but at the same time, it’s good to know that positive change is up ahead.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Devil. A couple are both pulling in opposite directions. Between them is a chest full of treasure. Neither are looking at the treasure, i.e. what they have, but each are focused on getting their own way. If they stopped pulling against each other, they would see all that they hold between them, and then they could work together to enjoy those treasures (pleasures) that they already own.

      Hope that helps!

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      1. Rose

        I do wish I could have a direct answer- I feel with what you have given me he is keeping something from me. However I already thought/ think he has done something that he won’t tell me as he thinks it will hurt me and end us, I do appreciate what you have given me and thank you.

        Rose

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        1. Troi Post author

          You know I can’t do that, Rose. I cannot be responsible for you making a life-changing decision on the turn of a card. And I strongly advise you from seeking your answers in this way. You have got to work this through as a couple, with no interference from external agencies. Get talking, get some counselling, talk to your husband.

          I wish you all the best.

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  127. Sabina

    Dear Troi,

    I met someone at a professional setting about a year ago. He is at a well-standing establishment in his career, and I almost have nothing. Though I have to admit that a lot very strange and rush feelings about him just bubbling after a few conversations. Half years later, I set up a meeting with him again, yet the feelings just getting more complex and ambiguous. What makes me even more confused is that weeks ago I encounter him by chance at a train while he with his brother. We two were in the same carriage, face-to-face, and divided by several rows. We did not talk and looks like deliberately avoided eye contacts. He appeared in my dream several times, and I really don’t know why he came into my life and how could I expect from our relationship.

    Thank you very much after all.

    Cheers,
    Sabina

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Sabina,

      These kinds of encounters can be very confusing indeed.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Two of Pentacles. This card shows a young witch balancing on a see-saw. At the point that we are looking at her, she is perfectly balanced, but she can’t see that her cat is about to take a leap onto the see-saw and will cause her to lose her balance. Somehow she will have to cope with it. She could attempt to stay upright, she could jump off, or she might involuntarily fall off.

      This card shows that, initially, your friendship with this man could have gone in any direction. However, now, it is unlikely to come to any fruition. There is something or someone else that is grabbing his attention. His focus is elsewhere and he is committed to other aspects of his life. If there was any interest on his part, he would not have ignored you in that manner. Especially as you had previously had several conversations with him.

      However, I’m looking at the card at the base of the deck and it is the Ace of Cups. This means that if you can let this encounter go, and forget about this person, you may find that love will flow to you very soon.

      Good luck.

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  128. B

    Hello
    I’ve been having terrible marital issues. We’ve been back and forth since January and we keep having issues. We’ve been together 17 years and he is a repeat offender cheater. I do love him and I am just confused on what to do. Do you see us working things out or going our separate ways?

    My Birthday August 2
    His Birthday October 27
    Thank You!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi B.

      So sorry you are going through this turmoil.

      Before I even draw a card, I would suggest you ask yourself if you can be happy with his ongoing cheating? Because it will continue, you know? Even if you work it out, he’s not going to change his behaviour for very long. He may well love you to bits, but the thrill of the chase is irresistible.

      Your compatibility chart describes this pairing as ‘all or nothing’. And while both partners value truth, each sees truth as relative. That it can change according to their own viewpoint. There is usually a lot of conflict and disagreement, but also passion and sexual fireworks.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Five of Swords. This suggests that the area of dispute lies mostly in communication… or the lack of it. The Five of Swords makes me think that your husband keeps thinking that he has got away with it. That you won’t possibly find out, and even if you do, you will take him back. It’s a pattern of lies and deception. And yet he believes he is being as truthful as he can be.

      The base card is the Two of Wands, which often means working toward a common goal. I can’t tell you whether you will stay together That has to be a decision for the two of you. But if you do reconcile, you will have to compromise in some way. And that either means accepting him as he is and putting up with it, or perhaps creating a different kind of relationship. Perhaps one that might be described as an open marriage?

      Good luck.

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  129. Rosa

    Dear Troi

    I met a person recently and felt interested in knowing more about him. He volunteers at the same shelter as me, but I don’t really know if he has a girlfriend. Can you check if I should try to move forward and get to know him better? My birthday: July 8th

    Thank you so much.

    Rosa

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Rosa,

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Six of Wands. Whenever I see a six in tarot, I wonder if the seeker (you) has faced some kind of challenge or test recently. Sixes are always about reaching a better place. The Six of Wands suggests some kind of triumph or victory. It’s also a very positive card which indicates that all you have to be is be your happy self and things will move along with your fellow volunteer quite nicely. Just be open and friendly and he will reveal all the information you need.

      Good luck.

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  130. Stefanie

    Dear Troi,

    I’ve put in several applications for a new job. Can you tell me if any of them will work out for me? Thank you so much.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stefanie,

      Glad to hear you have some opportunities lined up. I’m not sure I can pick out individual jobs, but we can at least look at the energy around the situation.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Ten of Pentacles. This card shows a family scene and it is obvious that the family are enjoying the abundance that their business or other work has brought them. This card immediately makes me think that if one of your jobs is possibly a family-run business or if the organisation was perhaps founded by a family dynasty, then it will be the right one for you at this time. As you are involved in the medical profession, then maybe it will be connected to a clinic that is run along the lines of ‘one big family. You’ll know it when you get to the interview.

      The base card is the Magician – the dynamic 1 card that shows that you have the will, determination and the abilities necessary to secure the position that you desire. The Magician reminds you to keep your focus pure and clear. Know what it is you want and it will manifest for you.

      Good luck, my dear. Hope it works out beautifully. T xxxxx

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      1. Ash

        Hello Troi

        I have read through some of your readings and would love to have one too!
        I’ve recently ended a relationship with a younger man (Feb 17), however I wonder if there is a possibility we will end up together? We share a very meaningful connection but he is not always a great communicator which has made it difficult for me. My birthday is March 12.
        Thank you kindly 😊

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Ash,

          His birthday suggests that he may be a little immature for his age, which would account for his difficulty in communicating what he means. Don’t assume his quietness is because he is in deep thought; he just can’t think of the right words.

          I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Two of Swords. This card often means that a deadlock has been reached. In traditional decks it signifies that the seeker is not seeing the truth, and is not wanting to see it either. You have a vision or a goal or a dream and you are protecting it, even though it is ephemeral and not really rooted in fact.

          So I would suggest that, even if you get back together, at the moment this is not a good match for you. The meaningful connection is not quite strong enough. Your ex needs to get to experience life a bit more before he can be an equal partner in a relationship.

          Sorry, it’s probably not what you were hoping for. However, you have other friends in your circle (base card: Three of Cups) so enjoy their company for a while and see what happens.

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          1. ash

            Thank you so much, Troi. This has really hit home with the way I’m feeling about the situation at the moment. I really appreciate you taking the time to do the one card reading for me!

  131. Claire

    Hello,

    I’m very confused about a connection I have with someone in my life. We have been friends since we were children and have always been attracted to one another but have never been in a relationship. I have tried putting this out of my head as even though he acts romantically when I see him, he never seems to want to take it further although I have never really asked. I feel this really strong connection to him and I’m not sure why. My birthday is 14th July and his is 28th April.

    Many Thanks,

    Claire

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Claire,

      This is a fascinating situation. It seems that you are able to be comfortable with this guy, and for all these years, but not to the point that you can have a frank discussion with him. Sometimes, the longer these things go on, the harder it becomes to talk about them. I’m looking at my compatibility charts and it says of this combination, “The channels of expression between these two must be open and direct.” It goes on, “The relationship is apt to be highly original.” However, the downside is that a relationship between people born at these times rarely gets off the ground because Cancer llls don’t see Taurus ls as their type. Yet they so are! So, from this, I would say that an honest conversation about your mutual feelings is way overdue 🙂

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Two of Swords. A woman sits on a damaged sea wall, her back to to the ocean. She is blindfolded, and holds two swords in her hands. Her arms are crossed protectively over her body. A crescent moon hangs in the sky.

      At first glance, this may not seem very romantic. However, twos in tarot are often about connections and relationships, and Swords are always about thought and communication. The Two of Swords shows that you really don’t want to broach the issue with your friend, that you are constantly holding back. The truth may be that he isn’t interested in beginning a full-on relationship but you are afraid to look that truth in the face. However, the opposite may also be true, that he desperately wants to be with you, but something in your demeanour is preventing him breaking through your defences.

      The base card is Strength, and that tells you to stop prevaricating. Draw on your courage and simply ask him how he feels. You might think you are risking the friendship, and that’s always a possibility, but meanwhile, you also could be letting love slip through your fingers. Sort it out.

      Best of luck, Claire, and do come back to let me know how things develop.

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  132. Meagan

    Hi,

    My name is Meagan and my birthday is July 8th. I’m currently in a relationship with a man long distance and wondering if this is the right relationship for me to be pursuing.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Meagan,

      I am using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Ten of Cups. This is a lovely card, illustrated by a family (mother, father, son and daughter) enclosed by a rainbow and ten gold chalices.

      It suggests to me that right now, this is the right relationship. I can’t tell you if it will end up in marriage and a family, but the card seems to indicate that. So, yes, if it feels right, carry on.

      However… the card at the bottom of the pack is the Eight of Swords, which can sometimes tell me why you are asking the question. A woman stands trapped, bound and blindfolded within a fence of swords on a beach.

      The Eight of Swords tells me that you might not be feeling very comfortable after all. Perhaps the Ten of Cups is how your partner sees the relationship, but you feel railroaded into a situation you don’t particularly want? Or maybe it’s something else, like you are caught up in a pattern of thinking that you are undeserving of a fulfilling relationship? I can’t be sure from only two cards, but there’s a definite disconnect here. You may think that you have got yourself into a situation that you can’t get out of… well, that’s a false perspective. It means you are allowing other concerns to cloak your vision. The only person that matters here is you.

      Hope it works out for you, one way or the other, Meagan.

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  133. Anonymous

    I am in pain every day of my life due to injuries. Is there a reason why I’m given this burden that wastes my life talents?

    March 17

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    1. Troi Post author

      Anonymous, I’m very sorry to hear of your pain and discomfort.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Seven of Wands. A young man stands upon raised ground, wielding a staff like a weapon. Out of sight below his foes point their own staves at him. He looks as if he will be the victor, given that he has the advantageous position.

      I can’t tell you if there is a reason for your burden; sometimes things are the way they are. However, what I can tell you is that you do not have to give up. There are ways of using your skills and attributes to help others in similar situations. There may be some injustice that needs to be addressed. Or there could be a way to connect with others and set up a mutual support group. The thing about this card is that its essence is, and excuse my language, “Don’t let the bastards grind you down.” That can apply to other people and to your injuries.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Knight of Wands. This is a card of inspirational action. And while this knight is a bit flaky, his enthusiasm can not be dimmed. He’s an ‘up and at ’em’ sort of character. This base card often shows me the reason for your question and I guess the overriding feeling is frustration. Perhaps you are normally very physical and strong? Well, you may have to transfer those qualities to activities that fit in with your current abilities. Channel the energy into something worthwhile. Be a keyboard warrior, if necessary.

      Good luck and I hope you make a recovery in due course.

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  134. Monique

    Hi , I’m new to this so I really don’t know how to even come about this but .. I’ve been feeling super alone lately, I’m currently pregnant 33w. I feel like I feel this way because I’m unsure who the father of my child is. I just want to know if it’s my on and off bf of almost 6yr. I want to know what the future holds for me and my partner. My birthday is April 16th and his is May 5th

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Monique,

      Firstly, I’m not going to tell you who the father of your child is… that is for you to determine with a DNA test after the child is born. I will draw a card to represent the energy and influences around your relationship. Before I do that, I’ll take a look at my trusty compatibility tables to see how you mesh together as a couple. Please bear in mind, I am not an astrologer.

      Your birthdays suggest that your relationship would last if it is based on a mutual friendship rather than romance. You may have shared interests, particularly ones that focus on making life better for those less fortunate. It’s possible that you work in similar circumstances for an organization/s that does just that. It kind of means that the initial sexual attraction may not keep the passion fires burning, but that friendship might be long-lasting. If you can keep it together, you would make excellent parents.

      Okay, let’s see what your card says. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Eight of Wands. You can Google the image, but in essence, the card shows eight rocket-powered wrought, metal wands shooting into space. In the background we can see Jupiter and one of its moons. We also get a glimpse of the surface of the Earth at the bottom of the image.

      Sometimes this card will hint at passion followed by conception. I’m not going to draw any conclusions here, it’s just… interesting. The other meaning for it is ‘organization’. It tells you that the time is almost here for getting things sorted out. You need to determine whether you are going to get the relationship on a firm footing; to find out if your long-term boyfriend is prepared to enter into a committed arrangement. It also means being completely prepared for what’s ahead of you, both in the material sense, and emotionally and mentally.

      If you can do this, then you stand a good chance of creating a lovely little family. It means you have to be honest with him about whether he is the father and be prepared for what happens should you find out that he isn’t. It’s going to be hard and confusing, but if you get your act together and be mature about everything, it may work out for you both.

      Good luck.

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  135. Ishita

    Hi Troi,
    I’m about to be applying to colleges and am extremely anxious. Though I have a strong arts portfolio filled with films and theatre experience, my grades have largely suffered and I don’t think I have the test scores and grades for acceptance to a good college. I just wanted some guidance on what the future holds for me academically. (July 3)

    Thank you so much,
    Ishita

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Ishita,

      Happy birthday for yesterday 🙂

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot, and I’m going to start with the base card. This card often gives me an insight as to the origins or reason for the question. It’s the Seven of Cups, which suggests to me that there has been an element of time wasting or distraction in your academic studies. I get the feeling that there was no sense of urgency, or that you felt you could rely on your coursework/portfolio to see you into college. The Seven of Cups shows someone with a range of opportunities but, for some reason they are unable to choose one or make a concrete decision.

      Your main card is the Queen of Swords. The Queen stands facing right, her sword raised in her right hand. She is standing on raised ground looking into the distance, her gaze is firmly fixed on something we cannot see. She wears blue robes, a white dress embroidered with butterflies.

      The Queen of Swords shows that reality has struck. She shows you that you have to focus on the present and the near future. You can’t go back, so you have to make the best of where you are right now. You may have to settle for a lesser college, but that doesn’t mean you can’t go on to achieve your goals… as long as they are clearly defined and you have the necessary self-discipline to do the work. I don’t know which country you are living in, but here in the UK it is sometimes possible to transfer between courses and universities, so if you work really hard and make the next year a stellar one in terms of your work, then perhaps it will be possible to move to where you really want to be once you have the required grades/credits or whatever your system is based on.

      Remember, you can’t change what’s gone, but you can make damn sure this coming academic year is one you will shine in.

      Good luck.

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  136. Gloria

    Hi It’s awesome to see what you are doing here! I have been with my husband for 2 years, married him in Oct 2018, I have been having problems at work due to his ex and also having issues with trust and possible cheating. Is my job/marriage at risk? My Date of Birth June 7th

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Gloria,

      Sorry to hear of your problems. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Wheel of Fortune. A wheel is divided by spokes into eight sections. In each section the same woman appears in various emotional states, from joyful through to despair. While I can’t tell you exactly what is going on or what is going to happen, it is clear that there are major changes ahead for you. It is good to be prepared for anything, and to work out all your possible options, whether you have to react to to the best happenings, or the worst. Remember that if you allow the wheel of fate to fling you around, life can get very uncomfortable, whereas if you stay calm and in control at the hub of the wheel, you will fare better.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Queen of Wands. She either represents you, or someone near you. She is enthusiastic and outgoing. She doesn’t let negativity get in the way of her life. She does have a way of steamrollering over others, but her charm generally wins out.

      I’m not sure if any of this has helped you, Gloria, but I wish you the best of luck.

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  137. Az

    My now ex-boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship from day one. We have a really strong connection, almost feel like some sort of spiritual connection, but we are consistently breaking up for one reason or another, most of the time for something stupid and always get back together. I’ve asked you questions about our relationship in the past and you’ve always been spot on. I’m not sure if we will get back together this time, I’ll let time reveal that. What I would like to ask you is will I ever find and be with my lifelong partner? Whoever this may be.

    26th Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Az,

      Before I do the reading, I have to say that there are very, very few relationships that are ‘life-long’ these days. The best we can hope for is to find someone who we want to be with and who wants to be with us ‘right now’. In other words: live in the moment and let the future look after itself.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Four of Swords. It is illustrated by a figure carved in stone, lying on her back on a plinth. Three swords dangle from an overhanging tree. A fourth sword that looks to be part of the carving lays beside her.

      The Four of Swords suggests a hiatus from love for the time being. You are still hurting from your previous relationship and the card tells you that you are not yet ready to start another. You need to rest, and think, and nurture your feelings until the time is right.

      This is backed up by the card at the base of the deck which is Death. Your feelings for your ex are still alive and there’s no way you can consider another relationship until you have laid this one to rest. Which you aren’t ready to do yet, are you?

      So, you haven’t got the answer you wanted this time, I’m afraid, but these pesky cards often insist on telling us what we need to know right now.

      Best wishes.

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  138. evelyn

    hello. troi. how are you? Your last reading was so correct. I came back for another one after 3 months. Thanks so much in advance! I feel stuck in my career. I no longer feel challenged by my current job. I am just wondering if there is any career breakthrough that is coming up for me. thanks a lot DOB 4/30/82

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi again, Evelyn,

      I’m very well, thank you for asking.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Ten of Swords. A man lays face down on a beach with ten swords stuck in his back. The sky is dark but there’s a promise of a brilliant sunrise.

      It seems to me, looking at this card that something has to ‘die’ in order for you to progress. I can’t tell you what to do, but in some way you have to make room in your life for this breakthrough. Tens in tarot mean that a life phase is just about to end, or has already ended. So you might know in your heart that your current job is literally a dead-end. Think about this carefully. Then take the appropriate action.

      The card at the base of the deck is the High Priestess. She tells you that your instinct will be proved right. Trust your own inner guidance – if it doesn’t feel good, then make a change.

      Good luck!

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  139. Maureen

    Hello Troi –
    I met a sweet guy, and there is definitely a mutual interest. While there is chemistry and attraction between us, there is also something deeper going on that I can’t put my finger on. I know that “something” could mean a soul connection … but he is 20 years younger than I. I’m having some difficulty with that! How do I get past my mind chatter about out age difference? Thank You!

    Me: 12 October
    Sweetness: 21 February.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Maureen,

      Interestingly, the heading for your birth combination in my compatibility charts says “Across Space and Time”. It seems that the attraction is almost irresistible between you, and as if you are drawn together by a certain force, which is just about how you describe it yourself. However, you need to know that this relationship will always be temporary. There will be external forces steadily wearing you both down. As the magnetic force brings you together, the poles will change and eventually the partners will be repelled apart by similar forces. However, this birth combination can make for very strong platonic friendships.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is Justice. A witch with grey hair sits, partially blindfolded on a wooden chair. In her left hand she holds scales on which sit two kittens, a black and a white. In her left hand, and resting on her knee is a large red book, entitled ‘Law’.

      Justice reminds you to consider what you are thinking about doing. That your actions could have repercussions that you can’t envisage. It advises caution, and to retain your balance. You need to keep a clear head about this possible relationship and where it might lead. That mind chatter is there for a reason; not to be suppressed. It’s your conscience and might well be the force that can overcome the attraction.

      The card at the base of the deck is the High Priestess, and a little like Justice (they are both ‘two’ cards), she encourages you to search your heart and mind for the truth in all this.

      My own suggestion is that you give it a little more time, try to keep it platonic and see if the attraction dissipates naturally.

      Good luck.

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  140. MovingForward

    Hello Bev, after many years with one company, I unexpectedly found myself looking for a new job. On the positive side, several opportunities have come up and I would like to know if one of them will become an offer in the near future. My birthdate is November 5. Thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi MovingForward,

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Queen of Swords. The Queen sits on a throne carved out of crystal. She wears a yellow robe to signify the accumulation of knowledge and wisdom. In her left hand she holds a quill pen; in her right, a sword. A white cat sits at her feet.

      There are a couple of ways the energy of this card may manifest. If the Queen of Swords represents you, then use her incisive power to cut through to the core of what you want from a new job. You may find that some people waffle and prevaricate while they justify their positions and salaries. Know what it is you really want.

      If the card represents another person, say someone who is interviewing you, if he or she is direct about what they can offer, then the offer will be a good one. It also helps if they are clear and upfront about the job and the kind of person they want to fill the position.

      This card doesn’t give an indication when this might happen, but timing has never been my thing really. It will happen, but you will have to just keep applying and putting out feelers.

      The card at the base of the deck is the King of Swords, which just sort of confirms the message above. He may be your new boss. Straight talking, precise, fair-minded and just a little bit nit-picky.

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Do you? Or are you just trying to promote your horoscope site (the link to which I have removed)?

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  142. Ceci

    Hi Troi,

    I posted before but I am unable to find the old posts. I have been out of this relationship for over 9 months but I still have feelings. Would you be kind and check to see what is in the future for us?
    October 24
    November 25

    Thank you again,

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Ceci,

      I remember you but I can’t find the posts either. I’m wondering if they were on a different page. Buried in the nether regions of the site, I expect. Okay, I found them now. I can see that we talked about the twin-flame thing, so it’s not surprising you are having trouble getting past this.

      https://tarot-study.info/readings/comment-page-3/#comment-17877

      I’m using the Robin Wood deck and your card is the Three of Cups. Three women are dancing in a grassy field. Each holds a golden chalice. There are overflowing baskets of fruit at their feet.

      This is the card of friendship and support. It makes me wonder if there is anyone you could turn to to help you get past this pain that you are obviously feeling? I like to think of this one as the ‘girls’ night out card. It doesn’t say that there is any chance of you getting back together with your ex. Not at this time anyway. Having said that, there is nothing preventing you getting in touch with him? Just to keep the friendship alive?

      The card at the base is a queen – of course it is 🙂 The Queen of Pentacles this time. She advises you to take a pragmatic view. She says you need to get on with your life, do the things you want to do and, if the relationship is meant to be, it will be. If not, then you can have a wonderful life anyway. There is more than one perfect love for you out there.

      Good luck, Ceci.

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      1. Ceci

        Thank you Troi. As always, from your words you seemed to know more about the situation than I expect! I agree with your interpretation of the Queen but I am still having trouble letting go and I feel that reaching out for friendship is not my step to take…
        Thank you very much your words are very valuable to me!

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  143. Kamila

    Dear Troi,
    Me (19 December) and my partner (11 July) are trying to patch up our relationship. Is it something we are trying to do for the good of our son, or we are able to ride out the storm and there is prospect for the future to lighten up?
    Thank you, blessings

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Kamilla,

      Let’s check out my trusty compatibility tables… okay, it seems that you both are always trying to improve the relationship. It makes me wonder if you see problems where there are not actually problems. And this might be due to your own lack of self-confidence. You are very capable of bringing out the best in each other if you stop looking for difficulties and differences. You have far more in common than you think. Your partner tries to bring out the positive, but you may feel he’s putting you under pressure to behave in a certain way. Try your best to go with the flow, heed his ideas instead of fighting against them. Drop the notion that you have something to prove. See where that takes you.

      I’m using the Robin Wood deck and your card is the Sun. A child rides a white pony. A field of sunflowers is behind them. The sun sends rays of warmth and energy. This card definitely suggests an improvement will take place. And not just in your relationship. Your new positive outlook will ensure life keeps getting better.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Star. Another Major and another positive message for you. It tells you that love (universal love) is what underpins the entire universe, and all you have to do is tap into it – all of your life. When things get tough, just allow the love to flow through you and all will be well.

      I’d say good luck, but you don’t need it!

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      1. Kamila

        Thank you Troi, this is very uplifting. I will do my best to work with my self confidence!
        Thank you xx

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  144. Samantha

    Hello!
    DOB: March 23
    After working for decades, I just lost my job earlier this month due to a downsizing process. I have suddenly got a lot of interviews from various other employers which I am very enthusiastic about – better positions and far better salaries on offer. However, I have not got a firm job offer as yet though in writing. My question is – Will I find a new job soon? How soon would that be? What do my cards have to say about my job and financial situation in the coming months.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Samantha,

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is Judgement. Judgement is a Major Arcana card that depicts an angel playing a trumpet, calling the dead to rise. We can take it quite literally as a call to action. You may have already received the call you are waiting for. So my answer is, yes, you’ll hear something soon.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Knight of Pentacles which fits in perfectly with your words, “After working for decades…” This card indicates that you are happiest when working. That you enjoy a stable routine and are a loyal employee. It’s a positive card and one of my favorites. As far as your financial situation is concerned, this card reassures you that all is well. Your income will be sufficient and will increase slowly but steadily.

      Good luck in your new job.

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  145. Nadine

    Hello Troi
    My dob is July 7 his is Feb 2. We have been in a complicated relationship for 4 years despite all the chances it seems like we are stuck in unhealthy relationship.
    My question is are we going to stay together and build a healthy fulfilling relationship or I should just move on.
    Thanks a lot

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Nadine,

      Your birthdays indicate that this is, indeed, a complex relationship. On the surface you appear to be well-matched, almost perfect together but underneath there is some kind of power struggle going on. Although you are air and water signs, your relationship is earth and fire. Volcanic. My compatibility book describes your combo as, ‘alluring quicksand’. I am sure that it’s either brilliant or awful, swinging from one extreme to the other. If you can come to terms with this is how it is and always will be, you might be able to work things out. Nancy (6th July) and Ronald Reagan 6th Feb) did 🙂

      Let’s see what the card says. I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Magician. This is interesting. The Magician says you are able to access all the tools and resources you need to obtain your desire. It doesn’t suggest which way you should go, just that whichever way you do choose, you can make it work for you. So let’s say you really want to stay with him, then you can look for outside help and assistance. It may come in the form of a friend, a counsellor or even a book. You may have to learn how to be together, how to deal with these patterns that aren’t serving you well. On the other hand, if you decide to move on, then you have resources to help you do that too. It’s your choice.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Four of Swords. This base card often reveals the reason for the question. When Swords appear in a relationship question, the meaning is almost always connected with communication. This particular card suggests some time out might be necessary. A pause in the communication. You are tired of all this and you need a short break during which you can make your decision.

      Hope that helps, Nadine. Good luck.

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      1. Nadine

        Hello Troi,

        Sorry I am just seeing your answer now. Thank you a lot. I believe you have a very accurate view of the situation. I am indeed taking some time out. It’s frustrating because like you said it is brilliant but the communication is so bad.

        Thank you so much.

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  147. Priya

    Thank you so much for the free reading ! My DOB is 30th September and I seek advice from the cards as I take the first step towards walking away from my husband of 26 years.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Priya,

      Do you know? I thought you were single! And now I can see what that Devil card meant in the reading I did for you two years ago. The Devil can show someone holding on to a relationship or situation that no longer serves them (both). I did mention there was something you needed to break free from, so your marriage was there, just hiding from my view.

      Okay, I’m using the Universal Waite and your card is the Six of Pentacles. A man is handing out some coins to a beggar. He’s holding a scale in his left hand, indicating that his gift has been carefully measured. Another beggar waits patiently.

      There is good advice in this card. It means that you should be patient during the breaking up process. That you should give a little and take a little. Negotiate the split in a spirit of friendship and generosity if at all possible. Focus on the practical decisions and give way when you judge it right to do so. Stand your ground when you need to. It’s a game of chess, and you must pick your way carefully without turning it into a battle.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Swords, which indicates you have the courage to cut through the ties between you. That you might have inspiration or an idea that could help the situation. It also says that keeping the lines of communication open means you will have good chance of reaching your goal.

      Hope that helps, Priya. Sending you strength and courage.

      Txxxxxxx

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      1. Priya VK Singh

        Thank you ! As always, the cards you have drawn and your interpretation not only make perfect sense to me but also comfort. I was anxious whether I would have the courage and clarity to see it through. It seems I will.

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  148. Liv

    Hi!

    My DOB: 16th April. Question: I developed feelings for a guy I dated last year for a few months and who ended our dating saying he thinks we should be friends and it wouldn’t work between us. We have been texting, and also met up recently again, and I’m still hoping we can get together and stay together. Will this happen?

    Thank you.
    L.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Liv,

      I’m using the Revelations Tarot and your card is the Seven of Swords. A bald-headed figure is smiling as he carries a haversack of four swords over his right shoulder. The other three swords appear in the reverse image below. Hard to explain; see if you can Google the image.

      My impression is that this man intends to keep his options open for the time being. He’s probably dating other people in any case. You should do the same. I would advise that you just leave it as it is, a friendship, and adopt a casual attitude instead of wondering and waiting to see if he will change his mind. Playing it cool and a little hard-to-get may focus his mind in due course.

      Good luck.

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      1. Liv

        Many thanks, I really appreciate it!
        I’ts extremely accurate, I was aware of his intentions of dating other girls.

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  149. Leah

    My birthday is March 3, 1996. Can you tell me what I can expect in terms of my career options and life? Thank you. Any insight will be appreciated.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Leah,

      I’m using the Revelations Tarot and you card is the Hierophant. A figure clad in purple robes holds a sceptre in his left hand and holds his right hand up in the gesture of blessing.

      The Hierophant always gets a bit of a bad rap in tarot, but I like to think of him as representing a mentor or guide. That makes me think that your career choice may well mean that you take on that role in some way. You will probably be inclined towards counselling or mentoring on a one-to-one basis. You mentioned in the comments in another page that you want to be an online tarot reader. You might also think about doing it offline as well.

      Your own personal experiences and memories will stand you in good stead, so always pay attention to them when they resurface during a reading. They will always be useful and relevant.

      Good luck.

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  150. Lisa

    Hi,
    My name is Lisa. I am doing this out of curiosity and have two questions. One will be about my love life in the future and who do I watch for? I need to navigate better in my dating life. It’s brutal out there. And my current career -if I’m going to gain greater monetary gains from my job that I love doing. FYI, I work with top tier agencies and awesome people in my field. My birthday is November 20th. Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lisa,

      I’m afraid I can only answer one question with one card, so I’ll respond to the first.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot (so you can go image search if you like), and your card is the Nine of Cups. A young witch sits in a meditative pose on the sea shore. She’s facing the ocean and her eyes are closed. She has built a beautiful sandcastle on which rests nine gold chalices. Her cat is teasing a large crab next to her.

      The Nine of Cups, when applied to a relationship question, tells you that the most important relationship to focus on right now, is the one you have with yourself. In order to escape that ‘brutal’ dating scene, you have to become comfortable with you. Once you do that, you can avoid the terrible dates and just live your life, knowing that your heart is open to love in whatever form it takes. When you literally fall in love with the person you are, people are drawn to you like butterflies. Knowing that you don’t need anyone else to complete you makes you serene and confident.

      Good luck.

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  151. Charmaine

    Hi Troi
    My name is Charmaine and I’m thinking of opening my own online Tarot Reading business. Is this a good idea? Birthday: 2 December
    Love and Light

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Charmaine,

      I love your name 🙂

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is Death. Not what you’d expect to answer your question, I bet.

      Death is illustrated by a black robed figure with a chalk white face (not a skull). In front of the figure a rope is stretched horizontally. The rope is on the verge of snapping as it is badly frayed. We can’t see who or what is holding the rope. Death looks to be about to cut it with his/her sword, thus severing the ties holding the two unseen forces together.

      I would say that you may have to release some other commitments before you embark on your venture. Setting up a site can take up a lot of time and it’s possible you are already very busy. So… something has to give.

      Personally speaking, unless you are a marketing whiz along the lines of Brigit Esselmont (Biddy Tarot), I would say that reading tarot professionally online won’t allow you to give up the day job.However, it is fun and you get to meet so many cool people.

      Good luck with your venture.

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  152. Eileen Woods

    Hi Troi,
    My name is Eileen and my birthdate is December 13th (I was also born on a Friday 🙂). I would like to know if an intimate relationship is part of my life in the next year?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Eileen,

      Let’s see what the cards say.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is… the Lovers. Isn’t it great when that happens?

      Two witches stand before a fire. From the back, it’s impossible to tell what their gender is. Their hands are held up and clasped. Two cats are also romantically entwined in front of the fire.

      So… yes, it’s highly likely that new love is on its way to you. However, you also need to know that this card often turns up when a life-impacting choice has to be made. Sometimes, the love and the choice are part of the same issue.

      Good luck!

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  153. Mudra

    Hi,
    I (8th Oct) would like to know that whether I have a proper future and when will it happen in terms of marriage with this person(27th Jan) ?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Mudra,

      I’m not sure I understand what you mean by a ‘proper future’. I will draw a card to see if marriage is likely for you. But before I do that I’ll check my compatibility charts.

      This is an interesting combination as it holds positives and negatives. Ease of communication is top of the positives, but jealousy is something you might have to watch out for. It’s likely that one of you would presume to always know what’s best for the other one. Therefore there may be some control issues to deal with if this marriage takes place.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Six of Pentacles. A young witch stands with a boy to her right and an older woman to her left. She is giving a basket of food to the old lady and a handful of coins to the boy.

      I would say that this card is more to do with the relationship you have with ‘this person’, rather than the event of marriage. This card is all about kindness and learning to give and take. There are times when you will offer help and there are other times when you should ask for help. Marriage is a two-way street, as they say.

      Looking at this on a different level, it could mean that one or both of you may need to complete your education.

      Good luck.

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  154. Steven

    Hello,

    My name is Steven and I was born on November 22.

    My question is: Will my wife and I stay together? We’ve had a troubled marriage but there’s still so much love there. We’re trying to work through our issues so we can be together healthily, as well as keep our family intact.

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Steven,

      It’s a shame you didn’t include your wife’s birthday in your question.

      I’m using the Revelations Tarot and your card is the Moon. This card is stunningly beautiful showing a crescent moon floating in a purple sky over a tumultuous ocean. The air is full of faery and the twin fish of Pisces leap from the waves.

      This card indicates that you are mired in a morass of confusion. That nothing is clear to you at this point. When caught up in this kind of energy, all you can do is ride it out until the confusion subsides. If in doubt, do nothing.

      It doesn’t say whether you will stay together or not, that is something you and your wife have to work out between you. If there’s love, then there is much in favour of you succeeding in keeping your marriage alive.

      Good luck.

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  155. Mudra

    Hi, Troi
    I love this guy and he loves me a lot as well but due to different caste, we had to break our relationship. I would like to know whether I (8th October) and him (27th January) have a good marriage future together?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Mudra,

      If this relationship were allowed to go ahead, you would make an excellent couple. There is an ease of communication between you which makes you extremely sensitive to each others feelings. The downside is that each thinks s/he knows what’s best for the other – common in many marriages.

      I’m using the Revelations Tarot to see what energies are around you and your card is the Emperor. This makes a lot of sense because this card is about control, whether by another person (father figure) or by societal expectations. I can’t tell you if you will be able to break through this obstacle; that will be up to you. If its rare in your community, then you may best be advised to move on.

      Good luck.

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  156. Nursulu

    Hello, Troi. I am planning to move abroad to continue my education but I doubt If it is possible (to get a scholarship), so I’d like to know If it is reasonable to put effort for this. Thank you
    17th august

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Nursulu,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Three of Pentacles. This card shows a man carving an image of feathers – we can’t actually tell what he’s working on but it could be an angel’s wing as there is something vaguely church-like about the picture. The man is completely immersed in what he is doing and obviously putting his skills to good use.

      So it will come as no surprise if I say to you, if there is a chance of a scholarship, then you must try for it. Put the effort in and you will succeed.

      However, understand this: while you are putting all your energy and focus on getting the scholarship, you must also be open to other opportunities. There may be a way to obtain the necessary funding in a different way. Think of it as a kind of magical pot – you might be putting in the ingredients to create a certain meal, but to your surprise, it turns out as something different. Yet it was your energy and will that made it happen. Does that make sense?

      Good luck, I hope you get the place you want.

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  157. Roellen

    Hi my name is Roellen (aka Rosie) DOB 17th Jan, I’m writing to see if I can get a reading on my ex boyfriend and I situation. My ex boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rosie,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Devil.

      This is the best depiction of the Devil that I’m aware of. There is no devil in it. Instead it shows a man and a woman pulling at a trunk full of precious things. The trunk, or chest, is chained and the couple are pulling in opposite directions. So no one is going anywhere, least of all the trunk of jewels.

      So this tells me that you want one thing and your ex wants another. Perhaps you are holding on too hard and the best thing to do is to let this relationship go? While you are focused on it, you may be missing out on meeting other people. Ten years is a long time, and if it is really possible for you to remain friends but to also date other men, then that’s great, but if he’s your sole focus, then that’s not good for either of you.

      Of course, this card can indicate that it works the other way too. It might be your ex who is unwilling to let go. In which case, you must gently explain that you need to move on.

      Hope it works out for you.

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  158. aila

    Dear Troi

    My birthday is 14/December, his is 19/April. I wanted to know if the man I am with is worth being with my mind is pretty clouded about him

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Aila,

      I’m looking at your birthday combination and it seems that this mix would never work out very well. There is a clash of egos and a need for both to be the dominant partner. You may feel that you deserve more of his attention, while he has a habit of backing away when he thinks you are too intense. There is probably a strong sexual attraction between you which is what keeps you together, but when that drops a way, as it nearly always does, you won’t be left with much in the way of love.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Knight of Pentacles. I can’t really connect this card with your question so I’m just going go with it and hope that maybe it will mean something to you.

      The Knight of Pentacles sits on his green-eyed, dark chestnut horse in a plowed field. They are perfectly still and at ease. The knight is wearing silver armor and holds a gold engraved pentacle in his right hand.

      The card suggests career or work plays a big part in your current situation. It’s possible that it is the right time to focus or refocus on what is important about your working life.

      It might also mean that there is a new romance up ahead of you, and this time it will be more down-to-earth, and more real than your current relationship (I get the feeling that your 19/April man is not very reliable). The Knight of Pentacles is rather under-rated as a suitor. People think he is a bit dull, a bit too hard working. However, he might be quiet, but that doesn’t mean he isn’t passionate. If you find him, he’s a keeper.

      Good luck.

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  159. Evelyn

    Dear Troi: how are you? My birthday is 04/30 and his is 12/06. He is my ex from 2017. We have not been in touch for the past 2 years. This feb he reached out to me and we exchanged a few emails, talking about meeting up but all of a sudden he ceased all communication. I sent him 2 follow up emails but never got a response. Could you help me to look into this issue? Many thanks

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Evelyn,

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Eight of Pentacles. A young man is concentrating on his work of completing the carving of pentacles on eight golden disks.

      My feeling on see this card appear in answer to your question is that your ex may have found himself with time available and contacted you, but subsequently he has been distracted by work or some other concern and has decided not to pursue a reconciliation.

      The card at the base of the deck is Justice, which makes me think that he was trying to make a decision and was weighing up his options. Personally, I would say that you are better off making your own choices, rather than letting him decide whether or not to give the relationship another go.

      Aside from these cards, my intuition immediately responded when reading your question that he may have recently ended another relationship and was considering reigniting his old flame (you) in order to save his own pride.

      Advice: let it go. There are much better options out there for you.

      Good luck.

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  160. Stefanie

    Dearest Troi,

    It’s been several months since I let go of my last relationship. He has moved on and I’m working on accepting and releasing my sadness over that. I’m trying to keep myself open to new possibilities and move forward. So far, I don’t seem to be having much luck. What can you tell me about the future of my romantic life?

    As always, thank you greatly for your generosity and kindness.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stefanie, so sorry I haven’t got round to your reading sooner.

      I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot and your card is the Page of Pentacles.

      The young Page stands quite relaxed in the landscape with his full attention focused on the gold pentacle he holds up with both his hands. He wears a soft green tunic and a red hat with an orange scarf.

      The Page of Pentacles tells you not to worry about what may or may not come. Your attention must be on the here and now. Find the joy in the moment and the future will take care of itself. If you are constantly wondering, “Where’s my love? Why isn’t he here?” You are keeping love away. Just be happy right where you are. Be happy with yourself. Be happy with your friends and colleagues. Wring the joy out of every moment. Appreciate all that you have and breathe contentment. Once you recognise that love is energy and that energy is all around and through you, you will understand that you don’t need another person to complete you. And when you get to that peaceful, easy frame of mind, love will come and find you.

      Good luck and love, as always…

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  161. Maureen

    Hello Troi!

    I am having a difficult time deciding if its time to sell my home this year.

    I adore my home of 20 years, but the location is wearing on me – increasing traffic, busy, increasing noise. I have a lovely home in a less than lovely location. There is a very large development going up near me, and I believe it will increase the value of my house, while it increases traffic. The more daunting question is … where will I go, that I can afford. I have to trust and have some faith with that part of the puzzle.

    Finances are an issue … and emotional heart strings.

    So, is it best to stay put, of move forward with this?

    My DOB is 12 October

    Many thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maureen,

      This is obviously a difficult choice for you, and also a life-changing one. Therefore, I need to say that you are the one in charge of making this decision and you shouldn’t base it on the turn of a card. For now, if you are unsure, do nothing. Usually, the right path has a way of making itself clear.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Nine of Cups. A jolly-looking fellow sits in front of nine golden chalices. He looks very happy and contented.

      Nines in tarot tend to indicate that a turning point or change is near. However, the Nine of Cups suggests that, for the time being, you are in the right place for you. It more or less confirms what I wrote earlier: if in doubt, do nothing. I have a feeling that the universe will deliver you a nudge when it is time to make your move. Of course, that doesn’t mean you have to resist house-hunting. By all means keep looking, but be relaxed about it. It’s an adventure.

      Good luck.

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      1. Maureen

        Thank you for the great advice, Troi. This feels right to my intuition.

        You have an art with interpreting the message of the cards! I learn so much about the cards just from your replies – they encourage me to stretch, and stretch some more, with their meaning.

        Kind regards –

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  162. Aries

    Would like to know if there is a chance of reconciliation with the guy I’ve been thinking about. My birthday is 29 March.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Aries,

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Seven of Wands. A man stands on top of raised ground and appears to be defending himself against unseen foes, just below and out of the viewer’s gaze.

      I can’t tell you if you will reconcile, I’m sorry. This card doesn’t tell me anything. What it does tell me is that you might be experiencing some conflict in your life right now. Perhaps whatever is going on now, is causing you to look back fondly to another time?

      The only advice I can give you is to stand firm and stick to your principles. What appears to be a problem in the present will soon be resolved and you can move on.

      Good luck.

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  163. Erika

    My name is Erika. Birthday is February 14. My question: what does the horizon look like for my love life? I was in a serious committed relationship for 2 years and recently separated.

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Erica, sorry to hear about your break-up.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the High Priestess. The High Priestess sits, facing the viewer. She holds and open book in her left hand, and a crystal ball on her right palm. Behind are two trees, one black, the other white. The full moon hangs in the sky.

      The appearance of this card advises you to trust in yourself for a little while. To remain open to all possibilities. There is great value in enjoying your own company and exploring your thoughts and emotions. Don’t be in a hurry to start a new relationship. The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.

      Good luck.

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  164. S J

    Dear Troi,
    My son is studying really hard to get into a good school. Seeing him try so much, my heart goes to him and as a mother I would love for his dreams to come true. He is only 10 bless him!

    Will he get into a good school? The local high schools in our area aren’t great so getting into a private high school is important to him. Do you see us being able to support his dreams:?
    Thank you
    My DOB 27 October
    His is 22 June.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello SJ,

      I am using the Robin Wood tarot and your card is the Eight of Wands. The card is illustrated by eight rocket-propelled staffs or wands heading out into space, bypassing planets and moons as they go. They are all perfectly in alignment.

      This card is a very positive one and it tells you that your sons dreams (and your own) are very likely to become reality as long as you continue to put the work in. There may be a need to get organized — that’s probably connected to your finances. You need to have a plan in place now. So some kind of special, school-fee savings account is necessary. Once you start this, however small the amount, you will be amazed how fast it will grow. And, as you contemplate the excellent school, and your store of money towards it, let your heart sing. Always see how large it is, never how small. As time passes, small miracles will happen that will bring your goal closer.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Fool. This card may well represent your young son’s journey and his utter faith that he will make it to the school of his dreams. There’s a possibility that there will be a risk or choice involved. Always go with your intuition and trust that all will be well.

      Good luck!

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      1. S J

        Thank you so much 🙂 And you are accurate. If he gets into the school of his choice, I indeed have to have a savings plan in place (which I have started already) – but your reading gives me encouragement!
        Many blessings and our sincere gratitude to you Troi – for being kind enough to take time out and read and respond.
        Warm regards
        S J

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  165. Shx

    Dear Troi,
    I wanted to get a full reading but will wait until you are available. In the meantime, I would love to get some guidance about my family’s financial situation. We have been struggling financially for 7 years and I am starting to lose hope. My husband works day and night for the business venture (he is determined to make it work). I would like my family to progress. I am tired of just making ends meet. What is in store for us?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Shx, I’m sorry, I don’t even know if I will return to offering full length readings any time soon.

      I’m using the Smith-Waite Centennial deck and your card is Judgement. An angel with a trumpet calls the dead to rise from their graves.

      Judgement indicates you should not give up hope. What you should do is listen to your inner voice and intuitive guidance. There are things you could do to increase the family finances. Even if it is just to write a blog detailing your struggles and explaining how you have learned to make ends meet. Get creative. If you work, then try writing late at night.

      The card at the base of the deck is the King of Swords. This card may well represent your husband and his determination. This King doesn’t give up unless it becomes clear that his logical option is to do so. Are there ways you can help him in his endeavors?

      There are so many opportunities these days to make a little extra money. And you certainly don’t need to spend your hard earned and precious money on tarot readings, that’s for sure.

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Malice,

      I would say that if anyone has creative ideas, they should give them free rein. You don’t need a tarot reading to tell you that. However, I will draw a card for you to see what energies are around you right now.

      Your card is Temperance. This is a lovely card and suggests that, as far as creativity is concerned, all you need to do is find the right mix of expressing your art (or whatever it is), and dealing with all the practical stuff we all have to deal with. Perhaps, work out a kind of schedule or timetable to make sure your creative work is given the necessary amount of time?

      If you are thinking of giving up work or study in order to pursue a dream, I would say, do it in stages. Try to find a balance before diving in headlong. You’ll know when the time is right.

      Good luck.

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  167. Ruth

    Hi
    I’ve been in a relationship with a married man for 10 years and recently he left his wife to be with me. He moved in to my place then left in a week and half to go back to wife. Now he won’t even talk to me. I took care of him for all those years when she didn’t. I don’t want to know if he will move back in right away but if we will continue things like before he moved in. My birthday is December 4th.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Ruth,

      I think the most telling phrase in your question is, ‘I took care of him for all those years when she didn’t.’ Yet he stayed with her for all those years (and previous years, presumably?). I hate to say this but it sounds like he’s realised where his loyalties truly lie.

      As someone who has been in a similar situation (and ended up marrying him), my advice is to cut your losses and move on. Even if he were to move back in with you tomorrow, the spectre of his wife will always be overshadowing your relationship. And also, I can tell you that competing with her is one of the things that has motivated you throughout the ten years. If he became ‘all yours’ the relationship will tarnish very quickly.

      To get back to your actual question, I’m using the Smith-Waite Centennial tarot and your card is the Ace of Cups. So after all I said above, it looks like, in the near future, he will come back to you and you will experience an outpouring of love and emotion.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Wands, which indicates a feeling of victory.

      So you may well continue things as they are, but do you really want that? If so, then good luck!

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  168. Angelique

    Hi Troi,

    A couple of years ago, after I experienced hardship, I noticed that sometimes I feel, or know, negative energies in a place, without any explanation or pre-knowledge. I would like to know for sure if I am indeed sensitive or not. Am I clairsentient or claircognizant or neither? My birth date is 29 of May.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Angelique,

      Hope you don’t mind that I edited your comment a little bit.

      Feeling the energies of a place is fairly common. Many people get that shivery hair-raised on the back of the neck thing, or perhaps a slight feeling of dread when entering a location where negative events have taken place. It’s because underneath our veneer of civility, we are all instinctive mammals. Of course, some people are more sensitive than others.

      I’m using the Smith-Waite Centenial Edition tarot and your card is the hanged Man. This is an interesting card with many meanings and layers. A young man is suspended by his right foot from a tree branch. He seems quite relaxed, despite his unusual position. There is a halo of light around his head. One of the meanings of this card is stillness and acceptance. It also means that the seeker may indeed be experiencing an increase in their psychic ability.

      I can’t tell you which of the ‘clairs’ you are, but my suggestion is to learn how to meditate, practice regularly, and to also keep a psychic journal to record your experiences.

      Good luck.

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  169. Sharyn

    Hi!! Thanks for doing this for me. My birthday is 22nd February and who im asking about is 26th June. I just wanted a reading between him and I and what things may look like for us both.
    Thanks so much!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Sharyn,

      I’m using the Universal Waite and your card is the King of Wands. As I’m looking at the card, I’m struck by the way the King is looking away from the viewer, as though he is deliberately avoiding catching someone’s glance. I’m guessing that there is no romantic relationship between you just yet? It looks as though he could be someone who is slightly distanced from you? As in perhaps a boss, or someone with authority?

      If you were to get together, your birthday combination suggests it would be a good match. You are both highly empathic and you would both be sensitive to how the other was feeling. But…

      The card at the base of the deck is the Devil. So I’m also getting the feeling that you may be assigning more meaning to this attraction than is actually there? You have to be wary of letting him dominate your thoughts and actions. The Devil card always suggests self-entrapment, getting caught in a situation by your own choice. Don’t let him become an obsession.

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  170. Az

    Hi Troi,

    I’ve recently broke up with my partner over something really stupid and feel like he used any excuse to call it quits. I maybe wrong but that’s the only thing that makes sense to me right now. I was hoping if you could shed some light on whether this is the end for him and I?

    Mine-26th Aug
    His- 17th Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Az,

      I expect the outcome has been determined by now. However, taking a look at your birthday combination, it confirms that there is a high level of transparency between you, which makes it easy for you to know the other’s motivations, so I suspect that your intuition is right. It is impossible for you two to keep secrets from each other.

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Nine of Cups. I immediately checked the card at the bottom of the deck and it is the Three of Swords. So I would guess that you’ve got back together and all is well. Yet you must watch out for future problems caused by unintentional mis-communication.

      Good luck.

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  171. Bo

    Hi Troi

    I’m wracked with confusion at the moment with regards to my relationship. I don’t want to give too much info but I’m at a point where I don’t know what to do after opening my eyes. A friend helped me open my eyes inadvertently. My question is regarding what I should do in this situation I find myself in.

    Birthdate: 26 Dec
    Partner birthdate: 12 Dec
    Friend birthdate: 14 Nov

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Bo,

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Eight of Pentacles. A young man is sitting before a desk and carefully examining a green and gold pentacle that he holds in his hands.

      I suggest you do the same thing with your situation. Don’t take any action right now until you have carefully examined every aspect. Try not to think about what decision you will make. It’s possible that it will play out of its own accord. Meanwhile, the more information you have, the more powerful you will be. And that’s the key–know that you have the power to decide which direction your life will go. You do not allow others to direct or control you.

      The card at the base of the deck in Strength. You have it within you to deal with this. Put your confusion aside, focus on other parts of your life that require your attention. Wait for a little while before making up your mind. All will become clear.

      Good luck. It’ll be fine.

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  172. Samantha

    Hi!! I think it’s so great what you’re doing here! I’m a big fan of tarot but can never read for myself. My birthday is 30th November and who im asking about is 19th April. I just wanted an overall reading between him and I. Any input would help.

    Warmest regards!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Samantha,

      This combination can work long-term, but there may be initial difficulties because you both operate on different rhythms. Sagittarius is quick thinking and quick acting. Aries-Taurus cuspers are slower and more deliberate. Things are even more complicated if there is a third party involved like a recent ex. The answer is to be aware of this difference and try to accommodate and compromise as much as possible.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Two of Cups. Two people are pictured gazing at each other over a calm body of water. Two sparkling chalices float in the foreground.

      The Two of Cups is the one everyone wants to see in a relationship question. It shows that you can smooth out any differences and be in a situation of mutual love and respect.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Hierophant. This can mean several things: one of you has found your guide and mentor in the other; that you are bound together by some mutual interest, activity, or passion; or that the relationship is destined for a more permanent footing. Only time will tell.

      It’s looking quite good 🙂

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  173. Shelly

    My husband and I are in our “golden years” Yet I feel like there is some purpose or something useful I should still do in this life.
    My birthdate is August 13.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Shelly,

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Seven of Pentacles. It shows a woman standing beneath a tree with a basket in her hand. There is a ladder resting against the tree and it seems she is about to pick the fruit (pentacles) from the tree. In the back ground stand some contented sheep.

      This card often signifies a slight dissatisfaction or a nagging feeling that the seeker ‘should’ be doing something. Often it appears when someone feels they are not fulfilling their potential, either practically or spiritually. I guess this is the sort of thing that you are feeling right now. It’s like an itch or a calling, but you are not sure which direction to move in. Do you stay and pick the fruit, or do you walk away toward something new?

      The card at the base of the deck is the Nine of Cups. A cheery man stands before eight gold chalices, which stand on barrels, while holding the ninth in salutation.

      The Nine of Cups shows that there is only one purpose in your life and that is to experience joy and appreciation. So, take the time to regard the various aspects of your life and decide to wring as much joy and satisfaction from them. If you still feel there could be more, then how about spending just one hour a week in voluntary work? You might enjoy it so much that you want to do more. And you would feel useful beyond measure. For example, if you have a friendly dog, you could find out about animal therapy visits to hospices and hospitals. It’s a big thing in the UK now. Or perhaps you would like to help at lunchtimes for elderly people. There’s so much you could do in an hour or two a week.

      Good luck, and have fun.

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  174. Mich

    Hello Troi. I’d like to ask an overview on my relationship with my current gf. My bday is on 02 Nov and hers 13 August. Really appreciate your effort and input!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Mich,

      This combination is very mixed. On the one hand, it seems as though all is sweetness and light. Yet beneath the surface there may be emotional turbulance. Often the two partners will focus on the superficial in order to block out the darker undercurrents. It can be very unbalanced, with the power swinging between the couple. Definitely, it’s all or nothing.

      I’m using the Rider-Waite-Smith deck and your card is the King of Swords. This indicates that the basis of your relationship may well be an intellectual one. Perhaps you admire each other’s academic achievements? Or maybe the cerebral connection is the most important aspect?

      The King of Swords is restrained and in control. In a relationship, he can become dependent on his partner because he is immersed in his professional life and needs a partner to run the practical stuff for him. How that fits with you and your girlfriend, I’m not sure.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Wands. This often gives an insight into why the reading was requested. It’s a card of passion and deep attraction. It could also indicate that this is a mad, passionate affair that could burn itself out after a short time, or that the relationship will continue on a less ‘peak’ basis. Smouldering, rather than a huge burning fire.

      Hope that some of this resonates with you. It’s difficult to give an expansive overview with just a couple of cards 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Louise,

      I am using a brand new centennial edition of the Rider-Waite (renamed to the Smith-Waite) deck. Your card is the Eight of Pentacles, which shows a young man, focused on completing a detailed task.

      It’s a great card and immediately gave me the answer to your question. Pentacles are all about taking a practical approach, and Eights are connected to movement or change (or the lack of them).

      The advice from the card is to make a list of the aspects of your life which are causing problems. Be objective and simply write them down as though you are a consultant drafted in to help a struggling business. Your life is the business. Write it all down. Anything you view as not working or is causing difficulty.

      Then take each one in turn and write down one or more possible solutions, or actions you could take to resolve the issue. Look over the list and pick the one that is easiest to deal with. And deal with it. Once that’s done, move to the next easiest. As you work through the list over the next weeks/months you may find that some of the problems resolve of their own accord. Having said all that, there may be a problem that requires immediate attention. I kind of get the feeling it might be connected to living arrangements. You could try splitting your most pressing issue down into do-able steps.

      Once you begin following this advice, instead of viewing your life as a big mish-mash of a mess, you’ll be able to deal with it and make progress. Focus on the task in hand, complete it as best you can, move on to the next. The coming New year is the perfect opportunity to get back on track.

      Oh, and also don’t forget to appreciate the things that are going right. Do that as often as you can and ‘going right’ will spread to all areas.

      Good luck and Happy New Year.

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      1. Louise

        Thank you so much Troi for replying so quickly. You have given me some excellent and practical suggestions that I will follow up on.

        Happy New Year to you and your family

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  176. Stephen

    Hi Troi,

    My question is short, but not simple

    I need to change career. Where should i focus my thoughts and efforts?

    Stephen
    November 10th

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stephen,

      I’m using the Universal Waite and your card is the Chariot. A nobleman sits in a commanding position in his chariot above two resting sphinxes, on black; one white. This illustration has always puzzled me because the chariot appears to be made of concrete and is resting on the ground rather than supported by its wheels. Additionally the two sphinxes are not actually harnessed to the vehicle.

      Anyway, the Chariot represents your will and your direction of travel. I suspect you already know what it is you wish to do, and it is just a case of engaging in a little lateral thinking about how you can use your existing skills in your new career. There is a niche just waiting for you to tap into. The charioteer is steadily gazing straight ahead; I suggest you begin looking around for inspiration. He holds his wand in his right hand, usually the dominant one. Mentally change it to the left, which is the receiving hand. Then do your best to get into an allowing mode so that ideas can flow to you, rather than you trying to force things along. So forget about ‘focus’; let your mind be softer and see what happens.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Four of Pentacles, which indicates that while you are exploring all the possibilities, you should be husbanding your resources carefully. Your next career step may mean a reduction of income, so be prudent.

      Best of luck.

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  177. Nayilia

    I am having a hard time understanding things. I’ve experience so much loss the last couple of years that as a not so nice joke I was told I was like the grim reaper; I help as best I know how based on how I feel. I dont know how to explain what I am feeling now … except to say that I am scared.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Nayilia, sorry, I’m not sure what you are asking me. I’m going to draw a card asking that it will offer you advice that you can use in a practical sense.

      I’m using a round deck called Songs for the Journey Home. Your card is called Flame Innocence, which is the equivalent of the Page of Wands in standard decks. A child sits on her bed in the corner of her room, clutching a teddy bear. She gazes out through the window to a darden and landscape beyond, dramatically lit by the moon.

      This card indicates that you are on the cusp of change in your life and you may very well be feeling fearful about the unknown that you are stepping into. Everything that you perceive as negative in the past, may be signposts and guidance. That certain things happen because they are inevitable, yet you can learn from them. These loved ones that you have lost… they are not lost at all. They have stepped into th unknown and they are okay. More than okay. Now they are watching over you as you take the next steps through your life.

      The Page of Wands has an indomitable spirit. She might be scared, but she does it anyway.

      The card at the base of the deck is the 7th Flame Song, equivalent to the Seven of Wands. It shows two scenes; on one half of the card are regimented matchstick men, carrying umbrellas. They are attached to strings and we can see a hand above controlling them. The figures all look unhappy. On the other side, we see the back of a gaily dressed figure, with an orange umbrella, cutting the strings and ready to make his own way in the world.

      This card tells you that you need to cut the strings of your fear. That it is wasted energy. You don’t need to let it control you and make your decisions for you. Grab your free will and your freedom and begin your life adventure. It’s doesn’t matter what people tell you. It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. Live your life.

      Good luck

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  178. Maureen

    Hello Troi!

    Over these many years, I have done the good work of facing my fears and looking at where I was stunting myself. Because of this effort, the personal and emotional growth I have experienced has been nothing short of amazing. My spiritual life has blossomed more so. I have always counted my blessings and been grateful, no matter what I was going through, but these past few months my energy has been just been nuclear and off the charts *good*. I say that humbly. I struggled for many years as a single parent, and now life seems to be finally taking a turn for the better, as if I am finally getting over that hump and coming up for air. The change and blessings have been many. While I am grateful, the one area of life that I feel still holds some fear is my love life. And I do so very much want to share my life with someone! I know Love is coming, I know it’s approaching, and I also feel apprehension at the same time.

    My question: What is the best way for me to prepare to receive my life partner?

    Thank you for your generosity in your reading!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maureen, nice to meet you.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Seven of Wands. A young man stands upon a grassy hill, defending himself from unseen foes below. The crystals at each end of his staff glow brightly, while his enemies’ are colorful, yet emit no light.

      This is an odd card to appear in answer to your question. It may be confirming that the area of relationships is challenging for you. That there are other factors at play, either in real life or in your perception. These factors are obstacles to love coming to you. What I suggest for the time being, is to put aside all longing for another person and focus on yourself. Get into a frame of mind where you love yourself so much, that having a partner would just be the icing on the cake. Feel the love permeate your life and your very being. Make it be so important to you that it takes precedence.

      Then your new love will show up. Drop the fear. Stop battling the relationship demons. Cease wondering. Let it all go.

      The base card is the Eight of Wands, which is sometimes called ‘the arrows of love’ 😀 So , follow the advice given above. Get into a state of mind (and heart) where it really doesn’t matter… and then see what happens.

      Good luck.

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  179. Stefanie

    Dear Troi,

    It’s about my man again, we’re still seeing each other and still without a commitment. Today I put my feelings out there again for the first time in over six months. I’m trying to enjoy what we have and accept I cannot change what he wants though I’d be happy to have more, which is more or less what I told him. Has anything changed since my last reading? Thank you greatly. Sending good thoughts your way.

    Me: May 6
    Him: April 15

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Stefanie, good to hear from you 🙂

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Eight of Swords. A woman wearing a blindfold is bound by a red cord and stands surrounded by eight swords that are stuck in the sand. The sky is dark but there is a bright beam of sunshine piercing the clouds. In the background the sea is grey and choppy.

      The Eight of Swords indicates that you are mentally trapped in a situation you feel you can’t get out of. You are not actually trapped because it would be quite easy to loosen the ties and remove the blindfold. However, it is a situation of your choosing. The beam of sunshine represents the hope and freedom that is always available to you. As Abraham-Hicks says, “You are so free to choose that you can choose bondage if you want to.”

      This fits in with the conclusion in the last reading I did. So, really, nothing has changed on the relationship front.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Queen of Wands, which shows that some things have changed. You are making good progress in your career and other areas of your life. And you are probably wondering why the realm of relationships is so darn hard for you. Just know that you have the power to change it, if you really want to. The Queen of Wands says so.

      Sorry I couldn’t give you the answer you wanted, Stefanie.

      Take care

      Blessings T. xxxx

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      2. Stefanie

        Dear Troi,

        Yesterday I moved beyond the eight of swords. Thank you for your wisdom, kindness, and generosity. Looking forward to better times ahead.

        Stefanie

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  180. Apriyile D. Colmore

    Hello, Troi im not sure if im writing in the correct area,i have a question about interpreting tarot themes, if you could answer my question? And the question is how do you interpret themes into a reading? Example say you have a layout of 5 cards one card of every suit including a Major arcana is in the spread. Now there 3 out of 5 tarot cards sharing the same theme they are standing on grass, or 2 out of 5 tarot cards the NUMBERS are the same lets say its the number 4 How do you interpret those themes/ Numbers in ones tarot interpretation? Say if the question asked was ” What do i need to know about having X train me in this new job position? This is just a example not a real situation. Please help im all confused!!!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Apriyile,

      I think you are over-thinking here. Yes, you might notice that several cards show figures standing on grass (feet on the ground, rooted), just let that interpretation flow into the reading. When there are several of the same number, then the energy of that number is dominant. So several twos might mean partnership, friendship or coworker issues.

      So using your example question, perhaps two or more threes show up, then that would bode well for the training as they indicate working together, sharing knowledge, experiences and resources. If fives, then there are challenges ahead and you will need to tread carefully.

      If you notice several themes in a single reading, just use them as part of the interpretation. And always keep notes. That will help you immensely.

      xxx

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi DLA,

          I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot and your card is the King of Cups. The King sits on his throne which is set in the ocean. He is completely surrounded by waves. Behind him to his right, a fish is leaping. To his left, we can see the red sails of a ship. The King is slightly turned to his left but is gazing directly at the viewer.

          The King of Cups is a wise counsellor, especially in matters of love, and he says that you don’t have to choose right now. You can do both. Se yourself a deadline, such as a month or whatever suits you, and if things haven’t changed to your satisfaction, then you get to choose again. Each moment, you get the choice about which road you will follow. He also tells you to look into your heart and listen to your intuition. You already know what to do in your best interest.

          The card at the base of the deck is the Two of Wands, which indicates delays and plans not working out just yet. Someone is waiting on a certain thing to happen and is getting impatient because it isn’t unfolding as they expected. They (you?) have to make a choice. Sometimes waiting is the correct one, at other times taking action is what’s required. Only you can make the decision.

          Good luck.

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  181. Jennifer

    Hello Troi
    I think what you do is amazing. I’d like to develop my skill in tarot to be able to give away readings like this.
    My question is: I have a job opportunity coming up and I’m not real sure if it’s right for me. Could you look into it, see if I’m on the right path?
    My birthday November 26

    Thank you so much

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Jennifer,

      Congratulations on your new job opportunity. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the World… so yes, you are exactly on the right path. The World tells you that you are in the right place at the right time. Take your new opportunity. If you don’t, you’ll regret it.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Wands, which is also confirmation that things are moving ahead for you. You’ll find that your trajectory will gather speed. The key to making this work for you is organisation to the nth degree. Make sure you have all your work and personal systems in place.

      Go for it and good luck.

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  182. Alice Sopik

    Good Day

    I picked the following cards, long story.
    The Star, The World, Eighth Pentacles, The Tower – in this order.
    I read the various meanings – the first 3 are all welcome but then last the Tower – feels like after all the good comes the bad or can I read it as a circle as well ie Star follows on the Tower?

    Thank you – Aquarius born 28 January

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  183. Az

    Hi Troi,

    I’ve been working at my company for quite some time now and even though I really love the organisation I’ve been unhappy with the project I’m working on and feel I need a change. My question is do you see me finding a new job that I’ll be happy with in the very near future?

    DOB: 26 Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Az,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the King of Cups. This indicates that there may well be someone who can help and guide you along your path. The fact that it is a King means that the energy of this person is generally outward-looking. In other words, they are able to see the big picture, whereas your perspective may be limited simply by virtue of you being where you are. Also, the card is a Cups card, which means that, like this King, you must follow your feelings about this. Your head might be giving you logical advice, possibly based on financial considerations but your intuition is saying something different.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Four of Pentacles, which does indeed indicate that you might feel locked in due to material concerns.

      Neither of these cards say that you will find a new job, however, they do confirm your decision to find something different is the right one at this time.

      Good luck.

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  184. Cat

    Hi Troi,

    I will leave out all of the details. I was just wanting to know if I will be getting my daughter back soon. Thank you so much for your spiritual guidance.

    December 30

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Cat,

      It must be a horrible situation for all concerned. Please remember that you should never place all your faith in the turn of a card. In fact, if I were sitting in front of you, I would probably refuse to do a reading at all. So, bear that in mind.

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Six of Pentacles. A well-dressed merchant is doling out measured amounts of coins to two beggars. In the instant that we are seeing them, only one beggar is receiving, while the other waits in hope. In another version of this card, it shows the three figures from the opposite angle and it is clear that the merchant is not so well-off as he appears. His clothes are a little worn and torn.

      I would guess that your situation has a lot to do with finances and the ability to be able to support yourself and your daughter. Perhaps, an ex partner is being awkward about paying their share? Or maybe they are using money as a stick to beat you with? This card might also signify past problems with alcohol or substance abuse.

      Usually, though, because it’s a six, it means that a difficult time has been overcome and that the situation is easing. Someone is willing to help and support. You begin to see a way through. This card does not give me a definite yes, but it does advise you to call on whoever you think could help you. To be patient, calm, and dignified.

      It’s really important you remain positive. I would be scripting this situation every single day. That means writing down the outcome that you wish for as though it has already happened. You would write something like this…

      I am so happy to have my daughter back with me. We are having so much fun. She healthy, beautiful and happy to be home…

      Expand on it. Make it as real as you can. Use the phrase ‘I know’ a lot and mean it. Feel the emotions flooding through you as you write. If you want to learn more just type ‘scripting to manifest’ into a search engine.

      Good luck. I do hope it resolves itself in the best possible way.

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      1. Cat

        Troi,

        Thank you so much for your inspirational words, your spirit, and providing the reading. I do understand not to place so much hope in a reading; however, I do know that I have been doing what you are stating as in scripting to manifest but not writing it down only verbally saying it daily. Thank you so much again.

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  185. Lyn

    I am currently unemployed and have sent out over 300 CV’s in the last 2 months which resulted in 2 interviews both of which I was passed over. Apparently I am too old (56) and although an accountant for 30 years I have no qualifications – seems experience isn’t the trump card any more. I have even been applying for positions below my last pay level (which feels like I am selling myself short) just to get an job yet still i get no responses. I even had my CV professionally drafted to make me stand out. Any job in my immediate future?
    Born 14 October

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lyn, sorry to hear of your predicament.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Devil. A man and a woman are trying to pull a chest full of valuables in opposite directions. It doesn’t help that the chest is held by chains. The man is gesturing towards an archway, through which can be seen daylight and a verdant landscape.

      The Devil doesn’t indicate you’ll be offered a job in the near future. In fact, this card would suggest that you might be overly attached to the field you have been working in. Perhaps it’s time to let go of the expectation of finding a job in accountancy where there are probably lots of people with qualifications also competing for those positions. Sooo… could you perhaps transfer your skills to a slightly different market? Could you use them to work for yourself? Perhaps you could become a telephone or online consultant for people who have questions relating to their accounts or tax situation? Have you a website where you could share your vast experience? From which you could offer your new consultancy advice?

      You can either keep pulling against the chains, or you could let them go and do a little lateral thinking. Is there something else you have always dreamed of doing? It’s only your own thoughts that keep you from living your dream.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Five of Wands, which indeed, shows that there is a lot of competition in your chosen field. You need to step away from all that.

      Good luck!

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  187. Belinda

    DOB
    01 February

    Hello Troi,

    I have adamantly been practicing The LOA for financial abundance along with daily gratitude meditations for some time now. What do I need to know about my money/financial situation in the coming months?

    Thanks in advance!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Belinda,

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the Seven of Cups. A figure in silhouette is gazing at seven golden chalices, which each contain a representation of material and spiritual life.

      The Seven of Cups can often mean scattered energy, or not quite knowing what you want. Also, from your question I’m wondering if you are focusing too much on the financial aspect of abundance rather than the feeling happy and free aspects? We often believe that our happiness can be increased or assured by a corresponding increase in money. Whereas, really, it’s just feeling better that we are really looking for.

      I was impressed by your use of the word ‘adamantly’. As if you grit your teeth determinedly in order to practice your meditations and manifestations. That’s not really how it works. You need to relax, go with the flow and know (without any doubt) that you are worthy enough to receive everything you want. So I would suggest you stop doing those things, unless they fill your heart with joy each and every time.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Nine of Pentacles. A woman stands still, looking at a hooded bird on her left hand. She’s alone in a very abundant and verdant garden. She knows she doesn’t have to do anything except the things that make her happy, in order for the abundance to keep flowing. So, for example, if you are doing a horrible chore or task, try to make it a happy moment. Try to feel pleased with where you are. Rinse and repeat. Soon your abundance will begin to flow.

      Good luck.

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  188. Theresa

    Hi,
    I am interested in learning Holistic Nutrition as my new career path. I was wondering if this path would bring me success and happiness.

    My DOB is June 6.

    Thank you for your time.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Theresa,

      I’m using the Universal Waite deck and your card is the World. This is the last card in the Major Arcana series and shows a female figure encircled by laurel wreath. It looks as though she is about to pass through a portal.

      The World generally confirms that the seeker is in the right place, at the right time. They may be experiencing a pause as they wait for the next stage of their life to begin. I can’t say for sure whether your choice will bring you success and happiness–I think that is largely dependant on how much effort you invest into it. However, I do think the card is telling you that you are making a good choice.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Seven of Wands. It seems you may be meeting some resistance, perhaps from other people or within yourself. The Seven of Wands tells you to hold onto your convictions and to follow your heart and intuition.

      Good luck.

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  189. C.P.

    Hi Troi,

    I was wondering if you would be able to tell me what I should know about the future of my marriage. My birthdate is July 21 and his is January 10th. We’ve been married for 7 years this year. Thank you for your generosity!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi CP,

      Your birthday combination suggests that there may be power struggles within the relationship. However, it’s possible you have resolved those after all this time. One thing that you have to deal with is the realization that work issues and material acquisitions are far less important than a deep love and spiritual connection. You are able to provide each other a lot of support and encouragement when you aren’t focussed on other issues.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Lovers. A naked couple stands under a tree. Above the man’s left hand floats a facsimile of the sun. Above her right hand, the moon. The tree itself is divided into an apple tree and a holly tree.

      The Lovers can indicate one of two things. It can be taken literally in that any differences will be reconciled and your love deepened accordingly. Or, there will be a life changing decision to make in the near future. And, of course, those options aren’t mutually exclusive. As a ‘six’ card it indicates that some recent struggles may be resolved and you are both in a relatively good place right now.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Two of Pentacles, which shows that perhaps there are still some underlying ‘struggle’ issues that need to be sorted out. It might be to do with time or financial resources. Or perhaps one of you wants one thing while the other would prefer an alternate.

      There doesn’t appear to be any major discord and, with good communication and a willingness to compromise, it looks as though you will be able to move forward together in peace and harmony.

      Good luck.

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  190. R

    Hi Troi,
    I m in big dellima. I am married and we both love each other, but last year I met someone, He said he is feeling too much attracted towards me. But I felt its more kind of physical attraction and I was not at all interested. We hugged generally and left, but after that I kept thinking about him. I have no interest in any kind of relationship outside marriage. Yes, I do appreciate him a lot from always for his knowledge as we are from same professional field. It was like miracle for me to meet him casually that day. But in a year, after on and off kind of communication with him, I felt and he said also that he has developed feelings for me and I also feel the same way somewhat. I met him again and this time I felt strong desire in him for me and I also felt losing control. but being a strong person otherwise I did not let anything wrong happen. Now I realised I do feel for him too, But still I don’t want to spoil my married life.

    My concern here is to know why all this happened and why he came into my life and what is going to happen.

    My DOB 28/july

    His 27/oct

    Many thanks in Advance.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello R.,

      Best advice for you, if you love your husband as you say you do, and value your marriage, walk away. Drop it like a hot coal. If you continue to meet and edge towards an affair, you will lose everything you hold dear and cause immense pain to all concerned.

      Meanwhile, I’ll draw a card to see if I can get some insight for you. I’m using the Universal Waite and your card is the Seven of Swords. This card shows a man sneaking out of an encampment with five swords. He has too many to carry so has had to leave two behind.

      The Seven of Swords is often thought to be the card of deceit and underhandedness. I don’t usually take such a negative view of it as I tend to think of it as reclaiming something that was taken from you. And here, I think is the heart of the matter. This other man has provided something in your life that has been missing recently. It is probably an emotional connection, as well as a line of communication that feels like it’s pulling you out of your marriage.

      I promise you that’s all it is. There is absolutely no reason for you to destroy what you have. The lesson to take away is that the energy you are putting into this: the thought and emotion, is being directed the wrong way. You should change direction and give all that energy to your husband. Of course if your marriage is struggling, then you have to think deeply about what it is you truly want.

      All the best.

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      1. R

        Hi Troi,

        Divine Thanks to you for your wonderful guidance. Its a huge relief for me as I was being told by someone that its a past life connection and it will not go easily. I m quite relieved.

        Would you please like to advice me what exactly I need to do to improve my relationship with my husband.
        Mine 28/ july
        Husband 16/nov

        Thanks n Regards in advance.

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  191. Maria

    Hi! Thank you so much for doing these readings. I know one card can only tell me so much, so I’ll probably request a longer reading from you afterwards, since my situation is a little complicated.

    I’m in a long term relationship, and we’ve both been questioning our connection as long term partners. We don’t have much in common, besides the fact that we love each other. If our relationship is going to work, we both have some things to work on and comprises to make.

    Before I met my current boyfriend, I felt like had a really strong connection with another man. We never dated, I made a big mistake when we first met and it sort of ruined my chance of a serious relationship with with him at the time. I’ve never been able to get him off my mind, no matter who I’m with, and I can’t explain why.. All I can say is that I have a strong feeling we’re meant to be, and that he’s thinking about me too. Since I’m in a long term relationship, I don’t think he’s going to reach out to me while I’m still with my current boyfriend. There’s also a chance that this is all in my head… In which case, I’m thinking I need to just focus on working on my current relationship. I guess you can say I’m worried about ending up alone. The other guy lives on the other side of the US from me, since I moved to a different state with my current boyfriend. I love where I live, and don’t see myself ever going back to my home state, where the other guy is, and he just bought his first house there earlier this month. I do believe that if it’s meant to be, it will find a way, so I’m trying not to let that discourage me… But again, I’m just wondering if I’m crazy?

    I know you don’t believe in reading other people’s energies without their permission, so I don’t necessarily want to ask you to read his energy to tell me if he’s also thinking about me and wanting a relationship with me… but could you maybe tell me if I’m with my soul mate now? Or if this other guy could be him? Or if I have yet to meet my soul mate? My DOB is 9-10 my current boyfriend is 10-17 and other man is 9-26

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maria,

      I think if you have to ask if someone is your soulmate, then they are definitely not 🙂 Also, know that your attraction to the other guy is enhanced exponentially because he is not available. Unavailability is like a magnifying glass to the emotions. I know this only too well.

      One other thing before I draw your card, your most telling statement is, “I guess you can say I’m worried about ending up alone.” I have to tell you that being alone is a whole lot better than being with the wrong person. I’d suggest you give all this some thought because, to be perfectly honest, neither man sounds like the right one for you. It all seems like too much work 🙂

      I’m condensing your questions down to one: what advice does the tarot have for me regarding my love life? I’m using the Universal Waite and your card is the Eight of Swords.

      This card shows a woman blindfolded, tied and bound, surrounded by eight swords which appear to be imprisoning her. This is interesting and I think relates to your current relationship. You have manoeuvred yourself into a position that you will find very difficult to extricate yourself from. You may disagree with me, but I think you are quite unhappy right now. You have taken the path of least resistance and found yourself somewhere you don’t really want to be for the long-term. You might be blaming your boyfriend, but, sorry to sound harsh, you’ve done this to yourself.

      Now it’s up to you. You can let it carry on and get deeper and more entangled, or you can make a new choice. The girl in the card is not helpless. Her bindings are loose and her feet are free. With care she could negotiate her way out of the situation. As could you, Maria.

      The card at the base of the deck is also interesting. It’s the Two of Cups which hints at a possible new love or maybe even a renewal of your existing relationship. That would have to be on different terms though because, right now, it’s not working, hence your preoccupation with the one you can’t have.

      I wish you all the best and hope you can get this sorted out. Remember, being alone is not the worst thing in the world and nothing to be scared of.

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      1. Maria Efimov

        Thank you so much! You’re absolutely right about everything, and it’s all great advice. I have put myself in this position, so it’s my job to find a way out of it. I do love my current boyfriend, and I do think a renewal of our relationship is possible if we both put 100% effort into it. I know what I need to do… and that’s buckle down and start working hard on my career. Then both myself and my boyfriend will be much happier, and if we choose to continue the relationship once I’m financially stable it will be because we both want to.

        I also understand that we usually want what we can’t have, which is a possible explanation of why I keep thinking about the one I can’t have… but I wanted him back when I thought I had him, and that feeling never went away. We just had a really strong connection… My intuition is telling me that there’s sometbinh there, but I guess I will never find out until I fix my current situation.

        Thanks again for the reading 🙂 have a great weekend!

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  192. Carla

    Hi Troi,

    I recently had a 8 month relationship end on June 22. I’m in love and don’t want the relationship to end. Does he miss me too and will he come back?

    Mine 14 March
    His 23 September

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Carla,

      First of all, I need to explain that I can’t read someone else’s feelings. That’s what’s called a ‘third party reading’ and is a little bit unethical. What I can do is to draw a card to see whether it supports your desire to get back with him, or not.

      Your birthday combination shows that the relationship can have an almost mystical feeling about it. As if you were brought together in a magical way. While this is cute and fun, it doesn’t give a firm foundation for a real-life, down-to-earth relationship, with all its complexities and practical considerations.

      I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot and your card is the Queen of Cups. A court card. Not always the best to give a straightforward answer. However, the Queen of Cups is well in alignment with you, as a Pisces. She is very ‘watery’. She’s empathic, intuitive, and makes decisions based on her feelings rather than circumstances or logic. She is kind, sweet-natured, but can have a stormy undercurrent. I’m not feeling an answer to your question in this card at all.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Three of Swords, illustrated by three swords piercing a red heart. Most readers interpret it as heartbreak, but I almost always see it as a mix up in communications. Misunderstanding and mis-perception. This may be swirled in with the reasons for your break up.

      So, I can’t tell you whether you will get back together or not, but it may well be worth reaching out to him because he has got the wrong idea about the break-up. He might well be regretting the decision.

      Good luck.

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  193. Golnar

    My name is grace ( also golnar)
    11 th of November my birthday
    My question is: am I getting a job I want soon

    I appreciate your kindness in advance

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Grace,

      I’m using the Universal Waite Tarot and your card is the Knight of Pentacles. A knight in armour sits astride his stationary black horse, gazing out over the landscape. In his right hand he holds a golden pentacle.

      I get the feeling that you have been a loyal employee for a long time, and perhaps this job is within the same, or very similar organisation. The Knight of Pentacles is very cautious, so he indicates you wouldn’t be looking for a radical change. The appearance of this card probably means that your hard work will be rewarded.

      However, on the base of the deck is the fiery Knight of Wands. The complete opposite to the main card. This base card often reveals the reason for the question. The first thing I thought when I saw it is that somehow your question is linked to a love affair or flirtation 🙂 I’m probably way out here, but I have to say what occurs to me.

      Anyway, yes, I think you’ll get the job, but I can’t say when it will be.

      Good luck.

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  194. Stefanie

    Dearest Troi,

    I’m at a standstill in every area of life and feel uncertain. Is anything new or change coming my way soon? Thank you greatly.

    Stefanie

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stefanie, sorry to keep you waiting and thank you for your patience. I removed the details as requested.

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is The World. This card often reflects the seeker feeling she his in a holding pattern, that nothing is happening. But The World tells you that you are exactly where you should be and that you should experience a change pretty soon. However, often we have to instigate that change ourselves. For example, it’s rare that a new job offer comes without us actively seeking a new job. Sometimes all you have to do is take the first step and the rest will follow.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Knight of Pentacles. Usually this card represents a real person. He’s hard working, loyal and dependable. And he’s often overlooked as love material. The fact that this card is at the base of the deck might mean that someone like this is your hidden desire, rather than it be a real person at this time. Also, the appearance of this card may tell you that you need to take on some of his characteristics – patience, strength, serenity.

      Reading the two cards together, I feel that the overall message to you is to be calm, be happy with where you are and if you get the opportunity to make a small change, then do it. Good luck 🙂

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      1. Stefanie

        Thank you so much, Troi. I wish I could quell the restlessness that always seems to brew inside myself and be more present. Be well.

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  195. Deborah Martin

    I feel something spiritual is my life calling..I just can’t find what it is though . how do I feel or hear what Im missing?
    DZ..2nd April

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Deborah,

      I think many of us feel like this from time to time. For me it seems to settle when I am walking in the woods or on the beach. Just being in nature soothes my soul.

      Using the Robin Wood, I’ve draw the Lovers. This can mean one of two things. The first is the obvious meaning and perhaps it’s love you are looking for. That doesn’t have to mean romantic love, but could be love and appreciation of self. Read ‘Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It’ by Kamal Ravikant.

      The second is that your life is about to offer you a choice, or a turning point. I can’t tell you what that is; you’ll know it when it comes. Don’t over-think it, make your decision and make it be the right one. Don’t worry over what might have been if you had taken a different path.

      So for now, go with the flow. You’ll discover what you are looking for soon enough.

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  196. Maureen

    Hello Troi!

    I met someone who I feel is pretty awesome – he has a strong faith, and has a relationship w God, as I do. I prayed for someone to share my faith with. Here’s the clincher – he overthinks, and has much anxiety about us getting together because he has been very hurt in the past. I am doing my best to be lovingly patient. Do you feel as if the energy with him will move forward in a positive direction?

    Thank you for your generosity!!

    Me: 12 October
    Beloved: 1 February

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Maureen,

      I’d say be aware that ‘over-thinking and anxiety’ is simply a reason for wanting to keep things as they are. Plus, he’s probably enjoying your loving patience too. People use the “I’ve been so hurt in the past” excuse so often in order to avoid a proper relationship in the present. Sorry to sound cynical but I’ve seen it so often.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Star. This is a lovely card and probably wipes out everything I just wrote. It tells you to keep your faith strong and to also build up your faith in yourself. You may be feeling sometimes that the problem might lie with yourself. Well, know that it doesn’t. You are as loveable and worthy as any human being on the planet.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Hanged Man. This card indicates that, for the time being, no progress is being, or will be made. So you have to decide whether to accept things as they are indefinitely, or to do something about it.

      Good luck.

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  197. Erin

    I have this underlying intuition that something may have occurred between my best friend and current boyfriend on one of two occasions when they were alone. I am wondering if my intuition has any validity or if or will my boyfriend will cheat with my close friend.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Erin,

      Before I draw a card, you need to know that a. if your intuition is strong, then it’s probably right and 2. if you can’t trust your boyfriend or best friend implicitly then you shouldn’t be with them.

      You haven’t given me your dates of birth so am unable to check your compatibility. Never mind. We’ll see what your card says. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Seven of Wands.

      This card is illustrated with a young man defending his position against a bunch of unseen opponents. This suggests to me that you are fighting against your own intuition, that you already know the truth of the matter, whether your friends are innocent or guilty. Whenever I see this card I think that a little negotiation or discussion will help the situation, so you should speak to one or both of them and ask them straight out.

      I don’t know what else to suggest really. Just talk to them.

      Good luck.

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  198. Eunoia

    Hi,

    D.O.B- May 18 ..

    I am considering a big move to be closer to family. While there is a lot of excitement with all parties involved around this desire, there is also a great deal of trepidation, not to mention hurdles that are blocking every attempt so far. (mostly financial) I have a good feeling that this will happen but I can’t quite see how with what appears to be blocking my way forward at the moment. I can sense that the move will happen and that something really good is going to come about.

    Am I just dreaming or will this really happen … and how, would be helpful

    TIA.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Eunoia, sorry for the delay; family visiting and no time to maintain this site or do readings while they were here.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Wheel of Fortune. This suggests that there are indeed big changes up ahead for you and the key to deal with them is to take a stance of calm control. Don’t let yourself to be swept along in a direction that might not be the best for you. So imagine that out-of-control feeling, where decisions are out of your hands: that would put you whirling at the outer rim of the wheel with no idea how to slow things down. Metaphorically, you need to move to the hub of the wheel, where things are calmer and less agitated.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Swords, which shows me that these ‘blocks’ are mostly there because of your thoughts. You are making them bigger than they really are. It also indicates that you are working too hard trying to figure out the problems. So tied up in it all that you are not allowing yourself to see the larger picture. What you need to do is to drop all thoughts of micro-managing the process. You’ve put your desire out there, now all you have to do is every single day, take one tiny action step towards your goal, even if it is so minor that it hardly seems worth it. As you do this, you’ll be able to navigate your way around some problems while others will disappear by themselves. Pretty soon, the way will become evident and your vision will clarify. So start by making lists of things you can do, tasks that need attention, and people you can talk to. Then do the things you can do and cross them off your lists. It’ll work out.

      Good luck!

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  199. Victoria

    Hi! I just ended an on again off again relationship with a man. I had been trying to manifest a long term commitment with him but it became too much and I decided to cut ties. What do I need to know about reaching my romantic desires??

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Victoria, sorry to be so long getting to your reading.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is Strength. A young woman in a rather risque red dress and peacock feather-trimmed hat is reaching down towards a roaring, cuddly-looking lion.

      Strength tells you that reaching your romantic desires depends on how well you treat yourself. For instance, you might notice that just after getting back with your ex you feel disappointed with yourself for being with someone who does not love you in the same way that you love him. That feeling is your inner guidance, your inner strength trying to tell you that you are not acting in your own best interest. So you must learn to listen to those feelings and treat yourself better, because you deserve better.

      To find true love, you have to fall in love with yourself. Once you love yourself (your inner lion), love will inevitably find you. When you reach the point where you’re having such a good time just being you that it doesn’t matter if you are with someone or not. That’s when love will come. You got to get yourself so happy you just don’t care. Meanwhile, you have to learn to trust your inner lion when s/he gives you those feelings; that’s your guidance system.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Swords. A family of three are crossing a body of water in a small boat. Land is in the distance but the vessel is moving slowly. This indicates that getting over your ex is going to take a little while. That it’s a slow, but steady recovery. I have a version of this card that shows a ghostly figure guiding the little boat — again, that’s your own inner guidance. Pat attention to it.

      Good luck. You’ll be fine.

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        1. Troi Post author

          I wouldn’t be surprised if you have to have another go-round with your ex until you finally come to terms with the idea of moving forward. Been there, done that, and what a waste of time it all was :/

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  200. Laurie

    Hi Troi!

    I really would rather see if you could a single card read for me without any info? The situation is that every time I try to explain it – it’s just hard to try to nail it down in one or two sentences. It also is a very painful thing I don’t like to talk about but I would appreciate any guidance you have. Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Laurie,

      This is difficult for me as it not my usual way of working. You haven’t given me a birthday, which is how I generally connect with a client in my mind. You must also understand that, as tarot readings are like a snapshot in time, the card might reflect what you are focused on right now, rather than the situation you mention. Anyway, let’s give it a try.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Four of Wands. The card shows two people kneeling and holding hands in the center of four decorated trees. In the background is a helter-skelter, and behind that a sturdy building that might be a castle or fortress.

      The Four of Wands indicates that you are currently in a relatively stable place. That you have created clearly defined boundaries. If it doesn’t represent where you are right now, then know that this is your goal. To reach that solid ground. The helter-skelter in the image could be referring to how life has been for you recently. Like you felt you were on a downward spiral. However, once you reach the bottom, you can gather yourself together and make plans to stabilize.

      From there, you can ready yourself to face any upcoming challenges. And there will be some. There always are. But you have to get yourself into a place where you are able to defend, fight, and defeat adversity. And always have that base or touchstone to return to. Make a Four of Wands safe-place in your mind, your heart, and in real life, if possible.

      I’m not sure if this is to do with a relationship, or family, or a work situation, but know that there are others around you who will support you. Don’t be too proud to ask them.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ten of Cups, which is good news. Two people are gazing out over a beautiful landscape and at a gorgeous villa set on a hill. Two children play nearby. It’s a card of families, emotional fulfilment and creativity. Whatever difficulties you have been through, the path is going to get easier.

      One word of advice: always look at things that make your heart sing. Never dwell on the ugly or the hurt. Shrug it off and look for things in your life to appreciate. Deliberately place your gaze, your emotions and your attention on the good before you, and leave the unwanted in the past.

      Good luck.

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      1. Laurie

        Oh my god thank you. It is a situation of love and while we are both single, we both come from some pretty severe backgrounds that have damaged us seperately and trying to get through it has been severely painful. I really believe he’s the one but he is a very principled person who acknowledges he feels for me, but because of employment obligations (we are both 40+ years old, but he works at the college I attend) refuses to act on it. I have other options for dating but I just feel wrong dating someone else when I’m in love with him. I would rather wait for him. He’s not perfect, but he’s perfect to me.

        Thank you so much.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Laurie,

          Well I didn’t ‘get’ the situation, but you have two lovely cards that are very reassuring. I’m sure it will all work out for you both.

          Take care.

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          1. Laurie

            He is worried that even though I’m his age, he being a tutor at the school would be taking advantage of me. It may sound strange, but he’s really protective and holds tight to his standards.

  201. Jenna

    Hi,

    First of all amazing website! I like your content and your work with tarot!

    My question is regarding my passion in life. I feel a little lost at the moment with my work and career choices. Though I am making decent money and I am happy but I am not content or passionate about it.

    My date of birth is 06 January

    Can the tarot cards guide me with an answer?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jenna,

      I’m using a deck called the Pagan 2000 and your card is the Eight of Swords.

      This is an interesting card to appear in answer to your question because it indicates you have almost driven yourself into a corner. You are good at what you do but your discomfort is obvious in that your choices seem to have put you into a groove you feel stuck in. However, all this is illusion and simply a result of your current perception. You can take action to make the changes, but you have to really want to do it.

      You won’t do it yet. I think you will have to remain on your current path until some event causes you to make a break. And when you do, you’ll find it much easier than you thought. What will seem to be an obstacle or problem, will, in fact, be your means of escape.

      While you are in your current job, your heart yearns to do something with more meaning. It’s possible it is along the lines of the healing professions, or perhaps a career path that’s a bit ‘out there’ or otherwise unusual. You need to be able to express your creativity and to use your not inconsiderable powers of persuasion.

      For now, don’t stress over it. Let the ideas keep coming and wait for the right moment to change direction. It might be a good idea to start a little ‘change of career’ savings account to give you a financial cushion when the time comes.

      Good luck.

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  202. Flo

    Hello again Troi. Blessings to you. I don’t know if my earlier comment was sent or not. I am at a cross road with my taurus. I don’t know how long i can be patient in this situation because he is super slow. Can you please advise me on when things will move ahead?
    Love and light
    Flo 💜

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Flo, this is the only comment I’ve seen from you. Sorry to hear that you are a bit stuck at the moment.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Chariot. A woman dressed in purple is seated on a two-wheeled chariot. Her ‘horses’ are actually two, very stationary, sphinxes. As the tarot is pretty hopeless for me when it comes to timing, I can’t tell you when your relationship might speed up… however, taking this card literally, I think that you want one thing while your Taurus is quite happy with the way things are. He sees no reason why it should change. You are giving him exactly what he wants, a non-committed, not-too-demanding, relationship.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ten of Pentacles, which is generally about family structure, business, and financial security. This, perhaps is the basis for the situation. These concerns are important to him right now.

      So you are at your crossroads? What direction will you take? It’s your choice, Flo. You are in control of your own chariot and you get to decide the road you will take.

      Good luck!

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      1. Flo

        Thanks so much for the reply Troi. I ache physically when im not with him and can’t stop thinking about him. I thought that a couple of months apart could fix it but my feelings for him is still so intense and im afraid to show him how much I miss him. I need divine help and strength to walk away. We keep getting pulled back together. Aaargh 🙈😟

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        1. Troi Post author

          Love is tough sometimes, Flo. If you feel that deeply, then that’s your answer. Why are you afraid to let him know how much you miss him when apart?

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  203. Lyrical Reverend

    My question is for Bev G, if I may please request her for my reading.

    My question: Do you see me making it big on HubPages(as Lyrical Reverend) if I keep on my current path in regards to wealth and prosperity?

    12/5

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Joseph, there’s only me here 😀

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Two of Cups. This is an unusual card to appear in connection with a question like yours, so I am going to assume that the cards are telling you something you should know rather than what you actually asked. In any case I can answer that question afterwards without using cards.

      So the Two of Cups suggests that you may discover a new love or friendship entering your life. The attraction may or may not have a romantic basis, but whatever it is it will be mutually healing. You may find that the person is someone you have known for a while, or have recently met. Twos in tarot also suggest waiting. So you may be waiting for a situation to resolve, or to hear from someone, or perhaps it is to do with a health issue.

      I’m checking the card at the bottom of the deck for further information and it’s the Three of Pentacles. This card is usually about a working situation, teamwork or collaboration, so perhaps this relationship is based within your ministry or place of work? The Three of Pentacles suggests an equal balance, but differing points of view. So a kind of mix up of skills and opinions. I don’t know if this is making any sense to you? This card could certainly work as an answer to your original question because it shows that you have a vast amount of resources and help available to help you succeed.

      Which leads me nicely into some HubPages advice…

      Okay, I’ll be blunt. Publishing song lyrics, however lovely they are won’t enable you to succeed at HubPages. It’ll be classed as poetry and shoved onto to a niche site called Letterpile, which is akin to a writing cemetery.

      However, I can tell you that you will succeed at Hubpages if you write what people want to read. In other words, if you can help people with their queries and problems. So, take your skills in songwriting and write an article to help people write songs. Call it “How To Write a Song”, or “How to Write a Romantic Song”. Or something along those lines because I’m pretty sure people will actually be searching for an answer to that question. You can write about your own process. You can write about the emotions involved, the technical aspects, song structure, the actual music and all that. You can talk about inspiration, how to find it in daily life, in old memories, and when you meet new people. Look at that, I’ve written it for you!

      To win at the writing game, you have to satisfy the search engines. Simple as that. So you take your field of interest and you turn it into the best resource on the web for the questions being asked about it. Then you do it again with another aspect of the topic.

      I’m always in the forum at some point in the day so feel free to ask any questions about any aspect of writing articles.

      Does that help? Go for it.

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  204. Fiorella Bianchi

    Hi Troi,

    My current relationship its about to end. My past 3 relationships have been toxic, abusive. My question will be, When will I attract good love ?

    October 11th

    Tnx

    Fiorella

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Fiorella,

      Thanks for getting in touch 🙂

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Six of Cups. It shows a young lad handing a chalice full of flowers to a girl. The girl isn’t looking at the boy but directly at the flowers.

      Sixes in tarot are always about reaching a better place after a challenging situation and I guess that’s what’s happening with you now. The handing over of the flowers suggests that it’s time you spent your energy on yourself rather than on looking for love. You’re in a pattern of attracting bad relationships and only time alone will help you understand how to break it.

      The Six of Cups tells you to look back over the past to discover what it is that causes you to pick the wrong people. There is something there for sure. Some kind of turning point, or old pain, or loss, perhaps.

      So the first thing you have to do is to learn how to fall in love with you. You have to put yourself right at the top of the list of people and things to appreciate. Every day, you must appreciate yourself. You can do this by writing out all your good points — all of them. Add some each day. Physical, mental, emotional, deeds, words, anything you can think of. Once you have run out, make them up. Keep on appreciating yourself. Only when you get to the point where you have so much love in your heart, will you be ready to attract the perfect love for you. While you harbor negativity towards yourself, you can only attract people who hurt you. While you believe that you deserve to be punished you will fall for people who will punish you.

      Time to change your story.

      Good luck.

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  205. Lily

    Hello Troi,
    I am trying to find my own unique voice with regards to work. I need a little help realizing what really calls to me deeply. My DOB is January 10.
    Many blessings!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Lily,

      If you can’t recognize it, it’s not calling terribly deeply 🙂

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Six of Wands. This card shows that, right now, you are probably assessing the results of your education; probably coming to the end of it. And the results are good, and possibly better than you expected. So enjoy this short period of celebration and achievement.

      Your birthday indicates that you would be happy in a career where you are of service to others… and looking at the card at the base of the deck – Justice – makes me wonder if you would do well in some sort of legal (not necessarily a lawyer) field? Perhaps as an advisor or advocate? In any case, standing up for the rights of others in some way or another. Fairness and justice are important to you, so consider those strengths as the basis for whatever you choose to do.

      Good luck.

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      1. Lily

        Yes, you’ve got me there… One of my senior thesis options is on oppressed women in literature across different periods and culture. Thank you for your help!

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    2. we

      HI Troi
      I am trying to find out if my special friend D. (DOB 20/03) has feelings for me . My DOB is January 01
      Blessings

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      1. Troi Post author

        Hi We,

        I’ve edited your question to remove identifying details 🙂

        One thing I try to avoid is ‘third party readings’. That’s where a reader tries to discover the feelings of someone who didn’t request the reading. So I will do the reading based on what you need to know about the friendship, OK? Meanwhile, you should trust your intuition on this matter. Perhaps you could ask D. how he feels about you when the moment is right?

        Your birthdays suggest that this relationship may be better off as a deep friendship/light romance, rather than on a full living together/marriage basis. This is because of the vast difference in your personalities. While it is a friendship, you can appreciate the differences in each other. You enjoy the fact that D. is full of ideas and dreams, while he appreciates that you have your feet firmly on the ground. In a more developed relationship these two extreme aspects would become problems rather than attributes.

        I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Knight of Swords. This card suggests that one of you is ‘on a mission’. I think it is D. He has a goal, or some kind of cause he is working for. This is taking up a lot of his time and energy. This is a very action-oriented card, not normally connected to a Pisces. I’m not sure if this is interfering with your friendship, or whether it is something you are both involved in.

        As far as your relationship goes, it doesn’t tell me an awful lot, so I’m taking a look at the card at the base of the deck and it is the Sun. This card is the most positive in the deck and signifies an improvement in all aspects of your life, including relationships. It also tells you that this summer will be quite special, so enjoy it.

        Have fun.

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  206. Julie

    Hi Troi, my name is Julie born 2nd of October and the other person is 18th of March.
    We were together for 17 years and then do to some uncontrollable circumstances we seperated and he started seeing this other woman. But now hes back and forth and i guess my question is … Is he ever going to come back to his marriage and 4 kids?
    Thank you in advance

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Julie,

      Looking at your birthdays, it seems that the circumstances of your meeting in the first place have a kind of mystical bearing on the relationship. As if it was full of coincidence and serendipity. It also appears that belief in the unknown, the spiritual and the magical aspects of life are important to both of you.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot (coincidentally) and your card is Judgement. This indicates that there is a very strong bond between you and your husband, but there is also a spiritual lesson he (or both of you) needs to learn from all this back and fore. It’s possible that there is also a bond between the three of you; maybe from a past life. It all needs working out. The best way is not to assign blame or to resent her. It’s all happened for a reason that you probably can’t see just yet.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Two of Swords, which indicates that there are truths you must recognize before you can move forward. It’s painful, but necessary for you to face up to them. Only then can you begin to put things right.

      So to answer your question, in a way, your husband never left. His heart is with his family. Whether he moves back physically, is up to you two to work out. Good luck.

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  207. Samantha Lim

    Hi Troi,

    I recently broke up with my boyfriend and am wondering if reconciliation is in the card?

    My DOB: 29 November
    His DOB: 3 May

    I hope you can help me by shedding some light into my situation.

    Truly appreciate & thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Samantha, thanks for your patience.

      Going by your birthdays, it seems likely that this is/was a stormy relationship, if not expressed openly, then certainly felt in hidden emotions. While there is lots of passion, it would be unlikely that this combination would last forever, or even in a medium-term relationship. There are just too many areas of conflict. Although it is possible for compromise and friendship to evolve from it.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the High Priestess. This card confirms the above in that all is calm on the surface but beneath it emotions are directing the action, so to speak. The High Priestess doesn’t tell us whether there will be a reconciliation or not, but she may well be telling you it would be a repeating pattern if you did get back together.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Swords, which often gives the reason for the situation/question. The Eight of Swords shows that one of you backed yourself into a corner and the only way to break free was to break free of the relationship itself. It seems you felt there was no choice but to cut the ties, even while regretting doing so.

      I think that this relationship probably isn’t going to work for you, Samantha, and you may be better off looking elsewhere. Take heed of the High Priestess and go with your intuition.

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  209. Angel

    Good evening Troi,

    Hi can you see love coming in for me anytime soon please.

    My DOB is 5th August

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Angel,

      I’m using the Rider-Waite deck and your card is the High Priestess. This card tells you that love may be waiting in the wings but it is not quite the time yet. The High Priestess indicates that you might do very well to practice a little self-acceptance. In other words, to fall in love with you. Once you can do that, love from others tends to come flooding in to your experience. Look for love within, before looking for it outside of yourself.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Queen of Wands. She is a passionate soul and shows that you may be feeling impatient, particularly given the answer above 🙂 As I’m viewing the two cards together, the Queen is glancing sideways at the High Priestess as if to say, “What do you know?” The HP holds her silence. Go within. Find your inner love, and be patient.

      All the best

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  210. Sue

    Hi, my name is Sue. My birthday is April 18 and the man that I have been seeing for the last several months is December 8. I wonder if there is any future for us as a couple? Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Sue,

      Your birthdays show that this is not an easy combination. You are both fire signs, which mean that there may be conflict. Aries 3 may have a need for control and Sagittarius 2 can have a temper, thus the relationship can be passionate but stormy. The relationship can be sustained but only with a lot of work and restraint by both.

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is Death. I get the feeling that you already know where this is headed and that the relationship is in transition otherwise you wouldn’t be asking the question. However, Death is not just about the ending of a phase, relationship or other life stage, it also opens the door to the new. While you may feel sad, regretful and upset, sometimes this ‘moving on’ is best for both partners. Sometimes, the card represents a complete change in the basis of the relationship, in that the couple decide to reassess and change the terms within it. In this case, though, I feel the end is approaching.

      Sorry I can’t be more positive, yet I can tell that you are moving towards a brighter future, so think of this as a positive life experience; a stepping stone, if you like.

      All the best.

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  211. Bridget

    Hi Troi,
    Being born at midnight- my mother chose the date of my birth— July 15
    I have been working at an office job close to
    18 years.
    Recently I started redeveloping an old passion and would like to see if the universe is aligned with my pursuing making it my vocation or stay with it as a hobby..
    Thank you for your time!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Bridget,

      That’s a good Cornish surname you have 😀

      I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Moon. It’s a beautiful and mysterious version, so if you have time, see if you can find it on a Google image search.

      The Moon tells you that your own inner guidance will let you know if you are choosing the right path. And, as that path is a little amorphous, you are going to experience times of doubt, periods of enthusiasm and confidence, followed by doubt again. It’s just how it goes. You have to pick your way along the track, slowly and deliberately. So that means no rushing, no rash action. Slow and steady will reveal the true direction.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Five of Cups, which suggests a recent loss, disappointment or emotional challenge. It might have been this that has set you on this course. The idea that if you want to feel fulfilled you need to get yourself out of the office. That there’s more to life than working for someone else.

      Hope it works out for you. Take it slow and steady, Bridget. All is well.

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      1. Bridget

        Troi-
        Wow…Spot on. The moon yep me. And my father recently past – the fiver.
        Slow and steady as she goes then.
        –
        And yes will look at the moon card..
        Thinking of getting my first deck of tarot cards today.
        Thank you for the insight.
        Namaste!

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  212. Nicola llewellyn

    November 2nd. I would like to see if i am making the right career choice and see if my relationship with my partner is the right one

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Nicola, I can only answer one question, I’m afraid, so I’ll take the first one, okay?

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Knight of Swords. This card suggests that your career choice is almost a kind of calling. This card always represents someone on a very focused mission. So I guess you have a target or goal that you need to aim for. It’s a positive confirmation of your choice.

      The card at the bottom of the deck often gives an insight into the reason for the question: The Knight of Pentacles. It seems that you have put a lot of work into getting where you are now. You may be facing some period of arduous study or apprenticeship. It’ll all be worthwhile. Accept that everything is going in the right direction and remember that you can always make changes later on.

      Good luck

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  213. Stefanie

    Dearest Troi,

    I’ve made a new friend. His birthday is July 29th. Mine is May 6th. Do you see any potential?

    Sincerest thanks,

    Stefanie

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hey Stefanie, that’s great news!

      I’m glad you see him as just a friend for now. It gives you the chance to build on the friendship without leaping into romantic involvement too soon.

      Your compatibility potential shows that this could be a fun relationship. There would be some competition between you in a jokey kind of way. Bear in mind that such competition between couples can become problematical, so know when to adjust your responses accordingly. It seems that there could be some shared professional interest in common?

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is Judgement. This is an interesting card when it comes to relationships as it often means that there’s a strong sense of bonding, of fate, of ‘this was meant to be’. Now that might not be love exactly; it could mean you have met because it will further your spiritual progress. The key with this card is to always be clear with each other. Don’t play games.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Star. Full of hope, joy and love. It tells you to keep an open mind and an open heart. Go with the flow and if it is meant to be, then it will happen. Meanwhile, just enjoy where you are–things are looking up 🙂

      Blessings xx

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  214. Rache

    Hi Troi,

    You did a reading for me more than a month ago thank you for that. Things have since taken an unfortunate turn. My partner and I have broken up – well I broke up with him as I discovered that he was cheating. In the beginning he was trying to make excuses but when he discovered that I have read messages between him and the other girl all he said was he respects my decision. This was more than 3 weeks ago and I have not heard from him at all.
    Do you see him reaching out or us reconciling in the future? What is the outcome of our relationship?
    And what’s on the horizon for me in terms of love (someone new, from the past, etc)?

    Mine – 03 March
    His – 09 May

    Thanks so much Troi.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rache, sorry to hear it didn’t work out. I am a little confused as to why you’d consider a reconciliation after he cheated on you so early in the relationship. It’s pretty much a given that he’d do it again. And not only that, ‘excuses’ = lying. Advice from Auntie Troi is to let that one go. You owe it to yourself not to offer a repeat performance.

      Sooo… I’ll draw a card for a general look at what might be ahead in terms of romance. I’m using Tarot of the New Vision.

      Five of Swords. A man stands looking at a destroyed and burning building. Not terribly romantic, I’m afraid, It indicates that you are still caught up in the energy of betrayal. However, it’s a mental energy, not an emotional one, so as soon as you can, redirect your thoughts towards the future because…

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Sun, which shows that there will be an improvement in all aspects of your life; work, money, relationships. Your only job is to let it in… and it can’t come in until you release that Five of Swords thought-challenging stuff that’s going on with you.

      Have a great summer!

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      1. Rache

        Hi Troi,

        Thanks so much for the frank advice. It all sounds easier than done – but how do I actually release that Five of Swords energy?
        I do want these positive things to come my way now. It’s about time!

        Thanks again

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Rache, it’s as easy as pie. Simply direct your thoughts towards something else… the possibility of a new love perhaps? If you are thinking about A., you can’t be thinking about B.

          XX

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  215. Samara

    Thanks, He has blocked all means of communications so just wanted to know if he will have a change of heart.

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    1. Troi Post author

      If he has blocked you after a mere misunderstanding, why would you want him to have a change of heart? He’s ‘thrown a strop’ so move on. Grown-ups who act like two-year olds aren’t worth your energy. You deserve better 🙂

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  216. Samara

    Hope
    March 17

    Hi, I met a guy online on a dating website but due to misunderstandings we not chatting anymore. its more than a week now.

    Will we reconcile and start chatting again?

    thanks.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Samara,

      Sorry to be mean, but you don’t need a tarot reading for this question. Just reach out and contact him, then you’ll have your answer 🙂

      Good luck.

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  217. Ceci

    It seems that you already know everything about this relationship. Your words helped me a lot!

    Thank you again!

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  218. Ceci

    Dear Troi,

    You read for me before and I have been working on myself and trying to go with the flow of the relationship that I originally asked you about. We still have issues and I am still hoping we will be able to save our relationship. I would really appreciated if you tell me what do you see for us now?
    Mine October 24
    His November 25

    Many thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Ceci, I’m so sorry to take this long getting to your reading. It’s a little hectic here at the moment, with a ton of writing projects and two teens taking exams.

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Knave (Page) of Cups. That’s the second time you’ve got a Page. We’re looking at this one from behind. He’s standing on a beach, golden chalice in his right hand. A small blue fish peeks out of the top. The page is gazing at arrangement of pink shells, I originally thought it was a huge starfish, but it’s made up of individual creatures. There is one single shell off to the left. A small, gentle wave is moving up the beach almost to the Page’s nice purple suede boots.

      Like all the Pages, the Page of Cups is an explorer. This time though the exploration is centered on feelings and emotions. The Page is willing to take a risk when it comes to love relationships. He likes to push a little to see how far the other person is willing to go, emotionally. It’s a benign card, overall, but there is a little mischievousness about it. The small fish is trapped in the cup, gasping for oxygen, and unable to escape.

      It feels to me that you are feeling powerless in the relationship, as though you are the little fish unable to walk away from this, even if you think he is becoming disinterested. Perhaps those emotions need to be stirred up every now and then to maintain his interest? That can be extremely exhausting over time.

      The Page of Cups often appears for creative people; artists, musicians, writers, etc. Hence the idea that the exploration of human emotions is at the base of most creative work.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Magician.

      He stands facing a crowd, playing to his audience, almost as though he is controlling them. Behind the magician sits a little monkey, tugging at his robe.

      Perhaps your partner is playing the part of the magician? This is the master manipulator. And these two cards together suggest that there is some manipulation going on. As though he is steering the relationship so that it works exactly how he wants it to work. You, on the other hand aren’t having a lot of input. Perhaps it’s time to stop going with the flow and start to assert your wishes? Of course, this might hasten the end of your relationship, so you must work out what you want.

      I’m not getting anything definite about where you are both headed from these cards, I’m afraid, Ceci. As usual, it’s in your hands. You have to decide what will work for you.

      All the best.

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      1. Ceci

        Dear Troi,

        I wanted once more to check on the status of my relationship. I would great appreciate your feedback!

        Thank you!

        His dob Nov25
        My dob Oct 24

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hello Ceci,

          I’m using the Centenial Smith-Waite deck and the news is not so good, I’m afraid. I have turned the Three of Swords. This card shows that there are difficulties in communication between you. That there are tensions and perhaps barriers that prevent this being a true, two-way, loving relationship.

          I think it’s decision time for you. In fact, I think that the decision time came quite some time ago. It feels to me that you are hanging on by a thread. It might be a good time to let go or even just take a temporary break to see how it goes. If you can resolve the communication issues, there may still be a chance, but at this point, you are too close to the situation to be able to see it clearly.

          The card at the base of the deck is your old favorite, the Queen of Cups. She is there to hold your hand and guide you through. She might represent your own intuition and inner being.

          So sorry that I couldn’t be more positive. Take care.

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  219. Julia

    My birthday: December 25
    His: July 15
    Never been in a relationship with him but I feel something. Always on my mind. Soulmate, Twin flame? Will we be together?
    Thanks!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Julia,

      I’m using the Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Ace of Pentacles. This suggests that there is the possibility of a new stage in your relationship/friendship. A firmer footing perhaps, although I’m not so certain about a romance. You might have the opportunity to work on a practical project, or attend some event together. Maybe it could be connected to volunteer work? And of course that could lead to a closer relationship although I’m not feeling it right now.

      Interestingly, the card at the base of the deck is the Six of Cups. In this deck it’s quite unusual in that we can see the usual two children from the opposite side. Watching over them is the spirits of two elderly people, a man and a woman. This does suggest to me that there could be some past life connection between you.

      Just see how it goes. There’s no rush and you can allow it to develop in a natural and gentle way.

      Good luck.

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  220. Rosa

    Hi Troi

    I want to work specifically in the area of animal reiki. Can you see if I will find job opportunities? Thank you.

    8 July

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rosa,

      I’m using the Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Nine of Pentacles. This card shows the back view of a woman standing among vines heavy with fruit and gold coins. On her left wrist is a hooded falcon. Her other hand rests on a coin/pentacle. In the far distance is a city upon a hill.

      I think we can take this image literally, Rosa. The nine says that an initial phase is just about done and you are ready to move onto the next one. The woman with her falcon and hand resting on the coin suggests that you are on the right path. The distant city tells you that your opportunities lie in a densely populated area.

      My feeling is that you could get in touch with veterinary clinics and ask if you can leave details of your services with them. Pretty soon, if you get good results, you won’t have to look for business at all. Like the lady in the card, you will simply allow your clients to come to you.

      Good luck.

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  221. Jen

    I thought I found him, seemed so right but he just up and disappeared. I still think about him but know I need to let it go. So I guess my question is. Am I ever going to find the right one, possibly soon?
    My DOB is June 28

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jen,

      I’m using the quirky Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Empress. Although this card doesn’t say ‘soon’, it tells you to get yourself into a confident place. To revel in your own beauty and abundance. To attract love, you have to fall in love with you first. You are not looking for ‘your other half’, you are looking for someone to bestow your loveliness on – like a gift. Once you start feeling this way, that the other person is going to be sooo lucky to have you, then you send out a different vibe. Act and feel as if it doesn’t matter.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Four of Wands. This shows a happy couple in front of their sweet little seed husk home. Their hands are bound together with a strand of ivy like a handfasting. I would think that this card, which often shows the motivation behind the question, reflects your desire for this very scenario. Make like the Empress and don’t fret about it. When you stop looking, that’s when they turn up.

      Good luck.

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  222. Jill

    I’ve been married for 27 years (one month before I turned 19) my bday is 11/21 his 3/13. Our five children are grown and out of the house ….now, I’m wondering if the marriage is coming to an end?
    thanks

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jill, before I draw your card, I’m checking my trusty compatibility tables. It’s a shame if your marriage does end because your birthday combination shows you two are one of the most likely couples to stay together forever. Your relationship has always been based on a deep friendship and a fierce loyalty to each other. Often your unspoken bond is stronger than your words could ever express. There is also a well-developed empathy between you.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot, and your card is the Six of Wands. A young man rides a pure white horse in a victory parade. He rides bareback, showing an innate sense of balance and confidence.

      Sixes in tarot almost always point to reaching a better place after a challenging time. I would guess that the fact that the two of you being on your own is a bit of a shock to the system in a way. You have an opportunity to actually look at each other and feel a bit nonplussed about where all the time has gone. Yet, fundamentally, there is nothing wrong with your relationship that reassessment and renegotiation wouldn’t put right.

      In other words, you need to decide the new basis of your marriage. And celebrate everything you’ve achieved so far. You made it. You brought up your kids; you’ve sent them out in the world. As a married couple you have been a success.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Seven of Wands. Another young man stands atop a small cliff, fending off unseen opponents below. He’s calm, confident, courageous and determined. This base card often shows the motivation for the question. I think you have both been trying to adjust and find yourselves getting on each other’s nerves. These opponents are more of an irritation than a serious threat. As are these irritations.

      I would say, Jill, that your marriage has a lot of mileage left in it yet… but only if you both want it to be that way.

      Good luck!

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  223. Rache

    Hi Troi

    Will this relatively new relationship last and whats the compatibility / challenges are like?

    Mine 03 March
    His 09 May

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rache,

      Going by your birthdays, this is not always an easy relationship. You both like to be the center of attraction and sometimes this means that you are in competition with each other. If you don’t recognise this tendency, it means that either (or both) will look outside of the relationship. I don’t mean in the sense of being unfaithful, but merely that it could undermine your partnership. If, however, you acknowledge and make a bargain that you will each give the other one the attention they seek, you may well be able to build a strong foundation. Think about creating a strong, kind friendship between you, and putting it above all other factors.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon tarot and focusing on the possible outlook for your relationship.

      Your card is the Ten of Pentacles, which suggests there are family-based issues to think about. I’m using the word ‘issues’ but that may not be right. Considerations may be more apt. I wonder if one of you is working towards building a business, or is involved in a family business? I can’t quite make out what my own intuition is telling me. On the whole, this is a positive card which suggests a likely long-term future for the relationship, yet at the same time I feel that this family connection might come between you.

      The card at the base of the deck is the High Priestess. She suggests that you may have other questions about the relationship, but you must understand that you already know the answers, and they lie within. Just tap into your gut feeling to know the best route to take.

      Sorry it was a little vague and cryptic.

      Good luck.

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  225. Azzie

    I recently broke up with my partner and right now I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place trying to figure out if I should let this go and move on with my life. I do love him and I think he loves me but he’s not spending enough time with me to make this work and I constantly feel as I’m not a priority in his life. So my question is…is this worth fighting for or is it time for me to move on.

    My birthday 26th Aug
    His birthday 17th Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Azzie, sorry to hear of your break up.

      Your birthdays show that your relationship was a very open one as far as feelings and everything else is concerned. Neither of you hide anything from the other. You complement each other in that he is the outgoing one, balanced by your more introspective viewpoint. He lifts you; you keep his feet on the ground.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is Justice. A witch sits on a wooden chair. She’s facing the viewer in a 3/4 position. She’s holding the usual scale of Justice–on one side sits a white cat, on the other a black one. Resting on her knee is a large red book titled ‘Law’.

      My feeling from this card is that you are feeling that the relationship is out of balance. That it isn’t working in your favour. And it is important to you that he treats you in the same way as you treat him. That he pays the same amount of attention to you, as you to him. And puts as much effort and energy into it as you do. I also feel that you think that a relationship needs structure and boundaries. His Leo personality is a little too free for him to conform to your expectations. He can put up with disarray and chaos, whereas you can’t.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Knight of Swords. A young male witch rides a broomstick with an expression of determination on his face. He holds a sword pointing forward and a black cat balances precariously behind. They are powering through a flock of birds.

      This card indicates that your man is focussed on a project, career path or some other mission that he’s put all his attention onto. It’s probably a temporary thing, but while it’s going on he won’t be deflected. It’s easy to see that everything else in his life, including you, has been put on the back burner until he achieves his goal.

      I can’t tell you to forget him, it has to be your decision. You have to weigh up if you can wait until he’s done. It might be a few weeks, it might be years. Do you think it’s worth hanging on? Or do you feel life is passing you by while you are having to put up with the limited time he is offering you right now?

      Think about it a little more before you make up your mind, Azzie.

      Hope it works out for you.

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      1. Azzie

        Thank you Troi for taking time out to do the reading for me. Would you mind if I asked you to clarify how the base card works in a reading? Am I right in assuming that the card pulled for me represents my current feelings/situation. Which would be the Justice card in my instance, So does the base card represent what is surrounding the situation or the reasons behind my situation?

        I can imagine that you are quite busy and I don’t want to burden you if you don’t have the time but if you are able to share your knowledge on how it works, it would be greatly appreciated.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Azzie, no problem.

          With these one-card readings, I simply hold the question in my mind and ask the tarot to give me the best answer. It may represent the seeker’s feelings or it could be more detached. I go with the card and my immediate reactions to it. Although I have the traditional interpretation etched on my conscious, sometimes my subconscious overlays it with a different interpretation. I’ve given up questioning it, because it is usually right. If I struggle with an interpretation, it’s usually wrong :/

          The base card can often show the motivation behind the question – not necessarily the situation, though, of course they are usually the same thing.

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  226. Flo

    Hi. My birthday is 10/10 and his is 19/05 and we have been involved on and off since the last 6 months. He goes hot and cold and it hurts. I’ve tried to walk away but I just keep coming back. Ive never felt this way about anyone. How do I move forward in this relationship? Or am I wasting my time?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hiya Flo,

      It’s horrible when it goes like this–you have no idea whether to hang in there or call it a day. Let’s see what the tarot says. I’m using the Mystical Tarot and your card is the Six of Pentacles. It shows a merchant handing out coins to two beggars. He’s weighing them out carefully. This card is what is known as a ‘gateway card’ and it has layers of meaning.

      You could take it at face value and conclude that your man is weighing out his affections carefully. As though there were limits on his time and attention. The fact that there are three people in the card also gives cause for concern. Is it possible that he is giving his time to another person? It may be quite reasonable and platonic, i.e. a child, a parent, or perhaps his career?

      Sixes in tarot almost always represent reaching a place of calm after some difficulty. It might be that he has had to deal with a break-up, or financial problems in the past, and is merely being cautious about launching headlong into a new relationship.

      This card might also mean that right now, you have to play along, give him time and be patient. It’s tough, but for a while take what you can get. The situation isn’t ready to be resolved just yet. The Six of Pentacles shows that the relationship is well balanced, personality-wise. There could be a great deal of passion and intensity happening when you do get together, which is why you are always left wondering why it isn’t happening more often.

      This card may also point towards him being a little selfish and you being a little needy. Do your best not to be that way. Act as if it doesn’t matter. Make sure he’s aware that you have other things going on in your life and can’t drop everything the moment he calls. In fact, I would go as far as to advise that you put him off a little. Play hard to get for a few weeks.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the World. This confirms that you feel as if you are caught in a holding pattern right now. But be reassured all is as it should be. You are in the right place for you. So… don’t do anything other than be less available. See what happens.

      All the best.

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      1. Flo

        Omg Troi! You are truly gifted! He did have a break up last year with his gf of 3 yrs and he has a son with his ex wife that he is trying to spend with as much as possible and they live in another city. It’s been difficult for us to spend time together so we meet up when he’s in town and especially now that my mother is really sick and I’m spending all my time taking care of her. My concern was that I find him keeping me at arms length and walls around him. I can’t thank you enough for the advice. Stay blessed 💕

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        1. Troi Post author

          You’re welcome, Flo. Hang in there for a little while, then reassess your situation. It looks like you both have other commitments to take care of. xx

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  227. Illona Jameson

    I was wondering when you get a Knight of cups and King of cups in
    the same spread what does it mean. It was a question about money

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    1. Troi Post author

      Illona, I’d need to know some brief details of your situation, the other cards in the reading and the full question. In other words, I’d have to do the reading myself and I can’t do that because I haven’t got time to respond to everyone who asks for a free-reading (this is not the only tarot resource that I monitor). I’ll happily draw you a single card in response to a question.

      https://tarot-study.info/i-wont-interpret-your-tarot-cards/

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Paradise, it hurts, I know. Let’s see what the tarot says.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Moon. It seems the tarot is trying to explain that right now, your emotions are all over the place. You are dazed and confused and unsure of where to turn because the break-up has affected your perspective.

      Yet this period is really important for your growth and self-understanding. The Moon also suggests that you have to use your deeper feelings to pick your way through this time in order to come out the other side a stronger person.

      I’m afraid the Moon doesn’t confirm one way or the other whether you have a future with your ex. You must do your best to distract yourself by living life in the best way you can. That might mean focussing on work or study for the time being.

      Good luck, Paradise.

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  229. BeCool

    My crush and I finally started exchanging contacts and talking last week and we ended up having two dates already. I personally wouldn’t count that as dates because honestly, we didn’t properly planned them – it was more of a hangout. Anyway, on those two “dates,” he got carried away and wanted to be cuddly and stuff and I was stupid to respond. It wasn’t until the second “date” when I said something to him — he was able to confess to me that he really likes me but broke down some rules that he’ not looking into us being official until he starts school in April; he would like to determine how well he can balance with work, school, family, relationship, etc… It’s week two and he’s not communicating with me as much as he did last week. I was able to check up on him and he said he’s been busy with life and with a friend who is suicidal…. So my question is: “Is there going to be a relationship between us?”

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello BeCool,

      Thanks for re-posting your request here.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the King of Cups. The King of Cups is a personality card so hard to say whether this will progress romantically. Having said that, my first feeling about it is that this guy would make a great friend. Someone to rely on, someone to have a good laugh with. So is it possible that you could work on this side of things, rather than pushing for him to commit to a relationship? You both sound very young, so I would definitely suggest that you focus on laying down the foundations for friendship before trying to make anything ‘official’.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Three of Cups which tells me that you have a lot going on in your life with other people – girlfriends, maybe? Again, this card tells me you need to keep things light-hearted and fun, rather than getting too serious, too fast.

      You both have lots to focus on, many things to do and goals to aim for–relationships at this time should be, like you said, for hanging out.

      Good luck!

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  230. RaeC

    Hi Troi,
    Will my daughter be okay and live a ‘normal’ life soon? It is affecting our whole family and future I fear.
    My birthday – April 7
    Her birthday – December 11

    Thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi RaeC,

      Sorry to hear you are having problems. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Knight of Cups. A knight clad in shell-decorated armor rides a merhorse through foamy waves. In his right hand he carries a small gold, heart-embossed chalice.

      Knights are often connected to action. And in this case, action needs to come from a supportive emotional base. Everything you do and say (to, and about your girl) should take into account the feelings lying beneath the surface. This card certainly means that good progress can be made, but it will be slow and steady, rather than an instant improvement.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Cups. A small boy is offering a chalice full of flowers to a little girl. Again, this underlines the message of emotional support. Without it, your efforts to rehabilitate your daughter will be seriously hampered. Both cards are firmly emotionally-based… and that’s where the work lies.

      Sixes always hint at improvements after difficult times so I feel you should be optimistic about the future. Your family can get through this and it will make you stronger.

      All the best.

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  231. Brissa

    Brissa
    March 15th
    I have always wanted tarot card and want to know about the art . I finally ordered me card to learn . I have a lot of dream that come true . I can sense when people are bad and good. I also can sense other things around me others can not see , and this makes me worry about something possibly dark trying to come out. So my question is learning to read tarot cards opening a door i can’t close?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Brissa,

      It’s for you to decide. Tarot is a system and divination is just one of its applications. If you feel fearful, then sell your cards or give them away. Personally, I have never experienced anything dark coming from the cards, merely clarity. You might find reassurance if you study the history and scholarly aspects of Tarot and leave divination until you feel more comfortable with the cards.

      I haven’t drawn a card for you because I think that the answer to your question lies within your own intuition.

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lisa,

      Why is John talking to you? Okay, I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Nine of Pentacles. I’m going to simply interpret as I see it. John is talking to you because:

      He sees you as an interesting, attractive, independent person.
      You give off an air of ‘couldn’t really care’.
      You seem to have it together.
      You appear to be available, yet unavailable at the same time.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Five of Cups. This card often gives an insight into the reason for the question. The Five of Cups hints at a previous relationship with John. One that ended badly, where you may have been emotionally hurt. It also suggests that it’s possible to mend bridges and perhaps tentatively rebuild your relationship on a friendly basis.

      I’m probably way out here… but there we go.

      Take care.

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  233. valerie

    relationship not really sure what is going on in my love life with my partner not sure what it is or if there is anything coming in between us or if there is anything worth fighting for in need for help clarification

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Valerie, it’s helpful if you include your birth date; day/month, but it doesn’t matter. I’ve reworded your question to ‘what you need to know about your relationship’.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Emperor. This card can either represent a rigid structure, as in the unbending rules of an organization or society. Or it can indicate a strong male dominance. It rarely represents a real person, it’s more about the dynamics of a situation. The Emperor indicates that your partner may be expecting too much of you, or that they think their way is the only way. There is often an atmosphere of oppression or that one partner is not living up to the standards of the other.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Swords. This often indicates where you are coming from in terms of the question. The Ace of Swords points at a sudden realisation. As if all becomes clear in an instant. You’ll know exactly what you need to do. Whether to save the relationship or end it.

      Good luck.

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  234. HS

    Hi Troi! I recently met someone new. Coincidentally, I dated a close friend of his. We only found out about this later. I would love to know if anything would come out of this. Thank you!!

    Mine: 11 April
    His: 14 May

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    1. Troi Post author

      I’ve read for you before, haven’t I? Different name, Dreamcatcher and/or Mag? That’s fine 🙂

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Six of Cups. Cute. A young boy is handing a chalice of flowers to a small girl. I think this bodes well for a new romance, and I think you’ll discover other things in common too. Especially when you compare your childhood/teenage years. This card shows up after the seeker (you) has managed to rebalance themselves and connect to their steady emotional core, so perhaps you have been through a hard time recently.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Wands, which indicates that things will begin to move very fast – possibly around this new relationship, but maybe within your life generally. Be prepared for a bit of a roller-coaster ride.

      Good luck, have fun!

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      1. HS

        Oh no, you got me 😔 thank you so much for your readings though!! I really appreciate them. Anyway, update on the last reading. You were right. I fell really hard and I was stuck in a rut for months. You also mentioned that something important was ending or needed to end. Well, things ended one half months later haha

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  235. Kema

    I’m waiting to start a job with the state. Is the delays going to go on for a long time with the state job or will I finally start soon? Should I start looking for other opportunities? I think that this is a decent question compared to the one I asked last year lol. Baby steps lol. Thanks 😀

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hiya Kema, yes that’s better 😀

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Seven of Pentacles. A young man stands looking into the distance. Around him, his golden pentacles are ready to harvest.

      Well, it’s all here in this card. The fact that there is an almost ripe harvest shows that you have got this state job ready at your fingertips. Yet, something is causing you to feel a little unsatisfied with it. The Seven of Pentacles suggests that there will be a slight delay, however it’s temporary. Meanwhile, there’s nothing preventing you looking around for better opportunities.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Swords. A young man is sailing in a swan-shaped boat while an invisible ‘helper’ propels the boat along. They are headed toward calm waters and distant land, where a welcoming lantern hangs low in a cave.

      This card suggests that you’ve got yourself into a better place recently and your situation is almost certainly bound to improve over the next few weeks. Be patient, but also take small actions to get you where you want to be.

      Good luck, Kema, keep looking for now.

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  236. Veronika

    Thank you, Troi! Very helpful insight. I appreciate you taking the time to do these lovely one-card readings!

    All the best,
    Veronika

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  237. Veronika

    Hi Troi!
    I know a man named D. born on August 23rd, I was born on Jan 11th. Is there potential for a commited (or any kind of) relationship?

    Thank you very much!
    Veronika

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Veronika,

      Your birth date combination is really interesting. It suggests that any relationship that you foster with D. would be successful if it were rooted in some shared interest. A topic that demands some studying: perhaps some kind of system, like tarot or astrology, religious or even scientific theory and research. It will be a long-term focus that would form the basis of a deeper connection.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Wheel of Fortune. Not terribly helpful in the context of your question because it means things can go almost any way at all. However, the cards always tell us what we need to know in the moment, and yours is saying you should be prepared for a great deal of change up ahead. These changes may or may not involve this person. You will have to see when you emerge from the other side.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ten of Pentacles, which suggests that there are issues or circumstances connected to your family. Perhaps there will be a shift in the family dynamics, or you will be asked to attend a certain event. It’s even possible, of course, that D. is connected somehow through a family member or acquaintance.

      So I can’t tell you for certain that you will have a committed relationship with D. but, of course, the potential is there 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Danisha,

      Sorry to hear of your health concerns.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the King of Cups. This card suggests that what you really want right now is someone to talk to or to share your worries. I have another deck that shows this card as a safe harbour. I feel whatever the problem, the worst is probably over. Try to stay in contact with your positive spiritual side. Focus on all the parts of you that are working well. If you drink alcohol, then stop for now. If you don’t, then perhaps a glass would do you good? Treat yourself with love and compassion.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Seven of Pentacles. This card is about reluctance to embark on a new journey, or possibly in the case of health, a new regime. If you are contemplating some kind of health-related change, then this is the right time to start.

      Get well soon.

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  239. Rose

    Dearest Troi

    him 14 Jan
    me 9 december

    He cut off all communication very sharply. Has he moved on? Do I need to close this and move on?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rose,

      It’s a thing I’ve noticed with Capricorn men. They just disappear. Not literally, but often in context of relationships.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Six of Cups. Sixes in tarot relate to reaching a better place, recovery and, yes, preparing to move on. The Six of Cups suggests that you can do this with very little trouble. After all, there’s no need to invest any more thought or emotion into this relationship because, now, there is none.

      I wonder if he had children or family concerns that have caused him to ‘clear his schedule’, so to speak?

      The base card is the Nine of Pentacles, which indicates the ending of a life phase and also an opportunity to focus on yourself. It’s a good card. All is well.

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  240. Stefanie

    Dearest Troi,

    Him, April 15
    Me, May 6

    Has our romantic relationship gone as far as it can or is it possible this could become a deeper commitment?

    Deepest thanks.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello again, Stefanie, good to hear from you.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the King of Pentacles. This is interesting, I almost had an answer lined up for you — like I was trying to pre-empt the card. Now this one turns ups and shows the king, sitting comfortably, with his ox and large dog. His big house in the background. In his left hand, a glass of wine; in his right, a large chocolate cake.

      Immediately it makes me think that your man is very happy with how things are right now. He’s satisfied. He doesn’t need to take action or move things forward. He’s in a deep as he wants to be at this point in time.

      The card at the base of the deck is Strength. This tells me that you are the one who has to make the choice. I would suggest you simply ask him what he wants from the relationship and how he sees it progressing. You have nothing to lose, have you? You can either accept where you are (to me, that doesn’t seem an option for you), or you can walk away, or you can just talk to him about it, then make the decision.

      What do you think?

      Tx

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      1. Stefanie

        Thank you, Troi. I received my answer and it was not what I had hoped. I’d always thought somehow, someway it was going to work out. Thank you for your time.

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          1. Stefanie

            Dearest Troi,
            I did speak with him a few days ago and as you read, he is content with the situation and doesn’t desire to change anything or deepen our involvement. I am heartbroken. Thank you.

          2. Troi Post author

            Hi Stefanie, aw, I’m sorry. You have to make your mind up now, whether to continue or to bail out. xx

  241. Wendy

    One Card please if still doing this…. thank you

    Wendy
    January 7th

    Future career moves, when & what?

    Kind regards

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Wendy, impossible to tell you when and what will happen in your career with a single card. Remember you have the opportunity to change direction at any time. It’s not about what happens TO you but what you will decide to do of your own volition. One card is able to reflect the energy around you at the moment and perhaps a little way forward.

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Two of Swords. This card shows a woman wearing a long, white, flowing garment. In each hand she holds a sword and her arms are crossed protectively over her chest with each sword resting on her shoulders. Behind her is a rocky cove – it could be the ocean or a lake, The crescent moon hangs in the sky above her.

      The Two of Swords suggests that you are currently not looking for any change of direction. Or perhaps you are but are unwilling to reach out and take the opportunity. Having said that, twos in tarot often represent a choice that is available to you; you just have to be willing to take a chance or to explore a little further before dismissing it entirely. Twos can also mean waiting, so it can indicate that you’ve put your search for a new direction on hold until you feel the time is right. Usually, the best time is now.

      This card can also indicate that there is tension in your life. Perhaps a situation at work is uncomfortable or causing you to feel unhappy. There’s a feeling of reluctance to engage; that you would prefer to ignore the problem in the hope that it goes away. As an advice card, the Two of Swords tells you you don’t have to do anything until you’ve carefully weighed up your options, but sooner or later, you have to make that decision.

      Good luck, Wendy.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Ceci,

      Before I draw a card, I’m taking a look at your birthday compatibility combination. This appears to be an exciting combination in some ways, yet slightly detached in others. It can veer wildly between passion and criticism. It helps if both partners maintain their own space, and keep a sense of privacy for themselves. It is difficult to keep a balance in this relationship — it’s either great or awful. Having said that, some people thrive on emotional upheaval; it provides a reason to stay together.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Page of Pentacles. The barefoot Page stands in a meadow, holding up a large golden pentacle (coin). It emanates bright beams of light. The Page is barefoot at at her waist hangs a small book. Fields and woodland stretch away into the distance and the sky is dark.

      This card is more of an advice card than a prediction of the future. It suggests that your relationship will work if you are both willing to explore the possibilities of maintaining a serene state. It’s about taking a step back and working out ways of co-operating. The Page of Pentacles keeps her feet on the ground. She is very much rooted to the earth. She takes the sensible, practical path, rather than choosing the extreme emotional one. In the midst of difficulties she remembers the truth of her connection. She reminds you to take a breath. To see the situation from the other partner’s point of view.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Queen of Cups. She is someone to turn to in times of trouble. She listens and perhaps advises, although her main role is to absorb feelings of unhappiness, sadness, despair and anger. She calms troubled waters. She may represent a real person, or she may simply be another reminder to let go of things that don’t serve you well.

      Hope that helps you… and remember, you will stay together as long as you both want to stay together 🙂

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      1. Ceci

        Many thanks Troi. The Queen of Cups seems familiar in the reading, I tend to identify myself with her. You were very right when you pointed that our relationship can be “either great or awful”. It is very hard yet the feelings remain, we hurt each other without trying to do it, out of insecurity I guess. I tried letting go but he comes back and when he tries to let go I am the one looking for him. Which is why I wanted to know what sort of future is there for us. The page of pentacles gives me hope in that it asks that I keep working at it. In the end, I could have at least the satisfaction that I did everything I could.
        Thank you again!

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        1. Troi Post author

          Yes, Ceci, you’re right; the Page of Pentacles is quite determined in her own quietly persistent way. She would find out what makes her partner tick. Really get into his psyche. The Queen of Cups is interesting in that you identify with her. She is very much aligned with the Scorpio personality, calm on the surface, but with some much deeper emotional stuff happening beneath the surface.

          Make sure you both have a personal retreat, whether it be friends, a quiet space, or some activity away from the relationship. Something to call your own, kind of thing. You both need that sense of freedom now and then.

          Hope it works out for you.

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          1. Ceci

            You are very kind Troi! I really appreciate the bonus advice and immediately read the articles.
            It is amazing how you describe our relationship. When I met him I was drawn very strongly to him, I can’t explain it. As you mentioned in the article there are many obstacles and at some point I even thought “life gets in between us”. With these articles I can only confirm what I felt from the moment I met him.
            Thank you again for you help!!

  243. shanee benjamin

    Hi!

    I’m inquiring about a situation i’m in with my ex partner. it was a traumatic breakup with legal repercussions. We can’t speak but i still feel the connection to her very strongly. i love my ex and i forgive and have released the betrayal. I’m wondering if we will have a chance to reconnect to mend things so we can try to move forward stronger. the mental and physical connection we shared is very rare, and it doesn’t feel like this is over. we both have compatible life path numbers but one thing that worries me is that she betrayed me with someone who has the same birthdate as me- birth year and everything, so they also are compatible. **My dob is 10th Oct, hers is 29th Nov. we’re both women.

    **Birth dates edited.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Shanee, so sorry to hear of your break-up. And how strange that she found someone with the same birthday as you. She must have been attracted to her because she saw a lot of you reflected in her.

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Six of Wands. We see the image of the usual Rider-Waite card in reverse. There’s a guy on his horse moving forward victoriously through a throng of admirers. Yet one telling detail is that there is a man dressed in a red cloak who holds a bird cage. The cage is open and the dove has flown free.

      It’s a little corny, but I’d take this as an apt metaphor. All you can do is leave the cage door open to see if the bird returns. In the meantime, you have to demonstrate your ability to move forward with your head up. Your life is a victorious and glorious celebration. There may well be a chance to reconnect, but not yet. You may have to get past the legal stuff, become independent of spirit and get to a genuinely joyful state. That’s when the cage (not really a cage, but you know what I mean) becomes more inviting than the alternative.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Emperor. Not sure how this fits in but there may be issues with parents, with some kind of rigid societal expectation? I don’t know. We can’t see the Emperor, just the back of his throne on which is carved his effigy. He’s looking towards a group of people. Facing the viewer is a giant tortoise, which could indicate that the process of splitting up may take some time. Interestingly, the audience looking at the unseen emperor are all young women. Make of that what you will 🙂

      It will be interesting to know how it turns out for you, Shanee. Good luck x

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  244. Barbara

    Financial windfall in the immediate future !
    That is the question

    October 19th is my birthday.

    Edited by Troi to remove identifying details.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Barbara,

      I guess if you are expecting a financial windfall in the immediate future, you will know soon enough 🙂 I’m using the Robin Wood tarot and your card is the King of Cups.

      This card shows the kindly King sitting on a rock in the middle of the ocean. He’s relaxed and calm and certainly not unduly worried about this his precarious position. He’s surrendering to the moment, enjoying the sight of the powerful waves. Behind him, a dolphin (or porpoise) cavorts in the water.

      As a personality, the card often represents an emotionally intelligent person. Someone who has learned that acceptance and living in the moment is the only way to live a good life. I like to think of him (or her) as an anchor, or a harbour in the tempest. He opens his arms and you feel safe.

      As far as money is concerned, well it’s not one of his top priorities, but perhaps he will be the source or facilitator of your windfall? It seems that this money, if and when it comes, will provide you with some welcome security, and maybe freedom.

      Good luck.

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  245. Angie

    Hello 🙂

    My husband and I, married 16 years, have just come through two exceptionally difficult years, 2016 and 2017. HIghlights include my becoming disabled, resultant poverty, husband not speaking to his family, my near-fatal illness, a sudden 400-mile move, husband becoming disabled, and the death of my father. Again, those are only the BIGGEST problems the last two years have brought our way. And in the midst of all this…MENOPAUSE! lol With this background, I’m curious about the general outlook for 2018. I study tarot myself, but for this question I’d like another person to read. My DOB is August 22 and my husband’s is January 22. Thanks so much for your time.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Angie, sorry to hear of your troubles over the past couple of years. The good news is.. you’re still here and still fighting.

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Knave of Chalices. We see a young man from the back. He’s holding up his golden cup and communing with the little fish. In front of him, on the beach, are some shells laid out in a five pointed star. He’s dressed in quite earthy colors, which reinforces that Pages/Knaves are connected to the earth element.

      This card represents a new, emotional beginning. Perhaps you have gained some emotional resilience, given everything that has happened. It’s likely that you will come to an understanding that everything in your life can be viewed through the lens of feelings, rather than just a practical one. That everything you want to happen or to manifest is literally because you want to feel better. I would suggest that you could help things along by getting yourself to that better feeling place first. Like the Knave of Cups, don’t be afraid of holding your emotions up for close inspection.

      I’ll use myself as an example. I’ve sort of got off course recently. I have let myself become affected a lot by outside influences and stupid things that have happened. We have had to fork out money left, right and center. As soon as things ease up, along comes another large expenditure. I’ve allowed that to determine how I feel on the inside. Not good. So last week, I gave myself a bit of a talking to. I know, without question that they way I feel affects outer events and circumstances, so instead of continually reacting, I’ve made it my work to focus on how I feel – and this card sums it up perfectly. I highly recommend that you watch some Abraham-Hicks videos on YouTube.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Empress, and isn’t she a sight for sore eyes? She’s sitting in her garden while two children play with a swan behind her throne. The Empress is facing an open gateway and the path beyond it. The open gate symbolizes that the whole world can come to you right where you are. That you can summon that Empress energy into your life in an instant. All you have to do is make the decision. With enough faith and a good sprinkling of optimism, you can launch those improvements in the present.

      Make it your mission to feel better, to focus on the good already in your life, to distract yourself from the not-so-good, and to see benefits wherever you can. I’m sure things are going to get better for you.

      All the best for 2018.

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  246. Jade

    I want to know if my relationship will last. He is a scorpio and I am a cancer if that helps.
    His name is Jose and I am Jade, his birthday Nov. 3 and mine June 23. I really truly love him and our relationship is stable and healthy. I want to know if we will last. Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jade,

      Before I begin your reading, I’d just say that the longevity of your relationship is not determined by fate, but by both partners’ willingness to commit to it. In other words, if you both want it to last, it will 🙂

      Your birth day compatibility shows that the dynamic of the relationship is based on the practical aspects of maintaining it. You are both private individuals and creating a space where you can be together is top priority. Somewhere where you can be a couple, yet retain your individual privacy. Structure is important, you both like to know where you stand, and also how much room there is for manoeuvre. Once the structure and ‘rules’ of the pairing are in place — and this will be done without much discussion; it’s sort of unspoken agreements for the most part — you will be happy and content. Bear in mind that all this structure is needed because you are both ruled by water, which indicates that you may have difficulty combining the calmness (yet anxiety-prone) of Cancer with the stormy (yet insecure) tendencies of Scorpio. Now that’s just the compatibility element, it doesn’t necessarily mean ‘together till the end of time’.

      Using the Mystical Tarot, your card is the Ten of Swords. This card shows a man lying on a terrace overlooking a lake.. He has ten swords stuck in his back The crescent moon shines above and an owl sits looking dispassionately nearby. On the horizon, the sun is about to rise.

      In regards to your relationship, this card indicates some deep shift in it. It might mean that one phase ends and another begins. Perhaps some issue that has bothered one or both of you is laid to rest. That there is an agreement to let it go and never discuss it again. It could form part of putting the structure in place which will keep you together. Having said that, this card most often appears when there is an ending/new beginning just over the horizon. That doesn’t mean that you are doomed to split up, but there could be another ending that affects you both: job loss, illness of a family member or something similar.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Nine of Pentacles. This shows an independent, career-minded woman enjoying a life she has created for herself. As far as relationships go, it is the card of self-appreciation before any other consideration. In other words, the more you love and appreciate yourself, the more loveable you appear to others. So never let go of the true you.

      This probably has confused you more than reassured you, Jade. As I said, staying together depends on whether both parties believe it is in their best interest. Good luck!

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  247. Stephanie

    Hi Troi! I want to start out by thanking you for your service & offering this free 1 Card reading. I just found out I am a little over 5 weeks pregnant and would like to know if I will carry out this pregnancy it’s full length & give birth to this baby? This is our first child which has been long awaited for my fiancé and I! So in short- will I give birth to this baby? Thank you! My birthday is April 19th (:

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Stephanie, huge congratulations to you both. What a fabulous New Year gift!

      Now, you must realise that I cannot possibly attempt to answer your question. If you want reassurance about your pregnancy, you must ask your doctor. Having said that, I am happy to draw a card to see what energies and influences surround you right now – a more general reading.

      I’m using a pretty deck called the Mystical Tarot, a Christmas present from me, to me 🙂 Your card is The Empress. What are the odds?! The Empress is the third Major Arcana card. She represents fertility and fecundity. The Empress is about new growth; the feminine principle reaching outward (as opposed the High Priestess who remains focused inward). The Empress indicates good health, increasing wealth and opportunities to lock into prosperity. A perfect card that mirrors where you are right now. Note that this is a very girly card, if you get my drift?

      The Empress is a three card and therefore, indicates a new cycle in your personal relationship. She shows that you are both reaching a new level of maturity, which in turn, leads to a deeper understanding of each other and a stronger bond between you. Enjoy this time, it is very special.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Moon, another Major. Interesting that the Moon is numbered 18, which reduces to nine (see my note at the end of this reading. The Moon indicates cycles, particularly relating to females. I expect you’ve been caught up in counting days repeatedly. Use the intuitive power of the moon to guide you along your path, to connect with your baby. When you see the moon be reminded of how many lunar cycles pass during gestation and know that she is watching over you. And remember that whatever the outcome, it will be the best one.

      Both your cards are connected with the amazing natural miracles that occur every day. Look around and absorb them. Go for gentle walks in nature. Be sure to get plenty of fresh air and rest. Look at the moon a lot.

      By the way, a rough calculation shows your baby is due first or second week in September? My daughter was born on September 11th (2001), so yours will be a Virgo too. Good luck 😀

      I hope it all goes excellently well for you, Stephanie. Congratulations once again.

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  248. Bridge

    Thank you for your free reading I greatly appreciate it. It’s hard for me to focus and concentrate on things that I need to and I get easily distracted and bummed out which I hate. My question is, will I be successful in life?

    Edit 27th April 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Bridge, are you the same Bridge I replied to on another site? If so, hello again 🙂

      Because it’s you (I think), I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot (you can Google the image of your card).

      You’ve asked a very big question for one card to answer. Also everyone has a differing definition of success, don’t they? My idea of success may not be yours. So what I’m going to do is draw a card for you and keep it open. It will have a message that will be relevant and, hopefully, useful to you right now, not 10 years hence.

      Your card is the Four of Wands. Four young witches are celebrating. They are waving their wands in the air while their cats dance around them, trying to catch the sparkles from the wands. In the distance we can see a marquee with tables and benches and balloons. In the far distance stands a castle with two tall towers.

      The Four of Wands indicates that you are moving into a stable and calm period of your life. Fours in tarot always represent stability and firm foundations. There may be changes and distractions going on around you but you will increasingly be able to place your attention where you want it to be. There’s a possibility of some kind of family gathering or celebration on the horizon.

      The card at the base of the deck is the High Priestess. This card often gives a clue to why the question is being asked, or to the seeker’s current motivation. The High Priestess sits before her table, on which is a crystal ball and some tarot cards. Her cat is delicately tapping at some runes that spill from a bag. The witchy High Priestess is surrounded piles of books and two huge pillar candles, one white, one black stand either side of her.

      You mentioned to me before about the fact you feel called to study or research witchcraft and I think this card is confirming that. You don’t have to go full-on, coven and initiation stuff, but keep it in mind that you probably should spend a lot of time in nature and perhaps studying something that appeals to you like herbalism, cards, or even counseling. You must listen to your intuition and follow your inner guidance – at all times. It is always reliable. Read all you can and enjoy the journey. Your future will unfold in front of you in the absolute perfect way.

      Good luck.

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      1. Bridge

        Yes I am the same bridge that you responded to. Thank you for your reading what wonderful insight. I am going to school right now for psychology as a matter of fact to counsel and help people. There are people around me that might find it silly and not real but studying about candles and cards and such has always fascinated me and I enjoy it. Thank you.

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  249. Belle

    Is my boyfriend hiding anything? Basically, I just want to know if there’s another female in his life.
    My birthdate: April 22
    My boyfriend’s birthdate: November 30

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Belle,

      Sorry, can’t answer your question, or rather, I don’t want to because it would go against my own code of ethics regarding third party readings. If you don’t trust your boyfriend, you could just ask him?

      All the best…

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  250. Inez

    I’m in love with someone I know is not good for me and I know doesn’t love me back. Thankfully, this person is no longer in my life and does not want to be in my life. Even knowing all of this I don’t know how to get over this person. My obsession with this person is causing me a lot of pain. It’s been 3 years that I’ve been thinking of him. I’m also married and don’t like that a lot of my emotional energy is going towards this person. How long is this going to go on? What steps should I take to get over this person? My birth date is February 16.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Inez,

      I’m using a new (to me) deck called the Mystical Tarot. Your card is the Ace of Swords. This card exactly reflects what occurred to me as I read your question. Simply make a decision to stop thinking about this person. Don’t listen to music that reminds you of him. Every time your thoughts start wandering in his direction, use the power of the Ace of Swords to immediately stop. You can’t always control your emotions, but you are very able to control the thoughts which give rise to those emotions.

      I know exactly what you are going through. Exactly. I was obsessed by my ex-husband for the 10 years we were together and for years afterward. However, I knew it was taking up so much of my energy and what was the point? I was pretty sure it wasn’t reciprocal. So I stopped. It’s only a habit after all.

      So, make the decision 🙂

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      1. Inez

        Thank you for replying to my question. I’ll try my best to put this to work. It’s good to know I’m not the only one that struggles with feelings like these.

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  251. Melanie

    I have been through hell the past two months with having a stroke, being evicted, and homeless. Our money situation stinks because of me not able to work.I applied for social security disability and went all the way to a judge who denied my case. I had a binder full of medical information that I thought would have helped. So my family is struggling terrible I can’t afford food or cat food for my cats. Is our financial well being going to get any better? I feel like life hates me real bad!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Oh Melanie, I’m very sorry to hear you are in such dire straits. What you need is practical help right now. You mention your family, so presumably you have another adult or teenager who might be able to generate some income, however small? I found this site: https://www.moneytalksnews.com/50-ways-make-fast-50-2/ Maybe there’s something there that might spark some inspiration?

      Meanwhile, I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Seven of Pentacles. This card indicates that you are being called forward to your well-being but you are not going. There are opportunities available; options you could choose and paths you could take, but you are focused right in on your current situation – and understandably so.

      The Seven of Pentacles shows that you have done quite well so far, but you cannot see that right now. There are things you can do. If you (or another member of your family) can cook, you can make stuff to sell. If you can write and (which you can) and have computer access you can earn online. Deal with what’s in front of you but also make a plan for the near future.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Queen of Swords, which means that you can think your war through this. Put your emotions to one side and use cold, hard logic to decide what to do. The Queen of Swords in your situation would make lists of possibilities. She would work out what she could do within her limitations. She would delegate to others. She would insist that they contribute in some way. She would also take stock of the legal situation again, and consider every detail — maybe something has been overlooked? Is there a local representative who might help? In the UK we have something called the Citizen’s Advice Bureau that helps people get access to the resources they need. Have you something similar?

      I can’t think of anything else, but I really hope you get the help you need. Take care. x

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there, Cassie,

      I’m using the wonderfully wicked Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is Death. Don’t be alarmed. I’ve turned over the base card too, and it is the Four of Swords. This combination suggests to me that you are still in recovery following the end of an important relationship. You may be feeling that a light-hearted liaison may be just what you need to help things along. And that may be true. However, before you can move on, you have to do three things: The first is to give yourself time to fully recover. Because you haven’t, yet. The second is that somehow, you have to let go of the pain of the loss. Hard to do, but you can do it. Death suggests that somehow you have to find a way to transform the painful memories into good ones. The third thing you must do is to fall in love with you. Once you heal, you will be able to take a step back and assess all the wonderful things you have going for you. Forget other people for a little while. You have to love you. It’s like a gift to yourself.

      If you can process and achieve these three things, A. you won’t even care about finding love, and B. Love will find you.

      Merry Christmas x

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  254. Annette

    Hi my bday is nov 25 and his July 26 . Our relationship ended because he fell back into old patterns of drug abuse and is now with someone who enables that. I’d like to move on if there is no chance for him to free himself from that kind of life, but I don’t know if there is love left or if his new relationship is real.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Annette, I’m using the Rider-Waite deck and your card is the Devil.

      This card indicates not just a pattern of behavior on his part, but on yours too. He isn’t going to free himself because that’s the life he has chosen. It is irrelevant whether the new relationship is real or not. It’s also irrelevant whether he still loves you (he doesn’t, or he wouldn’t have started a relationship with someone else). What is relevant is that you break away from your own thoughts that it could ever work between you and him. Let it go, or risk storing up years of unhappiness. So, yes, move on.

      Good luck.

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        1. Troi Post author

          My pleasure, Annette, you will soar when you have released yourself from those shackles… you can feel it already 🙂

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  255. Debbie

    My best friend, for the past 4 + years, ended our relationship 2 months ago, saying he felt our relationship was making me unhappy. Are we done or does he just need time apart? His birthday is June 29 and mine is April 19.

    thank you in advance for any advice / guidance in this area.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Debbie, sorry to hear you have experienced a rift with your best friend. Sometimes it feels worse than divorce.

      I’m using the Deviant Moon Tarot and your card is the Sun. It depicts two men dancing under the gaze of a rather stern-looking sun.

      I can’t read this card on its own without also mentioning the base card. It’s the Devil, which indicates that the two of you are/were somewhat divided in your perspective of the friendship. I have to go completely on intuition here, but it appears to me that your friend may have been acting passive-aggressively in telling you that his decision was ‘for your own good’.

      On its own the Sun is always very positive and I would normally say that, yes, you will re-establish your friendship in the near future. And you might. However, there are undercurrents which are represented by the Devil. These undercurrents could take the form of manipulation or a power struggle. Or perhaps your friend felt he needed to break out of the friendship in order to regain his independence or to shake off your influence? I am definitely getting an odd vibe here and it may be down to the kooky cards themselves, but I feel there is more to this than you are aware of. There might be another person involved but I can’t be sure.

      Sorry I can’t throw any light on the situation. See what happens. You may well be able to iron out the issues and put the friendship back on a firm footing, yet equally, it could have run its course. I would be interested to find out how it works out – always good to discover why certain cards showed up.

      Meanwhile, don’t do the Devil thing and get hung up on something you can’t really do anything about. Let it go and move on. The Sun shows that you will experience a pretty decent few months ahead.

      All the best.

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      1. Debbie

        Troi, wow,, incredible reading. Yes I agree he was probably being passive aggressive in suggesting he had to end it because he felt I was unhappy. As well, I believe there was probably another person involved pushing him to rid me.

        I’ve been struggling with taking the high road or low road… your Devil warning tells me to take the high road. 🙂 Just move on and if he reaches out we may salvage something, if not, I move on and be happy without him in my life.

        Thank you so much for your time and effort, it was reassuring to read this,
        Debbie

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        1. Troi Post author

          You are very welcome, Debbie. Yes, there’s no point in prolonging something that should be allowed to go. You probably got a lot from the friendship, and even this ending will be helpful in its own way. Good luck x

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello d4, You need to know that tarot is not very good at timing. There are no dates printed on the cards 😀 Some tarotists have worked out a time-frame for themselves, but I’m not one of them because I think that energies and events unfold according to the actions, desires, and feelings of the seeker.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Wheel of Fortune. This card indicates that life is going to change a lot for you over the coming months. You may well feel as if you have no control over the direction your life is taking. In fact you have total control as long as you remain calm and expectant of a good outcome.

      The card at the base of the deck, which sometimes offers a clue about why you are asking the question, is the Empress. There is something in your situation to do with motherhood and pregnancy. Perhaps someone close to you has recently announced that they are pregnant? You might be feeling as if you are being left behind. All is well.

      Good luck.

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  257. Naomi

    I seem to push everyone away and I am starting to wonder if I will ever meet anyone to settle down with? My birthday is 23rd March. Things always start off well but I either find a way to end it, I realise that I am not compatible with the person or I want to settle down and they don’t want the same thing.

    I am happy doing my thing, working on myself, career etc but in the back of my mind it bothers me.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Naomi,

      It’s because you were born on the Pisces-Aries cusp, and so are a mass of contradictions 🙂

      I’m using the Revelations Tarot and your card is the Knight of Swords. This is interesting because I feel it relates to you directly as a person. The Knight of Swords is extremely picky, and rightly so. He knows what he wants and will never settle for less. If a situation doesn’t live up to expectations he cuts his losses and moves on. I’m using ‘he’, but I mean ‘you’.

      The Knight of Swords suggests you are highly intelligent and capable of leading the way in any discourse. You are also quick-witted. This means that you have to rule out about 90% of the male population because they are simply not clever enough for you. You can’t settle for anyone that you can tie in knots intellectually. You constantly need challenges and out-of-reach goals in order to stretch yourself.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Swords. Again this is another card that represents the intellect. However, this one suggests that you feel trapped by your own thoughts. This little bit of ‘it bothers me’. The more it bothers you that you haven’t been able to maintain a relationship, the more it will bother you.

      My advice is to accept things the way they are. To focus on falling in love with the extraordinary person you are, and let love come to you in its own time. Don’t think about pushing it away. Don’t think about ‘it never works out’. Don’t think about ‘not meeting anyone you can settle down with’. Settle down with yourself. As soon as you can feel whole (and I’m sure you are 9/10ths there already), you might find that others are immediately attracted to you. Your problem then will be choosing one 🙂

      Take it easy. Don’t worry about anything. It’ll all happen as it’s meant to in due course.

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  258. Anna

    Hi Troi,
    Please help me! For 1.5 yrs I have been trying to forget someone I had feelings for because he rejected me at the time, I always had hope he would be a part of my life and return the feelings and we would try to start something .

    Well he came back into my life about 1.5 months ago( i found out he was in a relationship for 1 yr) and showed great interest in me until I opened up, that’s when he pulled away. We talked things out and he said that he doesn’t know if he will ever feel the same way about me as I do about him… it hurts me to know that. We decided to stop talking today. Will I ever hear from him or see him ever again? Anna nov7, and Nick april 17. Thank you for you help in advance

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anna, so sorry to hear of your heartbreak. It’s never easy.

      Okay, so you both made a decision to break it off completely and to drop all contact, yet you are already thinking about the possibility of rekindling the relationship? This put you in the position of neediness. You think you need him to make you happy. He’s already rejected the relationship twice, so why not go with the decision and make your mind up to face towards the future instead of the past? You know in your heart that it’s not meant to be, don’t you?

      I’m using the Revelations Tarot and your card is the Star. A beautiful card, all pink and red hued. The Star follows the Tower in the Major Arcana sequence, showing that after destruction and tearing down old beliefs, the future is rosy. Love is there for you, but you have to let the old go, in order to experience the new. The Star is hope, peace, acceptance and up-liftment. You can allow yourself to feel all those things. Just let go and let love flow through you, Anna. Be glad you had this experience; it will help you to determine what you really want from a relationship.

      So, I don’t know if you will hear from him again. The possibility is always there, but don’t let it run your life. You deserve better than a third rejection. Move forward, don’t look back 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lianne, I’m using the beautiful Gilded Tarot and have drawn the Two of Cups. This card suggests that you are still in the ‘deep attraction’ stage of the relationship. Everything is lovely and you are exploring all the delightful possibilities of being together.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Pentacles, which suggests to me that there is a long way to go before marriage becomes likely. There is a lot to learn about each other, as well as the practical aspects of conducting a long-term relationship. It’s also possible that one or both of you are still in the very early stages of you career, or still studying perhaps. Right now, that has to be your priority. Marriage may come, or it may not. That’ll be up to both of you to decide.

      Good luck.

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  260. Ther

    Esther
    March 31
    Michael
    June 10

    Pleaae help me. I dont know what to do. Last october I found out that my husband have an affair to someone that is also in the group the he belongs to. We tried to fix everything but we came on a huge fight over the phone. He said he’d come home but never did. It’s been 2 weeks now. He notifies his grandmother that he is okay and he’s with a friend helping him and moved away to start a new job and perhaps a new life. He left me with debts that I was never aware before. We only spoke over the phone ones, when he asked for space and to for me to bring his school record to his dad. After that he changed his number and never came back. I want to know where he is or if he deciding to be with a girl. Im barely surving and on the 26 i will be evicted in our rented apartment since i dont have a work to pay bills and rent. I want to know if he’ll come back. I want to know if there’s still future in our marriage. Please help me.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Esther,

      A tarot reading isn’t going to help you right now. From what you say, at this point in time, you have to know that you should prepare to end the marriage. Your priority is to find a place to live and to get advice on how to deal with his debts. There may be a way to avoid having to repay them if you can prove he took them out without your knowledge.

      I can’t tell you where he is, but it sounds like he is slamming doors behind him. I’m so sorry that you have to go through all this, but know that, if he can treat you like this, with no concern for your well-being, that he is not worth your time or love. Let him go. One day, you’ll be glad this happened… I promise.

      Edit: Interestingly he has the same birth date as my father, who walked out on me and my mother when I was six years old. He sold our house, even though we had nowhere to go. I didn’t see him for six years. My mother never saw him again.

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  261. Susan

    I’ve just recently broke off a semi-long term relationship (not marriage). From the beginning I’ve always felt something odd but fell in love anyway. The heart strings are strong and still connected but I refuse to see him and he says he stills loves me…but I won’t give him a chance. I think about him often and still love him. Something is holding me back from giving us another chance. Is this relationship a positive one? Am I making the right decision. Is there a new love in the future. I feel we have learned our lessons and time to move on. Not sure… Hoping you can help.
    Me: 1/25
    Him: 3/26

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    1. Troi Post author

      Sorry for the delay, Susan. Head cold – ugh.

      That’s a lot of questions for one little card to answer! I’ll just draw the card and see what the tarot has to say. Before that, though, I’ll see what my trusty compatibility chart has to say about your birth combination.

      It’s a fascinating pairing – that suggests you do feel a strong connection, as if you were entangled in a past life or something. However, that feeling of connectedness can also cause confusion because, really, you are both free spirits. You can never sustain the effort it takes to keep a stable relationship together. You have a destabilizing effect on each other. It means that a relationship is intense but will usually burn out. That doesn’t mean you couldn’t still have some sort of ongoing ‘thing’. It might be friendship, or it might be the occasional get-together. Let’s see what the cards say.

      Using the Fountain Tarot – your card is the Chariot. This card indicates your heart and head are going in two different directions. It simply mirrors the struggle you are having with this issue. The Chariot tells you to take a little time, gather your thoughts and perhaps have a healing conversation with your man. Then make your mind up.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Page of Wands. The Page of Wands is always on the brink of an adventure; something new and exciting. She is hesitant about actually getting started. So perhaps there is something you’ve always wanted to do? Now might be the time to get on with it.

      In connection with love, she is somewhat impulsive. So again, the feeling I’m getting is that you need to rein in your thoughts, take some time to think about what you want from your future and then, when you feel ready, take the first steps toward it – with or without him.

      Good luck.

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  262. Josephine

    Hello Troi,
    I would like to know if I have the ability to heal my self and others?
    Birthday – March 24th
    Name – Josephine

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Josephine, so sorry to take so long to reply. I have a horrible head cold.

      Before I draw your card, I’m wondering if all you are looking for is confirmation of what you already know? It’s something you can feel, isn’t it? I have received my Reiki attunement and also practiced reflexology for a while, and it is all about becoming still, aware of the energy, and strongly visualising the patient as being whole and well. I think many of us have the ability to do that. Anyway, let’s see what the cards have to say.

      I’m using the Fountain Tarot and your card is the Seven of Wands. As soon as I saw this card, it occurred to me that you might be trying to convince someone, maybe even yourself, that your ability to heal is real. The Seven of Wands is always about standing up for your own truth. It’s possible, of course, it is pointing at some other issue in your life which requires determination and courage for you to deal with it or to convince someone who is not on your side, for whatever reason.

      As an advice card, the Seven of Wands tells you to stick with what you believe and leave others to their own opinions.

      The card at the base of the deck is the King of Swords. This could be the person in opposition. He is logical, calm, authoritative, in control. He is not the sort of personality who would be impressed by claims of healing ability without proof. He needs to see it himself. I don’t know who this is, but you might.

      These cards don’t confirm or deny your ability, but they indicate that you must trust in yourself. And keep practicing 🙂

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      1. Josephine

        Ok I just wish I could heal myself. I don’t know who that person is either. I don’t have any men in my life except my sons in there 20’s. Would that be an older man?

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        1. Troi Post author

          I don’t know, Josephine. All I can tell you is that he has appeared for you. Sometimes the card at the bottom of the deck can cast light on why you asked the question in the first place. He could be someone in your past, a father, someone in authority, someone who hurt you or helped you.

          So when you asked the question about healing yourself and others, I took it to mean that you wondered if you have healing abilities. My head was like cotton wool at the time, so perhaps I didn’t understand clearly what you meant?

          Did the seven of Wands mean anything to you? That in some way you need to gather your courage and stand up for your beliefs? It means not following the crowd, being prepared to put your head above the parapet, taking a risk. Does it answer your question or does it, perhaps, apply to some other issue you are dealing with? Sometimes the cards tell us what we need to know, not what we think we want to know.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Rosa,

      I’d say there’s always a possibility for anything 🙂

      Using the quirky Deviant Moon Tarot, I’ve drawn the King of Pentacle.s. The King stands in front of his prospering business (a factory) holding a silver pentacle in both hands. He is dressed in his steampunky finery which is embellished with gold trim and silver crescent moons.

      As The King of Pentacles is a personality card, then he is either a love interest or he is someone who is a catalyst for your love interest. In other words, he could be the person who facilitates a meeting or engineers the circumstances for you to meet someone. As a personality, he is work oriented, self-motivated and focused. However, he also enjoys the finer things of life. He makes a good, reliable partner, though he is not particularly emotional.

      So I would take a look at the people you know to see if any of them could have King of Pentacles characteristics. It might be someone you work with, or a relative even, but in some way they are important in your search for love.

      If the King of Pentacles represents your possible love interest, then he is likely to be older than you, mature, down-to-earth and generous.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Tower. This is probably unrelated to your question and indicates there could be some situation or event in your future that will cause you to re-evaluate where you are headed and where your priorities lie. Remember – it might appear to be a negative event, but it will eventually lead to clarity and understanding.

      Good luck.

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  264. d4

    wanted to know what his feelings for me are now after the bad thing he did to me and if i will ever hear from him again. my bday is 11/23 and his is 8/13. thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi d4, hmm… I don’t like to do ‘3rd party’ readings, i.e. attempting to read someone’s feelings when they haven’t given me permission to do so. Can you see the problem? So I will draw a card for you to find out what energy surrounds this relationship – it might tell you what you need to know.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Queen of Cups. The Queen, wearing a golden, embroidered tabard over a deeper gold dress, stands facing left. She holds a gold chalice in her left hand. Behind here stands an ornate pillar. In the background we can see the ocean and a darkening sky.

      This card suggests that you are wrapped up in your emotions over this man. That you are allowing your heart to dictate your outlook and perspective. There is nothing wrong with this, but you need to bring in a little logic and clear thinking. If he did a bad thing to you once, he can do a bad thing in the future. With this in mind, why would you want to repeat the experience? It’s better if you let this one go and look elsewhere for love. Don’t allow thoughts of him to keep you awake at night.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Eight of Wands. It shows eight wands, flying through the air. We can’t really tell if they are headed towards the sky or the ground. Below, some sheep graze in a field.

      The Eight of Wands means situations and events happening very fast. Sometimes this card is called ‘the arrows of love’. This means that when you take your attention off the one who has gone, you may well meet someone else very quickly. The Eight of Wands also tells you that everything happens for a reason and in good order. You have learnt a life lesson from your ex; you won’t allow anyone to treat you like that again, will you?

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello A,

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Wheel of Fortune. This shows a golden wheel, decorated with the signs of the zodiac, mounted on a mechanical base. The background is deep yellow with purple-ish clouds, and two planets hang low in the sky.

      The Wheel of Fortune indicates that literally anything can happen in your life at this point. It may feel a little out of control at times. Whether it is all connected to love, I cannot say. However, the best advice I can give you is to metaphorically move to the centre of the wheel, where it is calmer. Don’t try to force or control any of it. Just go with the flow until things begin to calm down.

      The card at the base of the deck is the High Priestess. The card of calm. The High Priestess floats above a body of water in a diaphanous, sheer gown. Her back is arched and she isn’t focussed on her surroundings. In the background are two pillars, and behind them, a crescent moon shines against a starlit sky.

      The High Priestess supports the idea that remaining peaceful and at ease is the best way to deal with any approaching storm. When other people say to you, “How can you be so calm while all this is happening?” you’ll know you’re getting it right. Only act when your intuition tells you it’s a good idea.

      Sorry this doesn’t answer your question directly, A. It goes like that sometimes. The cards tell you what you need to know.

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  266. Tarot Learner

    Hi Ms Tarot Reader,
    Just bought myself my first tarot deck (a Gilded), and started my journey into learning more about this art, which I’ve ever felt drawn to. I’m finding your website very useful.

    Also – I’d love to have a quick reading, if possible! It’s about my professional life. I had to leave my old job, which I loved (moved to the US with my husband). I have been working at my mother-in-law’s firm and I really do not like the job (nor people there), but I need the money. I have applied for jobs elsewhere but with no success. What do your cards tell you?

    My birthday is October 25

    Thanks!!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Ms Tarot Learner, thank you for reposting your question. I just like to keep everything all nice and tidy (ish).

      The Gilded Tarot is a stunning deck and many people find they can connect to it quickly. It’s a good deck to start with. And I’ll use it now so you can get the cards out and compare them with your reading.

      Your card is the Knight of Cups. Strange card to show up. Let me think. Okay, so to me, the Knight of Cups is a bit on the shallow side, however, he can be relied upon to always show up with gifts of love, music, flowers and wine. In the Gilded Tarot, the Knight’s horse is startled by some creature underfoot, but the Knight remains seated and in control, and still manages to hold his cup aloft. So he may have more to him than we first think. Perhaps he has hidden skills even he isn’t able to acknowledge.

      So, perhaps you have some transferable skill or gift which has never occurred to you to use for work? You might think about a complete change of direction, literally spin, volte face, on your hind legs like the Knight’s horse. Yet remain calm and in control, just like the Knight himself. Do you have to have an actual job? Is there another way you could earn? I’m presuming you are British, or not American-born. What you need right now are ideas, options and choices. In your previous job that you loved, is there any way, you can take that job and turn it into a business for yourself?

      While I was shuffling your cards, the Hanged Man slipped from my desk into my lap. I would pay attention to this card and just hang fire while the ideas percolate a little longer. Take the pressure off yourself. Go with what you’ve got but remain open to ideas from the universe.

      Your base card is the King of Wands. I’ll take a stab that this is your husband, i.e. the reason you find yourself in your current situation. have you asked him what he thinks? Is there any way he can help you to find what you are looking for?

      Sorry to be vague and woolly. I was hoping the cards would go, “Oh, yes baby, you should be doing….”, But alas.

      Anyway, good luck. Let me know how it goes.

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      1. Tarot Learner

        Thanks, Troi! There were definitely a lot of insights here, like consider doing a complete change (I have worked my whole life in finance and considered doing something new now that I am here). I also think it makes a lot of sense for my husband to show up. He’s been my ‘base’ and supporting me emotionally and financially. He told me that I should leave this job. His income is enough for both of us. But I won’t just leave without having something else.

        I will do more reflection on your reading (and also take my deck to actually look at the cards). I am sure more insights will come! And I am Brazilian by the way. 🙂

        Thanks a lot!!

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  267. DeafGypsy

    I’m soon to be 50 years old – is there any prospect of meeting a life long compatible husband and I wish to adopt a deaf child (I’m Deaf myself). I’m constantly told I’ll meet a man and it never happened in the past 4 years in a row. Moved to many states. People constantly tell me “When you least expect it, he will arrive.”
    Sept 04.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Raven, love your work and your website. And your dog is so cute!

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot, because there are ravens in it 🙂 Your card is the Knight of Swords. A young male witch sits astride a broomstick, cat sitting behind him, sword held aloft in his right hand and his blue sigil-embroidered cloak billowing from his shoulders. He is accompanied by a lot of black and brown birds. Not sure what they are – could be a mix of rooks and pigeons.

      The Knight of Swords could well represent a new person coming into your life. Can’t say for sure if it will be a romantic liaison or not. This Knight is usually on a mission. He is focussed and determined and is not easily distracted from his goal. You will easily recognize him when you meet. Generally this card represents a younger man, or someone who is youthful in outlook. He is highly intelligent, articulate and has a keen sense of humor. He can be unintentionally hurtful because of his way with words; sarcasm is his forte. That doesn’t make him a bad person though, and he is generally mortified if he is shown the pain he inadvertently causes.

      I’m looking at the card at the base of the deck to see if it offers any more insight. The Magician. A woman with dark hair stands before a table on which are laid a sword, a wand, a coin and a chalice. Her cat sits alongside. The Magician is manipulating energy with her hands. From her heart region emanates a burst of light.

      The appearance of the Magician tells you that your future, your desires, are within your own power to shape as you wish. That maybe you need to put yourself into the role of creating your life, rather than waiting for someone to show up. In other words, if you want to meet someone, then you must go out and meet him. If you wish to adopt, begin taking the first steps (if you haven’t already done so). You get to decide who comes into your life. You don’t hang around waiting for fate to deliver them to you.

      Investigate the practice of ‘scripting’ to bring the elements you desire into your life. I’ve written about it before, it simply requires you to write a short passage every day that details your goals for your short or long-term future **as if they had already happened**. Here’s a link that explains it better: http://www.proctorgallagherinstitute.com/17131/how-to-create-a-compelling-life-script

      To sum up: I think it’s likely you will meet someone soon who answers to the description of the Knight of Swords. He may, or may not, be a romantic interest. It might even be your future adopted child. The Magican tells you that you get to decide who comes into your life and when. You aren’t blown by the winds of fate; you have control 🙂

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi S8,

      Checking your compatibility chart… I’d say you are well out of this one 🙂 This is such a competitive combination that it could never be peaceful and loving. There’s too much competition between you. Had you stayed together you would be constantly scoring points off each other… and most of the time he would win, being a Leo and all. Your question illustrates this desire to win quite beautifully.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch tarot and your card is Justice. A grey-haired witch sits blindfolded, holding the scales of Justice, the scale is balanced by two cats, one black, the other white. They look as though they are having a dispute. The witch is peeking out from the blindfold, keeping an eye on her two warring felines.

      Justice points to an equality in this relationship; that whatever you are feeling, he is feeling it in equal measure. At the same time, those two argumentative cats indicate that there would be no peace in this relationship.

      Let it go 🙂

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  269. Morgan

    Hi!
    My name is Morgan (name edited), born December 5th.

    I am recently out of a very traumatic marriage and separation, currently working through my divorce. I have met and been seeing a new person, whom I would like to be serious with . Do you see any future or potential with this new person? Perhaps a future marriage?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Morgan,

      Sorry to hear of your divorce, but happy you have met someone else.

      I am using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Queen of Cups. A young, pregnant woman stands at the edge of a beach. She holds a shell full of water. A small shoal of fish are leaping around in the waves and her cat is reaching up for the drops falling from the shell.

      It’s possible that there is a long-term future with this new person, however, the appearance of this card suggests that one of you is taking on the role of emotional support for the other. There is nothing wrong with this, but the feeling I get is that it is temporary. Once you (or they) don’t need the support, then the romance may morph into friendship.

      The card at the base of the deck is Death. This is a common card to appear in the case of relationship endings. This also illustrates the depths of your feelings and your need to clutch onto someone right now. Again, this is temporary and you will get through it.

      My advice is to just take it day-by-day and don’t worry about the future. There’s no point thinking about marriage when you are still raw from your current one.

      Good luck.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Shon,

      I’m afraid I never use the cards to make predictions in response to questions like this. It really is of no benefit to you to have a tarot card tell you ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Instead I will draw a card to see what general energies surround you at the present time.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and have drawn the Seven of Pentacles. A man surrounded by vines bearing gold coins, stands looking into the distance.

      The Seven of Pentacles often hints at a slight dissatisfaction or yearning, and I guess it has appeared in response to your current state of mind. You have reaped a good harvest already but you feel there is more to come and you’re not quite sure how it will unfold. The Seven of Pentacles advises you to carry on with what you are doing but, at the same time, to keep your options open for new opportunities. Life often takes a direction we could not have predicted from our limited present perspective. In other words, be prepared for anything.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Swords which indicates a recovery or healing of some kind; it could be emotional or practical. Know that while it seems slow, there is definite progress being made. Again, patience and optimism is key.

      Good luck.

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  272. Magnus

    Hi,

    I just stumbled onto your site while looking for tarot books for beginners and saw your free reading section. I’ll try to be concise with my question.

    Basically, I don’t know who I am. I feel like my soul or the core piece of my soul is missing. I don’t have a strong sense of purpose that defines me and drives my life. I’ve felt this way for over half my life. I doubt anyone would be able to tell me who I am as the answer would probably be too complex; so my question is:

    What is blocking me from discovering, recognizing, or understanding who I am?

    Please feel free to rephrase my question or to ask a different question as I see you have done in other readings. Please don’t feel regret if you can’t answer my question; I understand how complex the situation is.

    My birthday is: February, 8th

    Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Magnus,

      I think your question is one that all of us have trouble answering. For myself, it (I,me) has changed throughout the years. The person I was as a teen was a different person when I became a mother. Then when I divorced, I was someone else. Purpose changes accordingly. As you grow older, you become much more ‘at home’ with yourself as you realize that, yes, we are all complex, yet simple at the same time. I will tell you what I think. Your purpose is to experience. To live life on behalf of the universe/source/eternal energy/Divine wotsit/whatever. When you are five years old your life purpose is completely different to when you are 75 years old. If, however, you can always reach for those tiny moments of joy, however fleeting, then life is worth living.

      Anyway, let’s draw a card and see if it has anything to offer you. I’m using the beautiful and very spiritual Fountain Tarot.

      Your card is the Ace of Swords. Very cool. I’m going to tell you what the accompanying booklet says because I couldn’t do it any better.

      “As the root of the swords, the Ace brings a great deal of raw power and energy. A sword cuts through a web of scaffolding, holding up all the cloudy pieces of our identity – perceptions, conversations, facts, dreams and ideas. When the Ace of Swords appears in a reading, it means that a rare opportunity for clarity is near. It will cut through these subjective realities, revealing a truth, an insight, or a new approach for which you have been waiting. Pay close attention to your words and thoughts. Knowledge does give you power but without a little reflection, it can quickly turn into delusion.”

      The card at the base of the deck is the King of Swords – a personality card that suggests that you may be analytical to a fault and possibly over-critical toward yourself. This may indeed, represent the block. That you want an answer your intellect can process instead of the surety of knowing without needing proof – faith. I think a little self-appreciation and love for yourself would go a long way to reassuring you that your core, your soul has never been missing.

      I know who you are. You are part of the whole, and the whole is you. We all are, of course. xx

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      1. Magnus

        Thank you so much. Your reading has provided much clarity on my situation. You have helped me a great deal. I’ve bookmarked your site and will definitely buy a reading from you if the need arises.

        Thank you again.

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      2. Magnus

        I’m replying again because I realized that I didn’t leave you any feedback about the accuracy of your reading. I was a little overwhelmed when I made my first reply but now that I’ve had time to process I would like to explain what your reading means to me.

        First of all, you are absolutely spot on with this reading and the description of me being highly analytical and self judging. The analytical aspect is just my nature but the self judging comes from a large amount of abuse I suffered in my childhood.

        The next thing I’d like to say concerns the description of the Ace of Swords as well as how you interpreted it. Your interpretation of the Ace is a message that I’ve been getting for a while now from my inner spiritual sources. “You already know who you are; you just have to have faith.” This is the most frustrating message I’ve ever received because, as you said, If I can’t understand something intellectually then it’s almost impossible for me to grasp. You are right when you say I’m looking for something my intellect can understand; it’s the same cycle I keep falling into in this specific area of my life. Having faith in myself is one of the hardest things I’ve ever attempted and I keep failing at it.

        You reading combined with other messages I’ve been getting lately are all pointing to the same conclusion: If I’m going to be whole I have to stop holding myself back, have faith, and let go. To be honest this is the scariest thing I can imagine and is most likely going to be the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I know I have to do it. I know that understanding and being my true-self will come from having faith in myself, accepting and embracing my emotions, and letting go of everything I hold onto that makes me feel safe but holds me back. I keep myself locked in a prison because I know it’s safe, but I can only be free if I take the risk and leave my cage forever.

        I don’t know how I’ll do it yet but I know I have to.

        Like I said before, this reading was spot on and acted as a huge confirmation. Thank you again and if I need a reading in the future I’ll make sure and order one from you. This reading was extremely helpful.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Magnus, sorry, I just found this had gone into the spam folder.

          It sounds to me as though you have already taken the hardest step, which is letting go of the need to have it proved, or shown to you. If you could follow it up with contentment with simply being, it would enable progress. Place your awareness somewhere else. For me, it’s walking in the woods. Getting out of my own thoughts and letting my senses do their thing instead of my thinking. I used to find it hard because I wanted to name every plant, identify each tree and bird and then I read something about appreciating the beauty without needing labels. That helped, so now I can enjoy peace and beauty without that mind-stuff kicking in and distracting me. When you hit that sweet moment of just letting yourself be a human being, instead of a human thinking, it all begins to feel better. I can’t say I’m any closer to knowing who I am, but I know what I am.

          It doesn’t have to be scary, you know. You can make it fun and joyous – it’s your choice. You can make this into a big, hairy deal, or you can just go for a walk. Appreciation is everything. Gets you out of your head.

          Thank you so much for your kind words. They mean a lot.
          xx

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  273. Netty

    should i purse a tarot reading paid business career, or stick to a hobby focus. i love reading my cards and have had the interest for 30 plus years, now have the time on my hands, though not sure if i am up to it, professionally.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Netty,

      I’m not going to draw a card for your question as you can do that for yourself. What I will do is give you some suggestions.

      Firstly, you need to have been reading for other people and getting good feedback. That’s the only way you are going to know if you are up to it. If you can read for others for no money and get some great responses, then you can do it for money.

      Secondly, you must have great communication skills and be empathetic as well as tactful. People are going to share their deepest secrets with you, so you must know how to respond accordingly.

      Thirdly, you need confidence. You need to be able to reach for your interpretations when words desert you. You must know you are up to it yourself – you don’t need a card to tell you what you feel inside.

      My suggestion is to sign up with a free reading service and do as many free readings as you can. Those will be written readings. If that’s not your thing, then make sure you are reading regularly for other people in real life. You will know when you are ready to take it forward.

      Good luck!

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  274. Stefanie

    My DOB 5/6, his 4/15. Friends for several years before falling in love. We both have some baggage; I’m ready to get serious but he says he’s not ready yet. He is struggling with finding his balance after some major life changes. Wondering if given time, it will work out for us or if I’m better off letting go and moving on. Thank you greatly.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stefanie,

      I’m assuming that your birth dates are 6th May and 15th April. We write it the other way in the UK, but the 15 sort of gives me a clue 😀

      Before I draw a card I’m checking my trusty compatibility chart. This combination have a lot in common. You share a dislike of injustice and a sense of social responsibility, always standing up for those who are unable to stand up for themselves. However, romantically, this pairing may be better as a friendship than as a long-term relationship. Each of you has quite exotic tastes in partners so you might not be each other’s dreamboat, if you know what I mean? However, that’s not to say it wouldn’t happen. Let’s draw a card and find out.

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Six of Pentacles. This shows a merchant from the back, handing out coins to two beggars. What we can see from this unusual point of view is that the merchant’s rich-looking cloak is a little torn and tattered. He’s not so well off, but he’s doing his best to share his resources with those who need them. Interesting card to show up, given the description above. I wonder whether one (or both) of you is involved in social or charity work of some kind?

      My feeling from this card is that you shouldn’t write off the possibility that this might develop into something deeper just yet. If the relationship stalls and you feel deep down that it’s time to move on, then do so, but right now – don’t push it. Just give it a few weeks and then make your decision.

      The reason why I’m saying this is the card at the base of the deck is the Four of Wands. This is a card of celebration after a period of hard work is completed. You may be working on some project or other and that should be your focus for now. Just allow the relationship to moodle along for a while longer and see what happens.

      Good luck!

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      1. Stefanie

        Dear Troi,

        Yes, those are the correct birthdates. It’s a bit eerie to me that you are so spot on. He and I both work with the disadvantaged and have strong opinions regarding social justice. We’ve been great friends for years and then both underwent difficulties in our personal lives which drew us closer. I have never felt such connection to another before. He has expressed his love but is not ready to really make a go of it yet. I’ve got a history of both bad luck and making poor choices romantically. My instinct tells me he’s special but I have trouble trusting myself after my previous relationships. The past year and a half have been especially tumultuous and I don’t think I can bear anymore major heartache right now. Thank you ever so much for your insight. I will try to be patient for now and see what develops.

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        1. Troi Post author

          You are very welcome. If you could just set your hopes and expectations aside for a little while and concentrate on living in the moment, you will find it will be a lot easier. Day by day. xxx

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  275. claudine

    Hello, my birthdate is the 7 April and my partner’s 28 May we are supposed to meet in Spain in December for a month holiday as he lives in a different country than me. I want to know if this will happen as he has back problems and might not be able to meet me. and if he is being honest with me. Thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Claudine,

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Hermit. It shows a young witch dressed in green sitting with her eyes closed in front of a camp fire. Her cat is curled up nearby. The Hermit suggests that you will be on your own in he month of December, I’m afraid. It’s important that you use the time to reassess and learn from this non-event. It’s possible that it is/will be a reoccurring theme in this relationship and you need to decide whether you want to maintain it, or move on.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Knight of Wands. We can see a young man in a witches’ pointy hat, astride a broom. His cat is hanging on, enjoying the ride and a small dragon flies alongside. He is passionate and charming, yet is unable to maintain relationships long-term. He is like a butterfly, always attracted by the next beautiful flower.

      I can’t tell if your partner is being honest with you, but you know intuitively if he’s telling the truth, don’t you?

      I hope the cards are wrong and you do both make it to Spain, Claudine. Good luck.

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  276. loretta roberts

    Hi there,

    I have just walked away from a karmic relationship that has come full circle.
    I would like to to know if my true love and life partner is coming in soon.
    sending you love and light
    30/01
    Lotti 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lotti, sorry for the delay. Sharing a laptop while mine is in for repair.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Hanged Man. This card shows a young man in a green tunic and stripy leggings hanging by his feet from a witches broom that has been wedged into a tree. His hands and feet are bound by chains yet he clasps a gold key in his hands. His eyes are closed and he appears perfectly relaxed.

      The Hanged Man indicates that some time will have to pass before you will feel inspired to act. In other words you will know when the time is right to take the first step towards meeting your love. Meanwhile the ‘key’ is to relax and go with the flow. There’s nothing you have to do right now. You don’t even have to think about it, just let it all go. You’ve just got over a relationship, and the next one is not ready to appear yet.

      The card at the base of the deck is the King of Swords, which often offers a clue about why the question was asked. I think this personality is probably representative of your recent ex. Usually a professional, good at communication, authoritative and sometimes domineering in manner. The King of Swords is not a romantic type, though he has a soft side he rarely shows to the world. He very often comes to rely on his partner for the everyday details of life while he is focussed on the things he deems important. Difficult to live with.

      So, just hang in there, Lotti, (literally), all will be well 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there Anon_9,

      Before I draw a card for you, I’ll just have a look at your compatibility chart. If this relationship were to develop, you might find it to be a little uncomfortable. Both are very competitive in all areas of life. You would be trying to score points off each other all the time. It would not be a peaceful union, yet that doesn’t mean you couldn’t work things out as the chance of cultivating a good friendship is strong.

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Magician. This card suggests that you could manipulate circumstances in order to get what you want. It doesn’t say, ‘Yes, you will be in a relationship with this boy’, but it says that you might be able to position yourself so that he won’t be able to resist you. Then it will be up to both of you to take it further. So the advice from the tarot is to use Law of Attraction to get what you want. I’ve written here about scripting before, but basically, it involves you writing out what you desire as if it had already happened. So…

      “I’m so happy that XXX and I are boyfriend and girlfriend. We are having such a good time. Our families are also happy that we are together. I love that he is so loving, handsome, funny and clever. We go out together all the time”…. and so on. Make it as long as you want. Always in the present tense. Always positive. Write it how you want it to be, as if it was already that way.

      The card at the base of the deck is Judgement, which shows that you feel a very strong connection to this person, as if you feel he is your destiny. I can’t confirm if this is the case – only time will tell.

      Good luck!

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  278. Alvaro

    Birth date: 29 May
    I’m currently struggling to find means of employment and financial independence.
    Many friends are pushing me to try and start charging for tarot readings (I’ve used tarot for more than a decade for myself and friends) as a possible choice but I’m unsure if I should embark on that journey.
    Would this be a good choice?
    Should I focus my energy somewhere else?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Alvaro,

      I would have thought this would be a no-brainer. What have you got to lose? 😀

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Ace of Cups. What more do you want? 🙂 The Ace of Cups indicates that your readings are/will be in tune with your clients’ emotional needs. It also suggests that you will find a great deal of personal satisfaction in this work. Get to it.

      The base card gives me an idea as to the motivation behind the question, and it is the Four of Pentacles. This indicates that you are hanging onto your resources and simply closing down in fear. As you say, struggling to stand still. Cast aside your fear, contact one of the people who advised you to charge and ask them if they’d like to be your first client.

      If it turns out that this is not the path for you, you’ll find out soon enough.

      Good luck.

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  279. Jen

    Hi there!

    An opportunity has recently been offered to me. I am now contemplating whether to take this opportunity or not. I am now sitting with this decision trying to feel out if this is the right opportunity at the right moment or if it is not. And if I choose to take this opportunity, there are two options in which I can go with it. I am at a crossroads and need a bit of clarity to help make the decision that is in my best and highest good.

    DOB: May 22nd

    Thank you in advance for your time!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jen,

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and have drawn the Five of Cups. A man stands gazing sadly down at three spilled cups. Behind him are two standing ones. In the middle distance two figures are walking away. In the background a river flows down a hillside.

      As this card suggests an emotional challenge, I’m guessing that this decision is inextricably linked to your feelings about it. Are you desperately trying to avoid some possible future regret? Or are you hoping this opportunity will redress recent emotional pain?

      Here’s the thing about decisions and choices – there is no real bad choice. When we can’t see what’s ahead, take the road that feels the best… and then make that be the right choice. Make that opportunity work for you. If things don’t work out as you hoped, then make another choice.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Four of Pentacles. We see the man from behind, sitting on his stone plinth. In front of him there seems to be a insurmountable, tree-covered mountain. His choice is not to make a decision at all. No progress made. He’s stuck.

      Sooo… move forward, make the choice that appeals the most – because there’s no other basis for choosing 🙂

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      1. Jen

        Troi,

        Thank you so much for you time! I appreciate the message. I am going to sit with this and feel out the ways in which I can go. A decision is going to happen soon.

        Hugs!

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  280. Moon

    Hi Troi,

    I had a brief love relationship with a friend of mine, but it didn’t work out, as I understood I wasn’t really in love. I feel sad for this, so I ask you if we can continue as friends again from now on.
    Thanks.

    My date of birth: 4th November
    His date of birth: 8th May

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Moon,

      This is interesting, your birth dates suggest that this relationship *is* better as a friendship rather than as a romance. You will find it easier to relax as you bring out the fun side in each other. You feel able to be a kid again with him without judgement or expectation. It’s a shame, in a way, that it went that extra step. Before drawing a card, I’d say that if he wants the friendship, then it will happen.

      Anyway, let’s draw a card and see what it says. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the King of Swords. That’s an odd card to appear in answer to your question. It suggests that one of you, probably him, needs to set his emotions aside and take a logical look at the situation. It’s possible that he’s still caught up in the affair and is feeling rejected. Somehow you need to convince him that you are better off as friends and that he must be able to cut through to the truth – that you are not suited as a couple, but the alternative of a long-term friendship will be ideal for both.

      The base card is the Page of Pentacles, which tells me that you have to feel your way through this carefully. Keep your eye on the friendship prize until he has no option to concede. The Page of Pentacles is curious and enthusiastic, she’ll always find a way to get what she wants 🙂

      Hope you can convince him!

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        1. Linda

          Hi After 25 years I am now communicating with an ex boyfriend that I was madly In love with but things didnt work out. We are communicating via social media. Im not sure where its going. I would love for us to give it another shot. What does the card say?
          Thanks
          My birthday august 6 his birthday january 2

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          1. Troi Post author

            Hi Linda,

            As a couple-combo, this is not such a great one and may be why you split up in the first place. He’s a Capricorn, and it’s possible that he saw the relationship as some kind of power struggle. Being young, he was simply not mature enough to put his desire for control to one side, and you, being a Leo would never be a pushover. Be aware that these issues could resurface as an unstoppable force meets an immoveable object, so to speak. You may well develop a friendship based on a shared past, and comparison of what life has dealt each of you since. However, it probably would lack the spark necessary to set it aflame with passion.

            I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Page of Swords. This Page is a messenger who represents fast, but fleeting communication. It feels to me as if this friendship will be confined to social media and will very likely blow over before it begins as an actual relationship. It’s amorphous, difficult to catch hold of, impossible to pin down. Enjoy it as a fun way to spend some time, but don’t read any more into it than that.

            The base card is the High Priestess which suggests that you already know the answer to your question, Linda.

            I’d love to hear back from you how it goes – I’d like to be proved wrong this time, as it’s a romantic situation. Good luck!

  281. Kitti

    Good evening,

    I have been single for 7 years now and wonder if you can see a relationship, future husband coming anytime soon..

    Thanking you in advance

    Dob 5/08/1969

    Kitti P.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Kitti,

      Thanks for your question. I’m using the Robin Wood, and have turned over the Nine of Cups. A jolly-looking, well-dressed man sits in front of nine golden chalices. This is the perfect card to show up for you. While it does not necessarily signify romance, it does indicate that you can fill your life with love. It’s the falling in love with you card. Once you fall in love with you, you feel so good about yourself that any relationship that happens along is just the icing on the cake, so to speak. It means that you have to learn to appreciate who you are and to love yourself unconditionally – and I promise you, hardly anyone can do that, but you should give it a go. Once you understand that all relationships are about how we think and feel about ourselves, and you really, really appreciate yourself, the suitors will come flocking. No-one can resist someone who feels good about themselves.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Pentacles, which is also a lovely card, but I think here that it means you give far more than you get. It’s time to turn your generosity towards you.

      I shall look forward to your request to help you decide which lover to choose 😀

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      1. Kitti

        Thank you so much for your reading..

        I also look forward to finding out whom I shall choose when the time arrives.

        Kitti

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  282. AG

    Hi Troi,

    I’ve been seeing my partner for about 5 months now, I wanted to know if he’s the one that I’m meant to be with?

    Mine 26th August
    His 17th August

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello AG,

      Before I draw your card, let me look up your partnership compatibility. Leo 3 (him) and Virgo 1 (you) makes for an easy-going, open relationship. Virgo is good at calming energetic Leo, and Leo is good at enthusing Virgo. Long-term it gets a little trickier as Virgo can become critical of Leo’s unconventional way of doing things. Knowing this is a possibility can give you the means to avoid it becoming an issue, yes?

      Using the Robin Wood Tarot, I’ve drawn the Six of Cups. A pretty card that shows a young lad offering a chalice full of flowers to a little girl. It’s likely that your relationship owes a lot to common experiences. As if you have both had similar upbringings, or similar outcomes. Sixes often mean that the seeker has overcome some difficulties in the past but has now reached a place of emotional well-being. You may find that reminiscing together or sharing your growing-up stories is one of your favourite ways of communicating and passing the time. I’m wondering if you came from the same geographical area, as this card often means revisiting places and people from your past.

      The base card is slightly more problematical. It generally offers me the reason why you felt you had to ask the question. It’s the Four of Pentacles, which suggests that one of you is being over-protective or secretive. Perhaps it is connected with money/possessions or just a certain reluctance about an aspect of life generally? The Four of Pentacles can mean that one partner is unwilling to engage with the wider world, preferring to remain apart from crowds, busy places, and society in general. The other partner could be doing their best to draw their lover out of their shell but meeting some resistance?

      Anyway, I’d say you have as good a chance as any at maintaining this as a long-term relationship. Whether it’s ‘meant to be’, well that is up to you both. Good luck!

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      1. AG

        Hi Troi,

        Thank you so much for this. You’re reading is quite accurate as this something that has been a barrier as he is not very sociable and often keeps himself to himself, where I’m the total opposite. I just feel he doesn’t make enough time for us at the moment, so I’m stuck in limbo thinking whether I should call it quits or keep working at it cause I do feel we have something special worth fighting for.

        Thank you again for all the advice. You’ve been a great help. 😊

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        1. Troi Post author

          It’s hard when what you are fighting is him :/ Maybe take a step back to see if he feels the same? Hope it works out for you, AG 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there Rosa,

      Congratulations on the new job!

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Eight of Wands. This indicates that things are moving quickly with your work and you will need to be prepared and organised. It’s possible that a promotion will come your way fairly soon if you can prove that you are up to the job.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Six of Wands (I’m having a Wands day here!), this indicates success and victory, so to answer your question, yes, you will do well here.

      Good luck!

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  284. Mel

    I left my position of 21 years and am now seeking new employment….however I feel stuck and confused. Needing some guidance on what the new next phase of my career will be.

    26 June

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Mel,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Hanged Man. It’s illustrated by a young man hanging by his knees from a branch. He looks perfectly comfortable to be right where he is. And it mirrors your current experience very accurately.

      When things aren’t moving along very well, this card shows up to remind you that sometimes things have to happen in their own time. So what I suggest that, instead of feeling stuck and confused, you begin to stir the energy up a little. This means that you keep looking for work, but your main focus is to be directed at something else. So, have a big clear out. Do something different. Change your appearance. Take a yoga class. Anything that releases that stuck energy. Also, if there are any current niggles, such as disagreements, happening, get that sorted. Either by facing it head-on or by walking away.

      The next card in the deck is the enigmatic High Priestess. She suggests that you will follow your intuition and find, or create work that moves you. Maybe it is some sort of healing or counselling work. Perhaps you have a skill that you are not allowing to flower. Dig deep and you will find your path.

      Good luck.

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  285. Gavriela garcia

    Hi, I recently started dating this guy and I Kind of messed up, on how I treated him, cause after my last relationship, I’ve been in doubts. Well I’ve said sorry and he does respond,but it feels like he fading away,but than he keeps looking for me, but still sounds like if he giving me the cold shoulder. I want to know if I’m going to miss on a good opportunity, if I still stick by him or should I move on. Would this blossom to something good. .
    Gavriela garcia
    December 20

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Gavriela,

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the King of Wands. As this is a Court card, I guess it represents your man. I can tell you that the best way to deal with him is to play hard to get. You’ve said sorry, so stop worrying about it. If he wants you, he’ll come after you. If he doesn’t, well, it wasn’t going to happen anyway. Should it work out, then you may have to deal with his personality quirks. I can’t go into it all here but this is a link to an article I wrote on being in love with a King of Wands. http://lunarcafe.com/im-in-love-with-a-king-of-wands/

      The card at the base of the deck is the Seven of Wands, This confirms that you have to stand alone for a while. Be your own person and let him make his own mind up. What will be, will be.

      Good luck.

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  286. Dreamcatcher

    Hi Troi!

    I’ve recently started taking an interest in someone but he seems to still be slightly affected by his previous relationship which ended back in March. Not so much about his ex but rather how the last relationship made him feel bad about himself.

    Will a relationship come out of this or should I stop before I fall even harder?

    My dob: 11 April
    His dob: 24 March

    Thanks for the free reading!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Dreamcatcher,

      Before I draw your card, I’m taking a look at your compatibility score. It looks as if this relationship, if it gets going, will be a fun and enjoyable experience for both of you. A shared sense of humour is what will glue you together. It’s light-hearted, fun and sexy. However, you have to be aware that his sensitive Pisces-Aries side may need a strong dose of common-sense on your part. Don’t take his mini-tantrums seriously or personally.

      I’m using the Robin Wood tarot and your card is the Tower. Looks like you are going to fall hard. Okay, this may or may not have anything to do with the romance, but there will be some kind of energy clear-out pretty soon. It may be the wake-up call he needs to realise that he could lose you if he doesn’t get his act together. So it could be instigated by you. Alternatively it could be him who pulls the plug, and the reason I say that is because…

      the card at the base of the deck is the Ten of Wands, which shows that he has the weight of the world upon him. He’s not cmining out of this previous relationship easily at all. Yet this is not necessarily emotional, it’s as if his energy is sapped. Perhaps he’s not in the best of health right now, even if you can’t see anything wrong.

      Just before I shuffled the cards properly or focusing on your question, I turned up the Ten of Swords. I put it back in the deck because I didn’t feel that I’d started the reading – my mind was elsewhere and I cut the cards without thinking. However, I’m beginning to think it was significant. That either something important is ending or needs to end. All I can tell you, is to not take any action right now. See what happens over the next few days or couple of weeks.

      Come back and let me know.

      Good luck.

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  287. Anne

    I have been trying to conceive for over 6 years. Recently had surgery to remove endometriosis. Is my time coming up?

    Thanks 🙂

    16 May

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Anne,

      I’m sorry, but I can’t/won’t do ‘will I get pregnant?’ readings. I can’t see that a tarot card could possibly help you. At best, it will give you hope that may or may not be false. What I will do is draw a card to see what energies and influences are around you right now.

      Using the Everyday Witch Tarot, I’ve drawn the Five of Wands. The card is illustrated by five young witches arguing around a cauldron. Their five cats also appear to be having a disagreement. The contents of the cauldron seems to be escaping while no-one is paying any attention. The fire beneath the cauldron is also a little out of control.

      Fives in tarot point towards challenges of some kind. The Five of Wands is usually about conflicts of opinion and petty arguments that can escalate unless action is taken to defuse them. Perhaps you need to sit back and think if this is happening in your life right now. Or maybe you are distracted and not paying attention to something important?

      The base card is the Ten of Wands, showing a young witch toiling up a mountainside. She is attempting to carry ten heavy brooms. Her cat is clinging to her shoulders and not helping matters at all.

      The Ten of Wands shows that you are carrying too many burdens, or have taken on too many responsibilities. It’s important to find some peace, or practice mindfulness in order to allow your body to completely heal and recover from your surgery. Try to release resistance and simply go with the flow. Tens in tarot point to the ending of one life cycle and a brief pause before another one begins. Look for opportunities to relax and let things happen.

      Good luck.

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  288. Amber

    My husband and I separated 16 months ago and we both have gone back and forth many times during that period. I’ve gone from hating him to loving him many times during this split. I guess my question is are we finally done or is there any hope for us?
    Amber July 11
    Jon June 12

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Amber,

      This sounds like a ‘twin flame’ relationship. You were meant to be together in order to experience and assimilate some important soul ‘lessons’. Usually, these relationships dissolve once the necessary information has been absorbed, even if you aren’t consciously aware of it yet.

      Your birth dates confirm this, showing that you both probably feel connected at a soul level. While this is probably true, that doesn’t mean you are meant to be together for a lifetime. Yet, you will probably find each other over many lifetimes. Parting as lovers in this life does not preclude friendship, especially if you are both open-minded enough to discuss your connection.

      I’m using the Shadowscapes Tarot and your card is the High Priestess. One stand-out feature of this card is the large owl flying out towards the viewer. This indicates that you will find truth in what I have said here, and all you need to do is process it through your own consciousness. Go deep within and you will discover that you do, indeed, have a connection with Jon that can never be broken. However, that doesn’t mean that you have to be together. Use your intuition to guide your way through.

      The base card is the Seven of Pentacles, which shows on a mundane level that you are ready to move on from your current situation. You have more to explore. Have a long talk to Jon and see how he feels. Then make your decision jointly.

      Good luck.

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  289. Barbara

    Hello again,
    I forgot my birthday february 18,
    Im wondering whats coming up in love for me?
    I recently broke off a 2 1/2 yr relationship.
    Thank you for free reading

    Barbara

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hey Barbara,

      Thanks for being patient – it was a hectic day for me yesterday.

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Queen of Chalices. The Queen sits on her carved throne, overlooking a stream as she contemplates the ornate gold chalice she holds.

      This card suggests that you are in a good place, emotionally, to attract love to you. The only advice I can give you is to maintain your lovely outlook on life, be yourself and be ready to grab the opportunity when it presents itself to you. You definitely have an advantage in the love stakes because of your caring and compassionate nature.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the World, which emphasises that you are in exactly the right place for you at this point in your life. This card also suggests that you are complete and whole, and you don’t need anyone to make life perfect for you. When you do meet your new love, see it as a bonus add-on to your life 😀 Incidentally, the World can also indicate travel, so if you are embarking on an adventure, or even just travelling to work, it’s possible that’s the way you will meet your new love.

      Good luck!

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  290. Taryn Gemmell

    Taryn
    2/7/ 75
    Bloody hell dont follow directions very well. WAIT! That’s not the question miss.:) one question one question hmmmm ( by the way i find your blog writing witty & funny)..so many damn things I’d like direction with. Well for now lets start on the big one! I’ve left my spiritually dull relationship of 7yrs and am in my 40’s and haven’t found where or what i want to do. So I’ve packed up my life (took year) and I’m going to drive down the coast of OR &CA to see friends and see if anything happens …I’m going on a”walk about(but driving)” ..what will this walk about bring me? More ba karma? I have felt I’ve had s0me baaddd Karma lately don’t know why I’m pretty funny and thoughtful..ha! Thanks for your time

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Taryn 🙂

      I got your other email too, so I’m to ignore the first question? Yep, I had a few glasses of red last night too, that’s why I couldn’t do your reading then. It would have been a load of rubbish.

      So, you want to know what this journey, this magical life expedition might have in store for you? Okay…I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot because A. it’s cute, B. it shows lots of micro-journeys taking place and C. It’s right here next to me and I’m too lazy to go look for a different one.

      Your card is the Two of Swords. A witch stands blindfolded, aiming a knife at a target on the far wall. She is watched by a crow and a black cat, who both look at her with a certain ‘Here she goes again’ expression on their faces. The Two of Swords suggests that you might not be clear in your mind what this trip is really about. You may well be setting off with the aim of letting what happens happen as it will. Yet, it is important that you determine your intention up front. That you be honest with yourself regarding the reasons for going, and what you want to achieve. So, your question is ‘What will it bring me?’ The answer is, “What do you want it to bring?’ You might be surprised at what you come up with if you do a little journalling or free-writing about it.

      The base card often gives me an idea where the seeker is coming from. Yours is the Nine of Wands. A young woman, wearing biker boots, protective shoulder armour and a bandage on her head, stands in a defensive position up against an oak tree. She holds a wand in each hand and seven more used wands lie at her feet smoking gently. Her pointy hat and cloak lie off to one side. Up in the tree, a calico cat looks a little worried. She’s clearly fighting off some unseen enemy and however tired she is, she must go on.

      The Nine of Wands is probably indicating that you are feeling a little like this right now. That part of you feels defeated, but the other part of you is fighting fit and ready to take on the world. The message of this card is that you must pick your battles carefully. That some things you can turn your back to and walk away, while others are worth fighting for. Your spiritual well-being is one of those things. This card may also hint at this ‘bad karma’ feeling you’ve been getting. It is nothing more than depleted energy, both physical and spiritual. Use this trip to fill up your spiritual well and that sloughy old feeling will disappear.

      Have a great trip!

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  291. PTSD

    4th of November – me
    18th of January – him
    I am in the middle of a very high conflict divorce. I am not sure if I have the right attorney for the job. My question is… Should I find another attorney? Or maybe I should ask… Is my attorney the right one for me?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi PTSD,

      Your birthday combination hints at an extremely volatile relationship. He probably has a way of pressing the right (or wrong buttons) to trigger your anger. And Scorpio, may set their hurt aside, but they never forget it.

      On to your question… I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Ace of Cups. That’s not a card I was expecting. Perhaps the tarot wants to answer a different question. The Ace of Cups indicates that you will (or are already) experiencing a great outpouring of love and joy. That something special is being set into motion. Aces always hold the purest form of their suit’s energy – in the case of Cups, that is love. So perhaps you are about to meet someone, or to have an existing relationship become deeper. Anyway that’s not what you asked.

      The base card is the Four of Swords, much more in keeping with your question. It shows a knight in armour lying in a death or a resting pose, while two sad-looking monks bow their heads at his side. In the background is a stained glass window depicting St Francis holding his hand out to a wolf. In the stained glass image, the sun is shining brightly.

      Fours in tarot mean stasis. Stability, temporary lack of movement. So, to give you a straight answer, stay with your current attorney and try to work with them in the best way you can. Think St Francis.

      I’m looking at your cards as a pair, and one thing that comes to mind is that this need not be so acrimonious. I’m going to get a bit metaphysical here, but at the moment, you are pushing hard against each other and it makes it difficult to get anything resolved. What if you took a completely different stance? Take away the wall (yourself) that your husband is pushing against. If you do that, you win. While you are both equally squaring up to one another, no-one can win except the attorneys. Drop the energy level. Imagine being in a room with someone and arguing. Each trying to make a point. Each wanting to prove something. Each wanting the last word. If one of you turns away, walks from the room, it leaves the other one with nothing to shout at. You leave them with their own anger. You didn’t get the last word. You didn’t get to prove your point but you won. You took away the thing that he’s fighting. That’s the Four of Swords. Tactical withdrawal.

      Also, sorry to go on, but if you spent some time, flowing Ace of Cups love to the situation, you might find that things change in your favour. This can be done completely in private and no-one need know about it but you. You need a journal. You write down all the things you once loved about your husband. All his good points. And he must have some or you wouldn’t have married him, right? Forget what’s going on right now, focus on what you know to be good. Even silly things like, ‘He smells nice’. ‘His hair is clean’. Make the list as long as you can make it. All positive. All in the present tense. You could so the same for your attorney too, if you like?

      Then write out how you see this current situation ending. Again, it must be positive and in the present tense, as though it has already happened. “I love how easily we settled this. I am satisfied with the outcome. My attorney did a great job. I got what I wanted and XXX got what he wanted. We can each move on now. All is well.” And so on.

      Turn it into a regular spiritual practice. keep doing it. Every night. Whatever conflict has occurred during the day, stick to this positive outcome vision. Grit your teeth. Ignore the anger and pain. Keep writing it out.

      I bet you, you notice a difference within a week or two.

      Good luck.

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  292. Lia

    Hello! 🙂

    I recently started dating this guy (his birthday is the 24th October) and we talked about taking things slowly, which I prefer but I am still a bit afraid, that I might fall harder for him than he for me or that it somehow will end negatively even though everything is great at the moment (I’m a bit pessimistic due to past relationships). So I wanted to ask if we are taking the right path with taking things slowly, so that things will work out to be good?

    My birth date is: 5th September

    Thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lia,

      Before I draw your card, I’m taking a look at your birth date combination. You may discover that this relationship, once established, sets high standards for each individual. It’s as if you both feel you have something to prove to other people. That you have to appear to be the perfect couple. Of course, no-one, neither individual or couple, can be perfect, so watch out for this self-inflicted pressure – it may manifest in the desire to break-out and seek relief in such things as drinking or spending.

      I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Ten of Pentacles. A family are gathered together in a garden, two parents, three kids a dog and two black cats. A solid-looking manor house is in the background. Everyone looks happy and contented.

      This card is about creating what you want in life, and I guess that’s what everyone is trying to do with their personal relationships; establish something good and strong with firm foundations. It’s not a particularly romantic card and is connected more with the real world than with emotions. However, it could well be a sign that you can progress and achieve a long-lasting relationship. I would take this as confirmation that everything is doing just fine and you have no need to worry.

      The base card is the Page of Cups, depicted as a young artist painting beside a river. She’s completely engrossed in what she’s doing.

      The Page of Cups suggests that you take some time to explore your own emotions around the subject of relationships. For example, re-read your question and see what you are putting out to the universe – “I am still a bit afraid”, “I might fall harder for him than he for me”, “somehow it will end negatively”, “I’m a bit pessimistic due to past relationships”. It’s almost as if you are setting out an intention for this to fail before it’s begun. You create your life with your feelings, so perhaps you need to ‘up your game’, emotionally speaking. I can’t go into it here, but you might look online for ‘How to raise your emotional vibration’ and see what you can find.

      The Page of Cups is quite a positive card which also suggests that this relationship may work out for you. Have faith, take it slowly, as you are doing and know that whatever happens you can have fun with this. No need to worry or feel pessimistic 🙂

      Good luck!

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      1. Lia

        Thank you so much for your long answer to my question!
        It really helped and I will do some research on the topic of ’emotional vibration’ because I am feeling, that I need to ground my self more and worry less.

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  293. Ali

    Ali
    January 17

    I’ve become stuck and dissatisfied in some of my personal relationships. Three in particular; friendships and one romantic relationship, all differing dynamics but still connected. What do I need to know about this situation to find peace?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Ali,

      Thanks for your question. I’m using the Everyday Witch Tarot and your card is the Page of Wands. The figure in the path is standing at the juncture of three paths, which is quite interesting given your question about three relationships. There is a ginger cat on one of the paths, looking back at the Page as if to call her to follow. The Page is unsure but has her feet firmly planted. She’s not going anywhere until she is certain in her mind, or in her heart.

      I think you should do the same for the time being. Look for signs that will help you make decisions. Pay attention to messages from your inner guidance. Pretty soon, you will know exactly what action you need to take, if any. I would guess that, at some point you will have to walk away from at least one of these relationships.

      The base card is the Ten of Pentacles, which suggests that your family may play a large part in whatever you decide to do. Perhaps some change in the family structure has influenced what is happening in your personal relationships.

      Take it easy for now and wait and see what develops.

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      1. Ali

        Thank you – this is quite interesting as I also drew the Page of Wands for one of the relationships – the romantic partner. The Ten of Pentacles could very well relate to my daughter, who is the product of one of these relationships. (This sounds very sordid, I promise it’s not!)

        Thank you so much for your time, I’m happy to have found you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Marian, I’m using the Robin Wood tarot and your card is the Two of Pentacles. This card signifies that you may be trying to balance various aspects of your life right now and the sensible thing to do is to wait a little. Twos almost always mean delays and periods of waiting. You will know when the time is right, and its possible that someone will happen along who can collaborate with you, or mentor you.

      Your base card is Strength, which indicates you have the capacity to persuade and cajole. You may need to draw on this inner strength in order to achieve your goals.

      I am not going to say you ‘should’ or ‘shouldn’t’ make this commitment – that is your decision 🙂

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  295. Morning Star

    I am contemplating setting up a new political party. I have no supporters, no members, and no money. If I pour my entire spirit into this enterprise, can I overcome all obstacles and win?

    10 October, Morning Star

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Morning Star,

      I’m just going to quote something from a book I have here:

      “The Week of Society” Born between Oct 3 and 10th

      The Libra II period takes Society as its central image… when a more meaningful relationship with society, or an increase in time given to social entities (political causes, clubs, religious organisations, study groups, neighbourhood or community associations, etc.), often takes place. During this time, deepening one’s social ties can be central to life.”

      Cool, yes? It seems that work of this kind is what you are here to do.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Six of Swords (I was so hoping for the Six of Pentacles). This card shows you that you can move slowly and steadily towards your goal. It’s not going to be quick or momentous, yet it will happen if you keep your eye on your ultimate aim.

      Sixes in tarot indicate that the seeker is moving on, healing after some kind of challenge or difficulty. This ambition of yours has materialised in response to unwanted situations. It has propelled you forward, so to speak. Which is, I suppose, the reason for the formation of all political groups.

      Incidentally, if you Google the image of this card, you will see that the seeker has help, in the form of an invisible guide, and also that there is a star hanging in the darkness of a cave on the far shore. You might take the essence of the image and meditate on what it means for you personally.

      Meanwhile. the card at the base of the deck is Death. Death is shown walking on a woodland path, where life is happening all around him. I guess, either something has had to end or leave in your life, or it is currently in transition. Your political goals will fill this space.

      Oh, and the reason for wanting the Six of Pentacles to show up is because, lately, when I see it, it reminds me of Crowdfunding 😉

      Good luck!

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      1. Morning Star

        Thank you for the free reading and the insights it has given. The chosen cards are indeed very applicable to my current situation.

        Good luck on your own personal journey.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hey Lori,

      Glad you found me. So I’m just going to draw a card to see what energies are around you right now. I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Magician. Go Google ‘Robin Wood Magician’ to see what he looks like 🙂

      The Magician mirrors your own personality and how others see you. The Magician has all the skills and tools he needs to make change happen, to manipulate energy in order to manifest his desired results. People are drawn to him and are happy to comply with his wishes.

      So you have probably got a strong personality and are able to get things done, either by persuasion or gentle manipulation 🙂 People seem to want to help you. It’s very possible you are, like most Leos, a natural leader.

      The Magician has complete faith in his own skills, because if he did not, they wouldn’t produce the results. You must too. Never doubt that the resources you need are within. At the same time, be sensitive to those around you because they too, are part of your resources. In the nicest possible way, of course.

      Now the card at the base of the deck, often shows the reason why people ask for a reading at that particular time, and yours is the Tower. The Tower indicates a clearing out of old, stagnant energy and ‘unwanted baggage’, whether it be emotional or actual. It’s either just happened, is happening or about to happen. It feels awful at the time, but it is always necessary and life improves afterward. You might remember the song by Johnny Nash that goes, “I can see clearly now the rain has gone. I can see all obstacles in my way.” It’s like that, a clearing of the decks. All comes good in the end.

      Hope all is well. Bx

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      1. Lori B

        OMG!! Bev Just found you after much scrolling. Yes, I have a very strong personality. Absolutely love my fellow humans and spreading positive energy. I get things done on my own. No persuasion no manipulation although it’s been tried and they failed:) Lately I feel the Universe is doing its magic. I am de-cluttering my life and letting God take over. You are fabulous and many thanks for noticing my roar. Continued success and God bless. XO See ya back at the H.

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  297. Jade

    Jade
    June 23
    Mathew
    April 23

    I have recently fallen for him, and we have been together for a little over 3 months. How will our relationship go?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jade,

      Your birthdays result in a fun combination of energies though they need some delicate handling at times. The relationship is lively, both verbally and physically, which means you are able to communicate on several levels, often without speaking. Mathew will need to learn how to be sensitive to your airy/watery aspects and you will have to learn how to be less picky 🙂 Aries-Taurus are not always the most aware of their partner’s wishes.

      I’m using the Shadowscapes Tarot as it’s a lovely summery deck. Once I manage to get it out of its horrible box, that is. Oh… your card is the Tower. This may or may not be connected to your relationship with Mathew, but it appears that you have some energy block that needs clearing out. I can’t tell you what will happen but you can prepare yourself for what appears to be a negative event. However, this needs to happen in order for you to progress. It will either throw you apart from Mathew or it could bring you even closer – whatever happens, everything will be clearer and more free-flowing afterwards. Know that it is for your long-term benefit.

      The base card is the Moon, which indicates that you are (or he is) feeling confused or torn about another aspect of your life. A previous relationship perhaps? Whichever partner is feeling this way needs to follow their gut feeling – it will take them in the right direction.

      Sorry it’s not more positive, Jade, do get back to me and let me know how it goes. I would suggest that you keep this information to yourself for the time being 🙂

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  298. Stephanie

    Hi,

    I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years now. We’ve both been married before and both have children. Do you see us staying together and continuing as we are, eventually getting married, or it ending at some point?

    I’m curious if I’ll marry again.

    My BD is October 3rd and his is January 31st.

    Thank you!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Stephanie,

      Your birthdays are an interesting combination. It’s like a coming together of free spirits. You can never quite get a handle on each other. It makes for a lively and unpredictable relationship – but you know that 🙂

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Fool, so your guess is as good as mine. It seems if the opportunity or suggestion of marriage arises you will take that leap of faith and go for it.

      The base card is the Seven of Pentacles which gives an insight into your question. The Seven of Pentacles which indicates that you might be feeling out of place or that the relationship is not fulfilling your expectations. This contradicts my interpretation of the Fool above, so I wonder if the leap of faith is to do with you taking a different route and making a break? Perhaps you, as a free spirit, need to explore your options before making any kind of permanent commitment?

      As I look at the cards, I’m definitely getting the feeling that you are hoping for more out of life. In which case, do that thing you want to do 🙂

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Sally, it’d be helpful to have his birthday too, so I can check your compatibility. Not to worry.

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Page of Wands. This card shows a young woman standing on the leeward side of a sand dune. She holds a gleaming, bejewelled staff which is beaming out light in all directions.

      The Page of Wands tells you that you are about to begin an adventure and it may well be connected to a love affair. At the moment you are feeling a little hesitant about taking this forward. Do not be. Follow your instincts and let your feelings be known.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Moon, which again, tells you to follow your intuition and it will guide you forward. When the time is right you will know exactly what to do.

      Good luck!

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  300. Kema

    I’m looking for a job and I want to know if I will get one this month? Can I get the base/shadow card too btw.

    My DOB is 04/22/90

    Thank you in advance.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Kema,

      Your question is a classic example of what not to ask the tarot 😀 You could get an answer to it by tossing a coin. Think about what you want from the cards before asking. If it can be answered ‘yes’ or ‘no’, it’s not a very good question, is it? So, what do you really want to know about getting a job? What information do you need to help you?

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is The Hanged Man. This card shows a young man hanging upside-down, with his legs hooked around the branch of a tree. He seems quite relaxed, given his awkward position.

      The Hanged Man suggests that you won’t get a job offer just yet. It shows that the energy around you is sort of stuck in neutral. This is not a bad card at all. In fact, it might be just what you need to get yourself moving. Sometimes you have to take some kind of action in order to stir things up. So do something different – keep applying for jobs, of course, but do some other stuff as well. Have a clear out of your clothes, do some decluttering. Clean your home. Think of it as an energy re-set or making room for change to happen.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is Strength. Strength indicates that you have the capability to persuade someone round to your way of thinking. When you go for interviews, be different. Offer a unique point-of-view. Make the interviewer remember you. You can achieve more by using your resources to persuade rather than to overcome.

      Good luck!

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      1. Kema

        How do I formulate questions to ask? My original question was what is blocking me from getting a job, but I wasn’t sure so I just asked a simpler question.

        Thank you 😀

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Kema, it’s always best to ask things like what will help me at this time? Or what do I need to know/learn about the situation? If you just ask “Will I?” you are inviting a yes/no response, so all you have to do is to work out what you truly need to know.

          As far as what’s blocking you, it’s right there in the Hanged Man card. Either the timing is not quite right or you need to get the energy (and feelings) around getting a new job moving. So anything you can do to make a shift will help. Physical effort is always a good way to start, as is making literal space so that energy can flow. Think of it in the same way as opening a window to let the breeze shift the stale atmosphere in a room. x

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  301. Teresa

    Hi, my name is Teresa born August 28. I have been friends with Eric for a year now. We always have a good time together. Will we ever be more then friends and will I see him again?

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Teresa, thank you for your question.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and have drawn the Seven of Wands. I have a feeling that this is not going to answer your question, but may be related to something else in your life. Or Eric’s perhaps.

      The Seven of Wands shows a young man standing on an embankment. He appears to be facing up to a gathering of unseen enemies or combatants. He looks pretty confident and is holding the higher ground.

      This card indicates that you are currently taking the right action, or the right stance, on an issue. You may feel isolated but know that the power is in your hands. Know that you should stick to your guns. Now, as I mentioned, this might be your issue or it might be why Eric seems so out of touch at the moment.

      The base card is the Devil, which means that someone is shackled to someone or something that is not good for them. They are unable to break the bonds right now until they come to terms with the fact that this continuing behaviour is destructive and negative.

      I don’t know if this information is useful to you or not, Teresa, the cards don’t always answer what was asked.

      Good luck.

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  302. Janice

    Greetings…

    My ex husband and I lived together until last December (2016) when I finally told him I was done. Since then, he’s been sending nasty emails, text/voice messages and damaged property at my home,.

    He’s been quiet for the past month or so, and I’m wondering if he’s finally moving on.

    Thank you.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Janice,

      Sorry to hear you’ve had to deal with this. I know exactly what it’s like, having been through it myself.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Tower. The Tower is one of those cards that strikes fear into most people. However, instead of an impending fear of doom, when I see it I get an ‘impending feeling of relief’. What I think will happen is that there will be an event or incident that may cause you ex to blame you. He is desperate to be in control of the situation (the base card is the Emperor) and of you, and his actions are driven by frustration. So, it could all start up again, but the way to deal with it is for you to act like a ‘gray rock’. Google it. Once he realises that you are never going to react to him again, he will give up and the relief part of the Tower experience will kick in. It’s an ever-changing thing. He’s quiet now, but may not be next week/month.

      You have to look at the event/incident/manufactured problem as the one that will finally give you the release and closure you need. It will be the point where you can finally say he is moving on… and so can you.

      Good luck, and do let me know how it turns out.

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  303. Nelly

    I am leaving my job (of seven months) in a few weeks as I was feeling very trapped. uncomfortable and very unhappy. Could the cards tell me what the Universe has in story for me now I have taken this step.

    18 July

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Nelly,

      Well done you for taking a positive step. You are very brave.

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and your card is the Four of Cups. This suggests that you have attained a level of emotional stability after your period of unhappiness. You are not leaping with joy, but there is a sense of relief. Have a look at the card on-line to see what I mean. You may not be quite ready to see what the universe has lined up for you, but it’s there. There’s an opportunity right in front of you. It could be starting your own mini-business. Or there’s someone you know who would gladly offer you a temporary job if you asked. However, don’t worry about it for the time being. Take this time to get back to yourself – you will soon know when you are ready to receive guidance from the big U.

      The base card is the Ten of Wands, which advises you to shed commitments and responsibilities if you can. Lighten the load. Try to simplify your life.

      Good luck, I hope your life turns around and you find your Nelly-shaped niche soon 🙂

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  305. Anon

    Hello,

    Appreciate your services! My birthday is July 15th and his is March 29th. I feel he is the one, but I am not sure.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi there,

      Your birthdays suggest a relationship that is better in the realm of communication than in the physical. It is excellent on an intellectual level, but it’s possible something is missing despite the meeting of minds. A certain chemistry, if you like. This partnership can last a long time, but the road leading to permanence is difficult.

      I’m using the Tarot of the New Vision and your card is The World. Given your doubt about this relationship, my feeling is that you have been doing really well in attracting the kind of person you want. However, you are also able to discern the aspects you don’t want. You are honing and sculpting your life. The World card indicates that you have reached a plateau, a level of spiritual achievement. In your personal relationship, as in life, you are in exactly the right place. However, soon the process will start again. You will feel the need to move on. Now it could work in two ways: either you will, as a couple, be able to take the relationship ‘higher’. Or, you will come to an understanding that he is almost exactly what you want, but not quite. It’s your decision to make. My advice is to let it roll on for a while until you gain some clarity.

      The base card is the Four of Swords: give your thinking a rest and, instead, let your instinct and intuition guide you.

      Good luck.

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  306. Jessica

    There a medium or psychic emailing me occasionally talking about we have a spiritual connection and believes we didn’t come across each other on accident she tells me things about readings she doing for me because of vision she had of my name recently gave tarot 3 card reading supposedly in full personal messages for me specifically quite thorough. She doesn’t always ask for money but if I want to get exact details like lucky numbers and dates of significants I must pay . Is this tara the medium for real or is it just someone trying to make money off me ? because I also get e-mails from Ron the medium thought he was for real then I got email from Ron the psychic which made me feel he was just tryin to make money I believe myself to be a highly sensitive person Clairsentient I’m sure you heard of this . But just not sure what to think of this tara

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jessica,

      Sorry but I’m not going to read on the motivations of specific psychics. You are very welcome to ask another question. Meanwhile, you can always block the email addresses of people you think might be spamming you or have them sent directly to your junk folder.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Martie, your business will do well, but there may be an unrelated problem ahead which you will have to deal with.

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  308. martie

    Hi My name Martie. I would like to know if I will make a success with my embroidery business in the united states.

    Thanks Martie

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Martie,

      Welcome to Tarot Study. I’m using the Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Knave of Chalices (Cups). This card bodes well for your new business. It suggests that you will put a lot of yourself into your work and infuse it with love. If you want to make a success of it, you will 🙂

      I need to mention the card at the base of the deck. I don’t think this is connected with your work at all. It’s the Tower, which suggests that there may be a big challenge for you over the next few weeks. This could be difficult but you need to know that it is a necessary ‘clearing out’ of stale energy. I promise you that once it’s over with, you’ll look back and realise that it was for the best.

      Sorry you got such mixed messages. Good luck with your embroidery.

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  310. Bunedeth

    Hi my birthday is 7 February and his birthday is 22 September. I would like to know if there is a possibility for a potential love relationship. Would John be my new lover.

    Thanks
    Bunedeth

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Bunedeth,

      Before I draw a card, I’ve checked to see whether you would be compatible as a couple and you probably would 🙂 This would be a relationship based on laughter and fun. However, like many who can be witty and funny, there may be a darker side to the relationship, perhaps where one partner, or possibly both may veer toward depression over the longer term.

      I’m using the Arcus Arcanum Tarot and your card is the Ace of Wands. A hand holding a staff reaches from a red-hot flame. In the foreground stands a salamander, while charging from the background is a huge lion.

      The Ace of Wands represents the essence of pure passion. It also, like all the aces, means new beginnings. So I would say it is likely that a new passion will be in your near future. I can’t tell from this one card if it will be John or not, but if he is currently the only love interest in your life, then the odds are stacked in his favour.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Three of Pentacles represents a collaborative working situation. So John could be a co-worker or you may find your love within your workplace, or strongly connected to it.

      Have fun, Bunedeth!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Not really, babyblue, because asking me to read someone else’s private feelings is sort of like an invasion of privacy – known in tarot circles as ‘third party readings’. However, you can ask a general question about a potential relationship, if you provide the day and month of birth for both of you.

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  312. Alejandra

    Hi Troi,
    Me name is Alejandra. My DOB is May 25. I was wondering what kind of career is best suited for me? Thank you for the reading and have a great day!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello again, Alejandra, I hope you are well.

      I’m using the Fountain Tarot and your card is the Five of Wands. Shadowy figures hold their wands or staves against a sunset orange background. It’s not clear whether they are about to begin or just ended a battle. The figures look a little weary so I shall assume the fighting is over.

      Fives in tarot are usually about challenges. Wands are connected to spirit, action and inspiration. The Five of Wands often suggests a change of direction that means stepping out of our comfort zone, of doing battle with our own desire to not expose ourselves to failure or discomfort. It can also hint at a major turning point in life, where we have to make a decision about how to proceed.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Page of Coins – the student. This card suggests that you might consider retraining, or a course of study. Perhaps it could be done in your spare time or online? I know from previous readings that you enjoy working with people and helping them, the thing that pops into my head is some kind of health-related career. I’m not sure if it’s something you have considered, but I feel you have the ability to comfort people.

      Good luck, Alejandra.

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      1. Alejandra

        Thank you for the reading Troi. I have been thinking about becoming a counselor one day. I have started meditating to know myself better and trust my intuition. I am trying to step out of my comfort zone to improve my situation in life. I know now that I am the creator of my reality. Thank you once again and may you have a Happy Mother’s Day!

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Alejandra,

          That sounds perfect for you. I think you are on the way to finding your life’s purpose.

          And thank you for the good wishes. We had our Mother’s Day (Mothering Sunday) back in March in the UK, but I’ll happily take another one 🙂

          All the best xx

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  313. Sharon Shiffer

    Hi there. I have enjoyed reading your readings. No pun intended. I have been working on confident issues both personal and professional. I have been very stuck for some time and am wondering if there is a change (hopefully positive) coming my way either personal or professional? Birthday: September 22.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Sharon, thank you for taking the time to read them.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Hierophant. He’s a bit pompous-looking in this deck and I believe that Robin Wood, herself stated that she doesn’t like this card because to her her it represents stuffy institutions and the rule-making/rule-following people in them. I have a different view. I feel that rather than being a dictatorial influence, I think the Hierophant is a guide. Someone who has travelled our path before we get to it. Who is able to point to a distant goal and the road to it, but, at the same time, is able to stand back and let us make discoveries for ourselves.

      It is your task to search out the way forward. Change isn’t coming to you unless you meet it halfway. Once you take a step outside your comfort zone, someone will be there to guide you. So you have to decide what changes you’d like to have happen, both personally and professionally and move, just a little way, towards them.

      The Hierophant is a five card, and fives are a little unbalanced, there’s a sort of tipping point that offers a challenge. Sometimes it’s something you decide to do, at others it is forced upon you. Right now, I think it’s your choice.

      The card at the bottom of the deck is the Seven of Wands. Sevens are very spiritual in tarot: they represent the ‘light that shines within’ and the Seven of Wands suggests that it’s time you let your light shine forth and do something for you – reach for your ambitions and be prepared to say ‘Yes!’

      Good luck 🙂

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      1. Sharon Shiffer

        Troi – Thank you. That explanation was very helpful. Very much appreciated. Professionally that pivot just happened and I just made my pitch for something new. It was met with a wait and see attitude so there is still time to make that change and hopefully a favorable view will be forthcoming. Personally I am still in the unknown territory but I am trying to explore new ways to get out of my comfort zone. A tough one. Again, thank you.

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        1. Troi Post author

          You are very welcome, Sharon. I hope it all works out even better than you dare to imagine 🙂

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  314. Rigene

    Last year a 7 month relationship ended between me and this guy I was seeing. Although I cared for him deeply there were always problems and trouble arising. There were other women, a older woman that came to my home and eventually her son’s friend even pulled a gun on me, then there was a younger woman around my age which was the final straw she called me while they were in bed together in which he woke up and denied me altogether after being with him less than 24 hours before. My concern is I know that relationship was unhealthy and no good and needed to end. However, the younger woman to my understanding had been doing some evil things to draw him near and keep him near and I had been told by 3 different sources that this woman also made sure she drove me mad along with whatever bad energy she could send my way to ensure I was undesirable to him. I try hard to cleanse myself and home thru rituals, prayers, and mediation. I started seeing someone about 2-3 months after that which we are taking our time (8 months later we are still dating and learning each other) he seems fine and what he lacks he tries hard to compromise and do better. My question is lately some things have seemed off around me not the new guy, but like finding a job and earlier tonight a accident with my vehicle. I want to be sure that younger woman is no longer sending negative energy my way. I was told in 2 separate readings that I had a jealous woman around me. Also is this new guy right for me?

    my birthday is August 8th
    the old love birthday is July 16th
    the new love birthday is January 21st

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Rigene,

      As this is only a quick one-card reading, I can’t answer your questions in-depth. I’ll pull a card to ask what energies are currently around you. However, you need to know that this other woman cannot create your experience **unless you allow her**. The more credence you give her, the more you willingly give her your power, the easier it will be for her to influence you. The way to prevent this is to ignore her existence. You must know that she cannot cause harm to you. If you talk about her to others, you can be sure what you say will get back to her, therefore giving her even more leverage. If it helps, do a short banishing ritual – there are plenty of resources on the web. Then forget her. Your revenge is to live well in the present.

      I’m using a round deck, called Songs for the Journey Home. Your card is the High Priestess. A woman sits, safe within the earth, within the roots of a tree. Her eyes are closed and she is peaceful.

      This card suggests that you can connect with this peaceful energy, by letting go of negative thinking. Just be. Feel the love that the universe has for you and let it seep through your being. Visualise yourself being safe and cared for. Do this constantly in order to create a protective shield around you.

      The High Priestess keeps her own counsel. She is able to find peace in the present moment and allow the universe to bring her the wisdom and knowledge that she needs for any situation. All she has to do is tune into her own intuition.

      You can find images for this card online – just type the name of the deck and card into Google.

      The card at the base of the deck is ‘Earth Creating’, the equivalent of the Queen of Pentacles. This is a practical card whose message is simple. Just deal with what’s in front of you and leave the past behind you. You’ve moved on, so bring your thoughts with you – don’t niggle at past mis-doings like a sore tooth.

      Hope that helps, and that you regain ownership of your personal power soon. Good luck in your new relationship.

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      1. Rigene

        Thank you Troi! It’s very ironic these these two cards are the same two cards that were in my last reading. I had quite a few pentacles card that appeared in that gilded tarot reading. The same thing I heard then is that I may not be allowing myself to move forward because of my mind. I hear this all the time from my new love…he keeps telling me to think positive and don’t give outside forces power by thinking negative or talking about the past hurt. I appreciate you. I just need to find a way to put my mind at ease so I can completely let go so I can live in the now. Thank you so much again!

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        1. Troi Post author

          My pleasure, Rigene.

          I think it’s a question of taking your cue from the QoP and making a decision to put those people and their antics firmly in the past. Dwelling on anything keeps its vibration active in your present. Your new love is perfectly correct 🙂

          Your new mantra is “Release”.

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  315. Jake

    This last year I made a commitment to better living in mind. body, and spirit. The changes and feelings are remarkable and it is difficult to believe the transformation in a year. Advancing in spirit is confusing at times and rank with conflicting advice from others. What can I do to more intuitively move forward in spiritual development? My birthday is 09/14

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Jake,

      I agree, spiritual ‘advice’ is confusing. I think mainly because no-one can experience your journey. Only you can see the world from your unique perspective.

      I’m using the Rider-Waite and have drawn the Eight of Pentacles. That’s perfect 🙂 This card suggests that if you focus on what you are already doing, i.e. mind and body, the spiritual journey will take care of itself. It also shows that an ‘active meditation’ as in working with your hands or walking, is just as valuable as any other kind.

      The card at the base of the deck is the Ace of Swords, which tells you to let go of the idea that there is a ‘right’ kind of development and a breakthrough will come. A revelation of sorts.

      Good question and all the best to you.

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  317. Kate

    My love interest has withdrawn after saying he didn’t have the time it takes to put into getting to know someone to have a relationship. He is too busy working and struggling financially. He called me a curveball and he hasn’t talked to me since. My question is, will he ever come back? Or do I just need to move on?

    My birthday: 05/16 (may 16)
    His: 11/08

    Thank you so much! I’m curious to hear what you have to say!

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Kate,

      Sorry to hear that. Men.

      I’m using Tarot of the New Vision and your card is the Knight of Wands. In this card, the Knight is pictured from behind so that we can see what he’s looking at as his horse prances in that showy way. From this angle we can see that, in front of the Knight, is a camel train making its way past – this is presumably what is startling the horse. There are several people on foot leading the laden camels.

      This is actually a perfect illustration to confirm that your ex is currently being distracted by other things in his life. The Knight of Wands is not very good at keeping his focus at the best of times. I think that your ex has probably made the right decision. What you mustn’t do is take it personally. Though, frankly, if someone labelled me a ‘curveball’, I wouldn’t give them the time of day, let alone waste my energy thinking about them 😀 He probably meant the relationship, rather than you.

      So yes, take a leaf out of his book and move on. I think he’s done you a favour.

      Looking at the next card, the Ace of Pentacles. This indicates that there is something new and good and exciting coming along for you. Could be connected to a relationship, but more likely it’s to do with work or where you live, or perhaps some extra money. Be open to all possibilities.

      Good luck.

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  318. Linda

    I have never had any interest in the Tarot over the years, but for some reason now I seem to be drawn to looking into it.
    I have purchased some decks but find all the information around confusing.
    Is it worth my continuing to study it?

    My birth date is the 4th April.

    Thank you for the chance to get a reading, a new experience for me,
    Regards
    Linda

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Linda,

      That’s an unusual question 🙂 Before I draw your card, let me just address the confusion issue. Everyone is confused at first when confronted with what seems a very complicated system. All those meanings to memorise and then all those reversals, and symbols and elements, and numbers, and court cards – argh!

      Here’s where to begin:

      1. Learn the basics of numerology 1 – 10. It’s a progression: Ones = beginnings, Fives are a pivot point; a challenge, and Tens are endings that swing back to a new beginning. Double digits are added together to fall into 1-10. So 10 = 1, 11 = 2.

      2. Learn the four elements and their qualities. Fire, water, air and earth.

      That’s all you need to start. 14 things. Armed with those, you can start reading tarot. I will be writing a blog post soon about numerology and tarot, so pop back in a few days.

      Onto your card. I’m using the Rider-Waite (you must have a copy of that one. Use it for now and put the other decks away).

      I’ve drawn the King of Pentacles. This card is numbered 14 1+4 = 5 in the element of Earth. Fives in tarot indicate a challenge. Earth represents practicalities. Therefore the basic interpretation means that, for you, the idea of learning tarot is wrapped up in the practical issues of actually learning the system. And it’s daunting. A huge challenge.

      We can go further with the Court Cards as they are personality cards and belong to one of four families. The King of Pentacles is the head of his earth-centric family. He is self-made. He worked hard and has succeeded in all he set out to do. He’s reached the stage where he can sit back and guide other people. We could make a connection between The King of Pentacles and the Major Arcana, Hierophant.

      He tells you that learning anything worthwhile is always tough at the beginning. Being a Five he is issuing you with a challenge. Are you up to it? It’s your choice.

      Hope that helps and also that I see you back here soon.

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  319. Lori

    I have 2 sons living on the streets that are using drugs. I took my vacation and went to southern Ca. To see grand kids and friends and them. The worst vacation ever.
    My question is Did I do right? My actions were a little harsh and maybe selfish.
    Please tell me honestly and I don’t need you to tell me what you think I want to hear. I did something wrong in raising them and don’t want to continue doing so.
    This isn’t a “pretty” situation and don’t expect a pretty answer.
    Thank you so very much.
    I was born at 6:48 am on June 2

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Lori,

      I could draw a card to answer your question, “Did I do right?” but how will that help you now? It’s done. You know whether it was right or not. You know if you did your best to help your kids. Surely, a better question would be “How do I move on with this situation?” Or “Is there anything I can do now to improve things?”

      This is a ‘big’ situation for one card to answer, but I’ll draw one and see what it says to you.

      I’m using the Robin Wood and your card is the Ace of Wands. This is a card of pure energy rather than a ‘situation’. It shows that if you remain open and positive, you may well receive a solution. This card means that you must KNOW that it all will work out. You have to remember that what you see as ‘wrong’ may not be so at all. Your sons may be learning valuable lessons, or they may be in a position to help someone else. You can’t see through their eyes. You can only see and judge through the eyes of their mother.

      Presumably your boys are over the age of 18 and are capable of making decisions for themselves? Then let them. They are their own men. They are making their own choices. You, as their mother, probably made mistakes, just like we all do. However, there’s only so much you can do. At some point they have to go free.

      Looking at the base card, the Knight of Swords – it seems like you went steaming in, determined to rescue them, or to talk sense into them. The Knight of Swords shows someone on a mission, who is convinced he is right and set on getting the results he wants. Yes, this character might well use harsh methods because he thinks he’s doing the best for all concerned. Your intentions were good, but it didn’t work this time.

      So leave them be. You have a life, so live it. Use the encouragement of the Ace of Wands to wait for… let’s call it ‘divine inspiration’. Something will change, don’t worry. It’ll be okay xx

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  320. Angel

    Sorry my dob: 5th August

    My question was.. I am looking to improve my career and salary can you see this happy anytime soon as in this year

    Thank you

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Angel,

      I think a more useful question might be “What else can you do to improve your career and salary this year?” I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and have drawn the Six of Swords. A figure sits in a swan-shaped boat and is propelled across a lake by a ghostly apparition. The boat and its occupants are headed towards a distant shoreline and a cave at water level. Inside the cave a light shines like a star.

      The Six of Swords suggests that you have probably done all you need to do, and now you should simply get on with your job, knowing that all is being taken care of behind the scenes. Make your current job, your dream job, by staying focused and carrying out your tasks to your best ability. The key to improvements in any situation is to ‘know’ all is well and things are getting better. Practice this ‘knowing’ all the time – “I know I will get that promotion.” “I know opportunities are coming my way.” “I know I can be the best I can be.” Keep your eye, mind and spirit on that star.

      Good luck.

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  321. Az

    Apologies, but I would like to include a little more detail to my question if that’s okay. I just wanted to add his birthday too as it might make it easier for you.

    His is 17th Aug.

    Thank you 😊

    Edit: Original Question – Will a relationship blossom with the person I like or am I wasting my time?

    26th Aug

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hello Az,

      Based on your birthdays of 17th August and 26th August, this potential relationship is straightforward and transparent. There are few conflicts and each have a good sense of timing. There is a lot of common ground and many opportunities for agreement. So no obstacles there 🙂

      I’m using the Gilded Tarot and you card is the Knight of Pentacles. This may explain a lot 🙂 The Knight of Pentacles sits quietly astride his horse. They stand in a beautiful glen surrounded by trees, plants and various wildlife.

      The Knight of Pentacles is usually a personality card, reflecting aspects of the person’s character. Now, I can’t tell you how he feels about you, that would be unethical, however I can tell you that he may appear to be hard to reach, if you know what I mean. This is because the Knight of Pentacles is very deliberate in his actions. He is not the type to rush into any relationship. He will always take things quite slowly until he is certain.

      I, personally, think the Knight of Pentacles is the best court card in the deck. Once you have got his attention and interest, he will always be loyal and true. His feelings are not apparent on the surface but hidden deep within. If ever a personality could be said to have hidden depths, this is the one.

      Can’t say for sure if the relationship will go any further, it depends on how you go about it. I would say that the best way is to treat it as a friendship first, nothing else. No flirting or making your interest too obvious. Just be open and straight with him, as he will be with you.

      The base card is Justice, which I can’t connect to your question, though you might be able to. The next card after the Knight of Pentacles is the Sun, which definitely suggests blooming and blossoming.

      Hope it works out for you, Az.

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Trish,

      Congratulations on your new job 🙂

      I’m using a deck called Tarot of the New Vision. Your card is the Knave (Page) of Swords. We see the Page of Swords from behind. His right foot is pointed outwards and appears to be resting on the head of a shattered statue. He holds his (or her) sword in both hands over his left shoulder.

      This card suggests that your job could be to do with figures or perhaps research. It is pretty neutral so doesn’t confirm whether you are in the right place for you. However, the Page of Swords is extremely resourceful and does not give in to pressure. She accepts her position and endeavours to make it work for her. I like the Robin Wood version of this card which is illustrated by a girl running down the side of a mountain as though she is carrying divine inspiration. You might well make the decision not to hang around too long in this job, but meanwhile, you can make it be your dream job.

      Take a cue from ‘divine inspiration’ and make a list of all the good aspects of your job. Think of anything you like and write it down. The more you can find the better. Maybe you like the hours, or the location, or the person who helps you the most, or the money, or even your desk. Write down every positive detail you can and add to it to include good things that happen. Such as a light-hearted phone call, or finishing a task early, or whatever. Every day, look for the positives and make a note of them later. If you keep doing this, you’ll find more and more things. You’ll be looking for them. You’ll be expecting them. Pretty soon there will be more positives than negatives. Try it. It works.

      Good luck!

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  323. Troi Post author

    Christina
    John
    09/20/
    08/18
    Our marriage is broken
    Is there any chance for us at all
    Hes just been so mean rude

    Should i just give up?

    **Personal details removed by Troi

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    1. Troi Post author

      Hi Christina,

      I moved your request to this page – just to be consistent. Yours is the first one on this updated page, which is probably a bit confusing.

      I’m sorry to hear you are having difficulties in your marriage.

      Looking at your birth dates, this is a reasonably compatible match that relies on a good mix of social contact and time alone together. The relationship is an opportunity for both partners to learn some personal lessons about themselves and each other.

      I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Nine of Cups. This card shows a well-to-do man, dressed in rich purple robes. Behind him stand nine ornate gold chalices.

      Usually this card signifies a much wanted level of emotional achievement. It is often called the ‘wish card’. However, nines generally mean that a significant life phase is coming to an end. So perhaps the state of affairs that this card represents has already been and gone. It is not a negative card at all, far from it, so I am wondering if you are being held together by circumstances. In other words, your lifestyle is the glue that is keeping you together?

      Looking at the card at the base of the deck – the Six of Pentacles. Again, this seems to confirm that this is about your way of life. You may be reluctant to end the marriage because it would mean the prospect of a financial setback.

      Neither of these cards is offering me much in the way of an answer to your question, Christina. For me, they are both positive and I would say that, yes, there is potential for you to work on your marriage and bring it back from the brink – but only if you are both willing to do the work. If you are unsure of your next step, I would recommend that you take no action for the time being. Your path may be made clear pretty soon.

      Good luck.

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        1. Troi Post author

          Hi Vickie, so sorry to hear you are going through this nightmare. I’m not sure if the cards will be able to answer your question in a way that will help you, but I’ll just pull one and see what it says.

          I’m using the Robin Wood Tarot and your card is the Three of Swords. This is not a great card to get, but it may not be as bad as it first seems. Threes in tarot are about minor life cycles, so it looks as if something is about to change. However, because Swords are about thought, communication and all the stuff that goes on in your head, you have to make sure that you are clear about what you say and about what you hear. In other words, you need to make sure you understand everything in detail. The lines of communication cannot be allowed to get tangled.

          This is really important. If you misunderstand what is being said to you, you could make a mistake and this will cause more delay. Make sure you remain calm and in control. You will make a better impression if you can demonstrate that you are capable of looking after your children.

          Whatever your issues are/were, all you need to do is make a decision that they are in the past. That they are not who you are today. That you won’t be that person again. You are renewed. Don’t look back.

          The card at the base of the deck is Strength. And this is a really good card to get. It tells you that you can deal with whatever’s headed you way. That you can keep your mouth closed when you may not have been able to in the past. You can grit your teeth and do whatever it takes to have your kids returned to you. You aren’t weak or vulnerable, you can be a strong, independent, confident woman.

          In summary, there might be a delay, but it will give you time to get it all worked out in your head. How you will deal with those who you saw as your enemies. They are not enemies. Work with them.

          I wish you all the best and hope it all works out for you and your children, Vickie.

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